hey im kelly im from MA my fav things to do r write, act, playu the drums, run xc and track, read, other stuff too. uhh i like to just hang aroiund with friends go places the usual, anyway send me anything if anyone needs ne help or advice. ill try the best i can to give you that.
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ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?! (link)
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err i hate that so much. my friend does it too. theres a few options:
1) dont tell her who you like. keep it to urself and maybe she wont decide to do that. shes prob just trying to compete and show off which is really stupid.
2) talk to her. tell her how u feel, just say u want to keep her as a freind but sometimes u feel hurt becuz it seems like shes always trying to flirt with the poeple you like. tell her th
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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her? (link)
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12 or something, any age really tho cuz wen they r younger its not even really a relationship,its just a cute lil thing usually
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Woah... I usually GIVE advice here but now I'm asking for it. Because I don't know what to do. See... I started going out with this guy, Chris, on September 1. And I've known him since the first day of school (which was August 23). And I never really thought about it until I saw a picture of his family yesterday, but he's half Mexican (I'm white). And I don't have a problem with it, but my mom has this thing about interracial relationships. And she asked if he was white and I told her he was (that was before I saw a picture of his family -- he looks like a real dark-skinned white guy). Then my mom decided she wants to meet Chris, and she wants me to invite him to our Labor Day picnic/cookout thing. I don't know what to do... I'd love him to come here but I'm afraid my mom's going to say something about his race or she's going to make me break up with him or something. What should I do? (link)
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talk to your mom. explain to her exactly what u just told me. how u like him alot and how hes a very nice guy and ud appreciate it if shed giv him a chance. if u dont want to say it to her face, u could even write her a note and slip it under her door. i am sure if u tell her calmly how u feel she will totally understand. good luck and i hope i helped
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what is a good way to get a guy to like you? i need girls and boys advice. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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be friendly, nice and not too clingy. dont be shy and if u r pretend hes ur best friend or someone uk well. i mean whats the worst that could happen? also if hes sitting somewhere go sit next to him dont act like u r afraid to get near him but dont follow him everywjhere. say hey, talk to him online, the phone even or something and if things go ok just tell him how u feel. if it doesnt work out its ok theyre r plenty of others it just wasnt meant to happen. good luck hope i helped
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Ok this guy i really liked danced with me in slow and fast songs at a dance we had. I then found pout that i really like him but it was summer the next day ans schol was out so i have been thinking about im all summer. but i don't know if he likes me or not plz help me. (link)
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try to talk to him online and get his sn or e-mail. if u cant do that and u r too nervous to call him n invite him to a movie or something find a friend thats friends with him and maybe u and a bunch of ppl and him can hang out somewhere. giv him hints u like him and tell him uv been thinking about him. find out who he likes. good luck
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Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!
-Nerveous (link)
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don't do it if you don't want to. Tell him you would rather wait a little longer or something. Don't do what you don't want to.
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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
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in a way i do, but then i dont. it all depends. you need to make sure that :
1) hes not just using you
2) you really love him ( u dont want to waste ur first time, u want it to be special )
3) u think of all the outcomes of ur decision
4) u really really want to
5) ur ready and if u do protected
6) u arent being forced into it
its really up to you, but do what u want just be careful and good luck
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my boyfriend and mine's annaversary is coming up in a couple months and it will be 1 year. i want to do something really special for him or make him something that he'll always remember. but i dont want to make a scrapbook because everyone does that. i want to do something different. i would write him a poem but i do that all the time and he writes ones back to me so thats nothing new. if anyone has any ideas then please help me. (link)
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have someone take him out and when he comes back ( i dont kno how old u r, do idk if ud wanna do this..) but you could make him a dinner of his fav food, watch both ur fav movie, u can still giv him a scrapbook along with something else. thats kind of original and idk if u could do this either but if he likes a certain basketball teams or w.e get him tickets and one for u and go c it together, followed by a nice dinner. or take him for a walk on the beach..etc. go somewhere he really loves and that will mean enough to him, with u there n everything. or maybe an amusement park....lol u get the picture.
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wut do i do to play hard to get???? plz give me some tips to get the guy i lyk to notice me
thanx,niki (link)
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sometimes hard to get doesnt work. it depeneds on the guy, but alot of them will give up becuz theyll think you dont like them back. a good way to get him to notice is to be comfotable around him, if hes sitting somewhere then sit next to him, dont be all touch-touchy or follow him everywhere he goes, but say hey and IM him once in a while etc. whatever you do dont act like you are trying too hard, and be yourself. it sounds corny, but guys will notice if your acting different. if things seem to be going good, and you guys talk alot, then tell him how you feel and who knows maybe you will go out. good luck
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Recently me and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me for another girl, because we were in a long distance relationship for 2 years and it was really hard. Its been really hard for me, but ive managed to survive without him, even though I still love him and miss him alot. But now I am ready for a relationship with someone who I know really cares for me and who I can be happy with. The only problem is, I dont know where or how to meet guys. Can anyone help? (link)
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if you still like your x, give yourself a little bit of time. there r plenty of other people, so even if u dont find anyone right away dont rush it. but u can find guys at school, work if u work at all, the beach, a camp, thru a friend...pretty much anywhere. just dont meet someone online or anything. good luck
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im sick of always changing myself for everyone else and now i just want to be myself but idk who i am anymore...what can i do??? (link)
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do not change youself for anyone else, becuz even tho u might think theyll like you more, you arent happy about it and chances r theyll like u the same maybe even more if u were who u r. its ok that u dont kno who u r, alot of people r still trying to find their identity. what u can do about that is find interests u enjoy and try to lover yourself, its a long road but u will end up finding your tru self and i bet u will like it. at the end of our lives its not going to be judged on how many friends you had or what u did for other people...but more on how happy YOU were. remember that and with every day youll get better at this. good luck
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I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!! (link)
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im really confused. them? they?
