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I am 13, brown hair, brown eyes, I live in Oklahoma. I am about 5"3 and weigh 100 pounds. I can give the best advice EVER!!
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Location: oklahoma
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Age: 13
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KAyyyy. So I've been dating this boy
for about 6 months. And every once and a
while we'll go tot he movies and I'm not big on
PSA - Public Show of Affection. So, anyway.. we're not going to sit there and makeout. But whats some cute stuff I can do ? I remeber a couple weeks ago we sat there and laughed about each others dimples and he kisses my forhead when i say something silly. (link)
well yes, it should come naturally. but what i usually do is lay my head on his shoulder and wrap my arm around his stomach. if you just give him a few pecks on the neck, then i dont think thats too much affection in public. i hope i helped!!


i just why do teen love franchkissing? (link)
because we aren't having sex, so we know we won't regret doing it. its pretty much safe but still sexy at the same time. it's a chance for us to get to be close to our boyfriend or girlfriend. the mouth-to-mouth concept is pretty much in our DNA. we don't know why we like it, we just do.


every boyfriend iv ever had has beet me up.they have choked me,kicked me,punched me.chased me and jumped me,some of my guy friends have hit me with bats and the list gos on and on.i have NEVER had a boyfriend who hasent.there has to be somthing wrone with me because even some of my guy friends have beet me up. whats my problem that i always get beet up.13/f im currently single (link)
umm...this doesnt seem to likely!! but, you should try being sweet to them, dont pick on them, and dont talk about it or expect it to happen!!!!!!


So I'm kind of .. "in love," i guess, with this boy, but he's ALOT older than I am.. well, not alot, but he's in his 20's and i'm in my middle teens, so. yea. But he seems so perfect, he's so sweet, we both love eachothers company & i am fully comfortable with him. We've gone all the way & he still wants me around as much as possible. But I don't know if his motives are what I've come to believe seeing as he's older. my parents don't want me seeing him, because of the age difference, but I always want to be with him & he seems to love my company even when we're just lying next to one another. Is this right, or is he bad news? (link)
Good/Bad news. Think about it: what NORMAL guy in his 20's wants to hang out with a girl your age??!! but, maybe hes different and your guys' relationship sounds fun. tell him to wait till your older, if he doesnt like that idea, then hes not ready to be in love with you. if he say okay, then your good!!


15/f

okies hey

i've met this guy in the year below me
well we hit it off right away and i really like him and it clear he likes me too , which im really thrilled about :) but the trouble is he is only 13 right now, he does look older though and is mature for his ages. he is just 1 year 3 months younger.

is this too young for me?

please help. xxx (link)
age isnt anything but a number
but maturity level matters, if hes up to your level, and you like him, DATE HIM!!


ok, so i am completely in love with this boy for the past 2.5 years. we are on a swim team together and that is the only time we see each other, so everyday. plus meets. these are some of the things he did. what is your opinion, does he like me? (hes really shy)

he stares into my eyes a lot

he layed his head on my lap, of all the girls that were there... but i was the closest cuz i sat next to him

in a game of sharks and minnows he went for me and grabbed me hard by the wrists and kept me underwater instead of forcing me up. then when i pushed off the bottom to get air he asked if i liked his tactics.

he blew on my face when we were lying next to each other at a swim meet

he sometimes "steals" my sunglasses, but not from my face, but he def. know there mine

we went to a dance once, but it was one of those "girls ask the guys". he said well go as friends, but we didnt know each other as well then, and it was a long time ago, but we danced with each other for practicly the whole dance, but he did go dance with this one girl that he went to homecoming with, and who he supposedly used to like... i dont know if he still does but he might

when we were lying next to each other, he moved hand was lying against my forhead on a pillow, then he said sorry i'm punching you in the face, and moved it down towards my nose so it was touching. than he probly felt me breathing on his hand, cuz he asked if his hand smelt good, and i smelled it, and almost kissed it (lol!) and he didnt move it away.


but otherwise we dont talk much, like we never had a conversation, but as i said he is really shy around me. but with other girls he is fine, but with the girl he supposedly might like he talks alot to her, but not as much as he used to. now there just friends. but she doesnt like him.



so ya based everything that i told you, does he like me? and how should i give him hints that i REALLY like him without scaring him?








