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Q: Can a therapist write a prescription? Can someone who has all these after their name write one? M.A., L.P.C.,N.C.C. ?
It would depend on what degree they recieved upon graduating college. Most therapists/counselors are unable to write prescriptions so they send you to a psychaitrist who has to check out your case and then prescribe you what is necessary. If you refer to them as Dr._______ Then they are able to.

Q: ok i don't get it.. i've searched everywhere but nowhere does it give me a proper answer..why the heck did britney spears shave all her hair off!!!?? is it to sell her hair & get a million dollars? or is she crazy? what???????
--britney spears fan
Well. Apparently she went into a barber shop and demanded that they shave her head, they refused so she did it herself. She has been in rehab twice and she left early, and then that little episode happened. It has been said that she is having a breakdown, which is common after having kids and going through a divorce. She then proceeded to bear KFeds car with an umbrella. She is back in rehab and will have her kids taken away from her if she doesnt stay there the amount necessary. As for her hair- I dont know why it was sold but I do know that it was up for auction and I dont think she was tied to that. Her parents had said that shes a very sick girl and needs emotional and mental support right now.

Q: how do you know if you are seriously depressed..being unhappy is a reoccuring thing for me, and i mean really unhappy. its getting to the point that i wanna run away and just be somewhere completely different. no worries and no hurt. i feel like i have nothing but occasional faith. and thats not enough..
Well.
If you are clinically depressed that would mean that even when everything is going right you still feel sad.

I just suggested to someone that they keep track of their feelings in a journal.

Write down when you feel these thoughts and why you might feel them. If something bad happened like a fight with a friend or at home and you feel like running away or depressed because of that then I would have to say that you are not clinically depressed, as in having depression, but are just upset.

If something or everything is going good and nothing bad has happened recently and you just feel run down, fatigued, loss of interest in activitys for no apparent reason, than you might be clinically depressed and would have to get an evaluation by a doctor to then go on medicine.

You can take a self test online, print the results and take them to your physician for further testing.

http://www.abc.net.au/cgi-bin/common/quiz/scaletally.pl?presname=health/depression

There are many more you can take just go to www.google.com and type in "Depression Quiz" Or "self diagnostic depression quiz"

Or something along those lines.

Q: for a while now i've been thinking that i may have ocd. heres some of the little things i do, and if i don't do them then i want to cry and my stomach starts to hurt and i feel so guilty.
-when i eat something colored, such as m&m's, i have to eat them in a certain order. like all the reds. then all the greens. or red, green, red, green.
-when i lay on my back i HAVE to cross my right ankle over my left.
-when i shoot a freethrow i dribble it 3 times and then spin, drop, spin, drop.
-i have to take out my right contact, then left.
-when i eat noodles, i have to eat three at a time.
-when i eat something i try to eat it in numbers so that when theres quite a few left, the number left is how many letters there are in the name of the guy i like.
-i have to sleep on my left side.
-i HAVE to drink my coke with a straw, even if its in a can.
-i have to put my right rubberband on my braces before i put my left one on.
-i have to straighten the left side of my hair before the right side.
-whenever i pop a pimple, puss has to come out of it. [gross, i know.]
-when i stand, i have to bend my leg so i appear shorter than i really am.
-i save ALL my receipts and put them in order from the date of the receipt.
-i have to save all the little tear off price things from price tags.
-i have to save all my movie tickets and put them in order of the theater i was in.
there's more..but it's hard to explain some of them. do any of you think this could be a sign of OCD? i've told my mom, but she thinks i'm kidding, and it's making me upset. but maybe i'm just overthinking..? what do you think?
♥ megan
I think that it might be a sign of some obsessive behaviour. See, OCD people absolutely HAVE to do those things. If they dont their life is ruined, and they do it without even thinking. If you absolutely have to do these things, or its really traumatic you most likely have OCD. If you are able to go a day without doing them, then you just might be obsessive about certain things. I'm the same way. My OCD consists of counting, and things related to personal items such as my laptop and cleaning and such.

