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background:im 16/f
bf is 15/m
been dating 1 week short of 6 months.
live 30 mins away, and see each other once on the weekends.
do u think its weird that i told my bf i love him on april 27 and he didnt say it back because he said he wasnt ready.and he still hasnt said anything?
its fine that hes not saying it because i take sayin " i love you" seriously and all.but i just think its weird he hasnt said it.i dont want to push him. but i'd like another guys opinion.
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you gotta remember boys mature a lot slower than girls. he's probably just scared and/or might even love you just doesnt even know what it is. dont take it as him trying to be mean, he's just scared probably.
if he shows you he cares and you guys have lasted this long you dont need to actually hear the words to know it's true.
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so my boyfriend sometimes says things like tomorrow we're going shopping...what kinda ring do you want? or you're perfect lets get married...or That finger would look even more beautiful with a big diamond ring on it...and stuff like that. is he just joking around or does he really want to get married? i'm 17 and he's 19 which is legal where i live but we've only been together for a few months and i deffiently don't want to get married but he says he loves me and blah blah blah...so i dont know what to think/say when he says stuff like this. I usually just laugh or something but yeah...it kinda weirds me out. (link)
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tell him it weirds you out. tell him to stop mentioning it or else it will never happen, and that IF and when youre ready you'll bring it up to him.
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ok this is kinda bad i know but here goes. i'm 17/f and theres this guy i met online who's 20 (its legal where i am) We talked for awhile and he said all of this stuff about how he really liked me and i was amazing and beautiful and i wasn't really sure that i liked him but i liked being liked so i kept talking to him. I was his friend on facebook, along with about 70 other highschool girls with skanky pictures who he still talks too, but anyways he started talking dirty to me and we exchanged some pictures and such and eventually we met up. By this time i liked him too. We hung out for awhile..went to a movie and dinner...and then in his car...yeah....lol i feel like a slut but whatever.
And now he's saying stuff like he wants to have a threesome with my mom or my sister or one of my friends. and he talks to all of these skanky girls on facebook. But he also says stuff like i want to get you pregnant so you're stuck with me, i wanna be with you for ever, i wanna marry you, i want you to move in with me, and even...ugh i love you.
He swears all this stuff he says is true and he seems pretty sincere but if i'm the only girl for him like he's said then why is he still talking to so many other girls and wanting to have a threesome? (link)
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he is a loser and a half. you dont need him. no one who cares about someone threatens with pregnancy, first of all. second of all youre right about skanky girls being a warning sign.. he doesnt care about you he cares about getting booty. and thirdly, you wont get this until youre older but he is a huge loser if he is going for younger girls. believe me. please get away from him. you'll find another guy even older if that's the only kind you prefer who can treat you right. take it from me he doesnt love you he just loves to fuck you. tell him you forgot to tell him you have a boyfriend that has a gun or something. hahaha. (joking about that last part)
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I love my boyfriend and I have been going out with him for more than two months, lets just say three months. I made the play and there is this really hot gothic boy that I think Im starting to crush on who is also in the play. He admitted to liking me. We hug all the time and talk real flirty to eachother. The only thing is, I might not see him again after the play is over. Should I break up with my boyfriend to go out with him or stay with my boyfriend who I love more than anything?
Also, is it wrong to like someone else when you have a boyfriend? (link)
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it's questionable that you "love your boyfriend more than ever" if you are crushing on another guy. it's not necessarily a bad thing, but it's just true. cuz liking another guy is spreading some of your love to someone else, so that's not loving your current boyfriend more than anything.
the fact that you think another guy is cute and are flirting with him means that youre not completely true to your current man and that's a sign that you're questioning the relationship. have a talk with him about where the future of your relationship may lay, or just break up with him.
see exactly what you "love more than anything" about your boyfriend and exactly what new goth boy may be able to offer you now that your current boyfriend may not be able to or maybe doesnt anymore.
be true to your feelings and your heart.
it could go either way. but you do decide to stay with your boyfriend it really isn't a good sign/idea to flirt with someone else. to pick him would mean you dont have a crush on goth boy anymore and like everything he offers you. if you really love someone, trust me, you have no desire to want someone else. like i said, just be true to what you're feeling. it's up to you.
