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okay i love my girlfriend and im 14 and shes 12(bout to be 13) and we get all lovey dovey n all that but she took a pic of me while i was sleeping and when she was tlking to one of our friends and my friend made a joke bout raping me in my sleep (dont ask) and she said no she probably just watch me....is there anything bad that can come from this? or any side effects or something (link)
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Dude, she's twelve. She probably just adores the fact that she has someone around her who she CAN talk pictures of. Also, is it really making you uncomfortable that she watches you whilst you sleep? it's not like she's staying up, JUST to watch you.You can't get side effects. You're both young, and things may move faster than you'd expect, just take it as it comes. dont' do anythign you'd regret.
and her friend was just joking around, don't take it seriously, me and my friends do it all the time.
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I'm a girl in 8th grade, (13) and I like this boy in my grade but he has no idea who I am. What do I do. (link)
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find something that he likes, that you both have in common, e.g. extra curricular. talk to him, and introduce yourself. don't get put down if it takes a while for him to catch on. lets face it, guys can be kinda slow sometimes.
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okay so i am a female and 15 years old.i have a boyfriend for about 2 weeks, my boyfriend is 17. we have been hanging out for a month now and i know it may be soon to be talking about his problems with depression and what not. but, i just wish i knew how to help. i went through depression and a eating disorder. but i try to help but i dont know what to say. i just wish any words that would come out of my mouth could cure him. but of course things dont work like that. i am now starting to do some research on depression. i dont want him to feel depressed. i know how it feels. you feel usleless, unloved, you sometimes hate your self. you are very hard on yourself and you feel helpless and hopeless. please some one help me. i want to be able to comfort him a little.. (link)
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distractions. when you're with someone who is happy and always makes sure you are happy, then its easy to forget about your depression. distractions, don't always mean doing crazy things, just talk about fun stuff, make them feel included in what you do. don't give him a chance to let any bad thoughts enter his head. i know its hard, but unfortunalty depression is almost as hard on the people around them, than the person themselves. as im sure you know. good luck xxx
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okay so i really really like this guy.
he is 18 and im 14 (about to be 15 in october 20). last night he went to my towns football game and he said the night before that he is going to ME! well last night when he came, like after 5 minutes or so he said that he will be right back. so when he left, me and my friend left where he was going because we were sitting on the visitors side. so we sat on our home side and he saw us but he never came back. and then he went to his friends and everytime girls came in the group and talked to him. and yeah i got jealous and madd. well after like 20 minutes he still ddidnt come. so my friend texted him saying that he is fucked up because he left me and that im fixing to leave. but then he came and after five minutes he left again so i was like going to my friends and it went on like that for a while. but then we just didnt hang out at all for the rest of the game. im like yea sure he came for me when he just leaves me. and then after the game, it was me and my other friend and him, we walked to the gas station and on the way there they were flirting and they just like left me. like they were like 10 feet infront of me and they didnt even look behind them for me. so i was tickkkeedd! and then later that night he texted me when i left saying "this isnt gonna work". so i almost started crying. and he said that he never flirted with her or whatever. so idk what to do anymore. i really like him but idk! please help me.
(he thinks im 15) (link)
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you r probably gonna rate me low, but honestly, if he doesn't wanna go out with you, then there's no point trying to force him. i mean, he's a lot older than you, and i don't have a problem with that, but he sounds, like he's just playing you. i know you like hium, but its just a crush, and he doesn't sound that bothered, to be honest. it's a lot of drama over nothing really. im sure he hot and stuff, but he's not really worth it.
