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hey everyone john here its been 2 years since i have been on here but i missed giving advice to teenagers about love and firendship and family problems im not a pro but i feel like i have plenty experience in those categories so feel free to ask me a question and ill try my best to give you the answer your looking for :)

I gradeuated from Findlay High School and now attending owens to my photograph degree.

On my free time i like to take pictures of friends and family and make them my own.

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How do you go about dating someone 20 years younger than you? Who has been a very special friend

Well then...love comes in all shapes amd sizes there isnt a rule saying you have to date someone close to your age. My mother just recently got engaged to someone who is 17 years apart from her and first I would admit it was weird but as their relationship got stronger I could clearly see that he made her happy and I thought theres never a age limit to being happy!

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hi im 15 f,and ive liked one of my friends for a while and he told me last night that he liked me but i have a bf.I try not to show that i like him but its really hard to now cause i know that he likes me.I feel like i rushed into a relastionship with my bf now cause i dont know anything about him nd i know everything about my friend.But my friends who are like my sisters dont like my friend cause they say that he likes everyone but he said h wanted to be serious with me and he wasnt going to cheat or anything so i dont know what to do can you help me?

your in what i call a love pickel. when your with someone and you like someone else. its not the easiest thing to deal with by but i think it happens to a lot of people including myslef. i used to be a rusher to into relationship to where i might not of known that person as much as i wanted to. but what your going to have to do is choose wether or not you want to be with your current bf or not. and with the guy you like now you said you know everything about him so you know if hes a cheater even if your friends say otherwise. but overall you have to make a choice between your current bf and your friend just follow your heart. :)

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How do you balance a love life and studies?? Please help me! I need all I can get.


-J
college freshman

Balancing your school life and your love life can be tuff sometimes. my advice to you is maybe come up with a scdule that you can work on your assignments evenly through out the week so that your not doing it all at once and try to plan your free time in between to hangout with your special someone. i hope this helps in someway :)

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Hey everyone, i am 15/f and i had a boyfriend that wasn't talking to me for about a week and a half, i didnt know why, then today at school he texted me and said he got a new girlfriend on saturday and that he just didnt know how to tell me. Yet he says he still loves me and that im his best friend in the world... I dont know what to do he is the only thing that has kept my living the past 9 months... Im a very depressed person, and he was the only one that was there for me, and i knoe he will still be there for me, but i also know he wont be there as much as before, and to top that off his new girlfriend hates me with a burning passion, and doesnt want hiom talking to me. Im scared i might lose my best friend because of his "girlfriend". ):
Any advice? Please help...
thanks inn advance

It's very common for someone boyfriend/girlfirend to hate there best friend. I know how it feels for someone you like leave you for someone else. I was depressed to. What you bestfriend should do is say to his girlfriend that if she can't except my friends then we shouldn't be together.

I hope this helps.

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How do you stay confident and throw off nerves during things like interviews and auditions?

just say to yourself i want this more than anything and i know i can do this i just need to show them whati got

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Ive liked this girl for a really long time, all through school since middle school and now at the end of HS, but she doesn't like me back and i know this for a fact so why can't i let it go and move on? I try and try but something has a hold on me. What should i do? I know i should find someone else but its hard.

You know i was in the same situation as you were in and this was what i did i liked this girl and i know she liked me and we dated for a while and when she broke up with me cause she thought she went into a realationship to fast but after she broke up with me i still had feeling for her and it was really hard cause i have never lik anyone like i liked her it was all most like she was the one. All i did was i just stopped thinking about her and try focusing on other stuff like go and hang out with friends and family and i got my mind off and it turned out i found someone else and i think were pretty happy to. well i hope it helps. XXXXJohnXXXX

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