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i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me (link)
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sorry for the delay.
it's not bad of you to have negative feelings toward him now. lying is very important and it is completely normal and warranted for you to feel the way you feel.
questioning your feelings for your ex is also normal, but it also means that you're already detaching yourself slightly from your current boyfriend. i know this situation sweetheart, i've been in it. it sounds like you have all the ingredients you need to break up with him or at the very least have a very serious talk about the future of your relationship. also, ask your ex if he's thinking what you're thinking.
good luck, and remember be honest. honesty is one of the most important parts of a successful relationship. it might be hard but it feels good after you do it, trust me. because you're doing the right thing in being true to yourself and true to the state of your relationship. not to mention your maybe-feelings for your ex.
just follow your heart and do what you know is right. maybe you only feel like you're rushing it with your ex because you're still tied down with your current boyfriend.
it really sounds to me like you should end the relationship. it will hurt and you may want some time with your ex just as friends to make sure you're not "on the rebound." but if you want to jump right in and discuss with your ex if you just wanna hook up or actually go out, then go for it.
just feel it out.
good luck, and if you can i'd really like to know if this advice helped you and what becomes of your relationship : )
Louise
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my boyfriend and i had a fight last night- i was mad at him and this morning i got a text asking: is this it? is this over? wat should i say? i dunno if he wants to im so confuzed plz help! (link)
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Sit down with him and talk in person. There is nothing worse than having painful fight-related talks through IM or cell phones.
Tell him exactly what you like and don't like about the relationship. This may sound silly but it really does work to use "I" statments so he doesn't feel like you are attacking him. For example "I feel ____ when ___ happens."
Being honest in a relationship is the most important thing. If you really want to break up with him, which it sounds like you don't, tell him and tell him why. But when you're in a fight it's actually a perfect time to talk about all aspects of the relationship. Because this way you know what you both can improve on and work on to make it the best relationship it can be.
If you do wanna be with him, tell him why. Explain why you're mad at him but tell him that losing him is not the solution either.
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ok soo.
me and this guy, Allen, have been i guess "talking" for about a week or so.
and we are ALWAYS together at school.
like, after every single class he waits on me.
and we always write each other notes and stuff.
and he comes up my house all the time and we go to the movies, or go eat or something.
he's told me he lkes me, and he knows i like him. and he calls me like everyday.
but he wont ask me out..... ?
it's killing me. lol
why wont he?
btw, hes a senior. im a freshman.
is that why? (link)
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you could ask him.
or you could just keep doing what you're doing because you're basically dating, there is just no label.
honestly the fact that youre a freshman definitely might have something to do with it. boys are stupid, especially in high school, and they're worried about their image.
you should just talk to him about it.
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im 18 and i need some advice iv been with my boyfriend 2 years now in april 2006 he had a bad bike crash he cant walk we've tryed to have sex he got a hard on but couldnt get it up me what can i do to help and when we do foreplay he always makes me cum but i cant make him cum has anyone got any tips i could use to make him cum HELP PLZ (link)
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IM me at sykochik43 . I'll give you some tips.
or email me at pseudospork@gmail.com
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my name is Rachel and iam a junior which is the 11th grade and this boy that i like is in the 9th grade and he's 15 and iam 17,but the problem is that he's black and my parents are really racist about racial dating what should I do?
please help me. (link)
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you're 17 years old and that's old enough to make your own decisions.
don't let your parents get in the way of how you feel about somebody. you not dating him because your parents don't like that he's black is the same thing as you not dating him because he's black. you see what i mean?
they can't really say anything to you. parents, especially at your age, like to be as threatening as possible when you're doing something they don't like because it isn't long before their say won't even enter into your mind at all cuz you'll be all on your own. but they know that if you wanna do it they ultimately can't do anything to stop it.
honestly, i'd just not say anything else to your parents about it and start dating him. if they ask again then you can either be honest and say whatever i'm gonna do what i want or lie. either way, dont NOT date him just because of what your parents think.
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Is there any way to be prepared for your first kiss? I know I should bring chapstick and mints... anything else? How should I act when we are done kissing? be silent? laugh? smile? what??? i'm so confused. any way to practice kissing so that I dont look like a total dork in front of the guy? thanks! (link)
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Honestly, there isn't a very good way to practice. Ain't nothin like the real thang, baby.
Anyway..
Just be relaxed and go with it. You've seen kisses 1000's of times on tv and movies so you get the general idea. Even if the first kiss isn't the best, I know for a fact it'll get better from there.
Afterwards he'd probably like it if you looked into his eyes, smiled, and said "i liked that." or just say "i liked that" with your eyes and he'll probably kiss you again. haha.
good luck sweetheart, you'll be fine.
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