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okay so i recently just asked a question about this but last night i recieved some more info on it so yeah... okay so this guy (lets call him mike) and i have been talking and hanging out for around a month now. and i really like him. were just friends right now but there has been a lot of flirting and we got a little physical (just a little). well the other night these two girls that im kiiiiiind of friends with came up to me and told me that mike and their friend (their friend likes mike) had been sending naked pics (btw, this girl is like three years older than mike who is fifteen... ew.) but anyway i didnt really believe this and i kind of firgured they were only saying this bcuz their friend likes mike and they want me out of the way... well i asked one of mikes really close friends and he said that this happened like four months ago and he also said from what mikd said, that mike only had his shirt off and that the girl also had some sort of clothing on. but the girls who told me made it sound like he had nothing on... so i dont know what to do. i dont know who to believe (i do trust mikes friend muuuch more) and i dont want to ask mike because its really none of my business seeing as i barely even knew him four months ago and im not his girlfriend or anything, but still. him sending naked pictures would bother me. i think i could handle the no shirt thing, thats not too bad, but still. and mikes friend DID say that mike had gotten a lot better and that he doesnt do stuff like that anymore and i believe him on that but i dont know what to do... (link)
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he a guy. they do dtupid stuff, if it seems sexual. plus, if he is lying about only having his shirt off, then at least you kno he's embarrased about it. don't let it bother you, but don;t feel pressured, to follow her example, i mean she's 3 yrs older than him, which is weird... but he should expect anything from you. hat she sent him, isn't really important. if you like him, just forget about it. its obviously not something he's proud of
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I have been dating my boyfriend for just on fourteen months now. He is perfect. When I say this I mean it. He treats me with more respect I could have ever thought possible there is never a moment he isn't complimenting me or telling me that he loves me. He does everything I ask of him and never ever complains. He never yells at me, has never ever called me a bad name, not even stupid or idiot - nothing. But having him has come at a price, he is so attached and so in love with me that we often spend most of our free time together, this has resulted in me losing the majority of my friends and even had friends present me with an ultimatum, them or him. I'm nearly 20 years old, so immaturity really shouldn't be an excuse for my friends. But I can't round it down to anything else.
But now all I have left in my life is him. I don't know what to do. I have stayed in this relationship mainly for him because he loves me so much and because I know what it would do to him if I were to end it. But I'm not happy. I have grown increasingly depressed over the past year and have found myself conpletely socially isolated overweight and extremely lonely. I was once very socialble I had a large group of friends and was pretty much known for going out and having a good time.
I did love him, but my life has morphed into something I hate and I am starting to resent his love rather than cherish it. EVERYONE says that we are perfect for each other. That we were made for each other. And I used to think that too. When we hug I fit in perfectly, we always agree and have so much in common. But I think its unfair for me to feel like I have to stay with him because he loves me. I need to feel as though I love him too, but all I feel is resentment.
Should I stay with him? He is perfect in every way and i know there are hardly any men out there that would treat me as well as he does. Or is it unfair to both of us if I stay?
Please help, I can't sleep over this. (link)
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don't string him along. tell him you love being with him, but you are young, and feeling trapped and lonely and miserbale. if he's such a good boyfriend, he''l let you hang out with your friends a lot more. also, what about his friends, doesn't he want to hang out with them? that could be part of the problem.
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i really need an advice of how to get over my exboyfrnd i delted him from my phone i do evrything but i dont know why i cant get him out of my head .i remember evrything he does to me kisses ,hugs ... ) i need help >>. (link)
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sorry for not answering this sooner, i didn't realise i had a new one. firstly, i sympathise with you a LOT. it hard to get rid of someone from your life. my advice, is don't. don't feel like you have to close a door on a huge part of your life. im not saying be friends with him, but be civil. get rid of relationshipy stuff, but keep the stuff that seems okay, like a cd he might have given you. if you try to fforget all about him, it will make you have a harder time with relationship issues in the future, and you shouldn't give him the satisfaction of doing that. i know its annoying, but time will get rid of the relation ship mamories. my advice is to think about the bad parts of your relationship, whenever you think about kissing him. and also find a hot guy. can be in your life, or a celeb, and instead try and imagine kissing them. it s a little therapy excercise i found, and it works. its a bit painful at first, but its a healthy way, of moving on, without feeling scared of dating again. hope this helps! xxx
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Well, in my numerous other questions I stated that I liked my band drum major. I do, still, now I would like to go about this that I can be a good flirt without words, I don't want to be the girl to show a guy I like him with words. So, my friend says he looks at me whenever I look away or at someone else. She said when he looks at me it's like I'm the most important girl on the Earth. She said he just gets this look in his eyes that is unexplainable. When I look away, she looks at him and she also stated that every time I am not looking at him, he looks at me and smiles HUGE. Another thing that makes me think he has a minuscule amount of feelings is, he talks to everyone in the band like his best friends and when it comes to me he doesn't talk to me he is such an outgoing person but when he gets to me, he's so shy, heck maybe that means he doesn't like me, i just don't know! he also doesn't yell at me if I do something wrong (he yells at anyone in the band who is goofing off, except me). I think he likes me, to be honest. It's hard to tell though because both of us are shy kind of people that don't confront the person we like. However, we have so much in common, our favorite number is 8 and our favorite color is green, we are both in band, he's quiet around new people as am I. We both know how to have fun and we both don't care what others think. People, please, don't answer this 'he likes you, talk to him' like I said, I don't want to be the overbearing crush that never leaves the boy alone. Tell me how I can be a better flirt with JUST looks and things from far away. I am never close with him, one on one because he is always on the podium conducting and when he isn't conducting my band director has him doing something else. So, tell me how I can flirt when he's on the podium and I'm on the ground. Also, tell me your take on if he likes me or not.
