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i like this girl and we have been bf and gf before we talk 2 each other each day should i ask her out again

if you like her and you know its what you really want then yes.

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OooooK....
Im 15 and i've never been kissed. I dont really know what to do. I am always afraid that I'll panic(which i do often) and miss. Are there any tips on kissing that anyone could give me? THANKS!
I RATE HIGH!
~*~madyson~*~

Really theres nothing to be worried about. In my opinion .. its hard to "suck" at kissing. So if you just wait for the right moment and time and feel comfrotable with that speical person you should be just fine. hope i helped!

xO.Carrie

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Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.

nothing you shouldbe carrying over your shoulders. i think you should just relax and go with the flow - there isnt a wrong or right way of kissing. first kisses are indeed scary but once you`ve done it you think to yourself - that wasnt bad at all. like i said go with the flow. good luck.

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I broke up with my girlfriend last summer and i cant let go of her. I dont know what to do but I love her and i dont know what to do. HELP!

Letting someone go isn`t easy and their usually isnt a time frame on letting them leave your heart - but i suggest you follow your heart, if you truley still love her then find a way to get back with her slowly. If not think of other things to keep you busy so you wont think of her or go out with friends more. Spending quality time with friends really helped me get over my EX. Good Luck!

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My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ??

If your his true friend - find a way to accept it and let him know you accept it and your there for him 100%

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Well I have this boy friend and I like totally in love w/ him! But I fing out all the things he does and some of his personal life I dont mean to I just hear now it's gottin into a habbit I like know his whole egaenda! Is this noraml?

Your possibly concerned? I cant really help you because your not stating wether they be positive or negative so i apologize for that but if there positive things then - hey keep finding out? keep loving him for them i guess, i dont find anything wrong with that. But if they`re wrong and you dont like them, dont judge him - but help him. Good Luck and im sorry if that doesnt help.

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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?

Neglection, Uh if he stops calling you - when you call him he says he has to go right away, says he`ll call you back but never does. Stops telling you the things you used to love to hear him say, avoids you, ect. I`m not saying all these are completley true and try to scare you or anything because every guy is diffrent i`m stating the obviouse. Try confronting him if this is about you. Good Luck.

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Im head of heels for this boy (you honestly couldnt even imagine). He's absolutly perfect in every way imaginable. Well almost.. he's not brad pit (lol) but his personality shines through and makes him beautiful. What's my problem? He introduced me to his best friend who is equally wonderful.. and he is brad pit (if you catch my drift). Im not dating either one of them because Im not allowed to date. But it was sort of understood that him (the first boy) and I were together. But this best friend of his has jumbled my heart. I've fallen for both boys in completely different ways. Should I choose one or leave them both to save their friendship?

Well im happy your not shallow! Theres too many god damn shallow people and im glad you see the first guy for his personality the most; but if you met his best friend and fell for him too, im thinkin you should just remain friends with the two and take some time to get to know each one better until you decide wich one you like most because if you act now someones going to get hurt. I think you should become there "3rd muskateer" for now and not worry which one you like best until a little later down the road. Good luck.

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therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?

Your right you should be angry, but you probablly shouldnt get involved with guys like that, they can be also known as players - big time. But honestly the thing you should do for your "revenge" is just to ignore him. I know you might here that from everyone but its true, because once he`s heartbroken over a girl he actually cared about you he`ll see you walking around in happiness and it`ll destroy him. Who knows he may even feel destroyed now - guys are really good at making them look like the asshole and like nothing bothered them. So just ignore him and continue life in happiness. Trust me there are way better guys then him out there.

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i`m confused...for 9 months now i've been trying to get with this guy and well...i've been thinking...when i finally go out with him i'm gonna lose a lot of things. I`m not gonna have the fun of TRYING to get him...it's like i want to go out with him sooo bad...but then when i finally do-i have something to lose?...is this a normal feeling???

This is completley normal. Trust me haha i`ve felt it a lot when it comes to guys. I think you sound like the type to seeks out "hard to get guys" and the closer and closer you come to getting the guy the further and further you feel you need to push away because your afriad to get hurt. Most everyones afraid of getting hurt but i dont think its something we need to hold over ourselves and be concerned about it all the time. Just keep going for what you believe in and "follow your heart" - =] if you feel like the outcome is going to hurt you keep searching for something better, theres plenty out there and only one waiting for you. Good Luck

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is something wrong with me if i never had a boyfriend before? i never had my first kiss or nothing. i flirt a lot, but i never get any further. some guys have asked me out, but i say no and i dont know why. i guess im kind of sacred. what do i do?

Nothing is wrong with you, it`s perfectly normal. It most likley means your the type or person who likes to play "hard to get" or you may be picky when it comes to men. I dont know how old you are but if your in your teens your too young to worry about these type or things. just relax and live life to its fullest - remember you only live once!

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ok so i like really like this guy but hes got a gf, ive liked him for almost a year now and i dont know if i should give up on him or not. me and him are pretty close friendship wise but it looks like him and his gf are gonna be together for a long time.

should i give up or should i just wait it out?

Well, if you like him i say you just stay close friends because if he means this much to you, you wouldnt go abouts messing things up for him would you? Try being happy for him, being a best friend to him and i know it may sound hard but try moving on. And if things dont work out in the end you will always have a second shot. Good luck.

