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hey i am a normal person like you and every other i go through day to day issues and well i feel like i can dish out some decent advice if needed and would like to help others a wont be harsh il tell you exactly what you need to here but in the way a would myself deal with the problem if i was in the same situation and hopefully this advice may help you i am new to this so just getting into the swing of things and well i hope to recieve your feedback and ratings on my advice and i hope resolve your issues with the advice you recieve on here .

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I am 15f. there is a guy 16 who told me he liked me. We have been 'talking' and when i mean talking its only through texts. We will see eachother at school and he doesnt say anything to me and i think it is because he is shy about it. well, just yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend. i said tha i need to think about it beccause we barely even talk to eachother when i do see him and i just need to get more used to hime. well i hear all of this stuff about him and i guess our school slut. my friend saw him sitting on her lap (they are in the same grade) and idk if they r friends or not but i knoew they r not that close. then another day, we were all in the library and my other friend got his phone and looked through it seeing messages form the s-slut saying stuff like good night and sweet dreams (think she likes him because he told me the s-slut was talking about me to him saying why do you like her? shes weird, you should like me. and ohhhh, did that piss me off. we used to be friends but then she talks about me behind my back and its over lol). but even though i hear all of this stuff, i am not jelous at all. do you think maybe its because i dont know him well enough or brcause i dont like him in that way? usually i would be a lil bit jelous of this but not this time. im just wondering if it is a feeling that i would turn out to like him or if i just really dont care. please help with these confusing thoughts!

and by the way...my friend ends upp texting him and says sumthin like y arent you texting her back, unless you like 's-sluts name' now. then he texts me no, i dont like her, i like you. and i was like, yeah right. . . . and this would be my first bf by the way. i've been asked out before but im not desperate to go out with anyone i dont really like so i turned them all down.

tricky situation .
erm well first of all yeah your right it could be just a feeling but then again you dont know unless you give it a shot erm lifes to short to wonder what if and if shes slagging you off its only cause she wants something she cant have and you can have what she wants thats just bitches for you to be honest , erm well not everyone is so talkitive at the beginning as you say me may be shy everyone is diffrent so i would think it through and then make your decision but dont base it on what your freinds have seen or what theyve read base it on how you feel good luck and hope this helps.

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okay so i was at my friend's house and her boyfriend was over and his friend was over too. we were watching a movie and his friend (we'll call him mitch) came and sat by me. halfway thru the movie his put his arm around me and like..rubbed his foot on mine. after the movie he said he had to go to sleep cuz he had to work in the morning. he left and then 5 min. later he came back and asked if i wanted to go lay down with him..and...well the bad thing is i did but nothing happened..we just cuddled. i dont even kno his last name. :/ missa 15/f

i have read your question thoroughly and i shall give you two answers its a tricky one
well he likes you and well if he came back doesnt always mean thats a bad thing means hes intrested the only way to find out if your a booty call is to watch out for signs of him trying to make you one and well if he thinks that of you i would tell him to get lost cause you dont wanna lose yourself respect due to a dumb player who doesnt know a decent girl when he see s one and if he was a gentlemen he would have told you his second name or you should just ask your freind maybe he doesnt fink that matter some men are like rocks clueless and i hope this helps.

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So I went out with someone a little over a week ago...and he hasn't really talked to me ever since...in fact, I think he's ignoring me almost completely. I think maybe I did something wrong...should I confront him about it?

well sounds to me he may be shy or as you say he could be avoiding you but if you have done something wrong only you would know and well you shouldnt comfront him just speak to him politely and ask why he s being like that and well if yous had a good time and stuff you dont understand why hes being like that with you and well he should tell you the truth .

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My question is pretty self explanatory. Long story short I was in an amazing relationship that began in July and ended well in September. I ended it with him because I couldn't all the drama that came from it (not from him but the catty girls and his dad thinking I didn't like him for him because I was so pretty, his brother thinking I'm a ****, etc.) and I still liked him and it killed me to do it and I still miss him a lot. My friends are all like you're too good for him blah blah the usual. I've hooked up with eh about 15 guys so far at parties, mixers, etc and no not like blow-jobs, or having intercourse or any of that. Just you know making out and stuff. I'm by far one of the classiest girls at my school and I still have looks to die for. Anyways yeah and I'm still NOT over him. You'd think after 15 hookups one including an American Apparel model that I'd be totally over it but nope. Can you guys help me out?

well sounds to me no matter what guy you hook up the one you broke up with is the one who has your heart sure you may be better looking and stuff but do you really think that personally about someone you cared for and what should it matter what others think your relationship with someone else is sacred and should never be broken by outsiders or family and well sounds to me you have to ask yourself will i keep doing this and see where it leads me or if al find someone else like him or you can just face up to the fact your not over him and hes the one you want to be with ive been in the same situation as you my dear and i understand personally i do but dont make the mistake some others do and leave it to late and he moves on before you have the chance to save what you had and i hope this helps .

