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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up on August 17th. I want to do something really special for him. Any suggestions are appreciated! (link)
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Um I really can only come up with one idea for this one. You could cook him a nice dinner. Most guys I know would like that. Just try to make it romantic and all about him. Well good luck hun, hope everything turns out ok.
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i'm dating a guy who treats me like a princess, but when we're in the bedroom, he treats me like a prostitute. he spanks me(lightly), pulls my hair, and says things like "your're so, so dirty. someone needs a shower, she's so nasty." what's up with him. (link)
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Talk about your typical guy here. He just wants someone he can take home to his mom but someone he can go crazy with in bed. Think about it : "Lady on the streets but a freak in the sheets." If you dont like it you should tell him. Don't say anything harsh that would hurt his feelings though. Or maybel, if it doesn't bother you, play along with it. He'd probably love that. Guys are all different when it comes to sex. You really never can be too sure on what to expect. Well, hope this helped hun.
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I'm thinking about making a cd with all the songs that make me think of the guy I like (much too weak a word, believe me) and then giving it too him, but I'm not sure what message that would send. We've been best friends for about five years, and while i'm willing to risk a great friendship for what i feel would be a better relationship, I don't want him to think i have a secret shrine to him in my closet (i don't, btw). any advice on how this might make him feel or the possible consequences to my following up on it?
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Ok first of all, I wouldn't go as far as to make him a CD just yet. If he doesn't feel the same about you, this may freak him out a little and make things weird between you two. I'd just mention it to him. I know this sounds so hard to do. I'm not going to lie to you, it will be. But how else could you do this ? He needs to know. Try not to make it such a big deal. Just ask him what he'd think about you two going out or something like that. Take it slow. You don't want to rush into anything because your relationship may just crash and burn that way. Go slow. Thats the best advice I can give you right now. I know it's hard. Good luck hun. If you need any other advice just drop it in my inbox. Good luck again!!
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ok hey again, i was just wondering how to do things like hand job, can you help? (link)
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OK a handjob is when you but your hand on a guy's dick when it's hard and move it up and down. Its just like when a guy jacks off but you do it to him. You can do other stuff like rub the very tip of it - my boyfriend really likes that but you have to be careful because it's really sensetive. Just start off by going slow and ask your boyfriend if he wants you to go faster. It really helps if you ask him what he likes. It's a lot easier that way. If this wasn't enough then I'm sure there are websites and stuff that can help you out - just Google it. Good luck hun.
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ok, my bf gets boners when im with him, i know this because hes told me ,i was just wondering if there is anything i could do? Also is there anything i could do with my bf that's cute, but not sex?
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Theres a lot of stuff that you could do. You could give him a handjob - rub his dick with your hand. Or you could give him head, which would be to use your mouth instead of your hand. If its your first time doing any of this then make sure you tell him so just in case you get uncomfortable, he'll understand. If you dont think you're ready then tell him. If he's really a good boyfriend then he'll understand. Good luck hun and make sure you dont do anything you dont want to.
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i have a b/f. But, we dont reali talk at all. I say hi to him in the hallway and he says hi back. Its a week before Valentines Day and how do i get him to AT LEAST give me a hug? Fast Replies please! (link)
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If you're in any classes together then try to talk to him there. Lunch would definetly be a good time too. If not, then try to call him after school or if he's into sports then watch his games or practices. But talking on the fone is probably the way to go. Maybe try holding his hand if you feel comfortable enough. When ur on the fone try to talk about stuff like how his day went and how your day went and try to find something you guys could do after school. Try saying something like my friend and I are going to the movies friday do you think you and a friend would like to join us? Or something along those lines. Just find any possible time that you two could be together. During school would be the best way to start things off because its less awkward for the both of you. OK hun.. happy valentine's day.. good luck !!
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Well me and this guy have been going out for like 2-3 months and in between we broke up 3 times so we have gone out 4 times total. Ya i know weird but i things happened inbetween and ya! ANYWAYS i love him so much... i think and well we never get to go anywhere really cause my parents and he isnt all happy with that and he said he would break up with me and then nevermind i wouldnt do that to you but its so hard to have a girlfriend who i can like never go anywhere with. ALSO his best friend is SOOO annoying and sometimes i wanna punch him in the face and all so AHHH so many questions but could someone please answer them! So what should i do? (link)
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Thats way too confusing to understand. Try writing it out a diffrent way or something then putting it in my inbox and I'd be glad to help u out.
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OK...telling this story is getting really annoying, and I'd appreciate it if I didn't get snide comments about it, I already feel like a whore.