Things like that dont seem like a real problem and you wouldnt need medication for them. It doesnt seem to be effecting your life in anyway. The people who get diagnosed with it and need medication for example.. If whenever they see a red car they have to shout as loud as they can. That would be something that would effect their life. What you have is actually very good, because it will keep you in order. Most people would kill to compulsively be that way.

If you really cannot stand doing this, then mention it to your mom again and say that you really would like to get evaluated. You will then have to go to the doctor and tell them the symptoms that you have, or do this online assessment http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/ocd/nimh/screener.htm
then print your results and take them to the doctor with you. They will then refer you to a psychologist where you can go and get examined.

Good luck!

Q: i have a feeling my best guy friend is anorexic, he does karate, so he is always trying to stay in shape, but hes always giving away his food, and he never eats and he loos like hes lost lkie 30 pounds over like 2 months,everytime i bring up the topic, he changes it
what do i do
First you confront the issue and tell him that you think he has a problem and you're worried about him. Of course hes going to deny that there is an issue because people who are anorexic dont see that they have a problem, they dismiss it as nothing. Some common signs of anorexia are obviously loss of weight, pale skin, hair becomes frail & sometimes falls out

Also people who have it tend to wear darker baggier clothes, and hats to cover their thinning hair. They try to hide their dramatic loss of weight by wearing bigger clothes. If he does any of that, he might have the eating disorder.

Talk to him about it and try to get him to admit it or at least admit that he needs help. My cousin was anorexic and almost died, and she wouldnt eat until she was ready and admitted that she had a problem. She was 5'7" and got down to 70 pounds and almost died of a heart attack before she admitted she needed help.

He might not admit it, but if he doesnt admit it to you bring it to his parents attention, Like the person below me said, he may hate you for it but he`ll hate you even more if it gets any worse and you didnt do anything about it.
He'll be kicking himself later for not listening.
Anyway though, tell his parents and if its really bad after he sees a doctor and they diagnose him with it they will put him into a facility where they will make him eat at least 3000 calories a day to start gaining weight again.
The type of facility that my cousin was in was they would take away all her privelages and say she couldnt see her family or take a shower until she ate a certain amount of calories. Its harsh but it works.
I hope he doesnt ever have to experiance that, and takes care of the problem before it gets any worse.

But like I said previously. Confront him, and give him a bit of time and see if he comes to you. If not, corner him and make sure he cant change the subject or leave to go somewhere else. If he doesnt admit it and a few weeks go by and hes gotten worse, tell his parents and take it from there.

Q: im not sure if this is where the question should go but i want to go to a site for cutting. or start a website for people who cut or self injur them selfs does anyone have any idea where i should go?
I have a few.
This one is a quote one/community
http://www.blurty.com/users/cutmeintopieces

Heres a website for support
http://www.sisupport.org/

This one provides other helpful links
http://self-injury.net/links/?information

and this one is my personal favorite
with alot of helpful information
and even a support chatroom open 24/7

http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html

By far the best one I have come across.

Q: How do you go about getting tested for depression? What do they do?

Because I'm tired of being unhappy.. I have been feeling like this for years and I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE.

Do pills really help making you "happy" or is it just a waste of time?

I just want to be happy again..
I can't do anything I like anymore. I oversleep and I'm still tired.. All I want to do is lay down and I keep canceling plans with friends..

And my confidence is low.. I dont know anymore..
You go to the doctor and they will give you an evaluation. A series of questions usually to see if you have the symptoms of clinical depression.

