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my names alex, i'm 13, i know about anything from relationships to sports(x-specially soccer)...i love helping people out so leave some questions and ill do my best to answer them! if you dont like my advice- tell me and i have some other awesome ppl you can ask...muchh lovve...

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Does anyone know what my "sister who is 12 years old should get her boyfriend? If anyone has an idea please please tell me! I RATE HIGH!

p.s they're in 6th grade!

a giftcard is prolly your best bet because its kinda hard to get something for a 12 year old(something in expensive

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Ok...well I have know this one guy for about a year and a half and I just found out he REALLY likes me but I don't like him that way. One day he asked me out and I said we were just friends but he still talks about me and has people try to talk to me about going out with him. The problem is that whenever I try to just meet one of his guy friends he says (before we even meet) he has a girlfriend is poor and is ugly and he doesn't like you. Then we end up never being introduced or aquainted. I would really like to meet some of his guy friends.I have been hoping to maybe hook up with one of them because I have talked to some of them online and we can relate to eachother and get along well.So...what should I do?
I am 13 years old and female

well if you have tried just plain saying to him that you dont want to be together and he wont take the hint, try not hanging out one on one so much. groups are always fun and you can meet new people. and if you talk to some of his friends online, try setting up something by yourself- like ask them to come to dances and you can meet up there. tell all the people ((that are saying you and your friend should get together))that you dont like him in that way and you dont wanna talk about it. also explain to your friend that id things dont work out if you do get together then your friendship will be lost. he should get the point..

im me for more info- roxmyworld456

MWAhH ♥

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I recently found out that my bestfriend cheated on his gf. And it wasn't just a make out with another girl type of cheating. He lost his virginity to this other girl. And he has no intention of breaking up with his real gf or even telling her. She lives about 2 hours away from here so unless someone tells her, she wont find out. She's also a good friend of mine so i'm questioning if I should tell her. I know if my bf was cheating on me and she knew, I'd want her to tell me. I'm not speaking to my bestfriend right now becasue of the fact. So should I tell his gf?

you should most deffinatly tell her- it wouldnt be so big if he was flirting with another girl or maybe a peck on the cheek- but this is major..also- if she finds out about him and that you knew- she will never fogive you...but make sure you have all your facts strait. put yourself in her shoes...i realize that the boy is your friend too- so talk to him too, hes most likley try to persuade you to not tell her- but explain to him why you are going to IF he doesnt... hope i helped- roxmyworld456 for extra advice... ♥

alex

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ILL RATE 5'S NO MATTER WHAT!


I met this guy last week who was really interested in me but I wasn’t as interested in him(I was “talking” to one of his friends). Well we hooked up that weekend and told me he likes me. He called me everyday this week and I started to realize I liked him too and he asked me out on Thursday. Well we hung out this weekend and I started to REALLY like him but he didn’t treat me like a girlfriend at all. When we were with his friends he showed no affection whatsoever but when we were alone he would hug me and hold my hand and stuff. I talked to one of his best friends about it and he told me he would talk to him. On Saturday night my boyfriend called me and told me we should go back to just “talking” because he felt we were moving too fast and that going out with someone is a big step to him. I talked to his best friend and his best friend told me that he was the kind of guy who only showed affection when him and his gf are alone. He told me that my bf still really likes me but wants to slow things down. We were supposed to hang out on Sunday even though we aren’t goin out(he said we are still going to talk and hang out) but he called me and pretended like we never made plans of hanging out. I don’t know what I should do because I really like him (I’ve dated many guys this summer/school year but I’ve liked him the most and I think it’s because I feel like we actually connect).. should I go after him even though he could be leading me on? Or should I just forgot about him even though maybe we can make things work out?

well if you both like eachother- go for it...he might be holding back because he dosnt want to mess it up...just take it slow like hangout with groups and dont put pressure on him to hang out all the time...just chilllll...haha...if you 2 both feel the connection it will happen eventually..and he will realize how much he likes you when he sees that you are willing to go on with the relationship even if its slower than you want...♥

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I am 15 my bf is 16. I know he doesn't have a lot of money and I was wondering, do you think it is OK if I offer to pay sometimes? I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him mad. Should I ask him about it?

um dont try to say it in a mean way- say stuff like-

when he reaches for the check be like-

"hey, you always pay, lemme treat this time..."

or if your kinda "fighting over the check" (meaning-" no let me pay.." "no i insist.." blah blah ect...)-

" lets split it..."

or

" its fine- ill get it this time, you can get it next time..."

if you want you can work out a system like- you pay every other time...or any variation...


hope i helped


muchh lovve

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I don't really like talkin to my mom and or dad about boys or if have a boyfriend i get sord of embarressed that they will make a big deal out of it and i dont really want them too. Any tips on not to be embarressed or nervous???

well- not to rain on your parade- but no matter what its gonna be embarrassing- but once you break the ice- its smooth sailing(wow- too many metaphores...lol)..but my advice is to go for your mom 1st- dads are more prone to freak and moms are also girls(believe it or not) so they know a thing or two about what your going through...

