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Hey, my name is Tabby. Feel free to ask anything at all ill answer anthing as best as i can. i wont tell u what to think or do ill just give you my ownest answers. i give advise to my friends so i think i give okay advice. you can also IM me on AIM if you would like its xUnspoken Silenc

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Okay, well there is this guy && we are good friends && like i think i like him but i`m not sure. i think something is like a matter with me because if i like the guy && they ask me out, i just don`t like them anymore. but then after i say no, i feel bad. okay the problem is that he asked me out && i don`t know what to say, he wrote me the most cutestest card. && it like says that he melts when he is near me..but i don`t know what to say..becuase i don`t want to ruin our friendship.

If you realli like him and hes that sweet to you go for it dont hold back you probably dont like them after they ask you out because your afraid of something like getting hurt. but if he reali is that sweet to you then go for it.
hope that helped

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Ok there is a boy who I have like the hugest crush on. But sometimes he can be so mean then I think "I hate him". Then the next day I'll like him. But most of the time he is nice. Now I think he likes me a little but how do I find out or not thats the thing? :( Please help me!

okay well thats how most guys are there compete jerks then they like you its realli confusing but thats just how they are he probably didnt mean anything by being mean to you. but if you feel like you like him and then you hate him its normal it means you do like him your just not sure if you want to. its realli hard to answer but i tryed so i realli hope i helped.

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ok well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and i hve this huge like BUMP on my face.. pretty close to my nose.. ive had it for like 2 or 3 days and i popped it bc it was a zit when i first got it.. yah i know ur not sapose to pop zits.. but now it is like a big red bump and it doesnt hve puss or anything in it.. well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and it looks so hideous... any home remedies that will help plllleeeaasse....

try makeup

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Alright I'm going to make this as simple as I can:
There's this white girl at my school and I really like her a lot but I don't get the feelin sometimes that she likes me but I've been leavin hints here and there letting her know how I feel about her but I think she still hasn't caught on we're both 13 I really like her and I'm black we get along but she's more of the I'm too busy into my work type and the silent type like I don't want to get in trouble in school type you know just the complicated type can u give me advice on how I can get this girl to know my true feelings besides askin her out on a date I only rate 5's so if your advice is bad you get nothin if it helped you get a 5
Thx
Signed, The Ebony Prince

Just tell her you dont have to ask her on a date just write her a note or something and tell her how you feel ask her what she thinks or how she feels toured you.
I hope i helped.

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Please help,

I broke up with my girlfriend about 6 months ago, and I have been depressed ever since. About 1 month ago I ran into her and I have made numerous attempts by calling her way too much and going over to her house to try and talk to her but she does not want to see me. "I broke off the relationship". She is seeing an older man in his late 50's I am 31 and she is 36. What should I do.

well talk to her tell her why you did. and then tell her how you feel about her. she might feel the same. if she doesnt all i can say is just find your way out and find someone new.

Hope i Helped.


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Ok im really bad with my self-confidence like some of my friends think i just say "oh i'm so fat" just to get them to tell me im not.. but i really don't i really think of myself as fat.. like my face is pretty but i always think im fat, sometimes i think its because i have such gorgeous friends and they get all the guys i never think i can get any. I always brush by hot guys because its almost like i know they would never like me.. it's horrible but its how i feel.. like (1) i need to know how to feel better about myself and not think of myself as ugly. (2) does anyone know why i got this way.

everyone thinks somethings rong with them at one point no ones perfect. just dont care so much what other people think of you i ust to be like i always thought something was rong. something always had to be rong w/ me. but when i started 7th grade i disided to not care and now i acully have self-confindence and even thow i no im not perfect i dont always think there stuf rong. so just tell yourself your pretty dont be highmatnice but just think of yourself like you thiunk of your friends.


Hope i Helped and hope that made sence.


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evertime i become friends with guys i wind up either falling for them and getting hurt or something else. but it ALWAYS ends up BAD.
i cant handle it anymore so ive givin up talking to boys, looking at boys, talking ABOUT boys, being with boys, having a boyfriend, you got the point.

over-reacting? is this typical? any other advice..?

you cant give up it might be hard because it hurts when guys break your heart but you cant give up on finding the right one there is someone who wont hurt you. theres always going to be guys that come and go but ull find one that wont hurt you. just dont give up.



that sounds kinda sappy but i hope i helped.