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Can anyone tell me some jokes that girls like? I want to get to know this one girl but I am the funny guy but I don't think girls would like my usual jokes. So do you have at least one joke to tell girls without offending them somehow?

Thank you!

hi speaking from a girls point of you .. you should just be yourself and stop stressing because if your genuinely the funny guy as you say then they will laugh at the jokes you make just make sure there suitable for girls to here and well you should be fine there isnt much i can say i dont know any jokes but best thing to is ask one of your boy mates and they should help you out :) .

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Well he is actually my ex boyfriend. I wasn't aware that I was immature. But he says that I behave like I am 10 years old sometimes (not always). That's not why he left me. He just sees me as a friend now. I am 16 years old and have never been called immature :(. Any ideas?

well i wouldnt take it to heart because sometimes people say things to hurt you and you take it to heart if your 16 you still have a lot to learn this doesnt make you immature your just going through teenage stages and maturity comes with experience and well i know me at the age of 16 i had a good head on my shoulders so i doubt he s telling the truth and if you yourself think that then best thing to do is not change but just look at things a little bit diffrently than which you normally would hope my advice works .

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So, I'm fifteen & female. for the first time last weekend, my boyfriend and i had oral sex both ways. LIke he gave me oral & i have him oral. After it though, i felt like reeeeeal dirty. I mean, is that slutty or anything? I'm only fifteen and it just doesn't even feel right. Or is that normal the first time haha...I don't know, let me know, thank youu.

first of all .. everyones diffrent and well yeah some girls may feel dirty its probably because youve lost your virginity and you know you will never be able to claim that back and well your in a relationship so it wouldnt make you slutty or anything everyones diffrent and ready at diffrent times and just remember you have all your life to have sex and make sure your doing it with someone you love and care for and most of all that your ready cause if you having doubts about it you havent reached that emotional stage in life and you shouldnt rush into things even if it is with someone your in a relationship with well hope my advice helps .

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Ok so i have a crush on a guy i know from work. im pretty sure he likes me too. We talk all the time, and i feel so comforable aroung him. how do i drop hints that i like him without being totally obvious?

also- i would love to hear some opinions- there is a significant age difference. hes 17 and im a 21/f. i dont think it is illegal because of the 4 year difference, but i lways though the guy wsas supposed to be the oldest. i would love to see some opinions. thanks so much.

well first of all you speak to him like you would as normal but also treat him a little diffrent but try not to rush things cause you may scare him away but if he likes you like you think i wouldnt worry to much about it and just ask him if he d like to go out sometime to the movies or something and socialise trade numbers and stuff and take it from there and 17 years of age makes him legal so no its not illegal as long as that person is willing to have a relationship with a person of your age and it doesnt really matter whos older cause liking someone doesnt always work out that way and well i hope my advice helps you .

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Well, I've heard and also researched that usually, the "first time" hurts. It does because the woman's hymen is "broken". Or in understandable terms, "Her cherry is popped". I do not want my first time to hurt, so I'm wondering if the first time ALWAYS hurts...like..for everyone. And is there any way to prevent it from hurting/ bleeding?

that is a tricky question there is no right or wrong answer yes it may hurt and yes it may bleed and i havent heard of anything to avoid it to be honest its a natural part of life and the only way to avoid it is not doing it until your ready and think you as a person can handle that type of thing as the skin will always heal back over and it will always have to break so the problem cant be avoided .

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So there is this kid i go to skool with that i have known forever and really like and idk what to do.

well you should consider telling them but do it carefully because some people arent understanding
as much especially when it comes to liking people
but you definetly need to get if off your chest it may not work out the way you planned but the
acomplishment itself with telling them will make
you feel better and stronger as a person and sure it may hurt a little if you dont get the right
answer or result but just remember trying takes a lot of guts and i hope my advice works .

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