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I really need someones opinion cos i cant figure this out. me and my guyfriend talk more everyday and now we're pretty close and i know i like him more than a friend. But i dont know if he likes me that way. He makes fun of me a lot and says hes kidding when i get annoyed. and he doesnt make fun of other girls that hes friends with. and he stares at me ALL THE TIME. what should i do? It seems like he likes me sometimes but i dont want to do anything that would ruin our friendship especially if he doesn't really like me.
thanx soo muchh (link)
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go around and ask his guyfriends if he likes you then if they say yes you should go and ask him out
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Firstly, I'm a freshman in college right now. Right before school ended this past year, a 20 yr old guy started leaving me messages on myspace. He's a US marine, and he was in Iraq at the time. He said he was from my hometown, and was feeling lonely, just wanted to get to know some new people from the area. So I messaged back and forth for a while. Then we started IMing each other. And right before I left for school, he started calling on the phone. He came home on leave the day I left for school. We had made plans to get together while he was home; he even agreed to drive an hour to see me at school. When it came time for him to come visit the first time, he said sry, I have something to do tomorrow, and since I"m representing the Marines, I wanna look and feel my best, so I"m not gonna come see you (he wouldn't have gotten home till like 2 am) - so that's totally acceptable. He called the next day saying he felt so bad, was I mad at him? don't be mad blahblahblah...but I was fine with that. The next weekend, he was supposed to come up again, it was the day before he was gonna be deployed to OKinawa. He was getting a hotel room with some buddies to party it up before he went back, and said I could join them. I said I really didn't feel comfortable going off campus to a hotel room with a bunch of guys I've really never met before. He said that was understandable, so he'd just come to my dorm and chill for a while, and then I could decide if I wanted to go offcampus with him or not. He said he would call when he got in the area. But he never called. As soon as he got to OKinawa, he called and said he was so sorry, he had flight problems, don't be mad at him, his life has been really stressful, and he can understand why I would be frustrated, but don't be mad at him. I told him I wasn't, and it was all good. He keeps leaving me messages on AIM at night while I"m sleeping (14 hr time difference) and he just called again a coupel nights ago, but other than that, I really haven't talked to him in over a month. He said he's coming home for Christmas (I will be home from school as well) and he wants to get together then. Should I give him the chance after he totally blew me off last time? He really seemed eager to meet me, both last time he was home, and talking about CHristmas, so I can't believe he just didn't feel like it. My mom says maybe he got scared, but I can't imagine what he would have to be scared of...? PLease help, thanks
--18 yr old college freshman (female) (link)
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i think maybe you should give him a chance to get to know you he is always traveling and doesnt have time to really talk to people and his life has to be stressful and maybe he was scared i mean he probably has not had a friend thats a girl (not a girlfriend like dating or anything) so i think maybe you should meet up with him at Christmas it would mean a lot to him
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A guy that I'm friends and I know had feelings for me (but is shy) has been acting really strange around me.
For example, when he is alone with me he is sweet, attentive, kind, and likes to tease me. However, he acts totally different around his guy friends. We (me and another friend) planned a suprise birtday party for him. When he showed up at the restaurant he told me to sit a couple of tables down from him and his best friend. They got him some gross gifts from the porn shop and I think he was embarrased. Whenever I tried talking to him he couldnt look me in the eye, and when he did talk to me he wouldnt look me in the face. Do you think he was embarrassed of his friends and he was trying to protect me from being hurt? Or is there another reason for his behavior? (link)
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sometimes guys are just like that when they are alone with you they can be really fun and sweet but when they are around their friends they don't want you to be made fun of and they don't want to be made fun of either
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Why is it that all the questions on here are about relationship problems? Don't people realize theres more to life then the opposite sex?
Anyway, I actually do have a question. ha.
17/F ... college next year!
I was wondering what everyones take on college is? I think I'm going to look for an all girls college. Are there many around? Does anyone know of any good ones? If there are boys around I will get distracted and won't do my work. I can wait for a boy, I dont need one when I'm in college. I want to get great grades and do all my work constantly.
Also, do you think this will effect how I view my college experience? Part of the actual experience is dorm life, parties, etc. Do you think I will regret choosing an all girls school when I'm rolling in money because I stuck to my studies? (link)
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well there are some good all girls colleges around one really good one that one of my friends sister goes to is meredith and trust me you will not regret getting your work done
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I have a question about men. I want to have children some day but havent found the right guy yet. When I do find a guy that I like, what are some signs that could tell me whether or not he would make a good father?
Also, is it a bad sign if the man is already in his mid 40's and has never had any children? Is there still a chance he might want kids at that age? I am 26 and know a guy that is 45 and I think he likes me, but he has never had kids. (link)
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well i think you should maybe find another guy younger closer to your age because when you have children think about how old he will be i mean that will be sorta old for someone having children so i hope my advice works
signed, roxyhollister101
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Ok, so I'm pretty sure that I love my gf, and a friend told me she loved me. But I don't know if he was telling the truth. I want to bring it up but I don't know how I can tell if she does. If I say it and then she doesn't say it back, well I wouldn't know what to do, it would just be out there and then everything would be awkward. What
should I do? Do i just tell her or wait to see if she loves me, then tell her. Sorry I'm just confused.
Thanks, I'll rate high for good advice. (link)
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well it sounds like your friend is serious but when you have just some time to go up to her just kinda like run up to her and hug and pick her up and say i love you so much your the best and see what she says if she sas no its ok just give her time and maybe she will feel the way you do just don't break up with her though if she doesnt love you
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okay theres this guy and i went out with him in the 6th grade and part of the 7th and we went out 4 a year and i told him that i loved him and i ment it the only thing is that wen we broke up he moved and i cant get over him but i have a boyfriend now and i realli dont want to tell him but i think he should no i still have feelings 4 my first love (( i guess i can put it that way)) but i realli dont no how to tell him. and the thing is wen i think about him (( first love)) i almost if not cry and i cant get over him and ive tryed and tryed but i cant and my friend says that itll get better and that everyone has more than 1 love but i cant get over my first. and my other friend told me no one can get over there first love. and none of it helps realli well my best friend did help me some but i still cant get over him and its been 1 year sence we broke up :\ (link)
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well you're in a tough place but i think you should approach your boyfriend maybe tell him all about your other boyfriend he will more than likely understand what you are going through and if he doesn't take it as well as you think and he starts acting funny just tell him its not the best time for you to have a boyfriend maybe later
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