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sounds like somebody likes you!! just take it slow!!


I get really shy around a lot of people. I hate it, because when i'm around a guy I really like I get shy. How do I become less shy. I hate it!!! I really need help. I hardly talk to people cuz i'm sooo shy. Someone please help,
And guys please tell me how I can talk to guys and not sound like an idiot. Lol. Like what should I say? I don't want to come off too strong or like be too shy, please help. Thanks a bunch!! (link)
Just be confident, but not cocky, because that is the biggest turn-on for anybody!!


there was this guy that saw my picture on myspace and messaged me for my screename. he would say dirty things to me, and tell me i was sooo sexy and he wanted to hang out with me and that he wanted to see me and all this stuff. he also left this message on my phonee saying how hot i was and stuff. he went to my school but i never really talked to him before this - he just saw my myspace pictures and kept messaging me and IMing me every time i got on. after he kept IMing me for a couple days saying i was sexy and crap, he started saying really gross stuff like he wants to have sex with me and that i could touch his penis and stuff. then he told me he smokes marijuana, which i find really pathetic. why do guys act like this? he hasn't even talked to me in real life, just seen my pictures. what should i do? (link)
okay you're dealing with a freak!! not all guys are like this. some guys find that pathetic too. the freaky guy you're dealing with is considered a PREDATOR. report it to the cops, but first, look over your myspace to make sure it doesnt have stuff on it you wouldnt want your mom to see. set your profile to private, where only people you add can see it. that way, it will stop the messaging!!


How can a relationship last if your with a guy that is all about being with his friends and wont give them up for his g/f who he loves even though he has to keep those worlds seperate because his g/f and his friends don't get along? (link)
doesnt sound like a guy worth keeping.....and ive been in love so i know what its like.


does anyone know good songs to listen to or dedicate to someone you miss or love .. could youu leave me some .. any answers are appreciated!! (link)
well, i fell in love with a boy 2 years ago. we talked so much, and then he quit calling me. he smiles at me everytime i see hime, but he never calls. he lives in the same town as my g-ma, so that when i got to see him, which was in the summer, like a few times a month. he became the most awesome guy i had ever known. he moved to a different state and i miss him more than ever. his friends and cousins say he still likes me and misses me, but he just wont call. its complicated. so ANYWAYZ, i joined him as a friend on myspace, and had him listen to "YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL", by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus. He hasnt heard it yet, but it just explains how i would do anything for him, and i love him with all my heart. if thats what you're looking for, than that's a PERFECT song!!


There is a girl at school i like but she only thinks of me as a friend. what should i do? (link)
Make her mad, then kiss her. This will show her how much you like her!!


do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks (link)
uhh.. well ears is kind of out of style. sorry but nose......not so much. lip is hott. nothing else.


Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to

Thanks!!! (link)
haha thats awesome!! song--Nobody, by Keith Sweat.


Alright, so I've liked this guy for most of the summer, but when he actually started liking me, and wanted to start "going out," I wasn't really sure if I wanted to do the same. I mean, I'm going into high school and I guess I don't really want to be tied down by some other guy. So, anyways, I did say yes to him about "going out" and now I think I made the wrong choice. I want to tell him that I think we should just be friend's 'cause I don't want anything to be awkward. Because now that we've started going out (about 3 days ago) he hasn't even called, or talked to me. I'm going to try and tell him that I think we would be better off by not going out and just being friend's, but I don't know how to make it so it doesn't sound mean or rude. I still like him, but I don't want to be "going out."
By the way, I'm a 14 year old girl. (link)
Well, I know exactly where you're coming from!! If you arent 99% sure you want to date this guy, DONT!! Just say, "Okay, [name], I'm glad that you like me, because I like you too. But, I dont know if we should go out anymore. Im not sure if I want a boyfriend right now, and we have barely talked since we started dating, so I dont think either of us are ready", and dont feel like you need to apologize, because you didnt do anything to him. If he gets upset or mad, say, "Maybe we can try it again later, when we're ready, because i still like you". If he agrees, then its all good. And it might sound stupid or gay, but its not.




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