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alright, so my friend was about to makeout with this guy, but then she froze and had NO clue what to do and just stood there while he started moving his lips. and she's saying how it's not fun andit's probably just gross and stuff. -time for the question- do some people just really stop and have no clue what to do right before a makeout? any sites to help please?? and is it really gross, or fun?

it depends on the person if it's fun or not personally i dont like having someone's spit in my mouth. i dont find it gross i just dont like it. and if someone doesnt have a clue what to do they eventually figure out. the first time i did i just went for it and i had no clue in mind how.

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hey so i like this guy and he lives 2 hrs away from me. and i saw him last weekend and i got nervous when i saw him and didnt know what to say. now he thinks im mad @ him. what should i say to him?? what could i say to him so im not so nervos???

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thanks

just be open and tell him you were nervous. also that you didnt want to seem like an idiot in front of him... im sure he'll understand.

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So, I'm 14 (female) and I've never had even the slightest crush on anyone. I've never done anything with a guy (not even a hug) before either (hense the "ms.innocent" part). Is there something wrong with me? I think I might like someone now, but I'm not sure. You see, I'm extremely shy around people so those butterflies could just be anxiety for me. I was also wondering if there's a way that I could tell if i truely like someone???

every one gets shy there is nothing wrong with it. some people just show it more then others. and some are just lucky enough to suck it in and take trow away being shy. and step into what they fear

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I have a boyfriend and hes 2 years older than me and i know he kissed people. The problem is i never kissed anyone and i dont wanna mess up and like make a fool of myself and i dont want to tell him i never kissed before so i need help !How do you kiss?.. =/
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i know you dont want to but just tell him. sure you'll give him a little giggle but he'll understand if you screw it up. trust me kissing isnt that hard. if you have good aim then you'll have a good kiss. i sujest practicing. maybe take lip stick and make an x on a mirror. and if your lips touch it right on you'll know b/c you'll have lip stick smeared on your face. i know it sounds silly but it works.. thats how i learned ^_~

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how do i know if a guy likes me? i mean, i luvvvv him soso much and he's like...perfect. but tonight he started telling me that he likes this girl and he wants to be with her soso bad and he doesn't know what to do. being an advice conumnist, i gave him my best advice, but it hurt so bad because I want to be with him. what do i do? should i tell him?

thats tough to say... it depends on his personality. if he doesnt get creeped out too easily then tell him. but if he does you might wanna keep it secret.

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Okay so Ive been raped,cheated,used and more in past relationships. But I've know this guy for about 3 years now and weve been dating almost 6 months. Were very close and well I really really think I love him...Is this possible..were sophomores in highschool and weve been best friends ever since 7th grade. We have the same family background and everything. He talks of me being his wife someday..what do you all think?

i think thats sweet! that is really cute. im sure you two would be happy together. but be sure he's not pushing you into something you dont want to do in the future. take a step back for a bit and see what else lays a head. this means see if there is someone else out there for you... but dont let go unless you are really sure... he seems like a perfect match

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Okay so i'm in this choir for my church and there's 5 other girls. And this boy named matt plays gutair and he always is there whenever we are. Well during the summer we went on a retreat. and i started to get these feelings when i was around him. And now i really really like him. But there's this girl lanessa who is also in the choir. she flirts with him all the time right in front of me! and she knows how much i like him to. And we went to a concert last friday right. well he was really wasn't talking to me and everything and i wanted to talk to him. and just get to know him better.. well lanessa was like all over him. sitting right next to him. flirting with him.! everything!! and now i find out that she calls him baby and there gonna go to the movies together!! i guess what i'm trying to ask is what should i do? i really truly like him. almost at the point of loving him!! and i really hurts me soo much. My heart can't take anymore of this. Every guy i've ever liked always screw me over! i've never had a boyfriend or anything! and it suxs!! I just want to know what i should do. so please if anyone has any GOOD advice for me.. please let me know!!!!

JennY!

p>S..I'll rate you for good advice!

you should just come out in the open and tell him how you feel. if you're lucky he'll be distracted from your freind flirting with him. and dont be too shy to tell him. he'll never know unless you alow him.

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What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks!

dating is just going some were specil/cool to see if you actually have feels for that one person. going out is being that with that specail someone as their boy friend or girlfriend.