->thanks to anyone who read this! I appreciate it! (link)
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no expert, but maybe when youre sitting down, look at him occasionally, but the rest of the time look as if you aren't interested. when you look at him, if you cathes your eye, just look slightly amused and look away again. obviously this isn't flirting, but it will get him obsessed about it. if when you look at him, he's already lookng at you or it doesn't take long for him to notcie that you are watching him, then he obviously care whether your'e watching him. i think from the way you described him, it seems like he likes you, but maybe he's just being extra nice to you. to get him to ask you out, it mainly about looking at him in the right way, the kinda way to get him to start thiking about you, and smile often, but not for too long. sort of like, small occasional flirty smiles, but then look away or engross yourself in something else, so he comes to you. i dunno. hope it helps, he sounds like he likes you and vice versa. good luck xxx
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15/f
So I liked this guy since about May. We are good friends. It's just the fact that he is 17. So it's like a 2 year difference. So I didn't want to do anything about it.
Then about 2 weeks ago I found out my friend liked him. She is the same age as me. I was fine with it. I'm not the kind of girl to get jealous. Especially if he isn't mine. So she told him. She told me that he said he liked her but didn't want to do anything about it because he is a senior and he is graduating, plus he is on the football team. So he isn't allowed to have a girlfriend. Stupid new rule they made recently. If he gets caught with one then he gets kicked off the team.
I asked him about it. He said he didn't like her but he did tell her that he wanted to wait till he graduated to date.
So pretty much she lied about that. Then I found out he liked me that whole time too. I didn't really put much to that. I know we wouldn't be able to get anywhere anyways. I never go out with guys older than me so it would be weird. I do still like him though.
So he says he doesn't like my friend but he sits with her and all this stuff. He is doing it to be nice. I haven't told anybody about my feelings towards him. His friends kept bringing up everything with us. I don't know what to do about this. If he is really lying about liking her and if he actually does like me and his friends are the ones to lie about that. But yeah, my question is, how do I deal with this? I still like him but my feelings keep building up every time I'm with him and now that my friend likes him, it makes it worse. Thanks. (link)
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esy. spend time with him as a friend. if you sound as cool as you described, then you should be fine with just hanging out, and not obsessing over it. your friend obviously like him. did you tell her u like him? maybe thats why she's upset and he might like you, but if he knows he can't date and won't date till graduation, maybe its a message to you. the fact that he won't date you, or he just won't date you till then. just hang out with him. if you like him, then you should be able to spend fun time with him, without awkwardness.
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boys at school do not find me attractive,so i need help to make them look at me. (link)
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well, you have to believe you're attractive i know its sound stupid, but if you feel sexy then boys will pick off that vibe from you quickly. the problem with boys at school is that they see you everyday, and it can be hard to see a person differently sometimes. if you want a boyfriend, maybe try meeting guys out of school, unles there's a guy at school you really like. spend time at party's or social meetings outside of school. but spend someime getting ready. get a new outfit that makes you feel sexy, and comfertable. put on some make-up, shave and go out with you friends. just talk normally, but laugh with them, and flirt, but don't overdo it. being yourself is important, but you should show that there's a lot more to you than what they see at school. when you are at party's don't just hang out with your friends, hang out with the guys (play it cool though, like you don't need to follow them to the bathroom or anything!), cos guys can be intimidated by large groups of girls. also don't go straight for the hottest guiy in school. try going for someone you might not have considered before.
