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She Is Confusing Me!
I have a friend, lets refer to her as Lonnie. Well Lonnie recently admitted to having a crush on our friend Steven. Steven had a crush on Lonnie last year, he even asked her out multiple times. She also said NO every single time. Seeing as she hated him. Now that he has moved on away from her she was happy with it. Now all of a sudden she loves him. She hates him, then she loves him. I am so sick of her little " I Hate Steve!" spells. I feel draggd in the middle cause he does nothing except treat her like shes so kind. She tries to control him. She does not realize it, but everyone talks abou ther behind her back. I am so sick of defending her when everyone is right about her. She needs to grow up a little. So my question is how can I tell her she needs to stop putting everyone else in the middle making them look so stupid? Please help!
Kasey
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Honestly, I think if Steven has no problem with it, it doesnt matter. and if he has a problem with it, he should stick up for himself. Who cares what other people think, but if it really bugs you about how she puts you in the middle, next time she talks about him, be like, "if you hate him, you should go tell him and if you love him, you should still go tell him." Tell her its not right putting themselves out there in public like that because you dont want people talk about her cause she's your friend. good luck
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Next time she brings it up. Tell her with all due respect that you just dont want to here it. Good luck.
xO.Carrie
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i would tell her that we need to talk! just honestly tell her what you think and feel! tell her you don't like to be dragged into things and tell her that you don't mean to be mean but um ... she needs to grow up! you need to be honest with her ....
((honesty is the BEST policy))
do what you feel is right and say what you feel you need to say. Let her kno how ur feelin'.
*BeSs*
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