i am 14 and i have been through a lot with many different things i will help n e one with n e thing so just ask me questions and ill b happy to answer!!//xo stacey
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OK..I need hElp! im a girl ok and im 15 and so theres this boy i've liked since the end of the summer and he knows i like him because my friends always be like she likes u and so and so..but i don't know he's very complicated, it seems like he likes me cuz he calls me every night and we fall asleep together and its sooo cute! Everyone thinks that we would be a cute couple..but he just doesn't asked me out. I've asked him awhile ago but he was like i dont know and i dont wanna presure him and think im a crazy person I just don't know what to do!
Please help
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maybe he is just very confused and he doesnt know whether to just keep his good friendship with you or to go out with you and risk never being friends again. maybe you 2 coulf just be friends with benefits.i hope i helped!
♥ //stacey
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i really really really like this guy in my global, gym and study hall classes he always glances or stares at me but ive never really had an acutall conversation just shot backs how do i get him to ask me out/like me? (link)
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you cant get a guy to just like you that coem naturlly. all you can do is just talk to him and flirt with him he will like that. i hope i helped.
♥ //stacey
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Ok. I'm going to this party tongith and the guy I like is gonna be there. My friend likes him to...we are definetly gonna play spin the bottle.
What the heck should I do!!!!!! (link)
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i think you sould defentally play spin the bottle. and talk to your friend before the party and tell her how much you like him and tell her that you are going to be at the party with him. if you need any more help just im me.
♥ //stacey
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Well.. its me again.. Ive tried talking to my friend and she said she didnt like the guy. But we shuld have stopped when they came in the room. And yes i no i may be a bit young to be haveing sex.. But i was reading thru your advice column and a 13 yr. old was getting ate out.. look i dont drink or do drugs.. I have sex it feels good and i get pleasure out of doing it. i no it may sound funny but once u start having it u cant stop and its not my fault he would get off of me he shuld have. i didnt deserve to get slapped he broke with me.. i dunno y and now hes with my friend. Soo im with right now the one guy that makes me melt inside when ever i talk to him and i love the way he makes me feel i shuldnt be penalized for my ex's mistake of breaking my heart. She calls me a slut... and says that im to pretty to be real and makes up rumors about me and.. i dunno.. anymore help... (link)
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i wasnt trying to say that you were to young i just havent yet i dont think it is wrong i mean it is a free country! and yeah it is not your fault that he wouldnt get off you. and your ex had no right to slap you that is wrong. and i think that if your new boyfriend makes you melt when you are with him then he is the one! i havent had that feeling yet and i no it will come but i am really happy for you!! and i think your friend is really wrong for calling you a slut and spreding rumors! but i think even if you do get mad at her to not even start rumors about her! you are in the right with all this it is your choise to have sex and if it feels good and you like it keep doing it!! but if you need anything else let me know i am here i can help!!
xo//stacey
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Well on friday night i was at my friends party and I saw my ex boyfriend there and he was with this other girl... who just happend to be my bestfriend.. and isnt it a friend code that u dont date ur bestfriends ex boyfriends.. soo i no this is kinda bad and all but to make my ex jealous i started to really hardcore flirt with this guy i had my eye on for a long long time and he started to dance with me n then we started making out n before i knew what was going on we were on the couch in the other room and he was eating me out. and then he got on top of me and asked me if i wanted to have sex with him so i was like ya soo then i was like well lets go upstairs onto one of the beds soo we went upstairs and at first we started to make out some more and then he took off my skirt and thong and spread my legs and then he took off his jeans and boxers and like he put is dick in and right as he put it in my ex walked in with my friend and i had the loudest orgasim ever and my now boyfriend kept going at it and didnt stop right in front of them and they finnaly left. soo after like and hour and a half we were finnaly done and we walked out into the hallway and my ex came up and slapped me. soo then my bf punched him and now my best friend isnt talking to me.. what should i do?