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I hate my life right now Im always tired stressed out and lonely. Theirs no one to talk to about my problems I have plenty of friends but they have their own problems to worry about. Most of the time we are all doign our on thing unless we are drinking together. My other friends have boy friends that they are always with I dont trust guys thats why I havnt been close to a guy since my last boy friend who abused me physically and mentally we broke up 7 months ago. I am beautiful and every guy wants me becasue Im hot but they dont take the time our of their day to make a connection with me other than sexually. I am not a whore I have only been with 2 guys the second guy got with me after telling me he wants a relationship but now he doesnt talk to me. How can I find the right guy whos going to have a healthy relationship with me and how do i detect if they just want to get in my pants im stressed becasue im lonely im lonely becasue i dont trust and i dont trust becasue i trusted the wrong people. How am i supposed to find a good guy when guys cant get passed my looks. (link)
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your being stressed and lonely hasn't got much to do with your boyfriend problems. you need to engage yourself with other things than just drinking and guys. you said it yourself, you are beautiful and young, and you should use this opportunity to try new things and meet new people. don't rely on your friends alone.
about your boyfriend issues, i think you maybe choose guys who used you. try to go for guys who honestly like you for you, then go out wiht them. and if so many guys like you, go out with them, they obviusly want to. i have a friend whose really hot and she has lots of sweet guys who adore her but she only goes for the guys who she has to work with to even form any kind of relationship try to go for a guy who maybe you didn't consider at first. you might be suprised. and it can't do any harm to try at least.
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Ever since I was 8 (im 18 now)..I have been dreaming about this guy that i have never seen nor heard of. (there are kinda like relationship dreams)...I dont even know his name....I gavehm one though...I have never been in a relationship, but have always wanted one since I was like 5....Who is this guy?...I meet guys that resemble him(maybe 25-50%), but they dont look like him 100%.... (link)
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my pysch teacher usually says that dreams are a culmination of different aspects of your life, the current issues being most dominant, but also containing bits of your past, your childhood. i think that maybe you've fixated on this person from you dreams, and maybe if you think about, he has probably changed as you ahve grown up, to suit your personality. his image is probably due to a whole variety of things, such as people you have or still find attractive and people from your past.
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Since I have been giving a lot of advice, I thought I would like some of my own.
Alright here's the dilemma, Last year I was dating a guy name SOMEBODY. He was my first true love so to speak. I did everything with him sexually, and then when our 1 year came around, we broke up because we were fighting too much.
That relationship ended in March and I found somebody else in May. We have been dating since then and now I think he's cheating on me. They aren't big big hints like lipstick on his collar or underwear in his car but sometimes when he is texting someone, I'll lean over to look and he'll immediately close out of the text. He says it's nothing but it BUGS ME.
He says he wants to marry me, have kids with me. Granted, I am only 19 and so is he, but it's different from my last relationship.
I'm not sure maybe it's just my personality or something. (link)
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maybe its just a privacy thing. a lot of people hate it when they feel like someones invading their personal space. and although he may not have anything to hide, it might just be annoying for him.
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There's this girl in my class, and we were just sitting around talking, and she pulled a dollar out of her purse while she was digging for her phone and set it down for a minute, so i took and my uncle had taught me how to, so i made a ring out of it because i was bored, lol, and i set it back down. she smiled, and took it and was like, "aw, yes, i will" and we started laughing about it. Well anyways, later, i was singing 'I Want to Hold Your Hand', by the beatles, and i got to the part and said, "i hope you'll understand" and she was like, "I understand!"
Those are two specific things, but we flirt sometimes, and I asked her for her number so I could text her, and she gave it to me, but maybe just because we're friends. IDK!!!! ha, so, do you think she likes me..? (link)
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probably. go out with her, but don't specifically say its a date, and see how she reacts. if she assumes its a friend thing, then she probably thinks of you as a friend and that's it, but if she says yes and seems interested, then maybe she's thinking along the same lines as you. gd luck.
