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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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Member Since: July 7, 2005
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Last Update: August 18, 2005
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well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
I will rate a 5! (link)
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No it isn't unless there is some reason that your friend would have a problem with it. They probably will but you went out with them then she did too so your doing the same thing she did. if she has a problem just talk to her and explain this to her.
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Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money? (link)
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I think that if you really love him then you should stay with him because fancy stuff is nothing unless you are sharing them with someone that you love. If you can't be happy with having someone that really loves you leave him but you might not find someone else that loves you as much as he did.
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this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend." (link)
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You shouldn't feel like a slut because you had no idea. i think you should tell him how horrible what he did to you was. i don't think that you should continue being his friend because he is using you and obviously doesn't care about you.
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that? (link)
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That is like the perfect guy and everyone wants that. no one will have all of thos qualities but maybe someone does and if you want that person you'll have to get out there and find him. maybe if you find someone without one or two of those things you should settle though because thats pretty lucky!! also guys that are older and more mature will probably have more of those!
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Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."
I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.
Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.
Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.
Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.
I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway? (link)
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its hard but really how to get over him is time. try meeting new guys and keep busy with friends and family. soon you will find out that there is someone else out there that you love more then this other guy and will soon forget him, which is good because it seems like your better off without him.
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx (link)
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If you know that when you tell your parents they will say no way! and things are working out fine how they are now then just keep it that way. but if you want to spend more time together and it is hard to do that when hiding from your parents then take the risk of them saying no boyfriend and tell them.
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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do? (link)
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dont' bother with him. he should always love you and not switch because he might switch back. it might seem wrong but in the long wrong its best!
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ok well my sister thats going to 6th grade as a boyfriend and since now its summer she hasnt been able to see him as much and she really wish she could see him a lot more she really misses him. What should she do so she can see him more. She doesnt have his number because they got together at the end of the school year. I really want them to see each other more they really like each other. Please help. What to do so they can see each other more. I feel really bad for them.
yours truley, confused with love (link)
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have your sister (and you can help her) ask around or do whatever it takes to get his number. try through friends or phone books. then they can call eachother. for getting together they can go to see movies, go to eachother's houses to hang out, or do different group activities with friends.
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Ok, well i have this guy. I went out with him like a year ago..we're in the same grade and everything..but he goes to a different school then me..i ended up going out with him though, everyone was like "OMG, your going out with HIM?" (as a bad thing) and everyone said i was WAY too good for him..so knowing that. i ALWAYS took it for granted..we ended up going out twice that year. me breaking up with him both times and him asking me out both times. well now, a year later. he hates me. he hates anyone who hangs out with me.. i tried talking to him..just friendly..but hes REALLY mean to me..and now, since the break up, he likes someone. and im mad. because i dont want him too. i really miss him..like in class once..he had to write about his favorite thing..he wrote a whole paper on me..i miss that. but its not that it matters, right? i dont want people saying hes too good for me again..but i dont want to lose him more than i already have..what do i do? and i cant COMPLETELY ignore him forever..next year we're going to the same school.. (link)
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ok you dumped him so i can see why he is mad. just let him go forget about him and maybe some day you guys will be able to be friends. you should of thought about missing him before you dumped him those times. and no one is too good for anyone if other people are saying that so don't take other peoples opinions on people you like.
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OK so i met this guy online like 5 yrs ago. We have gotten to close and we both love each other SO much. He lives in florida but plans to move closer to me by next summer.i really want to be w/ him but im really scared i don't know if its right. Should i tell him to go ahead and move here or tell him to wait or something?
THANX
-twiSted (link)
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that doesn't sound too good. why dont' you tell him that you want to plan a trip and meet up with him before he moves just incase because you don't want anything bad for either of you.
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hey, heres my long question.
ive been going out with this guy on and off for 6 monthes now. the first time i broke up with him was because i didnt think i liked him anymore. then i realized i still had some feelings for him. when we broke up he was sooo sad. he cried all the time, wudnt talk to me, his friends wud yell at me for breaking his heart, and i felt aweful. then when we got back together things were tough, we fought a lot and we both started to like each other less at different times. now im not sure if i like him so much anymore again. i still like him a lot, but sometimes i just dont. im not sure what to do, its summer and were not going to be in the same school next year, we wont see each other very much. i like him a lot still, but i dont know if i shud move on. i dont think he'll ever move on, thats kind of the person he is and i hate seeing him sad when hes not with me. i dont want to break his heart again, but i kinda want to move on.. i have no idea what to do. do you think i should start by telling him how im feeling? or just think it all over and take action. maybe he would want to know? what do you think? (link)
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I think that you should tell him that you don't really want to hurt him but by staying with him and not liking him will hurt him too. tell him this and when you guys are done give him some time and he will get over it. mention the different schools too. as much as you don't want to hurt him it will help him by you two not being together.
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I'm thinking about making a cd with all the songs that make me think of the guy I like (much too weak a word, believe me) and then giving it too him, but I'm not sure what message that would send. We've been best friends for about five years, and while i'm willing to risk a great friendship for what i feel would be a better relationship, I don't want him to think i have a secret shrine to him in my closet (i don't, btw). any advice on how this might make him feel or the possible consequences to my following up on it?
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I don't think that the cd is a good idea he might think a different way about this and think you do have a shrine. Just try telling him this in person.
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I'm 16 and going to be a junior in high school next fall. I go to a vocational school so I have shop every other week, all day long. I've just started having a crush on my friend who is in my shop. I like him so much, it's crazy. He likes me too. We talk on the phone a lot and I really want a relationship with him but I'm afraid that in the end our relationship won'w work out and we wont talk anymore. I would never ever want that to happen because hes such a great friend. I really have no idea what to do. Please help me out. Thanks in advance. (link)
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I think that you should have a relationship with him but before you should think is he the person that wouldn't be my friend if it doens't work out and then talk to him and say i want to have a relationship but only if you promise we will be friends.
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