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Christine1993
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Hey im a girl. Im 15 years old. I really like this guy who is a year older then me. We do not go to the same school. So we met on myspace but we live close to each other and next year im going to be going to the same school he is. We met and talked and we also talked alot on aim he was giving me all hints he likes me: calling me his favorite and telling me how amazing i am. Then couple days after we hang out on the weekend it was me him two of my girlfriends and his friend. He was flirting with me and i was flirting with him and i was pretty much positive he liked me. Then we went over to his friends house and everyone else saw we liked each other. They asked me if i liked him and i said yea then they asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know but i never knew that so i thought he did so i kept on acting like nothing was wrong. Me and him ended up making out for hours. Next morning he was a little akward around me but i knew for a fact he enjoyed making out with me he even told me that. That day i texted him asking him if he liked me as a friend or more because i needed to know. He texted back saying he likes me as a friend. I was really bumbed. Btw my other girlfrined(kelsey) hooked up with the guy i like best friend after an hour of knoning him and did more then make out with him. But going back i was really mad at austin for making out with me and telling me he likes me as a friend. Next couple days i didnt talk to him so he talked to me like nothing was wrong and he stil thinks im the shit and he likes me(he never told but hinted). The very next day i find out he likes my friend(kelsey) who hooked up with his best friend. I was in SHOCK! shes not his type at all! She not very bright or pretty not sound mean or anything but guys never really go for her specially from me to her and so i was really confused. I was soo pissed off also he was doing and tellin the same things he was doing to me. I got over it but then after a week the guy i liked started texting me at night saying he misses me and we need to start over i went and asked my friend why is he liking me all of the sudden didnt he like kelsey a week ago and she just said he was drunk when he texted me. So i kind of just forgot about it but that weekend i saw him and he told me that he doesnt like kelsey anymore so i was like alright. but he was flirting with my other girlfriend and not me. Then he got drunk and everything changed he totally liked me we went to his car and he told me all this stuff that he was afraid he would never get me and thats why he went for kelsey and that he really really likes me and even loves me but i was drunk too(tipsy)So we made out and stuff. Next day he told me he didnt rember anything when i know for a fact he was not that bad to not remmeber anything. So please someone help me? is he PLAYING me? whats going on. Some people say hes way to innocent and shy and had no confidence so he doesnt try to get wiht me because hes afraid to get hurt and turned down.But i really like and i wouldnt do that to him and i think? he knows that. PLease tell me what to do!!!???!?! (link)
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You could stay as friends, because if he likes you when he is drunk than he isn't really thinking that well when he says he likes you.
Snowi
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ok so there is this guy at my school. i never talked to him b4 but i know who he is. then all of a sudden i noticed him looking at me in the hallway. i was looking at his myspace pics and i was like ur really hott. yea and then he said it bak to me on mine. i got his sn and we talked a little. then i started slowly saying hi to him in the hallway. its beeen a couple of weeks and we still havent talked. we both dont have the nerve i guess to just go up to eachother. i think he is really cool and hott but im too nervous for some reason. it wud be so much easier if we had classes together but we dont. we have none. and now he waved to me twice. but we still arent talking! its like so annoying! he is kind of hard to approach cause he just looks so cool and stuff and i dont even know wat to say to him!
i can tell he likes me and i i like him to. but we need to get to know each other first!
wat shud i do??????
i rate 5s!
please help. i really appreaciate it!
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Maybe when your talking on the computer say,when can we hangout? Then maybe he will have more courage to talk to you since he knows you want to get to know him.
Snowi
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ok what are some good excuses to brake up with your boyfriend?? (link)
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You could say I need some space.
*snowi*
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Well ever since 7th grade this one boy been looking at me and talked to me alot.one time we talked on the phone for bout 3 hours!!!3 days in a row.Then we went to the movies, he came to house 5 times. He asked me if we wanted to hangout today.and would sit by me to talk.but now he has a gf and he became a huge jerk.I DONT MISS HIM I MISS WHO I THOUGHT HE WAS.I ve cried over him so mayn times and he doesnt even know it.All i want to know if he liked me....did he?? (link)
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It sounds like he did.
*snowi*
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i'm 19 years old and a female and was sexually abused when i was very yound by a babysitter. i am not worried about this and dont feel it affects me that much and i am quite open with this fact and the people who are close to me know about it all. The problem is that when a guy wants to get close with me i just seem to panic and just feel well out of my comfort zone. especially if its a boyfriend and its sexual. i have had sex in the past and the guys know about it and are very conciderate of it. But yet i still dont know when its affecting me like this. or even if it is that is the reason why. just finding it very difficult to get close to a bloke. i have loads of guy mates which i mess around with alot but i dunno its just so confusing. could you please enlighten me on this if its possible. (link)
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Maybe when he gets close to you, just remind yourself that he won't do anything to you. I have a friend that got sexually abused and that helped her.