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ok... well i just recently like a week ago lost the best girlfriend i have had in my life and the best thing that was in my life at the time.. all i think about is her.. doesnt matter what im doin something reminds me of her.. what do i do to get her out of my head???





nick 16

there is really nothing you can do but hope that you are lucky enough to move on in a heart beat like me. if you still care about her it's gonna take some time to move on. this is only because there is still feelings there that you have for her. but try looking for/dating someone else. it might help to move you on.

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okay ive likes this boy for more than 7 months and i dont know wearther or not im in love or not. my symptoms are
-sleepless nights
-24/7 my mind is set on him
-i cry from missing him
-i dream about him
-im miserable without him
-everytime i see him im happy
-i smile everytime i heard someone talking about him
-i can pick him out of the crown in a heart beat
and there's probably more.
could someone please tell me.
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you do love this person... trust me i would know im going threw the same thing. the symptoms are right. talk to your friends its probably written all over your face.

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Ok....I've been talkin to my boyfriend on the phone alot But he ingores me almost all the time!!!!!!...all he does is plays his football/basketball game on his x-box and ingores me!...what should i do dump him or what?!?

well if i was not a tomboy i would say dump him. but truth is girl he's just being a guy. maybe just punch him in the arm and tell him how you feel.

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ok well im not aloud to date n im 13 years old is that like to young to date i mean cmon i am not little ?????

i say stand up to your parents and demand your freedom. i know they mean well but still demand the freedom. heck i started dating when i was in grade 5 even though it was more so puppy love

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ok...i really like this guy...abd he likes me too...he told me him self...but i think h is too shy t ask meout...what can i do so he will ask me out? or do i have to do it myself? lol thank you and i do rate...as long as you dont bull shit me!

as him out. if he is too shy to ask you out then nothing will happen. so make it happen!

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I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?

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it would hurt her but every vergin girl gose through pain on their first time.

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ok well there is this guy at my school he i really like him he isnt in any of my classes but gym and im too shy to talk to him lol but he knows i like him but ive never talked to him i really wont to meet him thought like talk to him... so maybe then he would go out with me but im too scared to talk to him

ok ok we got it that you're scared. but trust me. you should really go and ask him out. there is nothing to lose. if he dosent like you so what. i get rejected all the time... lol

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I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks!

you can't really make a girl love you all you can do is spill out your guts about how you feel for her. i know what it like to feel for that one specil person. and i know you can't replace that feeling. im in love with my closest friend ian and well he only thinks of me as a friend the only thing i can do is sit and wait. if you really wanna convince her take her to the movies or where ever she likes to go.

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hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do?

just come out. if he hates you then you really have nothing to lose. trust me i've kept things secret and its screawed me over befor in having a relationship with a girl i really like during the school year.

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Hello im 13 and I got this HUGE crush on my step-dads friends son who came to TX for vacation. Hes 16 but were only 3 years apart when you think about it. It seems really far away now. Anyways he stayed over for a week and a half. We were hanging out watching TV, fishing, playing with the dogs thats stuff. And he just went back up to Cali. I fell in love with him and I cannot get him off my mind. I dream about him, think about him like a million times a day, ask my step-dad constantly when he'll visit again. Im in MAD love and I have no clue what to do.
How do I get him off my mind?

-Jessica

just ask him out. just because you like this guy dosent mean you have to get him off your mind. its ok to be in love. just go for it. what is there to lose?

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Hey, please help.
Right there are these two guys I know and really like!!! One of them lives in France and is 16; he came to our school as way to improve his English and we really clicked!!! I miss him loads but we e-mail. Also there is another guy I know who is 21 and we have loads in common ad he has completely stolen my heart with poetry! I told Tom (French guy)that I was going out with this other guy and that I am in love. The thing is I love them both and I now feel guilty and I just don't know what to do!!!

Extra:I'm 15 and in Yr11.

Please help me I will rate, but i'm really confused!!!!

first of all do what ever your heart wants. or listen to your heart i know it sounds corney but it works. if you can stand long distance relation ships then date tom(your french cutie. but if you can't really hold a long distance thing. then go out with the guy that is 21 years old. dont let your self be confused with two diffrent guys.

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My boyfriend and I are going to seperate schools next year and I think its going to be hard to stay in touch alot but we both really want to stay together because we love each other alot.. does anyone have any tips that will keep us from drifting apart?

you guys wont drift apart. you'll just not be seeing each other for that much. but anyways e-mail, phone, and really specil nights out work.

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