Im me for more advice- roxmyworld456

muchh lovve

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Ok.. this has been buggin me alot lately.. I'm 14/f, and I have never had a b/f. I know that my time will conme and everything, and Ijust have to wait. But, what bugs me is that I know I'm not gorgeous, or really skinny or anything, but I see girls who are a heck of alot uglier, and bigger than me who have b/f's, so it just makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, cause they can get b/f's and I can't. So, I know my time will come, but, my main question is how are people gettin b/fs when they are so ugly and fat, and the normal girls dont? I rate 5's!!! Thanks!!

1st off- you are not ugly, fat, or anything of the sort! its probably just b/c you are shy or not very open to guys- try flirting more and being very outgoing..this usually attracts guys. if there is a certin guy you like and you know him- try setting up a hang out with just the 2 of you so he can get to know the real you- if it turns out that he likes you he will ask you out and u know the rest- but yeah just basicly just try to make your self more open and out there just not in a bad or discusting way

sometimes the more unnatractive girls get guys because they are so desperate that they will do anything- they might even stoop so low that its considered slutty...

dont worry the right guy will come :)

if more advice is needed- IM or comment me back

muchh lovve ♥

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So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half on August 23rd. We decided that we would just get each other something small and $25 or less.. but I have no idea what I should do and I'm stumped.. If you have any ideas, please let me know.. thanks a bunch!

um u could make him a mix of like nice and romantic songs- if hes into that kind of thing..or you could make him something...sometimes like baskets full of lots of little things are cool- but not like bath stuff or anything girly...it all really depends on what he likes and things like that

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what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!


well i think if you are sure that the stuff with you guy friend will work out and you have deep feelings for him you need to talk with your bf and tell him that you have feelings for another guy- you should do this even if you arnt going to go out wit "bob"..its only fair that he knows..

if you need more advice- IM or comment me

muchh lovve

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13/f
Well i met my boyfriend on AIM. My best friend goes to a diff. school than me and she knew him... so we were both single, she tried to hook us up, at first when we talked i wasnt shy. then he said he loved me after i showed him a picture of me...his mom said we couldnt go out until she meets me which could be awhile. But its really weird now becuase i feel shy talking to him through e-mail or AIM, is that normal?

your probably just nervous about meeting his mom- dont be tho! he ovbiously likes you enough to continue talking to you so you have nothing to be afraid of...when you meet his mom- dont be shy ((buy dont be obnoxious either)) just talk about how great your school is and you know- tipical mom stuff....

it is VERY normal to be shy after finding out you have to meet his mom...its okay...

if you need more advice comment back or IM me

muchh lovve

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i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?

just let him know by always telling him how much you want to be with him- but not so much that you freak him out or scare him away..be like- i really care for you and ive never felt like this about anyone else...he'll get the point...

if you need more advice comment back or just IM me

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Okay. I like this boy and everything but he is like my best guy friend that I have! i like him so much. I'm not scared to tell anyone that I like them if I do. But I'm thinking about our relationship together. I don't want to ruin what we have right now. But I want more. I mean, if I told him and he didnt like me, it would be totally awkward!! Does anyone have any advice? I will rate high for GOOD advice!!

if you know he likes you back then just kinda flirt more with him and let him know SUBTLY that you wanna go farther in your relationship...you can touch him..or hang out just you and him...sit closer to him...put your arm around him((this is recomended only of you know him well))- or when your saying goodbye, hug him and kiss him on the cheek

when my crazy but awesome friends want to get me with a guy that i liked-at a dance she grabbed the 2 of us and made us slow dance together-we ended up laughing about it, but then afterwards i got his sn and we talked and later he said that he liked me and that we should hang out sometime...

try different things, but if he still dosnt get the message..just say to him- " i think that i want to take our relationship farther..." make sure that he can tlk to you about it- you both have to be totally comfortable...

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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Okay, this may turn out to be long, but here it goes. My family and I go to church every Sunday, and there's this guy who's like 14 and he's really cute. I really like him and we make eye contact and everything. So I want to go up to him and ask him to go (with my parents :-( } and I dom't know what to say. So my mom suggested maybe I should try writing him a little brief note and write my name and # down. I have no idea what to write on the note, let alone what to say to him while giving him the note. I really need help on this. And I need it soon. So please help, and guys would be good for answering this question. Thanks

XcheerbabeX ♥

if you dont like the note idea, try to catch up with him after church and just talk to him...or you can give him your sn or # or w/e

you can just slip him the note when your leaving- you dont have to say anything- or you could say something like call me...the note could be like

Name
Number

or if you want something more personal you could pass little notes back and fourth everytime you see him-

hey,
im {your name here}...my sn is {your sn here} or my # is {your number here} call me sometime...
or you could say write back....and put a little heart next to your name- its like note flirting..haha....


hope i helped

muchh lovve

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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me

if its something important to you, i deffinantly think you should tell her...you should tlk to her, she wont freak if you explain it to her...and plus- you dont want the topic to come up- causing you to have to explian why you kept it a secret....and if she dumps you- shes MO. DEF. not the right girl 4 u, you want someone who accepts you n.m.w!!!

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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