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ok, so my guy friends just randomly said to me i love you. we arnt that close of frinds, but we've had a history together. i dont know if he meant it seriously or as a friend.
hes kind of a player, but he told my friend he would like to be friends with benifits with me. (link)
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if he's a player it's just going to end bad for you. nobody deserves to be cheated on!
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I am a 17 year old girl and I just made a huge mistake. I have a boyfriend, but this other guy has been hitting on me, flirting like crazy... and last night I gave in. It was only a few kisses, nothing at all really. But I feel really guilty. He said he won't tell my boyfriend because he knows I still love him. But what do I do? I really do love my boyfriend, this was just a one night slipup... if I tell my boyfriend I'll probably get dumped, if I don't I feel guilty... but I'll still be with him which is the desired outcome. What do I do?
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find some way to tell him. if you don't it's okay though because it could end with being dumped.
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I really like this guy, John. I talk to him all the time on the phone but I don't get to see him that often because he lives 30 minutes away. Well he knows that I like him, and he tells me that he likes me too, but he constantly is telling me about all these girls that he hooks up with. He knows it gets me jealous because i've told him but he continues to do it. How can I stop being so jealous???? I really want him to like me, I feel like i'm being played ... Please help! (link)
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it sounds like he's trying to make you jealous so you'll be really attracted to him. He just really likes you and wants you to like him and date.
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my friend, who i have a crush on seems to like me. hell just starting eating my food w/ like the saem fork or hell drink from my water bottle. i also caught him looking down my shirt the other day. but whenever his other friend ((whose a girl)) comes, hes like all over her. maybe he just thinks were really good friends ((which we r, but i wish we were more))? wut do u think. . . (link)
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is he a player? he is like hitting on you and her. i think it would be cute if you dated though. follow your intuition.
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I've noticed in the past few years, (I'm fourteen and female) that whenever I see a picture of a girl in a swimsuit that barely covers them, I get really turned on. I don't think of doing anything with them or anything, but it's just I get turned on. Am I bi? (link)
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that doesn't mean you're bi. it's normal. i've never but i know it's normal from books etc.
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im soo confused.. this one guy says he likes me alot, and told my best friend that he loves me. He told me he had feelings for me he cant explain. but every once in awhile he'll stop talking to me, and like wont say a single word to me.. hes out of town so we can only talk over the internet, and he wont talk to me when i IM him.. whats wrong with him? (link)
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no offense but it sounds like he found another woman. if he doesn't have time for you you shouldn't have time for him.
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I have this really, really good friend named David.. and he's also my ex-bf. Anyway, we have that sort of relationship where we flirt all the time but do it as friends.. And I don't want to lose that, but I think I like him as more than a friend. I know if I tell him, it'll make things awkward between us, but I know I can't NOT tell him. How do I do it? (link)
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you can ask him if he thinks there could ever be something between you and him. You obviously like him go for it! i know what you mean by awkward im the same exact way. I always eventually get over it though. you will too.
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What are the tell tale signs that some one is cheating on you?
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my boyfriend cheated on me and i noticed something was wrong when whenever we set up a date he couldn't go but he was actually out at the movies with my friends! then my friend said she was going out with someone and i said oOo wow that's great and it was my boyfriend lol. fabulous right.
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Recently my friend just broke up with his girlfriend. Before, i wasn't really sure how i felt about him and i started to lean toward the not really liking him more than a friend choice, but now that he broke up with her, my feelings are starting to change because he's single now. She was my friend but it looks like a mutual breakup because they still talk a lot. It seems like he's starting to flirt with me again but then he told me about this girl that i hate that flirts with him a lot. It kinda freaked me out. I told him that his x-gf thought that i liked him but he was like cool. Obviously he doesn't care or he wants to sound like he doesn't care. I don't know. (link)
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i don't think you should go with him. he just broke up with your friend. She might get really angry.you should hold off for a little while.
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My 7th grade class is going on a school trip to Lake Compounce in Conneticut. It is on June 16th and (this may sound weird but...) I want to GO with someone (as in a DATE) I am not sure what to do. Should I drop hints, or ask? Ask one of ym guy friends and tell them I want to go as friends? Or tell them it is a date? Please help!
Also although we usually have a dress code we can wear w/e we want (I am going to wear a bikini under my clothes) but I am not sure what to wear. I want to dresss attractively, but not sluty.
I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ALL ANSWERS!
(As long as it is not retarded)
THANKS! (link)
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your idea is cute. maybe you should try to get a boyfriend and just keep him for the trip. you don't have that much time to drop hints. you should probobally ask a friend to go on a date or just go as friends and have fun.
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Last night I went to the movies with my guy friend & my friend (who he used to like). I have a crush on him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Some stuff happened last night that made me want to believe he might like me too.
-For example, my friend sat down, I sat down on one side of her & he decided to sit on the other side of me.
-We flirted the whole movie, throwing popcorn at eachother.
-We shared the armrest & I had my head rested on our arms.
-He kept talking to me during the movie.
-He let me take sips of his drink.
