Here is my story:
I once dated a really great guy in college; I was a freshman in college @ 18 and he was a junior and 20. We attended the same college and lived in one dormitory but on different floors. Our relationship lasted for a year and a half and in that time he had asked me to marry him and I said yes. I can say that I am very mature for my age and had more of an adult outlook on life at 18 than most of the other teenagers. After my first year of attending that school I left to attend a less expensive college and our relationship went on for another six months. After these six months we broke up. He was a born-again Christian and his explanation to me of our break up was that that is what God had wanted him to do. That he wasn’t ready for a relationship yet and that he wants to wait and see if our relationship was God’s will. I loved him very much and being a patient person that I am I allowed him some time to think about things and etc. By the way, I need to mention that my ex and I never slept together. We broke up…. After about a month or two, I came to see him in his dorm room and found out that he has been sort of seeing someone else during the time that he was supposed to sort things out. I didn’t make a scene, I truly genuinely loved him and I decided to try and win him back by spending more time with him, tried to throw some romanticism back into our relationship. None of it worked. I couldn’t do anything to fix it. Then, I found out that the girl he started dating after me was in a theater production with him. They both were acting in a play together and that’s when they “fell in love”. They started dating. I was still in love with him and could not believe that he that easily left me. I would have given/done anything for him.
But, I moved on with my life. I started going out with my girlfriends a lot more but I wasn’t looking for anyone special to date, but I found him. My, now, fiancée. We’ve been together for 3.5 years and are happy with plans to marry next spring. All throughout these 3.5 years I have been keeping in touch with my ex, but without any kind of monkey business. He was together with his gf and I was with my bf. My ex had many problems in his relationship and many times told me about it. He always told me how good of a gf I was to him, etc. I knew that I loved him when we were together and was very good to him and all throughout these 3 or so years I thought about him and our relationship, and how I regretted ever breaking up. But there wasn’t anything that I could do, or he could do so I bottled up my feelings for him and threw the bottle away.
NOW, a mutual friend of ours had recently had a wedding and both me and my ex were invited to it. My fiancée couldn’t go because he was working. So, I picked my ex up at the airport, we go to the wedding and to make a long story short we ended up kissing. It wasn’t a make out session but a considerable kiss, not a peck on the lips, there was some tongue action. We both leaned in for it, no one was forcing anything on. We had a little to drink but not completely sober. I can’t explain why the kiss happened, maybe it was just the memories, I still have to figure this out, but I wrote out an email about our kiss to his now, kind of ex gf. He says that they are having problems but there is still some kind of feelings left between them. He says that he would love to be with her but he cannot because of some difficult reasons he can’t tell me about. What do you guys think, was it completely cruel that I wrote her telling her about our kiss?
i think it was a good thing you told her about the kiss because don't you think if his girlfriend n ur fiancee kissed you would wanna know about it? i know i sure would..well i really think that u guys are still in love well whatever happends i wish you the best ♥
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im 15 years old.. and my best friend is a guy named mike.. and me and him have always had something for eachother and been together hooking up off and on for about 2 years.. and he has been the BIGGEST part of my life and my heart for longer than that.. and just recently he started dating this girl that i absolutly do not get along with and never have.. and the first day they staretd going out i got into a fight with him over something i said to her. and he chose to defend her and be on her side over me. and that hurt me more than imaginable. but hes hurt me in similar ways to this and made me hysterical to many times to count.. and every time he does we fight and i try so hard to walk away from him but i never can.. and i always end up going bak to him as soon as he tells me he loves me and hes sorry. and i just dont know how to be without him anymore and that i need him and am not whole without him.. can you please tell me what to do because ireally cant take this pain anymore my hearts in so many pieces it just hurts to even breathe..
wow that was really sad. if hes treating you like this i don't think you should be hanging with him..pay him back.let him get a taste of his own medicane and let him think about things..when you actually see that he has changed forgive him.
good luck
♥
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what are some fun things to do with your boyfriend for a very small price? thanks
you guys can go to the family fun center, movies, **drive ins** and a public pool..
