Q: my friend is a 12/f
she is dating a 16/m

they have been hiding it from EVERYONE for a month a 3 days. they want to wait to tell their parents when they think the time is right.

so she told me that if they ever wanted to kiss or be alone they had to go into a closet at their church.

so do u have any advice for her. thank you in advance.

Q: DETAILS****i told her i liked her about a week ago,and things arent really awkward wich is awesome.But i dont know where to take it from here,i need someone that has experience to help me.thank you

,Declan

Q: Hi :3 Long im sorry but please take the time to read >.<

Well,to start off I'm very shy and very insecure about myself. I have a boy friend who I adore and love more than anyone..maybe even more than myself..sad to say but true. He means every thing to me..I depend on him. He treats me SO well, he reminds me a lot of myself..but he has had a worse life than I have. Which makes me feel even worse, that I feel so bad for myself sometimes. He's very sensitve, he is a pacifist, he doesn't want to hurt anyone, he does his best at everything and he needs me and loves me just as much as I need him, but you see we've been threw a almost sucide attempt..with him because he started to like someone else..he promised me he wouldnt ever do that to me and he said its all his fault..but I stopped him before he could do anything. Now not long ago people have been saying that he and his friend Jackie (which likes him, is all over him even though she has a boyfriend)were kissing and flirting, which my boyfriend confronted the people who were saying this stuff about it..because he wouldnt lie to me he's very hoenest..his friend he hangs out with told me that there was nothing going on..and the people who were saying stuff were people who disliked my boy friend..and the girl who was saying stuff was apparently mad because my boy friend told her off once to..because she liked him? It's all so confusing I know..but I don't know how to keep the fear of him leaving me out of my mind..i get so depressed..and I want him in my life,for as long as he wants me..I just don't know how I can be more secure? He's doing everything he's fighting for me..and why can't I just accept it? I feel like im a horrible gf :/

Q: Me (female) and Tucker (male) have been dating three years. We have not done anything besides hug and hold hands. We have kept our relationship a secret and noone knows about. tomorrow is my birthday and he says he wants to kiss real bad. So I dont know what too do. Is our relationship going anywhere? I mean I really love him but we have a sorta you know friend relationship but we are in love. Should I break up with him or stay with him. Thanks for the help.

Q: Here's the story. I'm fourteen (girl) and my boyfriend is sixteen. We've been dating for seven months. We started off so perfect. It wasn't until he got really sick that things started to change, about two months ago. He started being moody and cranky all the time, even after he healed. I felt like he didn't like me like he used to. We fought all the time and it was horrible, I annoyed him and he just pissed me off. We almost broke up one time but he said he would try again. He did. Things got so much better. But this morning (after he had had a horrible night) we got in a little stupid fight and i said something that my friend had told me to say a long time ago. I said something like "if you don't change im gonna break up with you" i defintiely didn't mean it, and i shouldnt have said it, and he said "then were done". He broke up with me thru text... I was SOO mad. He then tries to say that he will do it in person but i didn't want to give him that satisfaction, I was so angry. So I said some horrible things. I said "f*ck you" and that i hated him. I was just so astonished that he actually did it! I saw him once at school today and I almost started crying. It was horrible. I've been crying all day now and weve been talking about on the phone. His reasons didn't make sense and the explanations didn't match up. One second he'd say something like "I never started trying" and the next he would say "I was trying but I got tired of working too hard" and the next he would say "Its not that I couldnt try, I didn't want to" nothing was making sense and I couldnt go five minutes without crying. I know I made myself into a fool. I said I know we should break up, but that I don't want to. I dont want to break up. We realized something though. We don't just wanna throw seven months away on a dumb ten minute arguement where we both said things we never meant to say... he said he isn't sure though, that he wants to think about it. But we continued then to talk like we normally do. I don't know what to do now... We aren't together... but we arent broken up really... I don't know what I can do to make this work. I want it to work so bad. I feel like I need hiim. I think about not texting him tomorrow night, not hanging out with him later this week and I almost can't bear it. I need this to work out. What can I say? What can I do??

Q: Should I let my boyfriend finger in me public? He has fingered me lots of times before but it's always been in my bedroom or his when we sleepover. He says it would make him really happy to finger me in public but I'm not sure if that's OK even. He promised he'd wash his hands before to make sure they were clean. Should I let him?

Q: 17/F

While I was dating my boyfriend (beginning of the school year), I became really close with one of my guy friends, who became one of my best friends. It got to the point where, as my relationship with my boyfriend came to an end, I really fell for him, HARD. He left his date at homecoming to dance with me the whole night (they went as friends so she was okay with it) and I continued to have the biggest crush on him.

