ahh lets see..
whats there to say?
helping people is pretty awesome.
you feel like your actually someone
so leave it if you need nething else from me.
i wouldnt wanna leave ne1 sittin there confused.
youu see?
i love running track, hangin out with my friends, i got brown hair, browin eyes, and im five foot..if you were interested..haha
email me if yah wanna.
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Ok so me n my bf have been going out for like 5 months now, but you see i have this really bad habbit of flirting w/ other guys. i mean and i kind of like other guys too. I CANT HELP MYSELF!! ugh what do i do, caz i no he would never do this to me and i totally love him. I just need some major advice caz i feel really bad. HELP!! (O. by the way Im 14 and my boyfriend is 16) (link)
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okay so you flirt alot. i mean alot of girls have that problem..i meann i do it all the time..cept i dont have a bf. and i mean does he have a clue that you do this..cuz you kno that the five months isnt gunna go ne furthur if you keep going. you needa stay loyal to the kid if your gunna say you love him. i mean i kno its hard not to flirt. just the attention is amazing..yahh knoo? and always being with one guy and showing your love only to him kinda gets annoying..yahh kno? but like you said.."i mite like other guys too" now thats wrong. thats just like ready to cheat on him. i mean i dont see how you can say you love him..and then say you like other guys. dont hurt the kid. i mean your not gunna tell him you like other guys..but at least tell him your kinda interested. i meann so that he knws that HE wont feel guilty if he likes someone. and i kno thats so wrong to say..but then yuo guys will realize theres no point in saying your going out if you dont really like him. i mean do you see wut im saying? just think about how much he means to you..okay fine..if you cant help it..flirt. but dont go off liking other guys.
i dont think that helped ne..i just kinda started typing..haha leave it if you need anything else..ill give you my aim if you want it.
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Last night I went to the movies with my guy friend & my friend (who he used to like). I have a crush on him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Some stuff happened last night that made me want to believe he might like me too.
-For example, my friend sat down, I sat down on one side of her & he decided to sit on the other side of me.
-We flirted the whole movie, throwing popcorn at eachother.
-We shared the armrest & I had my head rested on our arms.
-He kept talking to me during the movie.
-He let me take sips of his drink.
-When I said I was cold, he said if he had a jacket on him, I could have worn it.
I'm not sure if it sounds like we're just "pals" or could possibly be more? I really can't tell so I was wondering if someone who was more experienced in relationships could help me out. Thanks! Sorry it was so long!
JaMiE x3 (link)
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cute:-) hes being really flirty, seems like he gotta crush on you, and you have a crush on him! go for it! your experience at the movies was a great start to like get to kno each other way better and see how you guys act togehter. just hang out w/ him more and you guys will be sucha cute couple. just make shure tht he isnt just like a flirt tht doesnt mean nething..you kno?
hope i helped..tell me how it goes!
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I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do? (link)
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i was wondering how old you were:-) 15..okay wll in tht case i dont think shes gunna move w/ you even if she wanted to..i dont think her parents wud be to happy. and i mean like if you really wanna get away from your mom and move w/ your dad then you really shud. it wud make you a better person cuz youd be w/ a person you wanna live w/. yah i kno you wanna live w/ you gf..and im not telling you to forget bout her..but the money you get from basketball cud help you go back and forth and see her. and she even says she`ll make it work- so she`ll try and make an effort to come see you... you kno?
