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i dont know how kiss girl you shove me ..how good?

well i don't really know how to tell a guy lol...but all i could think of is to just start by peck kissing and then slowly work your tounge into the whole thing...put your index finger under her chin and just have fun! lol

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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

well he is for sure showing all the signs! look at him and smile, if he smiles back then that means he is thinking about you and he is soo glad that you looked at him...then just slowly kinda look away....more then likely he will come to talk to you and all your problems will be solved! heheh....also if he ever makes attempts to establish eye contact or if he tries to mkae funny jokes to see you laugh...he asks you or your friends for your number os sn or something like that....and just tries to show you as much attention as possible without making it obvious that he likes you...hope i helped ya sweetie!!! xoxo

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wut r sum good wayz 2 meet boyz?

ummm you can go to the beach, go to the mall, you and your friend can have a summer party and invite people that you may know but your friend doesn't(or the other eay around), umm go to your friends house when she/he is having people over, find you what the local hang out is for you and your friends...umm stuff like that! hehe

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do girls like it when guys write poetry for them? cuz i wanted to do something different this time and iono if she will liek it, i really try, but its really cheesy. =/

YESSSS!!! its so sweet when guys do that. cuz it shows that the guy is really thinking about her and he came up with this all on his own. your girl may start crying but they are happy tears!! :-)

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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

16 f

move on honey! don't put up with that no matter what. there is never any excuse for hitting. don't totally ignore him but don't show any kind of romantic emotion towards him or anything.

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ok my girlfriend has a abusive dad. hes always drunk and beating her. yesturday when i was visiting my girl, he was beating her up, i just got really mad. i couldnt control my self and i pushed him away. and i guess he was drunk and i was really angry he would beat up katy like that, but i beat him up pretty bad. am i right?

OF COURSE!!!!!!!! no girl should have to go through that! i don't care who you are or how old you are, being abused is unacceptable! good job!!!!

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ok well i really like this one guy. i have known him for about a year now because i just moved the area im living now a year ago but we are like best friends. i really like him and i think he likes me but im not sure and when it comes to guys im really old fashoined (sp?) * i wont call a guy, ask a guy out or anything like that. well what should i do?


oh and about 3 mounths ago i figured out that i liked him because i had just broken up with my old boyfriend which was one of his bestfriends but he took my side on the whole break up because his friend cheated on me any ways does that mean he likes me?

please help!

dazed and confused

try and get past the part about you being shy. i know its sounds hard and its not gonna be easy by any means. but maybe next time you two are talkin or whatever.....suggest going to the movies or the mall or something like that. invite him over for dinner....then he will start inviting you to do stuff and you won't have to do anything else. making the first move is always the toughest part. lemme knwo if you need help with anything else!!! :-)

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is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship

nope!

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I'm looking for a song to kind of go out to my boyfriend, because his song to me is Differences by Ginuwine or I Promise by Jagged Edge, and I kinda wanted to have a song for him too. So if anyone has any "songs" kind of hip hop or R&B type-ish music, that would be awesome! If it could be a girl singing it about a guy, that would be MOST appreciated also. Thanks!

k im not sure of all fo the artists of these but here ya go! hehe

I Wanna Know
O- Omarion
Lets Get Away- T.I(not really a couple song but still its cool hehe)
Lovers And Friends- Lil John and Usher


hope i helped ya! i know alot more but they aren't r&b.....xoxo

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ok so this may be a dumb question anyways...i broke up with my boyfriend a while ago n my friend asked him if he still likes me n he goes dont ask me that...could this mean he may still like me..what do u guys think? i told u it was dumb

its possible!!!!! hehe

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Theres this guy...we'll call him bobby...and hes new to my school(a couple of months) and he's admitted to me that he liked me but the other day i found out that i wasn't the only girl that he said that to (actually about 7 other girls). I really like him though. Should i still date him or just try to forget about it all?