By the way im 14/f (link)
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wow well i dont get why your friend would be mad at you i mean she was all over your ex!! and i think that you should just taLk to her and tell her how you feel bout her doing that to you and ask her what her problem is. maybe she liked the guy that you were with and she got mad but you didnt no so its not your falt. or maybe she is mad because you had sex with him maybe she thought you are too young it could be a lot of things!! well i hope this helped!! im me if you need more advice its xxsexiispankyxx !
xo//stacey
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My best friend (A) might or at least I think is flirting with my Ex who I am still in love with. She knows I like him and she has a boyfriend that she likes to. But what got me mad was when I saw them play fighting. So I got mad and left and I 'sorta' got over it today until I saw her around him again play fighting and acting stupid. It broke my heart and I almost cried cause I he might like her!! What can I say to her. Thanks All 5's SWEAR! (link)
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ok well maybe you could be like do u like my ex? be like i wont be mad if you do just tell me and do you no if he likes you!! i mean you two are best friends so you should be able to talk to eachother!! i really hope i helped!//xo stacey
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ok so i like this guy and he may find out i like him the thing is i dont want him to find out i want him to like me and ask me out on his own i want him to do it bc he wants to not because he feels like he has to. i would just tell him but im way too shy i mean yea i flirt and try to get the message across but im not the one to make the first move i wasnt raised like that im so worried about this my friend says if he asks about it just tell him that i like him im so confused what should i do? tell him or not? (link)
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i think that you should tell him! he might be shy like you and be scared to ask you out because he is afraid that you dont like him. so i would just tell him that i like him abd see what happens from there. i really hope i helped!
xo//stacey
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hi im 12 almost 13 and i have a 38B is that to big or to small or just right?????
i rate high for good advice!!!! (link)
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um i would think the is just rite if u are almost 13 i think that is what i was but it was a 36b so i think you are just right!! i hope i helped//
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To give a little background, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year I'm 16 and he's 17. He would always get things in the mail from the Army, Navy and the Marines. He would save them, show it to me and I'd rip it up and tell him he's not going. The thought of my boyfriend going away to war is something I just CAN'T handle.
I was in his room, cleaning it up while he was in the shower like I always do and I found a flyer that had the information about the Navy on it... I was getting ready to rip it up when I saw that he had signed up for it..
I always told him that I'd be heartbroken if he would sign up for anything that COULD get him killed.
I'm trying SO hard to understand... But I can't. I don't know why he would do this to me. He keeps saying it's for the best but I KNOW it's not the best for him. He always told me he'd never leave me, but by doing this I feel like he is. He always told me, "You don't know what I would give just to see your beautiful face every day and just to have you in my arms, even if it's for 5 minutes." He's told me he wants to be the father of my children, my husband, my one and only.. If he's at war, how is he going to do that??
I really want to convince him NOT to go, but that's just being selfish... But at the same time I want him here with ME. I don't want to live every day in fear that I'll get that knock on my door and having someone tell me that the love of my life was killed.
So my questions are... SHOULD I convince him not to go and explain to him why I don't want him to?
If not, how can I get over this? How can I deal with it every day knowing that my boyfriend is risking his life? (link)
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if i were you i would tell him just how you feel and try to make him realize how bad it would really hurt you!!i no i couldnt deal if i had a b/f going into the war!! i hope i helped!! xox stacey
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Ok, long story short, I fell in love with one of my best friend over the summer. Yes, I'm 13. Yes, I know you're about to tell me that this is mere infatuation rather than love. I'm just gonna spare you a 1 rating: It's not infatuation. I know love, and I know infatuation. And this is definitely love. I can feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. Anydangways, she knows very well how much I love her, but she still only likes me as a friend. Now that the school year's started again, our attitudes have sort of changed. We used to joke around all the time, but nowadays, we see each other in the halls, and either we just say "hi" or we stay silent or involved in our conversations. Personally, whenever I'm talking to my friends in the halls, and then I see her coming, I'm suddenly turn silent and I say something like "Yeah, I know, I'm weird." or "Yeah. That's it." Or something to end conversation and not embarass myself. Also, I've been hoping to see her: whenever I'm near where she lives and talking to someone about something, I think, "I'd better make this conversation a bit smarter in case she comes near. Just to be safe" or something like that. And I'm always trying to impress her. I don't know why, we're best friends, and she knows how much I love her. What's going on? Why do I just suddenly lose all my intelligence, self-respect, and logical reasoning, not to mention my will to do what I please, whenever I think about her? It's like in that manga D.N.Angel, whenever Daisuke thinks about Risa, he becomes Dark and loses control of his body. Sorry, I babble a lot. I'd better stop now. Please help me! (link)
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ok thats really cute awww!! you are in love!! the only thing i can think of fer you acting that way is because you really like her and that feeling isnt going to go away overnight! maybe you can tell her how you feel maybe she feels the same way!!! i hope i helped!