-When I said I was cold, he said if he had a jacket on him, I could have worn it.
I'm not sure if it sounds like we're just "pals" or could possibly be more? I really can't tell so I was wondering if someone who was more experienced in relationships could help me out. Thanks! Sorry it was so long!
JaMiE x3 (link)
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it sounded like a cute night, you can't really tell whether it's love or not yet. you should have some more conversations with him,you'll find out whether it's love or the total opposite.
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Ok well im 16 and going to be a jounior in high school. I have a girlfriend... me and her have been really close friends since the end of 8th grade, and at times i liked her.. and she liked me. We never went out until like the 24th of may this year. We are still together. But now that we are together... i dont really like her like that. I mean shes still the same person she was before, i donno as friends we are good but as a couple we are just too different. So how do i get to be single again without loosing a good friend? I'll rate high im desprate.
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whatever you do don't say i hope we can still be friends! it's the kiss of death. you should just tell her as it is. It is the best thing ever to do!
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Well my X gf and i are still good friends. But in the past 3 months i have been talking to her best friend online a little. Cool chick. Then i met her one day like 2 weeks ago, at night. Me and all my friends always sneak out so yeah thats about the only time i get to see her. So me and her started hangin out at night, alot. Sometimes just us. Im not tryin to push things, i've only made out with her. But shes such a awsome person i always have a blast when im with her. But recently i got cought for sneakin out and got my car taken away lol. I get it back june 21, and my parents go outa town for a week on june 21. So yeah house to myself.. But see the girl i like also got caught sneakin out so shes now grounded to. Except she doesnt have a car, and got her cell phone and computer taken away so i have no way of getting in touch with her. I dont want this period of us not being able to talk, affect the progress we've made. But yeah i know she likes me because she has a boyfriend, but shes in the same situation i am, cuz i have a girlfriend but i like thsi other girl alot better. So yeah she had the opportunity to sleep over at her boyfriends house with like all her best friends but she choose to sneak out with me. Ok well anyways myu question is, is there any way to keep the "silence" from keeping us to drift farther appart. And basically whats the final step in making her mine once we do hang out. Ill rate high for any reasonable advice, and basically for reading this whole thing. (link)
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you are sneaking out with your ex's best friend................i hope the ex is over you. you are cheating on your girlfriend so if i were you either dump one or dump them both because if your current girlfriend is lyke in love with you she might try to hurt the girl you are sneaking out with. you should really dump one or both cause cheating on someone is retarded.
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I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do? (link)
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i think you should go with your dad. You are talking about your future! i know you love your girlfriend but come on worry about you!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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I like this guy, Jared. He is my friend, but i dont know how i can get him to like me that way. Im a very out going person and well usually, thats how i get my guys. But he is different. I dunno its just all so frustrating. PLease help!!
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i was once in the same situation. I thought it would be a bad idea after a while because after i go out with someone i have a hard time talking to them again. It might ruin you friendship.
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Im 14 and just broke up wit mu bf. We broke up because i heard he told another girl he liked her and they where hanging out together. She asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. When i found this out i broke up with him and he told one of my friends he hated me, i took that very badly because i did nothin for him to feel that way but he said he said that because he was upset about the situation because i did not belive him and belived someone else. but i feel like i cant depend on him to tell me the truth becase he lies alot. so now we are not together and it is really hard to try to get over him because i lost my virginity to him and i love him still so much. He tells me he loves me too and is so sorry but i dont kno if it is the right thing to do if i get bac wit him i dont want him to think im easy so what should i do??? (link)
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you should say you have to take a break. sort out all your details.
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ok i went out with this one guy that i really liked a lot, but we broke up becauce he said eh didnt like me in that way, i was really upset but we are still good friends and all, but now he keeps saying that he wants to make out with me and he wants to like do stuff with me, i dont get it. (link)
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he is obviously just using you. He is being a pervert. Don't hang out with him alone! He's just taking advantage of you.
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alright, i've been dating my b/f for almost a year now, and he lives in texas, and i live in pennsylvania, we talk all the time on AIM, and we talk alot on the phone too, i love him with all of my heart, it's not a question of that, but my rents don't know about him and vice versa, and lately i've been feeling like is this all really worth it in the end when we can be together, or should i break up with him. and i know he really loves me and whenever i talk to him about this, he always says "it will work out in the end, we were meant to be together" and i just don't know anymore...please help!! (link)
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long distance relationships are real hard. i think you should try to move on. on the phone and on line relationships are not really the best.
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Okay, I asked a question a while ago saying that I went to the movies with my guy friend & that there were hints that he liked me. Well, I got alot of great answers so thanks to everyone.
I've decided I want to tell him that I have feelings for him. If I don't, I know it will be on my mind ALL summer. Anyone have an idea on how I could go about doing that? (link)
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go on something like a walk with him and just start off with small talk and then just move in and tell him how you feel.
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My guy gets mad when I'm with or talk to any other guy who I'm just friends with. What do I do? (link)
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that stinks. if u don't u don't have trust you don't have anything. i swear it's just soOoOo annoying.
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