Well, to start it out, I had just gotten this new account on vampirefreaks. My friend had some crazy-cool people posting on hers so I went to check it out. One of the guys was so awesome. His profile was freakin' long and crazy, and he seemed really sweet. I left a message on his site and toddled off. Then he left a message on mine and so on. Well, anyways, we started talking on IM. The first time, I thought I had thoroughly annoyed him, so when we spoke next I apologized. Well, during our second conversation, we started making out. We pretty far, but not quite THAT far. Before I'd really talked to him, I thought he was really great, and when I did talk to him, I began to develop a crush on him.
A few days passed, othing happened. But then, his birthday came around. We had talked a little bit...and then we started doing a few things. It was mostly me doing, well, everything, so it was sort of weird. but that time, we did everything... In the end, I thought it had meant othing to him, but it didn't really bother me. but then after we did all of that, I felt sort of guilty, dirty...
Later that same night, after talking to 2 of my very close friends (one online, one not), i still felt bad. Then I was IMed by another guy from vampirefreaks, that I had become friends with a few days earlier. (NOTE: i had been at school, trying to sign in to vampirefreaks, and I wandered aimlessly onto this one page and it said the name Eryk. I looked at the pics and thought he was pretty, decided to look later. I looked him up later, and it wasn't him, but this other guy. There weren't any pictures of him so I read his profile. I left a comment, then he looked at my profile and IMed me. Thats how I met him.)
I Started talking with him, and he seemed sweet and he was always really nice and funny. I did like him, yeah, but I didn't really know how much. So, on the same day as the incident with Dion, I also did stuff with the other guy (his name is Dan). After all of that Dani and I talked... and he said that he'd liked me. I did like him to, so we just talked. Then after a few days we're like in love... My mum finds out about the cyber because I had printed it *dolt* 'cause I needed to talk to my friends about it. Mum banned me from IM. I snuck on to talk to them both, last night. Turns out it did mean something to Dion, and now he won't tell me how he feels about me. Dan and I are currently split up because he needs to think about some things, but he says that once he's done, we can go back to that. So, everything with Dan is ok, I think. But what do I do about Dion? And what about mum? (link)
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Hun.. it was online and you'll never meet them in real life. They'll get over it and so will you. And if it was online then you shouldn't feel like a slut... even tho that is kinda weird.
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well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me.. (link)
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OK First, just relax. Don't be so nervous about it. Kissing is supposed to be fun, not stressful. It is a little strange that you didn't know what to do but don't worry, you can work around that. You can't go back and fix the last time, but you can try to be a little bit more prepared for the next time you make out with a guy. All you really need to do is relax and try not to think about what you're doing too much. You still need to pay attention but not to the point where you're stressed over it. Since you didn't really know what you were doing , just do what he does except.. you do it to him. After you do that a few times, try to add your own style to it. It's really not hard at all. Good luck hun & have fun!!
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hey please help! im really upset now! okay well ive had 7 boyfriends and one of them im going out with right now. well.. i love him the most out of all of the boys ive went out with! and today after school he came up to me and was like so your not gonna say ( just playin around ) i was like hi ! lol and he was like so ur not gonna give me a hug? i gave him a hug then we said our byes and then we went to our busses. well i was waiten for my bus and i looked and he was walken with 2 other girls and he hugged one of them and ive seen him with her at the ymca before with her and im really upset! what do i do??!! (link)
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Ah! TALK TO HIM!! Dont get all upset right away. First, make sure you're going out and he knows about it.. Sounds weird but u never know.. He IS a guy. Ask him why he gave her a hug and tell him you're not really comfortable with it. Just basically tell him the truth. And if he does it again even after you talk to him then my advice would be to dump him. Yeah, I know "O my God I couldn't do that I like him soo much!" But trust me hun, if he does it 2 times then he's definetly a player and he's so not worth your time. No matter how cute he is. Good luck with this girl! Hope I helped!
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well im a freshman and im in this boys class i really like him and hes in 11th grade.. he always talks to me and is realy realy nice and always just looks back at me and smiles. last thursday night i went to a football game and he was there and sat next to me. friday in school he was like why didnt you even say hi to meee? and i said sorry and then he said why are you shy around me and i relized i liekd him, that was why!.. i started talking to him alot more and he talked to me on monday morning he came in class and talked to me right away and asked if i had a sister because he saw a girl that looked just like me.. my cousin said that thats kind of weird, she thinks he just wanted to talk to me, and its a weird pickup line i dunno lol.. he also said he lives nextdoor to my grandmother .. he still talks and always smiles to me in the hallway and i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me cuz hes always with other girls too... how can i get him to know i like him? thanks.. if you think i should tell him i like him tomorrow to his face or in a note, what should i say (link)
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Awe thats so cute! It sounds like he is trying to find things to talk to you about. Even if he isnt, at least you know he's thinking about you. If you would be more comfortable saying something to him in a note then go ahead. Face to face is good too but its really hard to do. Write him a note telling him that you like him and maybe you guys could sit together again at the next home game. Just basically tell him how you feel and you think you might have a crush on him. If he doesnt feel the same way tell him you'd still like to be friends ( But if you really like him then it might be hard to stay friends with him, so you might want to leave that part out) Good luck girl!