There are pills to lift your mood. Ive had some friends that were on them and I suppose they are worth it but personally I wouldnt want to go on them.
I just deal with my depression and force myself to go places and do things because i know if I wasnt feeling like that I would enjoy them.
The pills, however, basically make you unable to feel sad. They give you no negative emotions. Something bad could happen to you and you wouldnt be able to draw negative emotions out of the experiance, which I dont like because it feels fake.
Doctors dont suggest taking them forever though, they are just a temporary cure, and very addictive. After maybe a year when they see a signifigant change in you they will try and "ween" you off the medication. Which is what they are currently doing to my stepdad because he became addicted to his anxiety and depression medication.
After so long of being on the medication, you dont know how to deal with sad things unless you are on them. Thats why the suicide rate for taking them are so high, because if they miss a doss and some tragic event happens, it will be a stress overload and they go comit suicide.

I dont recommend going on them, & I personally never would.
Depression comes and passes most times.
If you really feel that its a growing problem, though, go to the doctor and get evaluated and ask for some other alternatives then depression meds because you dont want the side effects.

Q: so okay, i cut. and well i dont see anything wrong with that. i mean its not like its that serious. its just like getting a tattoo. or getting a peircing so why is it so "bad". people always say dont do it blah blah blah. its not hurting them so why should they care? i just dont get why its like considered so "bad" doing drugs and drinking is a wholee lot worse. so does anyone know why people think its so bad? any other opinions?

Actually. I used to cut also. I did it for 6 years. Havent in a few months, but I'm completely done with it. I heard the same things "you shouldnt do it, it doesnt help" Whatever. etc etc, right? I'm sure this is all too familiar. Well. From personal experiance, I suppose it helped, but it wasnt in a healthy way and I needed to learn how to deal with stress in a nondestructive way. There are other ways to deal with depression/anger/stress, besides drinking, cutting, burning, and drugs also. Like writing, exercising, dancing, singing, screaming, kicking something. Etc.

I'm not trying to lecture you though.
They care because they care about you & they dont want anything bad to happen to you. It isnt like a tattoo. Tattoo's arent slice marks in your skin and dont make you bleed excessively. Piercings are tiny holes that can be removed and become barely visible. Cutting is permanent, if you scar your skin bad enough it wont ever heal.

I actually regret doing it.
I cut so deep that I needed to get stitches, but I didnt and it healed all messed up and I have a raised scar on my forearm that wont ever go away. My upper arms are also tore up big time. I wish I could make them go away now that everything is over and done with, but I cant. & If I ever got really tan they would show up horribly. How would that look if I got a professional job & Had to wear a short sleeve shirt? Or go to a wedding and wore a strapless dress for that matter?
Yeah.
I cant wear tube tobs, short sleeves, anything. I'm always hiding them.
It's a pain.
Do you really want that?
Thats really what your friends are getting at. They dont want you to have to go through that.
I understand that it may not be that bad right now but what happens when thats what you turn to for everything, and little cuts arent satisfying anymore? What happens when the cut gets so deep that you almost bleed to death like I did? What happens when your older and have kids and they ask why you have scars all over your body? Ehh. It's a sickness, an addiction, a habit. It doesnt go away unless you stop it. & if things keep going wrong, you wont, because you wont think theres anything wrong with you.
Your friends are just looking out for you, their not trying to "ruin your life". I promise.

So basically.
Look at the long term effects, and if its worth it then by all means keep cutting. Do it to get over your pain, do it for the rest of your life, anything I suppose.
Just make sure that you are aware of what to look forward to in the future.
I'm just looking out for you, just like them.

Q: So basically, I haven't been in school for like a week, I just don't go, I don't know why or anything, I just don't go to school. I also have a couple of pending court cases so I'll only miss more school, I really can't afford to miss all this school. However, I really can't seem to go to school at the same time. I was wondering if perhaps anyone could analyze what's going on with me right now or if other people have ever seemed to have this problem. Thanks.
Well. I had that same problem, but I just didnt want to go. I missed so much school that they were going to file me truant and send me to juvi, which I didnt want so I started going, but was skipping class so I failed all my classes 9th grade year. This is probably something that you can solve yourself. Are you afraid of someone or something that happened at school and dont wanna go back? Or do you not like waking up early? Did something happen in your family that depressed you and you lost interest in school activities? Think about all of those and see if any of them apply. If you still have issues with going to school maybe look into changing schools or going to school online like I do. Although what I do is only available in Ohio, there are alot of internet schools that you can look into. Just google it. If that isnt the case though, look into getting a counselor to talk to and see if its something deeper than what I said. Good luck doll.