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I have liked a guy for a year now. And as we all know, Valentines day is coming up. My school is having a Sadie Hawkins Dance in honor of it. I really want to ask this guy but Im not sure how. Im so nervous...Im friends with him and some people say they think he likes me. But know one knows for sure. Please help. I rate high :) Thanks. (link)
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well just be like talkin to him one tyme..n be like yah tht dance is comin up..w/e w/e..n then b like well i have to one to go with n tht like sad way..haha n if he like mean either..then tht good..if he says yes..well then your screwed but neway. b like well are you still gunan go if you have no1 to go with..and if he says yah..ask him if he wants to go w/ you..and if sorta like lookin wierd..just b like as friends..i mean at elast you too will be goin together..and you technically asked him to go w/ you..but asked as friends so it sorta took sum of the nervous outta it..rite? and then at the dance you too can bee more friendlier;-) haha
hope i helped..tell me how it goes..if it even does:-)
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ok, this will be my 2nd vday with my boyfriend and i want this one to be extra special. i bought him a bunch of candy already, might buy him a cd and i'm baking him cookies. anyone know any cute ideas for vday? please share...thanks (link)
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ohh make hiim a scrapbook of you too..haha it may sound gay but my brothers gf did that and it so cute. he really loves it cuz like she put so much effort into it. like do you save the ticket stubs wen you guys to go to a movie togther..or have lot of pics..it just fun to do tht..then like a pic of him and then around it like just words tht describe him..haha sorry if tht didnt help at all:-)
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There is this boy at skool who is really hot, and he has a twin brother, and his brother is going out w/ my friend. I think that he is going out w/ my other friend, but I don't know. I also think that he may like me. He is always smiling at me and when he walks by me he slows down and at luch he is always looking at me, and i know that I don't have food on my face. Do you think he likes me? What happens if he does will my friend be mad at me? I'll rate high. (link)
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well mhmm..if you and your other friend tht may b goin out w/ him are close..see if she really is goin out w/ him. talk to him and see the way he talks to you and acts around you. start lookin at him a lil and see if he mayb comes up to you and starts the chat tht leads to him askin you out..hehe
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My crush was asking me why he doesn't get any hugs! i said i didn't know and then put on a sad face! so i said u wanna hug and he was like sure! so i gave him a hug! was he just flirtig or was it nothing just a hug?! (link)
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does he kno tht you like him..cuz he may b just like actin like he likes you and he knos he got you were he want yah..but really he dont..look at the way he says it and see if he just flirtin and tryin to get you to like it? yah knno? if he dont no tht you like him..he prob does like you..or you guys are great friends..are you guys like good friends? cuz if not then you kno he lyke yah..if you guys are close, then he prob takin the hug as a friendly one.
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i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him? (link)
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ehh well is this a guy you can trust..yah sum of them may b more mature but sum of them aint tht great..ask your mom sumthin like am i allowed to like date others tht are older cuz this one kid lookd at me the other day..dont tell youve done nething but see wut she says to tht and then you can tell her..slowly..be carefull
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i have been going out with this guy for a little over a month now. i like him alot and from what i hear he likes me a lot too. we have only made out 3 times though. and weve hung out every friday night just about and a few other times at parties and stuff. his only problemis he doesnt show affection. he doesnt do the cute little things like kiss my check, put his hands around my waist, or hold my hand. i am beginning to like other guys that i know would treat me better. i really like him but what should i do?? (oh yeah im a 13 year old girl.) (link)
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well mayb hes afraid tht you dont want it..if you wanna stay w/ him and see itll work out..try doin it first then let him take on from there..if he sees youwanan do it..then he will if he really wants to..or mayb he doesnt no wut to do..or wut grls lyke?
i mean you guys are only like 13 n 14..its new..mayb not to you..but is it for him?
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ok well i'm 15/f/ i'm dating this guy named Jesse and yesturday we were hanging out together and some chick named Stephanie text him saying I LOve you 2! and well i read it and i asked him what was that all about he tells me that this girl has a crush on him and thinks that he will go out wiht me and with her at the same time and well he told her that he would never cheeat on his girlfriend......what you all think? PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE I"M CONFUSED (link)
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ha dont believe him..yah he mite b sweet n shyt but you gotta see if he lying or not cuz you dont wanna stay longer w/ him and then he jsut hurts you even more..y wud she say i love you 2? tht wud mean he said i love you in the first place..ask his friends about it if he dont tell you the truth.
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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) he is 18 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
my b-day is on may 5th
and his on the 13 (link)
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well tell your parents how old he is!! if you explain to them tht hes dont gunna do nething to you..ten they mite let..if you wanna see wut they mite say..ask them like wut age range theyll let you date..yah kno? but soooner or later you gotta tell them..cuz if sumthing happens..they wont no like the rite facts n shyt
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i am a 13 year old girl with a lot of friends. boys and girls. but mostly boys. im a girly girl though not a tomboy or anything. when i am with my guy friends i am totally normal and myself.the only problem is that whenever i am going out with a guy, i get nervous. i dont really act myself around him. do you know anything to help me over come this problem? (link)
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well you may act yourself around your friends if there guys or girls..but the thing is..you know them..they accept you for the way you are so tht y you dont mind acting as yourself..the guy you mite b goin out w/ may not no you so your afaid to like show him who yah are..you sound like an awesome person..show him tht..and if he dont like you for the way you are then dont bother w/ him..just dont scare the poor kid
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Hi, I'm a girl, freshman, and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend, who is 15, for about a month and three weeks. It was perfect at first and just went down. I don't know what happened. We went to the movies and had a great time, but it got worse and he stopped talking to me. I wondered what was wrong. My friends told me that he was a crack head and shouldn't go out with him, but I liked him so I didn't listen. We had tons of fun. I got tons of pictures with me and him together. I also have his sweater at home. But recently he has had a flirting problem and flirted with every girl in front of me. I got mad and sad and ended up getting my friends to talk to him for me. My friends said he was going to break up with me. I was so sad. Then they said he wanted to dump me because I'm too immature. My friend said he was cheating on me, but I wouldn't believe it. He also made me cry by joking around with me saying he would break up with me a few times and he told like a lot of people he made me cry at school.
