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This might be kinda long and in depth i apreaciate it if you read all of it.

First of all im 19/f and my boyfriend is also 19. We'll call him J. Ok, so J and I have been together for 3 years, four next july. He treats me better than I could ever ask, and does things for me. We planned on getting married and probably having children together. The thing is over the past 2 years I've gotten really sick. I spend alot of time at hospitals and in doctors offices. Ever since six months ago, I've been on treatment for cervical cancer. It's working but the side affects are making me sicker than ever. Some days it's even hard for me to get out of bed. So what I'm getting at.. I always feel so guilty and upset about hurting him because of my sicknesses. I don't feel like a good girlfriend because I can't do some of the things he does for me. He tells me not to worry about it and it'll be worth the wait, but it isn't that simple for me. I feel like he deserves better, someone that can do things for him and make him happy. I know he isn't. I know how bad he wants kids, and now I might not be able to give him that. We don't get to do alot together and we LIVE together. It sucks so bad I don't even know what to do anymore. Any advice would mean alot to me.

Thanks

what i think you should do is just try to help, him get through this even no you r hurting more well anyways tell him if i am not able to give you kids its going to be o.k. because you can always adopt instead of giving you can help a little child who needs caring he will understand if he loves you

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ok i was goin out wit this guy(mark), but then i started talkin to another guy(jake)who livs in another town, and he told me he liked me alot. i kept tellin him that i really like marc, but i ende up dumping marc so i could be with jake. so i hung out with jake a few times, and he was like kissing me and holdin me and holding my hand and stuff like that. i really thought he was gonna ask me out but he didnt. so iv been talkin to him online, and i kinda thought he was just using me, so i asked him and he sed that he liked a girl from his town befor i came but he likes me too. then his friend told me that jake was just using me and he was planning on goin ut with that girl from his town. jake still talks to me though and idk if wat his friend sed was true becuz his freind likes me also. so yaa should i just giv up on jake? was he just using me? wat should i do??

yes you should definalty give up on jake. all he did was use you and touch on you. i think you will have better luck with Mark. jake just said yes that he liked you because he wanted to feel on you and he thought you were pretty. so give jake UP

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there is this guy...his name is max and he lives a few streets away from me and i really like him. I have a feeling he likes me too because he always talks to me, and is so sweet and generous to me. I need some advise on how to make him notice and how to get him to ask me out. HELP!!!

flirt with like be like i got to find you a girlfriend he will be like ok then go through a list and go past your name and then see wat he says

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i really need help, the other day i was really drunk and kissed another guy, and i have a bf..its completley killing me and i feel horrible..should i tell my bf, what should i do? has anyone been in this position before..thanks.

yes but wat i did is i told my boyfriend and said if you love me you will forgive b/c i love you and then he will be like no you don't you kissed another guy and what you say is I WAS DRUNK!!!!! I DIDN'T NO WHAT WAS GOIN ON!!!!!! GOOD LUCK,

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How do I get my boyfriend, (From two years ago) back? We flirt sometimes, but we weren't in classes together last year. He's the perfect guy, like exactly what I look for. I'm great at flirting, and it'll seem like he likes me. But, I want us to go back out again. The new school year will be starting soon, maybe we'll get classes together. Tips?

keep on flirting the more you flirt the more he starts to like you and then he will fall back in love good luck

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Ok. how do you make out? cause i have no idea how to or what it is! can someone tell me what it is and how you do it? I REALLY NEED HELP! and if the person your doing it with knows how will you look like an idiot or can they not even tell?

whoever is wanting to make out with you make sure they kiss you because then you don't have to do anything thats what you need to do if its the first time u made-out or u r goin to make-out

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1)okay so this girl first asks for my email add then my phone number,then one day i waved at her in school and she was absolutely shy and looked down the whole time.Now we are talking on msn.so does she like me?or is she just naturally shy and wants to be just friends?

2)But what i don't get about girls is that you know how some girls are outgoing and super friendly?So she may talk to you a lot and like you or maybe just talk to you cause she is just being friendly to you as she is to the other guys.So is their a way to know?I mean,if a girl talks to a guy a lot,does that mean that she's interested in him?cause it doesn't really make any sense for a girl to talk a lot to a guy since girls mostly mix with girls and vice versa, plus girls mostly talk about girls stuff which guys know nothing of,unless he's gay.

well does she flirt with you just a little or even a lot juss start bein even more friendly that will do the trick and most the time it means she does

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about three months ago my boyfriends friend took advantige of me (sorry if i spelled that wrong) well i still havent told my well now he's my ex boyfriend now but the point is i havent told him and i really want to but i think he knows and thats why we broke up but i still love him so very much how can i tell him both that i still love him and about his bestfriend please help me

you juss need to call him and burst thats wat i would do and then ask him why did he break up with you

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My best guy friend whom I've been crushing on for the past year now has never showed any interest in me. When I know that i am perfect for him it would be the best relationship hes ever had. How do I get him to realize this? or How do I just give up and realize he has to like me back for it to work?

I really need some answers

Thanks

he has to lke you back

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My best friend really liked this guy, he wasnt technically her boyfriend but they have been on and off for about 2 months now because he liked another girl. My friend finally had the last straw and asked him to pick between her and the other girl, and he didnt know what to do. She left for vacation for a week and we started talking...a lot. We both realized we were perfect for each other and another week went by, and we finally decided to tell her. She hung up the phone on my and told him she never wanted to see either of us again. What do i do?!? I dont want to lose my friend but I never get what i want and we both really feel strongly about each other and we want to be together.

well before u did all that u should of asked her first!!!1 but since you have already fallen in love here is what you need to do(is you need to tlk to your friend and tell her how much he means to you,and try to help her understand say your sorry and if that doesn't work say if your going to stop being my friend b/c of a stupid boy than your not a real friend

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My boyfriend is moving to a new school, and ever since then, he has changed a lot...
Before, he cared about me more than anyone I have ever known... but now, he expects me to pay attention to him, understand him, call him every night, and to support him... and everytime I do what he wants me to do, he'll say that I'm too sensitive, and then he'll ignore me. I mean, he doesn't even appreciate my feelings... and he doesn't try to understand me! Why do I have to understand about everything and he doesn't?!
I really really want to break up with him, but I can't... I still love him, and I know... that no one cares about him except for me.. I'm the only person who ever cares about him and understands him, because he's a very lonely person... if I am not there for him, then no one will... and that kills him...
But now, I don't even know what to do... I'm mad at him to the greatest extend and I feel sorry for him at the same time... Because in his life, his parents are always away and I am the very first person who ever makes him happy...
Please, tell me what to do... or at least, tell me what he might be thinking by now.. because I can't stand it!! He loves me but he pays me no mind... help me!!

what you need to do is sit down and tlk to him 101 or on the ohone and say you have to understand my feelings 2 i mean if i am there for you, you should be there for me and if you juss cant do that then it's over!!!!! and if he loves you at all i am sure he will try to change trust me on this 1

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