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hey im 18/f im in college. well i go to community college. i have crush on this guy named Chris. he's really cute, but he thinks way to highly of himself. in other words he's cocky, but he's really quiet and doesn't talk much. in class i said to him oh you must think your really cool and he said i don't think im cool i know i am. and that really got to me cause even my friend James who sits behind me was laughing. I talked to Chris on facebook and we talked about how i thought that he was insecure so that's why he acts cocky. but he denied it. he also told me that he has 2 older brothers, and i think that's why he is the way he is. and he lives with his mom. but when i was talking to him on facebook it was weird because i felt like i was doing all the talking. i kept asking him all the questions and i kinda felt like i was being annoying. So how do i talk to someone who is really quiet? and is it bad that i asked him a lot of questions? for ex. i asked him when his birthday was and he just told me it was in October. he didn't say what day. i have a really bad habit of getting way too excited when i talk to a guy, i talk too much, i start looking at their facebook constantly. and i ask way to many questions. and i don't want to mess this up. and i asked him if he wanted to hangout like after class and he said he couldn't because he has work. He has 2 jobs. so i tol d him to let me know when he can hangout but he hasn't so far. so help. sorry this is really long. (link)
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yeah i agree with the previous columnist, but also, that he might start to like you, but you really need to play it cool! and don't try to analyse everything about him, like his family. if you get way too excited, then let it out in small bursts. for instance, ignore him for a couple of days then show an interest. im guessing you arent planning on asking him out, so make him spend more time with you, but don't go into full army plan mode. just find a time where you can causally ask him out wiht you and your friends, but then act as though, you aren't obsessing about him. but yeah, most of all, DON'T analyse him!! guys really hate it. especially if they were thinking of asking you out, because it's a turn off, since it gives him ideas on what kinda girlfriend you might be.
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15/f
this is a VERY long story, but im gonna try to lay this out as short as possible and please, im desperate here, you have NO clue what i've been through these past few months, and i need all the help i can get..
last year i met a REALLY sensative guy. he was 16, about to be 17, and i was 14.. he was soooo shy, hes VERY insecure. when we first started dating, all he said to me was how i saved him and pulled him out of his misery because he has had no luck with relationships and was treated like shit by girls his whole life. hes not even that cute and popular, and i have a waaay higher social status in my grade/ school then he does in his grade.. but ive been known to have wierd taste and i can look beyond looks and things like that very easily. i think when we first started dating him i was just excited over the fact that he had a car and he was a junior and i was only a freshmen.. but i actually did end up falling in love with him. and he was COMPLETELY in love with me. we lost our virginities to eachother and ill tell you, im smart, and not at all a bit naiive.. i knew this kid loved me. & we did NOT have a sex based relationship whatsoever.. we became eachothers best friends. both of us lost all of our other friends because we were only with eachother 24-7. he called my mom 'mom' and i did the same with his mom.. we were incredibly close.. and sense he was older, i felt so comftorbal and secure with him, and i went to him with all my problems, and he would help me.. ive been suffering from depression for years and me and my mother never had a good relationship, and my father left me, and i was molested as a baby.. but when i was with him, he made me feel so comftorbal. we told eachother EVERYTHING. and i was postive he was there to stay. he promised me forever every single day. we dated for a year. i messed it up, biggest mistake of my entire life.. he started getting very annoying and up my ass. you know when youre in a bad mood and you just want to be left alone? well he would never leave me alone. he'd be like 'its okay babe i love you' bla bla. all mushy, when i just want to be mad!. i tried talking to him about this many times and all he could say was im sorry i just love you soooo much i cant help it.. all my friends called him whipped cream and everything.. it was BAD. but anyways, one night i was out with my friends the day before a cheer competition, and my ex was there.. and somewhere along the lines, we kissed.. my boyfriends friend was there and told him that if i didnt tell him, he was going to.. i knew he wasnt going to break up with me or anything.. so i told him.. but the thing is.. i think i was looking for a fight with him because our relationship was so boring. when i told him, it pissed me off how he was crying instead of being mad, yelling at me. so i started saying things to make him mad.. i said TERRIBLE things. like i was gonna keep cheating on him because he basically lets me, and how i know i take advantage of him because he trusts me so much but i shouldnt.. and he was like well maybe i have to break up with you then.. and he was like i really dont want to. and i was like fine just do it idont care! yelling at him and stuff.. and then he did. i was thinking we would get back together in a couple weeks.. so after we broke up, we still talked because we obv. still loved eachother and everything. we acted like we were going out, and we even 'hooked up' a few times.. but when he asked me back out, i kept saying no, i wasnt ready.. because the relationship was SOOO akward after we broke up.. he was acting so different. and i knew why. it was because i broke his