Today my life ended and he dumped me. I ended up crying my heart out. After school I talked to him and asked why. He said I acted like a baby. I was sad. Then this girl came up and asked if he was coming to her house. I was shocked! I couldn't believe it. The next thing I knew they were walking around holding hands like lovers. I yelled FU at them, but I don't think they heard it. Then I was so pissed off. My bus came. I got on it. I was so mad and started yelling FU and flipping off everyone out of the bus window and started crying to death; thinking about that girl and the good times we had together. Then I saw him walking with the girl far away. I flipped them off, but they didn't see. After that I cried so much on the bus for about an hour and I seriously almost threw-up.
This is the worst day of my life. I can't stop thinking about him because I still love him so much. He was so nice and sweet. I don't think I will ever get over him. Can someone please just give advice how I can get over him because I don't think I ever will and just thinking about him makes me cry and feel like I'm about to get sick even more...
Thanks so much for the help....
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hunny he isnt worth it..the day he breaks up w/ you he goes and holds a girls hand..even worse..the day he brokee up w/ you..thts wut you call a jackass..yah it gunna tak forever to forget bout him cuz you prob did love him..but there are other guys..wen you think of him..just try and think of wut he did to you and how it hurt you...hes not worth it..at all..try movin on to another guy and dont bring yourself down by like sayin his name or thinkin bout him.theres so much more tyme for other guys trust me..hes just one of them tht are messed up..gettin over him will b hard..but you can do it..enjoy wut you do have..rather then wut you dont..trust me..youll get over him..tell yourself wut he did to you and how he made you feel..itll help you..hope i helped
im me if yah need nething.. iix3yOu4evEr
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ok so im a female 14years old im in eight grade and i guees alot of guys find me really attractive well etleast thats what they all say and so i go out with guys alot liek last time i went out with anyone was like 4 days a go and now i want to go out again with different guy but the problem is that there is 6 guys who like me and i flirt with all of them and stuff and like i flirt with like alot of guys but i mean every girl does at some point but i dont think guys like that much so sometimes i lose them bacause of that but like i think i was born to flirt with guys so am i really that bad or am not the only one who does it and is there anything i should change? (link)
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well dont go to the extreme..its rong to do tht on your part and every1 elses..try to focus on one guy..and i mean if yah think all them hott and you wanna flirt..then dont go out w/ ne1 until your shure you really lyke them..tht will make others trust you. guys wont wanna go out w/ sum1 that there not shure wen yah gunna go hitt on another guy..yah kno
hope i helped
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hey this guy in school he is a guy who likes heavy metal! well anyway he let me listen 2 some of his favorite stuff! and seemed so excited me all his fave songs!! He told me that 2 need 2 have black stuff 2 actually hear this music! i had a shirt under my shirt and i lifted it up and said i'm afraid i don't!! he lifted up his white shirt and his abs wre right there!! ppl keep sayin' we're flirting but he denies it! and i find out that someone talked 2 him about it and that he knows i like him ... what do i do? is he flirting with me or not? i'll rate! :) (link)
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yah he prob is flirtin w/ yah..beside tht does he give ne other signs tht he mite like you too..look for tht and then you can see if it was flirtin or not. is he liek the sweet type..cuz mayb he just doin tht to make you feel like shyt..like he flritin w/ yah but doesnt really lyke yah..it happens all the tyme...dont give yah self to him until yah kno for shure..
