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Hi,
I like this guy that one of my friends are going out with and she really likes him. I don't know what to do .should I be selfless and let her be happy or should I put my self first and take a chance on braking them up and losing a friend? (link)
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Ok you like this guy but does he liek you in the same way? how long is he going to be around? There should be no question about this, your friend should come first, you will learn that no guy is worth losing a friend over.
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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now (link)
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The only hing you can do is apologise. dont force her to talk to you. If she choses to talk to you explain that you made a mistake and explain why you feel bad about it and would like to be friends if that is possible. If this doesnt work all you can do is let her go or wit for her to make the first move 2wards bein friends.
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i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically (link)
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there is no rite or wrong answer to that, it depends how comfort5able you feel around each other. you cant predict things like that they just happen. go round his house with no expectations of what its to happen. go with the flow and try not to worry to much just enjoy the time you spend together.
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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.
Thanks!
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i dont really like to be complimented unless its true. if you truly mean it then you shouldnt have a problem thinking what to say it should just come from your heart!
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
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ok this is your ex, in my experience its best not to go back. he probably still has feelings for but he has a gf which means he may have moved on.if you do feel you want to persue him you need to find out from him what he is feeling, sit down on your own with him and talk just the two of you. try not to pressure him back into a relationship, as i dont think you really want to be the person to break up his current relationship. you said this other guy likes you maybe you would be better off movin on urself and fiding out a little bit more about him. I hope i have helped!
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My boyfriend and I have dated for almost 8 months and i love him like to death, I think were ready to have sex soon, but im all worried b/c my mom is always nagging me about waiting till my junior year at least and not ruining it all. I really love him and feel pretty ready, the thing im scared of most is it hurting....what should i do?
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If it feels right then just go with it your mum will understand, she will be able to give you more advice so make sure you talk to her, i is likely she'd rather know, than not know. Be aware of the legal age, this is there as a guide but also to protect people from bein taken advantage of. Sex for the first time doesnt always hurt, you just need to make sure that you are aroused enough and most importantly use a condom to protect against sti's and PREGNANCY. i hope i have been of help!
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ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!! (link)
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Dont do it! Sex should mean something, this will not do anything for either of you. you will feel nothing but regret and could get a bad reputation. Explain to your friend he needs to think long and hard before giving into peer pressure as this is a desicion that has alot of consequences both mentally and physically for both of you.
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I really like this kid and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone all the time and he says how much he likes me, and he always ends our conversations with, I love you. One problem, he has a girlfriend but he doesnt want to dump her because he doesnt want to hurt her. I really like him what should I do? (link)
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I dont think this guy likes you as much as he says he does. He doesnt want to hurt his gf but at the same time he isnt being honest with her whickh in the long run will hurt her more. You shouldnt be second best to this lad find someone else there are plently of people out there for you.
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How do you avoid a person that likes you but you dont like them back, not even as a friend. But it feels awkward to be around this person! And he just keeps followin you around and asks you if you like him or not and when i say NO then he asks me again and again and he wont stop until he heres the answar he wants but i wont give it to him! NEED ADVICE!!! (link)
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Keep doing as you are doing, you maybe need to tell him on his own just you and him. The only other thing is to give him a chance and get to know him as a friend, although you dont like him now you may find things about him that you do like and have in common. Why should you risk losing someone that appears to care for you quite alot without giving them a chance.
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Ok! I really do like my boyfriend alot!!! But, when he wants to kiss me I get scared, I have never kissed anyone yet! I just am really scared what should I do, I don't want him to think I don't like him? HELP
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The only advice I can give is not to worry. Just relax. Enjoy it you will find it just comes naturally. Or just let him know how you are feeling, he'll understand.
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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?
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still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?
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what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help! (link)
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I have been in this situation before. Do you really want your boyfriends best mate, or are you just looking for a way out of your relationship.
You have already said that he will be really depressed if you tell him, but if he finds out later, will it not hurt him more?
Honesty in this situation is always the way to go if you want to stand any chance of being friends after. Initially he will be hurt but he will respect you for your honesty in the long run.
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