Snowi
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So i am kinda in a pickle.... about 7 months ago i went out with a guy named...Mark for 4 months and he was amazing and he knows me better than anyone else does... and the day before wrestling regionals i dumped him not knowing what i was really doing..... and it just so happend that his best friend liked me, and his name is Mario....so mario and i were talking the night after the break up and he confesed of likeing me and asked me out, and the heart broken girl that i was said yes. and we went out for 2 1/2 months, and he was amazing he was like a dream come true. he treated me right, he knew how to treat me and my parents and older brother liked him....and Mark on the other hand, my parents and bro hated him and my parents were happy i was with mario.... until one night mario said he wanted to just be friends. all my hoped and dreams came crashing down in the matter os seconds.... and the nice guy that he was said he still liked me and that we would hook up in the summer, he just needed space.... and did i mention he wanted to be friends with benifits....well it all sounded good at first but i just couldnt handle it because i wanted to be in a relationship with him..... k now lets go back in time....while i was going out with mario my ex mark started dating a girl named janeane and they just broke up 2 days ago....well i still like my ex mario...and my feelings are coming back for mark.... i just dont know who to choose?? the thing is.... mark, ya we got into fights once and a while and he made me mad, but he always made up for it in the end....and he really knows who i am, and he can tell when i am mad and what is wrong....and mario, he treated me right and didnt make me mad, he took me places, he called me, he wanted to hang out, but he broke a promis that me made to me....and to me promises are everything to a friendship.... i mean dont make a promis if u know one day u might break it.... and he did.... i just dont know.... from the sounds of it... who should i choose?
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Maybe you should write all the good things about Mark, and all the good thing about Mario on a piece of paper. Then figure out which one you would be more happier with.
Snowi
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THIS MAY S0UND LIKE A STUPID QUESTION; BUT HOW DO YOU KNOW IF A GUY LIKES YOU? ♥ (link)
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He might stare at you a lot, or smile at you. He might talk to you a lot, that kinda stuff.
Snowi
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Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do (link)
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I think you are way to young to get married! I suggest to just wait until your older.
Snowi
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A guy that I'm friends with and hoping will be my bf one day keeps giving me mixed signals. One day he'll be sweet and attentive and tell me things I want to hear; and the next he's mean and cold. For example; one day he told me that he wanted to be with me and hoped I wouldnt marry someone else. Then another day he sarcastically told me I needed a man in my life. He can also make some rude comments about women in general; like "women always need attentiong"; and that men are smarter than woman. One day I took him to play tennis and the whole time he critized me. Everyone tells me I can do better but I feel I really love him. Even with all his faults he's still really sweet sometimes- once he gave me his computer and desk and when it was my birthday and phoned me and sang happy birthday and mailed me a gift (he lives out of state). He'll also say Bye Beautiful everytime we sign off on msn messanger. What do you think I should do? (link)
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Maybe you shouldn't move on until he gets really mean. If he sends you gifts and really sweet, then he must care about you.
Snowi
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alright so heres the deal. me and this guy used to go out. we went out like 6 times, and one time was almost for a year. He's always the one dumping ME, but somehow we end up back together again. Six months ago,he broke up with me so were not currently going out, but i still really like him, and i think he likes me again, too.Maybe he changed, but Im not sure if i should just keep giving him chances? but i really like him. Do you think its a good idea if we go out? Or should i just get over him? THANKS ALOT.
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I think you should just forget about that guy. If he keeps dumping you, he probably doesn't have feelings for you that much.
Snowi
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thers this guy i really lyk but my friends HATE him i dnt know why but they say tht i could do better but I LOVE HIM not anyother guy. i noe he lyks me bak but i dnt wanna be his girlfriend i just wanna be friends with benifets lyk we are but i hate the fact tht my friends cant stand him so how should i tell them tht its my life nd to stay out of it in a nice way ?
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Well if you really LOVE THIS GUY then tell your friends in a nice way to get out of your life. I'm sure they'll understand.
Snowi
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well theres this guy i sorta like. but my friends really dont like him. and im embarrased to go out with him or what ever. i dunno what to do cus i cant stop likeing him! (link)
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If you really like this guy, go for it and go out with him. It doesn't matter what your friends think of him. Maybe they'll start liking him if they get to know him.
Snowi
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okay well me and this kid we'll call him bob. well we started talking about a month & a half ago. and we really hit it off. we hung out and started liking eachother like right away. he really liked me and i liked him but it like seemed to change. we went out and it started to seem like i was liking him more. and then we broke up after a week. and then the week after that we went out and then broke up again. so we stayed friends & we still acted like we were going out and kissed all the time and crap. so on friday i asked him who he liked and he said this girl named sarah. so on friday i was with him and he kissed me and i was okay with it but then i started to feel akward and hes like why do you keep pulling back and i wouldnt tell him and then i finally did but it came out totally wrong. i said that he was leading me but i didnt mean it like that, so now hes mad at me and i tried to explain to him it was cause he liked that girl but then he goes i told her yesterday i didnt like her anymore and i did like you. so now i dont think he does anymore. and hes really not talking to me. & he like took my out of his top 8 on myspace and everything. so basically i just need to know what to say to him. please help me. im super sorry its really long. ill rate all 5's. thanks (link)
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Maybe you should just talk to him about how you felt. I'm sure he will understand.