well the last thing you want to do is be dating a player. i would flirt but don't get too attached...espically if he is telling all of these other girls he likes them. getting to know him better is also going to help. because he is new, he might be a little overwhelmed so i would give the boy some time to get to know you and other people. then he will know who he likes for sure....might be you!!! hehe

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What should i do, i like a person but i don't know if they like me back?

turn on the flirt switch and see what happens....if they dont flirt back then ask them straight out if you could ever see you in that person getting together in the future. if flirting works....then just let things go from there hehe

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My girlfriend is a quite beautiful girl. And I know she knows she's beautiful. She's also pretty damn confident. But, for some reason it seems like she's insecure around me. Every time we're intimate and I try to slid my hand down her stomach she sucks it in. I guess she doesn't think I notice but, I do. She has a fine, flat tummy so why she feels the need to suck it in is beyond me. I also don't understand if I did anything to make her feel insecure. I tell her that I think she's beautiful every chance I get. I don't know what to do here.

no matter what any girl tells you....girls always think they can look better. i know when my boyfriend tries to do anything like that i always used to be really jumpy but then he confronted me about it and now i feel fine just letting it all hang out around him lol....next time she does it...whisper to her in a really sweet and loving voice "why are you doing that" or something like that. then she will probally start talking about it. then its your chance to brag on her like no other! lol....let me know if you need anything else!

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I don't usually cut myself, but something really bad happened, and I did it again. I know it's wrong, but I was going through a rough time, and I don't plan on doing it again, but anyways, I have to attend a pool party, but how do I cover up the marks, from my wrist up to high up the arm. theres a few of them. please help me cover them up. I don't wanna hear you should tell someone, because I go to a therepist. PLEASE HELP ME. rating high.
xoxo.

well i would say makeup but if you get wet then it is all going to come off.....what you could do is get a long sleve net shirt and have a bikini on under neath it....so that way your arms are covered up! let me know if ya need anything else!

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Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!


Notes:
- he's "flirted" wit my friend but it was just a joke (as he says)
- tons of other girls have asked him out but hes said no becuz he loves me sooo much
- he says that i'm the best thing a guy can have

well first decide if you wanna break up with him or not lol.....and if you do then just tell him straight up that you want a break. and make sure thats its nothing against him (even though it may be)...just try to make yall's break up as painless as possible for both you and him! let me know how it goes!

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it is my 16 birthday and i dont know what to do so if anyone can help i relli need it thanks verry much. i rate high

throw a party! either have it be formal, dressy casual, or have some kind of crazy theme. make all the girls dress in white and all the boys in black or pick a theme from a movie...somehting like that! oh and as far as gifts....ask for a car! lol

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10/f theres this boy in a hier grade than me but he was on mi bros b.ball teem( they just lost and got out of the ternament) so i saw him alot... and he goes to mi skool- for 3 mor dyz.shuld i ask him out and hope fur te best? or just leeve it the way it is? he aredy nos thet i like him but..... thanx for any advice! ill rate high!!!


thanx, wundrin

you mine as well go for it! but dont you think your just a little too young to have a bf sugga?? lol......if you think you really like him then the worst that could happen is him saying no! good luck

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hey.. um i'm not sure if you remember me i'm the one who liked alot of guys. i just wanted to let you know that your advice really did help me.. i found a great boyfriend and it's because of you . thanks so much!! you can i/m me anytime i think we'd be good friends.. demj20 thanks again

hey girl!! im so glad i was able to help ya!!!! ill save your sn! good luck with you and your new beau!!! xoxo!

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so I've never been kissed but pretty soon its gonna happen and well, will he know? I dont wanan tell him just because its kinda embarassing. But can he tell? !! thanks.

no he cant!

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my girlfriend is mad at me because i was mad at someone and wouldn't tell her who. i wasn't mad at her and told her that but she wouldn't believe me so what should i do. i am 14

go to her house....bring her a teddy bear and some flower and give her a big hug and a kiss!!!! :-)

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