heart. and i did, bad. so one day after we hooked up, my friend told me that her brother saw my 'boyfriend, x-boyfriend, whatever u wanna call him' at a store.. and he was saying how he was done with me and he was trying to get with this new girl 'leesh'.. i was FURIOUS. i called him up screaming at him asking for all my stuff back and it was over for good and everything. but really, i wanted an appology from him, not my stuff back. btw, i was very remorsful for cheating on him and saying what i said to him, i mustve appologized a million times.. but he didnt say anything, he justgave me all my stuff back and acted like it was nothing.. and then i kept trying to get him back, but he kept rejecting me. i was litterally down on my knees for this kid. until one day i found out he had a girlfriend. not just some girl.. the girl who dates ALL the boys that i date after me.. but thats a whole nother story.. anyways, i was devistated. i couldnt eat, i couldnt talk, i couldnt sleep, i couldnt go to school,, nothing. all i did was cry and cry and cry and cry. i tried talking to him seeing if we could be friends and stuff, but he hates me now. if i send him one text, he shuts his phone off. he goes all different ways in the halls so i dont have to see him in school, he wont even look my way. he saw me practically drown in my own tears and he didnt even care. i wrote him long long letters, i tried everything i could just to be able to talk to him when i need to, so i wouldnt be so hurt about the situation.. now, i have two weeks left of school and im failing 4 classes.. and im an honors student. i DONT fail. its not me. and im grounded because of it, so i cant even go out and try to forget it. its been sense thhe end of february... and still,all i can think about is killing myself.. people say they are heart broken.. but this gives heart broken a new definition. there is litterally a hole in my chest. and i keep getting maaaassive anxiety attacks in class, and i do go to counceling wich is sort of helpful but we mostly talk about my parents.. three days ago, she broke up with him. and he was very upset from what i heard.. he hasnt tried talking to me or anything but i dont know what to do, i want to talk to him but he'll just ignore me.. i love this kid and care about him with my life. today i thought i was going to DIE. it was the last day of school for the seniors. the last time ill EVER see him again. the last time ill ever get to look for him i the halls so i can walk by him.. that was the only time i ever got to see him, and today was my last day. and when i walked by him for the very last time of my life today, he didnt even look at me. it was so painful. he couldnt even have the heart to say bye to me considering im his first love and helll never see me again. i havent been able to stop crying sense i last saw him. i dont even know what to do with my life any more. someone PLEEEEEASE tell me what to do to get him back. ANNYTHING. I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP. we had such a good relationship till i cheated and we Never ever had one fight. but you dont even understand. this kid wouldnt even look at any other girls, deleted all the girls in his phone book, couldnt go an hour without texting me just saying he loved me, couldnt go a day withouth seeing me, brought me flowers randomly, did EVERYTHING for me. how can you love someone so much and go through everything we've been through together, and then just completely shut them out of your life? (link)
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this is a hit answer but try emailing this link t o him. it will takes somne guts but he will probably get a good insight into your perspecitive. its possible the reason he's 'moving on' is because he thinks its what you really want.
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15m
Everyone in my french class seems to think my teacher's daughter likes me. Im starting to think so too... One day, a week or so ago, she sat by me in class when she used to sit on the other side of the room, but one day she decided to sit next to ME. Not any one else in the class, cause there was plenty of seats to sit in, but ME.
she is pretty good looking, but im not the greatest looking guy in the world. But i think it would be awkward dating my teachers daughter.. Should i feel this way? if not, then why do i?
Help? (link)
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look i'm sure she's smart enough to make her own decisions, so don't worry about your teacher,although stil be extra respectful around your teacher as you would with any potenial date's parents. be sure and maybe go out with her as friends and if you're sure she likes you , go for it!
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15/f.
i don't even know if this kid likes me, but here i go. basically, he moved here this year. never really talked to him. this trimester in school, he switched into my lunch and one of my classes. we STILL don't really talk. so one day he started talking to me online, and since then he's been nonstop flirting with me. we've been talking for like two days, and today he sent me a text message 'hey cutie :)' and i haven't led him on or ANYTHING. i've talked to him like i would my friends. also, the other day i told him i was going to be working and what time, and he came in during my shift. luckily i was on drive-thru and he went to the counter, so i was safe from awkwardness. and i don't know, but i have a feeling he likes me.
the thing is, i REALLY don't know him, and i don't really want to. that sounds horrible, but i really don't have any interest in getting to know him.
what do i do?
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okay, either two things are going on,
1) he really likes you but has no idea how to get you to like him. in that case give him a chance and let him know you like guys you are more natural and don't come on too strong.
2) or he's a total weirdo and let him know youre not into him. at all.
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