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help please
my b/f's mom is saying that shes leaving her boyfriend(they've been living together for 4 years) and shes going to either cali or arazona and he has the choice of going with her or finding somewhere in new york to stay. im trying to convince my family to let him stay here. i might get them to say yes but i need some more things to tell them. i mean me n my b/f have been goin out for over a year and we both want to marry eachother, think im crazy if you want but hes the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. i dont know what to do. i dont want him to move. he knows that if i ever lost him then i would kill myself. he could live with his dad but his dad is a total jackass to him. my family doesnt really like him either. they say we dont have room but if we tryed then i know it could work. i really dont want him to go...what can i do?
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lol honey u are not crazy i also have teh love of my life with me and i want to marry him too and like u i also know for sure hes the one.its going to be hard to convince your parents but try and tell them how u feel since parents are fucked up as hell and think they know you more than u know yourself chances are that they may say no if so try to get a job (and him too )and move out with him, but until then he should sacrifice for you and stay with his jackass dad. do anything to stay with him my dear! love is wonderfull u only get someone like him once!!!! many people dont get one at all!
tons and tons of luck!!!!!!!!
MS.ROTTEN
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Tell them that he could stay with you and that you truley love him. Tell him he could have child support send money from his parents to yours or her could live on Welfare. Basically tell them everything you just said. That you love him and you cant live without him. Good luck, seperating from the one you love can be hard. I know you can do this.
xO.Carrie
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well it seems that you really like this guy but honestly ... if u love someone u have to let them free .. if he wants to go with his mother let him go .... if you love him that much then keep going out in a long distance relationship .. if ur love is as strong as you say it is then it will be for the best. But the idea of ur bf livin' with u and ur family .. a little weird ... it maybe uncomfortable 4 u 2 especially with the fam there ((if you know what i mean)) ur better off lettin' him make a decision of what he wants to do!!
*BeSs*
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Get married, and if your families won't support the idea of you getting married elope or just get married and not tell anyone until after you have done it..
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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