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my relationship with my boyfriend is very complicated. i need solutions. we fight about little things all the time. now we dont hang out nemore, hes always with his friends and i dont feel very close to him anymore. i need to hang out with my friends more but i dont know what to do with them to hang out with them. also i want to make my boyfriend something but i dont know what to make him.... thanks

well to me it sounds like you need a new boyfriend i mean you can do better like someone who will hangout w/ you and you will feel close to. and as for hanging out with your friends go to the movies or the mall thats what i do.
hope i helped

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ok i have this guy friend and he says he loves me but im not for sure if he realli means it...he says he wants to fuck me and i mean i do to but i wanna kno if he realli means it before i go home for christmas break and see him.....and i mean i have allready had sex before but i tell him i love him and he used to say it back to me but now he doesnt ne more...what should i do tabby???????

Well before you do have sex ask him if he does love you and if he does hell tell you how he feels. if he wont then he doesnt but if you realli love him and he loves you back then he'll tell you exacly how he feels.
Hope i helped.

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i am a comlumnist here but there comes a time when i need advice. c i have been w/ this guy for 4 months now and he seem to b slipping. i dont know what to say to him. he seems to be holding back all the time. i need help. please, tell me what to do!

just sit down and jsut talk tell him whats on ur mind and that you feel like that im sure he'll understand.

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how do you know that your in love?

i rate all 5's.

well if you would give up anything 4 him/her or would want to be with them more than anything.
its just a feeling you get and ull no.

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ok here the thing. i have a girlfriend and i love her to death. but, i got an ex girlfriend who doesn't know when to let go. my ex always talks about how she misses me & wants to kiss me & all this other crap. so my question is, how do i get rid of my ex without hurting her feelings & without breakin up with my current girlfriend?

-thanks

theres realli not a way not to hurt her. but You could talk to her in person or on the phone (( better in person)) but tell her that you have moved on and that she should do the same and tell her that you dont want to hurt her but you had to tell her so she nos to let go.

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ive been in love with my boyfriend and hes in love with me for about a year now. but now were starting to fall apart, over the summer we used to hang out everyday now we hang out like once a month. and hes the kinda guy that flirts with alot of girls, but i trust him. yesterday i told him i was mad at him (because i was infront of him talking to him nd he was ingoureing me and ran to another girl) and he was like i dont care. that hurt alot... then today i was asking him why he said this and he was laughing about an inside joke. then he came online, and this was ower convo.

HIM: do you think its time time for a change?

ME: what do you mean...? 'change' of what

HIMME: no tell me

HIM: nvm

ME:k

ME: well your really acting like ur gonna break up with me... just get it over with if you r gonna.

HIM: jump to conclusions muchh?

ME: umm... well your acting like your gonna

HIM>: how does somone act like there gunna break up with somone

ME: they act like they dont like them....

hIM: well

>HIM>: do you wanna break up?

HIM: or take a brkeakk

ME: if i wanted to break up.. i would of broken up with you already....

HIM: o

ME: whatever

HIM: k?

ME: if your gonna break up with me then just do it now cuz im leaving soon...

HIM: fine

ME: fine what..?

HIM: uhh i dont no

then i signed off. but i dont no if i should break up with him, i love him to death and i really dont wanna break up with him. but it seems like were falling apart.=( should i? or no?

--confused.


** i rate high

well if you realli do love him. then just fallow whatever your heart tells you i mean yea your going to be sad if you do but it seems your hurting more when your dateing and falling apart than you are going to be if you break up. ull find someone else who cares more and is better. that wont walk away. just fallow ur heart.
hope i helped.

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ok i no this has got to be the most common question in the world but im still asking it...ok i reallllly like this guy and we talk a lot but not A LOT so how do i know if he likes me or how do i get him to notice me or something! please help me thanks

get to no him more like talk to him more. or get one of ur friends to talk to him 4 you. and get them to ask him if he likes u or who he likes. i hope i helped im new at this.

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