Question Posted Thursday October 27 2005, 10:58 pm
OooooK....
Im 15 and i've never been kissed. I dont really know what to do. I am always afraid that I'll panic(which i do often) and miss. Are there any tips on kissing that anyone could give me? THANKS!
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Don't be afraid of your shyness, it's only natural to feel self-aware when it comes to something like kissing. And chances are this is what's holding your boyfriend back as well. You've been together for a long time, after all, and so if this feels like a natural step then it's important you let him know.
There are two ways for you to approach this. Firstly, you could try speaking up at a good time. If you're not happy about taking a direct approach, it's worth turning the question away from a 'snog me!' to mentioning it might be fun to explore a different kind of kiss. This way, you're stating a wish without putting him under pressure. If he's keen, you'll soon know about it.
Alternatively, however, you might find it's easier to simply expand your current kissing technique. If you're limited to a lip nuzzle, try gently probing with your tongue and just see how he responds. Hopefully, you'll get the snog you want in no time, and if not then use the opportunity to talk about your feelings for each other.
Sometimes, it can take a toe-curling moment such as this to establish honesty in a relationship. It's something that takes a little courage, but whatever happens you're guaranteed to look back knowing you did the right thing.
xOCarrie answered Friday October 28 2005, 12:24 am: Really theres nothing to be worried about. In my opinion .. its hard to "suck" at kissing. So if you just wait for the right moment and time and feel comfrotable with that speical person you should be just fine. hope i helped!
angelndisguys answered Friday October 28 2005, 12:23 am: The best advice I can give is don't think about it!!! When its meant to happen it will and you'll know it. I'm twenty almost twenty-one years old and have never had a boyfriend or been kissed. You might say well that's because you're a loser and you might be right but it proves my point that when its meant to happen it will. I've lived my life thus far just fine so don't feel bad that you're fifteen and have never been kissed if I don't feel bad and I'm twenty. [ angelndisguys's advice column | Ask angelndisguys A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday October 27 2005, 11:23 pm: You will do fine. Just remember the guy is probably just as nervous as you are.
Here are a couple of site though if you want some tips.
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