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Okay I met an older guy a couple of weeks ago when I was out with friends. We exchanged numbers and he tried calling once... but now that I am changing phones and don't currently have one we don't talk as often. There are a few things he hasn't been telling me.. like court dates and why he still has his old number from a different state..and wants me to bring new friends. Should I plan to meet him or forget about him?
hes a moron just like all of em..if i were you i would forget him.
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i just started dating this guy yesturday and i'm already regreting it. he's a real sweetheart and i know he's just shy because it's only been one day but everyone is already in our business and it gets on my nerves. i feel so unloyal because i'm kind of embarassed about it too, i never dated the guy that's always the one his group picks on and who never 'gets the girls' and i know me saying yes to him was a shock to everyone. they thought i was going to go out with this other guy and i still do want to go out with the other guy but he lied to me and i think that got me so mad i said yes to my current boyfriend but i still like the other guy and i don't want to be a bitch and break up with my boyfriend after one day and hurt him. i mean who knows, maybe he'll actually become a great boyfriend. what should i do?
well i think you should stay with your boyfriend..most of the guys who lie to you are jerks.
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Ok so the guy I like, likes me too I guess, but it's complicated. We're gonna go out on a date and "try it out" see how we are together.
Anyway as a joke last night he asked me to tell him something that he could do, that would make me hate him or break up with him. Today he wanted me to write down a long list of those things.. now is he just continuing the joke? Does he wanna know what not to do if we went out, or is he trying to find a way to get me not to like him anymore? I'm a little lost... thanks!
maybe its a joke..well play the joke back on him right down the things you would want him to do to make the relationship work even longer and see if he does those things..if so,you'll know it wasn't a joke.
Hope i helped!!
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OK, i went out with my boyfriend for 3 months...i know not a very long time, but we were best friends b4 we went out and i really love/loved him, so when he broke up with me abotu 2 weeks ago i was really sad/depressed...it sucked....btu i still havent totally gotten over him...anyoen have any tips on how to?
Well its really hard to get over someone but just hang out with ur pals that are single cuz if you hang out with someone that is taken ull see them together and ull be sad all over again.
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ok theres this guy that i might never see again but i think i love him and im pretty sure he likes/loves me too butim still not 100% sure that he does... but what should i do? the last time i will see him is thursday... should i tell him or wait and see what he does?
you should deff tell him becuz if you don't you might regret not telling him
Hope i helped!
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15 female
ok so i met this kid on the internet (same grade as me... 10th) and we hung out a couple times and i kinda started to like him but then i noticed he was liking this other girl(9th grade) and i didnt really care that much cuz we were good friends... but he goes to a different school and she goes to mine and she has a bad reputation that he knows nothing about... i mean shes cheated on boys many times before and i think he really likes her and i dont want him to get hurt but i dont kno how to tell him with out him gettin mad at me and possibly runing out friendship.... please help!
i rate for good replys!!
thanx so much!!
brOk3n h3art3d xO
i think you should invite him and a friend or something that knows about her rep and just tell the boy "you need to know something" and take it from there.
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Okay.. none of my friends were help on this. See if any of you are!
I've been with this guy for almost 2 months. He's in LOVE with me and totally obsessed. I hate clingy guys and I'm sick of him. He calls like .. 5 times a day.. AT LEAST .. and is Always wanting to hang out. I barely have time for my girls with him around!
I need a way to break up with him so he won't be too upset, and he will still be friends with me. I still like him, and i've already told him he's too obsessive, but it didn't help any! I need a way to let him down gently!
!mucho amor!
just tell him that you want to get to know him a little bit better and you really need to spend more time wit your gurlz. he will understand.
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Ok i kinda like this girl, but the problem is shes moving away in a little over a month. im planning on asking her out, but im wondering what she will expect to happen at the end of the month. she cant stay, i cant go with her, and i dont know if im ready for a long distance relationship. if it matters shes not moving accross the globe or anything, about a 4 hour drive. so, mostly for the girls, what is she gonna expect to happen? im 18/m shes 19/f.
You should just ask her out. and see what happends and if it don't work out..just go back to the single life..im in a long distance relationship and its been going on for a long time. well good luck!
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