However, for the past couple of months it has gotten really weird. We can't be alone together without it being awkward, or quiet. We went snowboarding with some friends and he BEGGED me to sit with him on the ski lift, but when I did he wouldn't really talk to me. It's gotten to the point where, although my friends think he has interest in me, I think I'm doing something wrong?

How do I fix my relationship with him? I miss being able to talk to him about everything, and when I try to bring up how we used to be, he just nods and agrees but doesn't really seem to notice/care.

Q: Okay, so my friends all call me a player. Mostly beacuse I can never stay with a guy for to long, but heres the thing. I started talking to this kid, joe, and i think im really starting to fall for him. its just wierd cause im not used to being this attachted to someone.. usually when i start to get attatched, i end up making up some excuse and leave. I really dont want to do it, it just happens.. How can i overcome being a "player" and give this kid a chance ?

please hellp me, thankkkks (:

Q: 18/f

I have a guy best friend. We met in September and instantly bonded, we tell eachother everything. In this case, everything includes helping eachother with relationship problems. He really likes this girl and I've been helping him with what to do (ex: helping him with conversaion starters and basically just boosting his morale do actualy do something about it). I didn't think anything of it before, but recently I started feeling slightly differently towards him. I stated liking as more than just a friend. The thing is, I'm not exactly atracted to him sexually, I just really love our friendship. This is where it becomes slightly awkward; I've been having lots of dreams concerning him lately (and another guy too because I've liked him for years, but that's beside the point). The other night I drempt we were in the middle of foreplay and basically getting ready to have sex. I woke up sweating and wet and rather confused I might add. I've never thought about him in that way, and as akward as it was, it was kind of an 'i wonder' feeling. I really don't know what to do now. Do I like him or am I just curious? I could really use a second opinion. I'd normally ask a friend, but he's the friend I usually ask so that's out of the question. Thanks.

Q: When me and my boyfriend are sitting down, we hold hands. Well i love holding hands with him, its just something he does that weirds me out! he like holds my hand and he puts our hands on his knee and slowly moves our hands towards his crotch! i dont know if he is purposley doing it or not! does anyone know what i am talking about??? or what his intentions are?? oh gosh.

Thank you verrryy much!! :D

p.s. any answers will help

Q: there was a guy, screwed me over

didnt talk to eachother for a while.
then became very good friends again, took things farther again. & i got hurt once again, he did the same thing, and ran back to the same girl, when he said he wouldnt.

the thing is, i kinda figured that would happen but i gave him a chance, because i wanted to trust him. obviously i shouldve listened to myself.

now i told him we couldnt be friends.
i havent talked to him in a month, but its hard seeing him around, and not talking to him or even looking at eachother.

i want to forgive him, but i just dont know if i should, or even if i can.
how do you know if you should?

i really miss being friends with him, im just scared things wont be the same.

i try to keep him outta my mind, but its soo hard, not to think about him.

i just really need someone to talk to about it, i guess.

any opinions or advice,
guys and girls.


please..im just so completely confused about what to do, and im sick of thing about it :/

Q: fall in love with you or have some kind of feeling from beening hate you???
this guy use to like me a lot but i turn him down now he starts to hate me sooo much, but how do i make him like me again?

Q: I am joining cheeleading very soon, and well that and my academic team will take up alot of time, in my life were I can't text my almost boyfriend. I don't want to loose him, or I don't wanna stop giving him all day attention, but i've always wanted to be a cheerleader and here is my time. I joined the school academic team when school started so i can't do anything about that, that takes up 2hrs a week (mondays and wensdays) but cheerleading takes up to about 2 hours a day (every day) and then 1 game per week. What time do I have for him??

Q: Ok so there is this guy that I dated last year but had to break up with him because of parents. They told me not to talk to him just hi bye stuff only. But i talk to him anyway but got caught txtn him so he cant text me but we talk at school. Anyway he told me that he loved me and other stuff, but my friend(i guess you could call her that) asked me if she should date him and that he told her that he liked her A LOT. So last month i told her to ask him if her still liked her because he told me that he didn't like her. She asked and he said yes that he still liked her. So I yelled at him and asked him why he lied to me. He said i'm sorry what can i do to make you still like me. Then he said I won't even talk to her. So i said ok. Well he asked me to kiss him like 2 days ago I said maybe. I never did but my friend asked me again if she should date him because he asked her again. So I told her he said he liked me. Then she asked him who he liked more and he said her. And I BET money that if i asked him that he'd say me. So I am really confused now because this guy lied to me and told me that he loved me and that i was the only girl he liked, but told her that he liked her more. I don't want to ask him but I AM SO MAD. Help me!!

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