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Ok, at the beginning of the school year in a new city, and at a new school, (I just moved here) the first day of school, theres this guy that asked me out when I never even talked to him once, not knowing him at all. Let's call him Bob. Bob has liked me from the first day of school till today. He's had many other crushes and girlfriends other than me but still likes me and flirts with me. As I got to know him, I started to like him. He isn't that hott, but has a great personality. He's the player type and if I went out with him I wouldn't be able to trust him. I really like him but I don't want to go out with him. I don't know why.. He's got a girlfriend right now and people say I shouldn't go out with him because he is a total man whore. At school he ignores me but glances at me whenever we pass in the hall. Do you have any advice? I'd be greatly appreciated!
[]Confused[]
P.S. I'm 13 and in grade 8 if that helps. (link)
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ehh he so isnt worth it. dont spend your tyme lovin a guy tht will never love you back..and will prob break your heart..he dont even look at you in skool? wtf thts shyt. lol..no but i wudnt even think bout him..ah i kno it hard to get over him but i mean just think..do you want him to break your heart in the long run. he prob only asked you out cuz every hott grl he sees he asks them..but wut does it matter to him..and he wants is a gf..
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Okay - lol - I know this is probably a stupid opinion/question/thing, but I wanna know what you guys think. I think it's funny. It's one of those "kids say the darndest things" moments.
Okay.
My guy and I are pretty much engaged, but none of our acquaintances know. His little brother (sam) asked "are you two gonna get married?" and my bf answered in sort of a sarcastic tone "yes. Yes we are, Sam." and we just kind of laughed it off 'cause it's the second time Sam's asked us - and his mom was there, and we're keeping it quiet - and Sam said "I thought Shanna (one of my guy's friends) was your girlfriend." Everyone, including me, laughed. Shanna's one of his closest friends. Doesn't bother me in the least (my closest friends are guys), but I'm curious as to where Sam got that idea...Lol. Thing is, I almost think I should be more concerned than I am (like...I'm not.) about the fact that Sam thought Shanna was my boy's gf. We've been together for over a year. But Sam is only 7. I shouldn't be worried, should I? (link)
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no..shanna probably calls alot cuz i mean there friends arent they..? and he prob always hears her name in the house bcuz your name prob not mentioned bcuz your guy dont wanna give away tht you guys are gettin married..
it nothin to worry about
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How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male (link)
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let them feel comfortable arouund you..be yourself and dont start nething way too early in the process of becomeing more then friends..let her no tht you wud never do nething to hurt her..dontt pressure her..cuz even if it as a joke she mite take it seriously..most grlz dont think tht automatically from a guy..but sum doo..
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last monday i told my boyfriend that i was running away. (it was a joke) i didnt tell him that it was a joke until tuesday morning. he got all mad at me and ended up breaking up w/ me over it. Now he wont talk to me or even walk past me. i have last hour w/ him (he sits in front of me) what should i do? talk to him or wait until he talks to me? (link)
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well tell him tht wen you said tht you were testing him to see wut he wud doo..tell him tht wut you said the other day..wasnt intended for you twoo to end your relationship. 3 months and 2 weeks..i dont think it worth it..he dumped you cuz of tht..whoa..i dont think it even worth it for you to even bother talkin to him..but if yah wanna tell him tht you still love him and tht you'll ever do tht agai..but you have to speak up cuz he wontt!!
raTe mE!
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Yeah so I like this guy and ya I don't know him and I really want to get to know him. I am good friends with his best friend but his best friend wont help me at all bc I think he likes me. I really want the guy I like to like me....not his best friend. I really want to freakin meet him! But nooooo his best friend won't introduce us...and its buggin me. I dont want to tell his best friend "oh you wont introduce me or set me up beacause you like me"...that'd be kind of odd. HELP! What do I do to get introduced to him? His best friend is the only one of this guy's friends that I know!
From,
~Needs Help (link)
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well first of all i dont think you shud really lyke a guy you dont really kno..nd you guys can only keep in touch through another guy. but if your really shure about this..ask your guy freind tht you wanna meet him only to talk and cuz you think hes cool..tell him theres nothin between you guys and tht wud b away you can get him to introduce you guys..but try not leaving him out of things if you two like go sumwhere..after all he will rpob feel like shyt..lettin you meet him..and all bcuz of him..you like the other guy..which isnt wut he wants.
or mayb he aint introducin you cuz the guy you lyke..mayb he doesnt have feelings for you and he doesnt want to hurt you by act lettin you guys meet each other..talk to him and see how he feels about you..tell him tht if he likes you..you'll stop botherin him about the other guy cuz you kno how he feels..cuz everytyme you ask him to let you guys meet..he prob feels hurt cuz you dont like him.
raTe mE!
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