ok. me and my ex, lets call him bob, went out from april fools day of this year untill early october when i broke things off because all of our friends were telling me that he was cheating on me with 2 other girls, 1 in 6th, 1 in 8th (we're in 7th). it first started in like early sept, right before my birthday, when everyone told me about the 6th grader. i didnt even try to listen to him and then realized how stupid i was being not trusting my boyfriend, so i apolagized and it was all good. then everyone was telling me that he thought that i was cheating on him, which totally hurt me because i would never do that to him, and i yelled at him for not trusting me. that was when it got really rocky between us. it seemed like we still loved eachother but we didnt trust eachother; i was a total bitch to him about it (looking back now). then everyone told me that he was cheating on me again with another girl and the old one. so it was just bad. i dumped him, even tho i still loved him. fastforward almost 3 months to now. he has a gf that he doesnt really like and still ALWAYS flirts with me and tells me everything, and everyone thinks that him and this girl are gunna break up soon and that he still likes me alot still, maybe even still loves me. should i just tell him that i still love him and apologize for being such a hypocrit psycho bitch, or let things run there coarse! i'm sorry this is so long but yah! please help! i'll rate 5's to ALL good advice!
~still-in-love~
Additional info, added Tuesday December 14 2004, 6:57 pm: if i didnt make it clear then i will now. i found out a few weeks ago that he didnt cheat on me, that some of our so called friends wanted us to break up...sorry for the confusion!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? soccerplayer6 answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 7:07 pm: Well, personally, for being in 7th grade and that you are in love in amazing. Love is a hard thing to come by. Love is possibly the most powerful feeling known to man kind. And when something like that happens again, ask your so called "friends", if they have any proof to back up there statements. If they don't, then brush it off your shoulders and forget about it. But if they have a picture of him actually with another girl then you can take action. So, don't let them control your life. Hence "YOUR" life. You are the controller of it, not your "friends". Don't let anybody pressure you into something you don't want to do. Take a stand and say NO. That will show them that you aren't as inferior as you seem. You will soon see how they will back down and not do that stuff. I hope I helped you out. Have a good one! [ soccerplayer6's advice column | Ask soccerplayer6 A Question ]
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