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hEy! my names katie..i tell the truth and i dont lie..im very blunt and outspoken about things..if you dont like it im sorry thats just how i am..if you have a question feel free to ask..

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im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do?

Have you talked with him how you feel? if not you definately need to. just sit down with him and tell him all your thoughts and that what he's doing is hurting you. tell him how much you need him in your life more than anything right now..im sorry about he's like that to you..good luck sweetie!

x3 katie

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I really like this one guy he flirts a whole bunch with other girls but he respects me more then the other girls as far as i know. do u all think its better to be respected of flirted with?

definately respected..if a guy doesnt repect you hes totally not worth it

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well lets see.. im in the 8th grade and im a girl..and im 14 1/2..and i lyke this guy whose in the 7th grade.. hes like 13 almost 14. well im going to high skool soon and im really gonna miss him. he doesnt kno that i like him. but i have this strong feeling that he might like me bak.im not sure how to tell though.and i dont kno if i should tell him.please help me. how can i tell if he likes me bak?and should i tell him or should i wait?if you guys need any more info let me kno

definately tell him how u feel..if you wait or dont tell him..somebody else might get to him before you do

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i really like this guy... and i think he likes me to. the problem is we never c each other at school. he sugests that we talk on the fone, but im too shy to do that. i want something to happen between us, but how do i get over that shyness?

hey..dont even think about him being the guy you like when youre on the phone..just think of him as a friend..its really not a big difference..you should try n go places with him and hang out with him more ...once you get use to him you wont be so shy anymore..

x3 katie

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im 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend or even a kiss. the thing is i want one but, when people like me i say no because i want the one that i like and thats all. the thing is how do i get the person i like to like me back? but they may like some one else.thanks

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hey!..well you should find someone who shares something in common with you..that way you would be able to have conversations about stuff like that and if that person got to know you..they might start liking you..you need to try and get really close to them!

x3 katie

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i've liked this kid from a different town for like half a year but i didnt realize it until recently. he started acting really flirty and i started to like him more. and then i told him about a week ago. i havent really talked to him much since, he hasnt really been online. one of my friends says maybe his computer crashed or something, because he was really nice and wouldnt just avoid me but i dont know. any help?

hey!..maybe hes just busy..ive had situations like this before and it always seems like its something more than what it really is..dont worry about it..just talk to him when u get the chance and find out where the two of you stand..youll feel alot better

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ohk so i have liked this guy already for about a year. he says he likes me too but i dont think he does cuz one day he acts like it and the next day he dont. he keeps getting my hopes up and it hurts cuz i noe he's just messing me. he also keeps flirting with one of my best friends, and with everyone else he also tells them every single thing he says to me. so i am hurting so bad. what should i do ?

Hey!..try not to think about it..the more you think about him the worse its gonna get..if he says the same thing to you as he does other girls..u shouldnt even be wasting your time!..find someone who will treat you like u deserve..


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my crush doesnt like me anymore and i loved him now that i found out im hurtin so bad. i feel like my world has ended. i wanna cheer up help! f/13

heya girl!..sorry about what happened!..try not to be so upset..i know its hard at first, but ya know you're more than likely not gonna find true love at 13..you may be sad for a while..but just go out with friends or go to movies..things like that to get your mind off of him and eventually the pain will go away...


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ok well, im a girl,im 15 and im a freshman, i started doing track in december and i met this guy that i really liked and it turned out that he liked me too so we started talking on the phone and then he asked me out in jan., he was really the first boyfriend i ever had, when we started going out, i didnt tell my parents because they dont really want me to date until i turn 16 because they are quite over protective, so he stated waiting for me after every class and walked me to class and he always talked to me online and told me how much he missed me when i wasnt with him or talked to him, and he told me he loved me everytime we hung up the phone or left eachother and we never really hung out outside of school or track, so one day i waited for him like i always did and he didnt meet me where we usually did and it was valentines day, i thought that maybe he just wasnt in school, so then i saw him at lunch and he didnt even look at me, so then that day at track i asked him if he was mad at me and he said no, and then didnt talk to me for the rest of the day, so then he began to avoid me everyday and didnt really talk to me that much anymore, then i found out that my best friend sue* liked him and he had gone over her house one day and they talked on the phone like all the time, so i asked him about it and he was like i still really like you im just mad at the fact that you didnt tell your parents when we started going out, and he told me that i never talked to him on the phone even though i did, then i was like are we still even like going out and for like a couple of weeks he was like idk, but i still like you, so one day i was like its a yes or no are we going out and then he said no i guess and then two weeks later he asked out my best friend Sue*..i dont kno what to think, did he ever like me in the first place, or is he just trying to cover up that fact that he still likes me, i have been trying to move on, but its hard because i dont know if it was something that i did wrong and if it is, i dont want it to happen again, can you please help me, im so confused, thanks so much

he probably only said no because he knew that you found out about him and your friend..more than likely he still likes you, but by saying that you guys dont go out made him look good cus he had ur friend and your not with him anymore..and also if he had the nerve to do that to you then u shouldnt be stuck on him! i dont know you but you deserve better than that..everyone does..hope i could help..

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i really like this girl and i dont kno if she likes me...and i dont kno if i should like anyone right now cus i want to be single for the summer time..but i really liek this gilr and if we went out into the summer time then we would hang out alot and we'd she eachother everyday..but idk..help me out

tell her how u feel & if she feels the same way..then ask her out..if not just continue being friends and dont try to rush into it or it might make it awkward since you guys are friends already

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ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop?

tell them to stop..and if they dont talk to ur gf and tell her how u feel about it..if she doesnt do anything to make them stop then you need to be the one to do something about it

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How do you start a conversation with the guy you like? What makes the conversation interesting? What should i talk about? And how do i keep the conversation lasting? Answer all please! i rate 5s and comment

dont worry about what to say or u wont be able to say anything! just be yourself and relax and youll be fine..guys can normally tell when youre nervous and it might make things awkward..u got it girl

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