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how can you tell if a girl is cheating and also telling lies (link)
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She wont look you in the eyes and her Stories change a lot.
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Im 16 and madly in love with my boyfriend. We have been dating for over a year. The only thing is that he doesnt know that im in love with him. He does know that i care about him soo much.I have been wanting to tell him for the longest time that im in love wit him but i just dont know how. We can be jokin around and he will say sumthing and then i will say yea love ya to. and he just says you dont love me. His cuz even told me that he said he loved me but he wont tell me. I just want to kno how i can tell him b.c i want him to know. plz help! (link)
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Wait for a really romantic moment. Like after you guys kiss or something and say I love you. If you say it at the right moment then you'll both always remember it. Dont say it on the phone or something like that lol that wouldn't be special at all. You're really lucky to have a boyfriend like that. Good luck sweetie!! I'm sure he'll be so happy to hear you say it!
**You could also do the same thing but when youre done just put it in a high pony tale.. thats really cute too.**
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Hey I am a 15 year old girl. Just today someone was on my boyfriends account telling me that they had phone sex, i didnt believe her at first but then she starting tellin me some stuff that i told him and him only, what should i do. (link)
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Ask him about it! Tell him you need to know the truth and you cant help it if you get mad because you're obviously not going to be happy about it.Ask him why he did that too.. try to be calm because getting angry always makes things worse. Good luck hun!
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my ex-gf and i broke up a while ago and we both moved on with our lives. now every time i see her, i realize how much i wasn't over her. i'm pretty sure she doesn't like me as more than a friend, but she might(probably not). sometimes i really wish i could just tell her how i feel and win her back, but i don't think that would work. wut should i do? (link)
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If she has a boyfriend then don't say anything to her about it because she probably really moved on. That could be a sign that you should move on too,I know its really hard to do but it is possible. If she isn't going out with anyone then you should bring it up to her. If she's really your friend she'll be considerate and kind about it. You never know, girls are really good at hiding their feelings, so she could be interested in you still. I really think she should know though because then she'll at least know how much she meant to you. Tell her you'd like to be friends no matter what though, because you dont want to lose her completely. But on the other hand that could be the best way for you to get over her. Good luck hun! I know .. Breaking up sucks a lot. Trust me though, there's going to be other girls who wont break your heart, love hurts but thats what makes true love so beautiful!!
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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody... (link)
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Hooking up means Makin out with a guy.. You dont have to like him but that would make it a lot better if you did. Sometimes it can lead to more and sometimes not. K well thats wat I think of when I hear 'hook up'. K hope this helped!!
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WHat does it exactly mean when u ask a guy if they like you and they say i dunno..??DO they rly no.. (link)
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1. He mite really not know.
2. He mite not like you but not want to hurt your feelings by saying the truth.
3. He mite like you but be too shy.
Yep I know this isnt much help but theyre all the possibilities.
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There's this guy that I think is really cute. Everyday at school he always looks at me. I don't know if he looks at me because he thinks I'm wierd or ugly, or if he looks at me b/c he likes me. If he did like me, I wouldn't even know how to approach him. HELP!! (link)
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This is a tough one. Does he look away when you see him ? Try to see if he does this to other girls. And if he doesn't then maybe walk up to him and say hey and start a conversation maybe like 'Did you do the homework?' Or bump into him 'accidentally' and drop something to see how he reacts to you. Good luck. Hope everythin turns out okay!
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Ok there's this kid named Chris and he's pretty much all my classes. Sometimes I'll just glance over at him and hes like looking at me or staring at me. The thing is I never really talk to him or anything. I just wanted to know if he likes me? I don't think so but you can never tell! Thanks! I rate! (link)
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OMG I have the same thing with a kid named Chris too!! He might like you.. you never know! He's staring at you for something.. and i doubt its cuz u have somethin on ur face lol. Just be like hey wats up if u have any extra time in class or somethin. Good luck!!
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ok me n my x broke up i still like him and he acts like he still likes me. the prob is..he has a reputation of cheating on ppl before n hes sorta a player. anyway, hes wicked nice n we r friends but he invited me to go to the mall tommorow n idk if i shud go cuz ik wed just do stuff like other times and i wudnt wanna go just to giv him stuff..its not worth it. but i like him too..ikd help (link)
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You should go but dont be with him the whole time. Bring a friend or soemthing and walk with him a little but not the whole time and go up to guys you think are cute. He might have cheated on you.. based on his rep. Since you still like him, dont flirt too much in front of him. Sometimes just talking to another guy can get him jealous or bring his attention to you. If you like him then maybe you should tell him. I know it takes a lot of balls but it can be totally worth it. Good luck!! Have fun at the mall!
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