Q: i was a cutter for a year and i just recently slowlly stopped cus i was put in a hospital and my boyfriend was gonna break up with me if i didnt....well now i am getting in trouble at school because i literally have thousands of scars and it is "frightening" the girls...cus i go to an all girls private school...and they are going to kick me out if i dont get them covered up more...so does anyone know of anythings i can do to make the scars look not so bad?
Wow, thats horrible. Thats discriminatory, in a way. Thats like pretty much saying if you had a skin disorder you couldnt go there because you dont look like the rest of the girls and you scare them. Thats straight up BS, but anywayyyy. Moving on, I cut for 5 years and my skins like white so you really cant see them unless im in the light but, they have this scar removal cream that you can put on and its supposed to reduce the noticibility of scars. You should go to a pharmacy & look for it & invest in some, if its really a huge problem.

Q: K I need to know for my own personal reasons if, all these things i'm about to list, are sins or not. and if they are sins where in the bible can they be found.


! Smoking Pot
@ Masturbating
# Drinking alchohol (under the age of 21)
$ Giving/Recieving oral sex
% Looking or watching "explicit materials"


I'd really like to know, so please help me. Thanks sooo much.
p.s im 16f if that helps.
I dont believe any of those are sins but thats my personal opinion. If you believe in God, & accept him as your Lord & Savior, then your going to heaven, period. Or so I've heard. They may be classified as sins, but they will not effect you from going to heaven or not. If anyone says that, its just to make you not want to do it.

Q: 18/f. I was molested when I was little, and every once in a while feelings from that time surface and I get very upset and depressed. It's not so often - maybe once or twice in a year, but I don't want that time to keep haunting me for the rest of my life, I want to move beyond the past. Does anyone have any advice on how I can do that?
Your probably suffering from PTS (post traumatic syndrom). Generally its becuase your in denial about what happened, or that you think its your fault. I've come to know that when I cant get over something its because I'm in denial about it. You have to acknowledge the fact that it happened and repeat over and over its not your fault. Basically realizing what happened and acknowledging it is the first step to overcoming it. Just keep telling yourself what happened isnt your fault and even though it hurt, it was a while ago, theres nothing you can do about it & you have to move on. =/ Its hard, yes, but it has to be done

Q: ok.. so i know this isnt good. but the other day i had a really low self-esteme and i took painkillers.. how many would like really harm me because im worried..
It all depends on the miligrams that are in the pills & what kind they are. What you can do though is go to www.google.com and look up the name of the medicine and look up lethal dosage of it and some results should come up of how many is a letal ammount. Usuaally lethal is in the 3000 range.

Q: i know im gonna have a little nervous breakdown one of these days. does anyone know the warning signs? What usually happens afterwards? Thanks.
I had a mental/emotional breakdown 2 times in my life and basically I was a wreck. I couldnt eat, couldnt sleep, didnt want to talk to anyone, barely talked, was worried about everything, felt as if everything in my life was going wrong and there was nothing I could do about it. Usually its brought on by an immense ammount of stress, with family friends or work, home, anything. During, I had to be hospitalized to get back on my feet and was set up with a counselor, to help me sort out my emotions which really didnt work because im good with helping people, obviously. So I knew what I had to do. But yeah maybe yours wont be as extreme as that, but basically thats what happens, then again it varies from person to person.

- - regular one.