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is there an easy way to get guys attention w/o acting slutty? because its very hard when guys are teenagers and have sex on the mind at all times

believe it or not - not ALL guys are interested in girl`s who appear slutty. yes guys may have sex on there mind 24/7 and they may blurt out stupid remarks about how hot girls look when there half naked but really thats just their penis talking. Most guys DO have a sensitive side, just act and dress yourself. don`t degrate your body for a certain guys attension because if thats all a guy wants hes so not worth it.

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Ok im 15 f and i was going out with my b/f for 6 months and then we broke up,but like 2 weeks ago he asked me back out and i said yes.When i used to go out with him, i would go to his house and hang out,but since ive been going out with him again my dad and his g/f wont let me go over there. they dont trust me, but i have never given them a reason not to, its not like me and my b/f sit around and make out all day,ya know? They said if i want to see him he has to come over here.but i want to go to his house i miss it.lol and ive tried talking to my dad and his girlfriend but they dont understand and i just cant win.

Ya know my parents were the same way with my boyfriend and I. I know you miss it but you need to invite him over a little more often just so your parents can get to know him better so they build up more trust and there more confertable with you going over there all the time. Then before you know it they`ll be letting you over there again. It works trust me. Just have them talk to your boyfriend a little, you know small conversations here and there. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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Is it wrong to like alot of people even though you know you only love one person. Saying my brothers girlfriends brother. He is my age but in a grade younger. Late bday and all. Now everyone knows. Including him. See theres this kid who knows him, lives by him, and has the same name. He knows me and he told him. Well like i wrote a note to who i reallie love and like he said he will go out with me but he doesnt reallie know me except knowin im his sisters boyfriends sister. Confusin? anyways My parents say i shouldnt be thinkin about boys at this age when im desperate i mean like everyone else is. But im not followin them. Why try to like sum1? Anyways please help me. Should I go out with him not be shy get to know him and take a risk without the parents knowin. Or be a sloucher no risks ever bein stupid no boy and parents that tease you about it even if u cant have a boyfriend. (my brothers teases me about his girlfriends brother bein my boyfriend, and m parents. but i CANT have a boyfriend) HELP

No one can stop true love. And no its not wrong to like a lot of people especially at this age, if your under 25 at least. I think you should wait a while to go into this relationship right away but definatly hang out with him more and get to know him better. Spend time with him after school and/or on weekends, playing video games or basketball or anything productive that includes conversation and flirting =] Good luck

xO.Carrie

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One of my best friends from school asked me out, i don't really know how I feel about it. I kind of want to try but I kind of don't. I like to be with someone for one night and have a good time [basically i just like to have a good time] But i'm not the relationship type. What do I do?

Tell him/her you need time to figure things out. Tell him/her you dont mind being commited (such as kissing and/or partying) but your not ready for a relationship.

xO.Carrie

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my b/f's mom is saying that shes leaving her boyfriend(they've been living together for 4 years) and shes going to either cali or arazona and he has the choice of going with her or finding somewhere in new york to stay. im trying to convince my family to let him stay here. i might get them to say yes but i need some more things to tell them. i mean me n my b/f have been goin out for over a year and we both want to marry eachother, think im crazy if you want but hes the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. i dont know what to do. i dont want him to move. he knows that if i ever lost him then i would kill myself. he could live with his dad but his dad is a total jackass to him. my family doesnt really like him either. they say we dont have room but if we tryed then i know it could work. i really dont want him to go...what can i do?

Tell them that he could stay with you and that you truley love him. Tell him he could have child support send money from his parents to yours or her could live on Welfare. Basically tell them everything you just said. That you love him and you cant live without him. Good luck, seperating from the one you love can be hard. I know you can do this.

xO.Carrie

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I don't know what's wrong with me... Maybe it's low self-esteem or something but I never think i'm good enough for any guy. There haven't been many guys that I've known liked me. Most of them look right to my friend... So the guy i reaaaallly liked likes her now. But whenever guys flirt with me i never take them seriously because I always think "oh he would never like me" and then I turn kinda mean to the guy... can anyone help me out here?

Start acting nicer. Accept your body and yourself for the way you are because your beautiful no matter what. Guys hate low self-esteem. So start being flirty to the guys you like for a chnage. Take them seriously. You`ll see what happens. Remember you are beautiful.

xO.Carrie

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okay i went out with this one boy we'll call landon, and he was sooo sweet.but i felt so insecure about myself,that i borke up w/ him.well he knows i like him know but my friend told him to call me if he still liked me,and he hasn't.what do u think is going on?!?!?like can u help?

Most guys hate low self-esteem. and he probably hated the fact that you broke up with him because of it. I suggest you call him and appologize and just tell him whats going on. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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I'm awkward and shy. I don't know how to talk to girls or tell whether or not girls like me. I'm in my senior year of high school, and i'm turning 17 on 10/10. so i realize this is kinda pathetic. I'm not very funny or spontaneous either. How do i flirt/be funny so girls will like me? I am being myself 24/7, and that isn't really working.

Be yourself is the number one key. Just keep up conversations with them. Dont be too shy around them. You`ll find girl friends soon trust me. Good luck, talk to me anytime. I can be your friend! =]

xO.Carrie

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