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How old are ppl when they have THE kiss? Like what's the most likely age? (link)
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there isnt a paticular age really. i had mine when i was 12 some have them when they are 16 whatever is right for you should be "the kiss".
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ok i started talkin to this guy named chris about 5 months ago...we wer really good friends and our parents knew eachother so i was allowed to go everywhere with them!! they new we liked eachother 2....well he got grounded about 3 months later n we juss LOST CONTACT 4 S0O0 LONG....well i ben really thinkin bout him bc he treated me s0o well....and i called him up....he wasnt ther but his dad was like sara? ohh hey how r u? r u still in soccer?? blah blah juss totally tlkin to me!! his family loves me!! well ya so he called me last nite but my cell was on silence so i juss saw the missed call!! i was s0o happy!! well i called him today adn he had to go sumwher with his mom so we didnt get to talk and we havent talked for months....shuld i call him back?? wat do i say?? i have NO idea wat to say to him but i really like him n wanna hangout agen!! im really nervous!! plz help idk wat i shuld do!! WAT DO I SAY TO HIM?? (link)
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call!! he obviously wants to talk to you dont hold bak call him :) goooddd luckk*
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hey yall i jus found out that my bf is probly cheating on me and this stuff happens to me all the time i always get used at and it really sux and wel i jus dont no how to deal with it cus wenever this stuf happens i get really depressed and shit and i think about cutting and stuff but i never actualy do it i jus need sum way to get out of this place or idk i jus idk (link)
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please dont cut yourself. ik that hurts alot..it has happened to me. i just want u to kno u r not alone. i am positive there r guys out there that u deserve and would show respect for u, it sucks to go thru all these relationships be4 finding them but just be strong. ppl like these untrustworthy guys r not worth you putting the pain back on youself. u didnt do anything, and one day these guys r gonna get hurt themselves. all u have to do is dont put up with them and keep your head high, xplain to them what they did to you and dont go bak out with them. next time a guy asks u out tell him what u want you two to be, and u want to be able to put ur faith in him and he can with you. it hurts but you can overcome these things, dont worry about it. these ppl r unimportant and u deserve much better. you will find someone who will make you happy. good luck and hope i help
*kelly*
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ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do? (link)
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call him. really. this happened to me ik it sucks youy get all paranoid n dunno what to do. i called him or talk to him online or w.e invite him out and tell him how u feel.
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me and my bf are ok together (slight kissing dilema but that's not too bad) but we've run outta places to go on dates! we've been to the cinema, to town but there's no where else to go. there's no bowling places near us and we live on the other side of town from each other. any ideas of places we could go? im an almost 13 year old girl and i live in the UK. (link)
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over eachothers houses...if u have a local pool or something...mall...if ur parents r cool mayb one of them would even tak u to an amusement park...a carnival...etc
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hAvE a hApPy fOurTh oF jULy! (link)
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u too
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What should i do if im still in love with this kid but he likes someone else but he always comes back to me and hes relationships only last a week or so and he still cares for me and has my picture in his room and is always around me? (link)
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hey ok well my advice is to tell him exactly how u feel. say u still really like him and if he wants youd like to make a longer relationship etc. if he is still doing one or two week things then going for other people he isnt worth it. you can find someone who is up for a longer relationship im sure. itll tak a bit, but if things dont work out youll get over him. i promise! good luck :)
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Ok, there's this guy who I met through my friend. She had a sweet 16th B-day party, and this guy was invited. I think he is her cousin's best friend. Anyway, I haven't seen him since the party, but lately, we started IMing on the computer. I got the screename from my friend. And he sent me all these emails telling me that he likes me. I like him back and we both wanna be in a relationship. The only problem is, my friend likes him to. He's told her that he only likes her as a friend and she knows this. I told her about everything and she says she doesn't mind and she thinks it's cute that we like each other and everything. I just don't know if it's right. Should I go out with him? I'm sooooooooooo confused. Lol. Thanx a bunch.
Btw, I'm a 15 y/o female. (link)
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hey. ok well i think you should cal your friend up and simply say, "i kno im making this into a big deal i just dont want you to get hurt. ik u said its fine but if its not i wont be mad if you let me know." if she says its fine, it probably is. im sure your friend wouldnt mind, she may feel a little sad at first but shed find someone else. if you do end up going out with this guy maybe you could hook her up wiht one of his friends. your friend probably appreciates that your concerned.
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