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I'm 13/f and I just had my first kiss. Well... Sorta. Anyways we were at the mall and he pulled me aside and said "I love you, I think your beautiful" and he started making out with me. It was the best moment of my life but after about three seconds I got really nervous and I didn't know what to do so I sort of pushed him off a little and I hugged him and he said it's still okay and he loves me. I know he isnt upset but I feel bad because I really wanted to kiss him and I probably made him feel bad although he won't admit it and he says its fine we'll try again another time. He's coming over Saturday. Is there anything I can do to not be so nervous? Or advice on your first kiss? Thanks a bunch. =) (link)
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my first kiss was interesting and werid i pussd away to i was scared because i didnt no wat to do!! but u can go to this website it helps http://www.partyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html!! i hope i helped!!
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Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
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well just tell your parents stright up be like i am not two i am 13 and i need freedom i am only a kid once!! be like i am not going to do any bad with him i dont see the problem!! i hope i helped!!
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I already asked this question but not many people answered please can you guys help me.
HOw can i tell if these guys like me
Okay there are three guys whom maybe show signs they like me or something like that. One is called Ben, the other is called Connor and the other called Ryan
Ben always asks me weird questions like Are you a lion tamer? when i say no he's like well only cool people are tamers. then he's like oh sorry never mind, I didn't mean it. And one time I was trying to open my locker and this guy we'll call him Jim just kept on closing my locker door whenever I tried to open it. Ben started pulling his arm away and he's like leave her (me) alone.
Connor sits behind me and he always rubs his shoe against my shoe when I told him to stop he just smiles at me and keeps doing it and he has a girlfriend.
Ryan always bothers me whenever I try to do my locker combination he messes me up by turning the nunbers the wrong way. He also shuts my lucker when I open. Today he asked me what my name was.
Sorry its so long but are these signs of them crushing on me or what. Please HElp !!
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umm i think ben likes you because he is protective of you! that is a sign. and for connor no i dont think he likes you sorry but no a lot of guys do that just to be funny but you never no i may be rong. ryan he mite like you but your best bet is ben it seems like he likes you! i hope i helped!!
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well im a 16 yr old female lol.... and sorry if its long :( but i dont know what to do!
i have like a best boy mate
and i THINK he likes me. i really like him.
like today i was showing him something on my fone he came right up behind me and was like really close in a romantic way.
and when we was getting on the train he put his hands over my eyes and as i moved them away we kinda didnt let go for like 1 second but i really wanted to hold them.
and when we got off the train and in general we always walk really close to each other and our hands keep touching. i have a really huge urge to hold him its not fair.
i want to be with him so much but i dont know how to tell him or what to say
please help i really want to be with him. does what i explained above sound like he likes me?
emma xoxox i rate 5's for good advice :D
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i think he might like you!! it seems like it. if he is that close to you than he problly dose. usually (spelling) when a guy and a girl are really good friends then they are attracted to each other! maybe you can tell him in a note or just in person how you feel just tell him that you really like him. and maybe he was waiting for you to tell him first that you like him and then he will say he likes you!!i hope i helped!
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ok heres my problem
i had this boyfriend for a little over a year ( on and off) and i was CrAzY about him he was my first love but he cheated on me about 3 times but i found it in my heart to forgive ( b/c he really was a sweet guy) but he didnt cheat on me for a looong time but we did end up breaking up..
then i got this boyfriend( who i am with now) and he treats me like gold if i told him to do something he does it right then and there...
but i think for some reason im still in love with my ex-boyfriend and my boyfriend at the same time..
i just dont know why i would even think of having feeling for my ex when he did that to me and my boyfriend treats me like gold.
is this wrong should i still have feelings for my ex? what do i do?? (link)
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u r always going to have feeling for him! no matter wat! but if you think that he has changed or that he will treat you better then go bac with him if he will go bac out with you! but if you r relle in love current b/f than you shoodnt break up with him!! if he relle treats you that well he is perfect!! this is wat i wood do rite down things like wat you love bout him and how he treats you then do the same for ur ex! who ever wins mite b better. you never no just give it a try! i hope i helped!!
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