Q: I had a very busy day. I got up at 5 and rode in a car for 2 hours to the airport. Then I went on 2 planes, one of which had a 3 and a half hour delay. Alos, I had to eat alot of disgusting fast food. I'm home now and exhausted. I just feel like I'm still on the airplane, my mind is wandering, I feel sick, and I am restless. Does anyone have any ways that I could relax? Or that would make me feel better?
Bubble baths !! Omg their so relaxing haha. Sometimes when I have a rough day and nooones home (usually on weekends) Ill blast some soft music & like lay in my bathtub with lots of bubbles. I just lay there and close my eyes and let the words of whatever song in listening to go in one ear and right out the other, and try and clear my mind. Its extremely relaxing and feels good =D

Q: OKAY, about a week ago i was having sex with my girl friend and we were realy geting in to it and well my skin on the side of my penis riped all the way down and you can see inside my penis and everything it is realy sick i dont no what to do i cant tell my mom because well i am 14 and sex is not aloud but it hurt real bad plz help me and tell me if i should tell her or let it go and spend the rest of my life not haveing sex and if you think i should be asking a guy this then give this to a guy that will help me!
Okay then sorry for effin trying - dont give me a 1 and say your giving me a 5. go to afrocowslayer's advice site, thats my friend steven and he could help you with it, mkay.

Q: i started cuttin in 6 th grade.. im now goin into 8th .. i stopped for 8 months but then my mom and this lady she knows got into a verbal fight and i hate fighting so i cut again.. [between the 8 months i only cut 2 but not bad] i got so upset that i cut and i left like 19 deep cuts... my mom and her best friend patti dont know i cut but patti knows what is going on so i have kind of been living with her a couple nights during the week because she doesnt want me to be around the enviroment.. well the lady moved out and everything is normal but now i still get really mad and cut.. is there anyway to stop cutting other than rubber bands and the red marker because it doesnt work.

[ i have told one adult who is 20 and she is talking to me when i go to work with her monday wednesday and friday but i still cut ] .. sorry it was so long. * thanks
Been there done all that believe me. Its a dangerous cycle and it needs to stop. You have to find something else to channel your anger or depression on. Listen to loud music, scream, go running, take up sports, sleep, watch TV movies anything. Call a friend when you feel like cutting. Anything to stop, I did it for 5 years and trust me you dont want to be that addicted and dependant on it. If you really need help feel free to IM me, GLAM0R0USZ x im free to talk about this stuff, I enjoy helping people so dont be afraid to IM me and ask for help.

Q: My brother is getting married next month. He lives in Washington and we have to fly there for the wedding. I am scared to death to fly and I really don't even want to go if I have to. Should I say something to my parents? Should I just go and hope it doesn't crash? HELP!
Aw. Sweetie I was scared to fly also, but airplane security is so amazing now, they wont let anyone in. Once you walk in the doors and go to security, they make you empty your pockets, and take off your shoes. They scan your carry on's thoroughly so theres no way anyone can get on that plane with a gun to force anyone to crash the plane. Your not even allowed to carry on lighters or matches, so since there are no weapons that could force someone to do something, allowed on the plane, nothing should happen. Hes your brother sweetie, go to his wedding and dont be worried about planes, Ive flown about 10 times since 9/11 - youll be absolutely FINE. =)

Q: i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways?
4 monthes isnt that long, thats good. I did it for 5 years and it was almost impossible to stop. What I did was I targeted my anger and depression on something else. I used music to escape, I wrote poems, and then took up the habbit of smoking cigarettes to calm myself. Im actually doing almost 100% better. I havent picked up a razor since December, which is quite the accomplishment and I stopped in what you would call "cold turkey". Which is what you have to do. I know it will seem hard beacause once something goes wrong you`ll want to turn to that. But when something does go wrong, try writing out your emotions, blasting music, crying, falling asleep, running, or make plans to do something to get your mind off it. ANYTHING but cutting.

Q: I have a phobia that I want to get over but dont know how, please help.
I would have to know what the phobia is sweetie, before I can give you any advice,

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