Snowi
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Ever since the guy that I liked told me that he likes me back, it has been really awkard between us. The thing is that we liked each other since 7th grade but we never really said anything til this year. When we see each other in the hallways in school we just look at each other and we don't say anything. I'm told that I should be the one to talk to him first but I'm just scared and I don't really know what I can say besides hi. When I see him or when we look at each other itz like I just freeze up and I get these butterflies in my stomach. What should I do? (link)
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It is perfectly normal that you get all nervous and get butterflies, believe me I feel like that too. I think you should say Hi and start a conversation about some thing you both are intrested in, like hobbies.
Snowi
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I recently asked a question about liking two guys, who are friends..and not knowing which one to like more, to go for..
One of the guys was outspoken, popular and wanted, the other one was more good looking, but more shy, and not as charming. (don't worry, I don't judge by looks, just reminding you of the two guys)
Lets call the outspoken one #1 and the shy one #2
Okey, so recap; the first time I met them I hepled them study for like 30 minutes, alright?
Now I met guy #2 at the library the other day, and he was like "HEY, what's up? The test went pretty good actually.." and we talked for like two minutes. And I was like "wow he seems to want to get to know me" BUT 1 hour or so later, he was walking with his friends, and I nodded and said "hi" (he definitely saw it) but he totally ignored it!! wtf?!
So I was like "whatever, if he doesn't want to get to know me, I don't want to get to know him" I didn't let it get to me.
But like, a while later,I could tell he wanted to come talk to me, he was definitely staring at me, and kind of walking slowly past me..you know?
gaah, guys can be so confusing.
And now, to guy #1, when I smile at him at school, I guess he sortof smiles back..but not really. And the other day on my way home from school, I smiled at him when I saw him, and he smiled back, and then he stopped me and said "hold on, my test went great! Thnk you so much, I got a perfect score!" I was like "Really?That's awsome" congratulations, I'm happy for you" and then we both just kept walking our separte ways..
So I don't know, it seems like at the same time, they both want to get to know me, but still..they don't?
Could it have something to do with my appearence? Like they both want to get to know me because I have a good personlaity, but maybe i not pretty or popular enough?
Though, people usually tell me I'm pretty..but maybe I'm just not pretty ENOUGH?
I don't know, now to my last question, sorry this was so long, haha..
I told my friend that I had gotten to know these guys (not that im interested in them though) and she was like; ohhh they're hot! esp. guy #1" I was like "haha, yeah, want me to hook you up with him?" WHY DID I SAY THAT??? I WANT HIM! I've done this before too!! Liked a guy, and then told my friend that I'd hook them up..
I don't get it!? I guess there's something wrong with me :(
would you please help me?
What should I do about all this?
And what do you think about everything?
Like, which one likes me? And why are they acting like that? Which one should I go for? I can't explain to my friend - seriously CAN'T! So what do I do with that? Howcome I offered to hook them up? ANSWERS please =)
Thank you for reading this even though it's soo long! :)
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I think you hooked your friend with guy #1 because you saw her happy and excited about him. Maybe you should go for the guy #2. Well in my opinion, I think they just want to be your friends.
Snowi
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Ok so on friday, I am going on my schools 8th grade trip to Six Flags Great Adventure. Im going to be spending my time with a boy that asked me out during november, but then we lost contact with eachother for a while until a few days ago when i found his #. I have a feeling he is going to kiss me, and I have never kissed anybody before. What do I do? How do I act? Please help!!!
13/f
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Well if he does kiss you, than just close your eyes. It comes naturally.
snowi
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Does anyone know why every time a guy and a girl are friends, one always ends up falling for the other ..but they dont like them back?! That happened to me twice and i just want to go out with my best friend soo bad and he dosent like me like that..Soo yeah why does this always happen? (link)
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I think this happens because you guys are friends and you know each other, so you guys just get crushes.
snowi
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kay so my guy best friend..u know the usual story. i fell for him. he's the sweetest boy ever.
so yeah i told him i liked him over the phoen and he told me he liked me as a friend so im like alright so now theres this big dance coming up and everyone has dates and its kinda a big deal so im wondering if i should ask him or would that be like, too pushy or something? i'd tell him that we could go as friends..but i'd think of it as more so what should i do? should i ask him or not? thanks (link)
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Well I think if you really want to go with him to the dance then just tell him to go as a friend.
snowi
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Okay so like I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 months now. I love him so much and He loves me too. We get along great when its just me and him but like we argue alot at school, because he gets jealous easy. What should I do to stop us from arguing so much? (link)
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Well maybe you should talk to him and tell him he's the only guy you think about. Hope I helped!
~snowi
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for like the past 2 weeks, i had like 3 dreams of the kid i like.. the thing is we went out and he kind of used me. and today at school i kept on seeing him in hallways and i usually dont.. i also saw him in a car with friends while i was wakling home and he yelled something out the car but i didnt hear him.. i dont know can someone help me, what could this mean? (link)
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Maybe, well I think it was just a dream. Well I could be wrong, maybe it does mean something, but otherwise I think it's just a plain dream. Hope I helped!
~snowi~
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