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Well I am from Illinois and I like to consider myself as an outgoing entergetic person. I love laughing. I like to go to movies and to hang out with my friends. I am a good student and like to go to school ::On occasion:: I like to lend advice to those in need. I don't like the people who think they are funny by telling people crappy information. That isn't very funny. I like to act and sing. I have been in 2 musicals with the school programs and about 7 in local plays. It is fun. Well, if you have any questions I am free to lend a helping hand and give you some advice. Later Dayz!


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advice

Okay, my boyfriend and I had went to wal-mart recently and he saw his ex girlfriend there. She's 14 and I am 17. My boyfriend is 16 (and they dated for about 9 months and broke up cause she cheated on him twice). Anyhow, he didn't speak to her in the store, he just waved. Now I've been nice to where he can still be friends with her like on the phone, but she took things into her own hands. She called him this morning and told him that she loves him and misses him, and that if we don't work out, that she'll still be there waiting for him....anyhow he says to her, "Do you think I am gonna break-up with for you?" And she got quiet... then she says to him "Well would you go back out with me if that happened?" And he says " I don't know..." ( and as my boyfriend is telling me this I'm thinkin to myself...what do you mean?) So then as we were going to our separate high schools, I gave him a kiss and I told him I loved him... and the he goes "I love Rowbyn (that's the ex's name)" And I knew he was doing that to make me mad... but as I was walking him to his school, I remember him saying "I'm gonna feel funny the rest of the day". So I am wondering if yall think he may leave me for her, or does he still have feelings for her. Any advice I am sure would help! THANKS FOR READING!

She is 14?! She is WAY too young for love. and You are his right now so fight the fight! And he is being stupid for even going back out with the premature whore. :D

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im trying to decide im bi or gay. i like this guy ill tell u his name its eddie. but hes not the point iv been second guessin my self iv always thought i was straight then recently guys became attractive n girls stillwere. but in the last couple days i dont think i can realy picture myself with a girl. so i need help on how i should decide if i am bi or gay.

mizike

I don't know, I'd say you are more heading towards the gay spectrum...if you are starting to find girls unattractive and don't see yourself with one...then yeah...gay all the way.

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I'm a 24 yr old girl...and I met this great guy at a bar a few weeks ago and since then everytime I'm out, no matter where I am, he seems to be there. (Like it's meant to be?) Well, I went over to his house after leaving the bars twice. The first time we just hung out, we didn't even kiss... and then the second time we went a lot farther then that. I think he's wonderful and I want him to like me for me even though everytime I see him I'm pretty wasted.. I want to keep talking to him and I don't want to ruin things because I feel wierd and don't know how to act because I went too far with someone new.. but I really like him, I think he's so perfect... what should I do?? How should I act???

Well, this may seem a bit of a bland answer, but I was just thinkng that next time you go out with him, go somewhere away from the bar. A nice restraunt or a movie. Then afterwards go back home and call it a night. So, I hope I helped a little. Good luck.

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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf just broke up. Well, i'm not suppose to talk to him ever again and I did. Huge mistake, but now he's saying he will tell my mom we've been talking if I don't see him or do what he wants me to do. What should I do?

Don't let that prick intimidate you. You should tell your mom before he gets a chance. Like someone said about blackmail. If you tell her then it should be okay. Stay strong and dont let him get to you. He isn't worth it. And if it gets too out of hand (abuse ect.) dont be afraid to contact someone like cops or have your parents do something...That was a bit vague, but I hope I helped.

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okay so every time i like a guy, i like him until he starts to pay any sort of attention to me. Like if he starts to act maybe a little interested, I freak out and like stop liking him! I don't know why! Like ever since my last major bf (we were together for 4 months) I've been like afraid or something to like a guy when he likes me back or like have a boyfriend its so weird does anyone have any ideas on how i can like stop whatever it is and why im doing ? ty so much

I dont know if this will help but maybe you are afraid of commitment, and you think you are, but in the back of your head you feel scared in a way. Just try your best in making your relationship stronger. Hopefull I helped :-/

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the guy i have a crush on is really shy around grls and isnt into grls alot or my friends told my and i dont want to sound obsessed with him so how do i get the nerve to go up and talk to him without sounding like a freak?

Take a deep breath and walk over and start small talk. Alot of realtionships start with Hello! :-D

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ok. me and my ex, lets call him bob, went out from april fools day of this year untill early october when i broke things off because all of our friends were telling me that he was cheating on me with 2 other girls, 1 in 6th, 1 in 8th (we're in 7th). it first started in like early sept, right before my birthday, when everyone told me about the 6th grader. i didnt even try to listen to him and then realized how stupid i was being not trusting my boyfriend, so i apolagized and it was all good. then everyone was telling me that he thought that i was cheating on him, which totally hurt me because i would never do that to him, and i yelled at him for not trusting me. that was when it got really rocky between us. it seemed like we still loved eachother but we didnt trust eachother; i was a total bitch to him about it (looking back now). then everyone told me that he was cheating on me again with another girl and the old one. so it was just bad. i dumped him, even tho i still loved him. fastforward almost 3 months to now. he has a gf that he doesnt really like and still ALWAYS flirts with me and tells me everything, and everyone thinks that him and this girl are gunna break up soon and that he still likes me alot still, maybe even still loves me. should i just tell him that i still love him and apologize for being such a hypocrit psycho bitch, or let things run there coarse! i'm sorry this is so long but yah! please help! i'll rate 5's to ALL good advice!
~still-in-love~

Well, personally, for being in 7th grade and that you are in love in amazing. Love is a hard thing to come by. Love is possibly the most powerful feeling known to man kind. And when something like that happens again, ask your so called "friends", if they have any proof to back up there statements. If they don't, then brush it off your shoulders and forget about it. But if they have a picture of him actually with another girl then you can take action. So, don't let them control your life. Hence "YOUR" life. You are the controller of it, not your "friends". Don't let anybody pressure you into something you don't want to do. Take a stand and say NO. That will show them that you aren't as inferior as you seem. You will soon see how they will back down and not do that stuff. I hope I helped you out. Have a good one!

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ok well ever since I first met him in high school I kinda started to like him and well not so long ago maybe 2 weeks ago I told him I liked him in an email and well he didn't talk to me well maybe small things like hello and something but not like before after that but he just looked at me all the time then when I told him to just forget it cause I knew he'd act different well he stopped talking to me and looking at me he like avoids me I'm still deeply in love with him but all I know is he likes hot girls and I'm not hot and iunno he isn't that hot but looks don't count and he just won't even bother saying hi to me or anything. can u plz help I don't know what to do

Try to sort things out with him, go through it step by step. Smooth things out that way you can be on a tlkaing basis.

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