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recently my fiance told me he has feelings for another girl. but see..we have a long distance relastionship which is hard on us. we have been together for a year and we have only met once. but back to the issue. he said he likes her but loves me and would never cheat on me i beleive him and trust him completly. but they way he talks about her. it just hurts me so much. and before all of this we broke up for a week. and he went out with my bestfriend. which absoloutly killed me. of course. i took him back because i love him more then anything. but im afraid to talk to him about it and tell him how i feel about him liking her because im afraid he will get mad or something. im so confused and hurt i just dont know. i need help. please help me. (link)
Honestly You SHould Tell Him
He loves You RIght
So Your Just Being Honest
And You Guys Need to Be Honest Since You Guysz Are About To Be Married And Since This Is Really Bothering YOu


how do you get over someone? i knw its a simple question but how? thanks in advance x (link)
Get A Doll
Act Lyke Its Him
Beat it Up Cut It Into Peices Ect
Then Hang the Peices On Diffrent Trees
[Specially The Ones He Passes By]


Why is it that me being a teenage mother and going to school plus working atleast 40 hours a week make it so hard to keep a boyfriend? (link)
Maybe Because You Dont Have Enough Time For Him Anymore


hi my names katherine
i go to my dads at the weekends and i go to this youth club thing and we know a load of boys there.
anyway theres this boy called kile and the other week he was flirting with my step sister and i was there but the week after when she wasnt there he started flirting with me but a lot more than my step sis, anyway the week after my step sis came and he wasnt always with her he was like evening it out, but my other step sis asked him if he likes me an he said yes, but that day we met this other boy as well but hes one year younger than me and kiles two years anyway i know kile likes abi but me as well and i know the other boy likes me
what should i do (link)
Find Out If The New Boy Likes Someone Else
If He Doesnt Choose Him
Other Then That
Pick The One You Like The Most


14/f
he's 16/m
we've been going out since october 13th..
things have been great
no fights, no drama, nothing
but this past week, i found out he smokes
i've told him before i have zero respect for those who smoke
because my dad died of lung cancer
from smoking
i told him i cared for him too much to see him kill himself like this
and since then
he's been so rude to me
he told me he only smokes when he's at work, on his break
so every time he goes on his break,
he'll text me and say "i'm on break guess what i'm doing?"
and of course i'll say "smoking."
and he aggrivates me on purpose...
i like him so much and i don't want to let him go
he's an amazing boyfriend
but i don't appreciate him being so mean to me
and also, he works with this girl, amanda
she's always saying how much she wants to do him and stuff
and he just texted me a few minutes ago
saying "i have good news"
so i said.. "what?"
and he said "amanda's going to indy with me after i get off!"
(his brother's in the hospital and he's supposed to go see him)


i don't know what to do here
he's never been so mean to me
it's like ever since i found out he smoked,
he's been in a bad mood
please help me
i don't know what to do.. (link)
Hmmm
I Think Ju Shuld Talk 2 Him
I Think He Took Disz WHole I DOnt Want You SMoking Thing Affences Well In The Wrong Way
Talk To Him And Tell Him How You Feel


Ok well I was trying to flirt with this one kid like mad status. I later told him that I liked him, he likes me to but we aren't going out. When I told him i liked him i was like did you think i was flirting with you before that? And he said no so how can i flirt so he knows that im flirting with him? (link)
um touch hhis hair or hiz ears
nd wen he asks ju sumthin
say sumthin like 0d complimenting
like if hes sayin o she aint think i was cute den ju would say
well shes crazy cuz ju iz sexy or sum shyt like dat
nd he might have been lien so ju kan try again lol


im 14/f my b.f and i broke up like a week ago and he got a g.f and i kinda got a b.f i dont no but w/e anyways im 14 as i said before and the guy that i might be going out wit is 17 so is that to old?? or like im tooo young ?? or is it ok ??? (link)
honey
age aint nuthin bu a numba
if ju like him nd he likes
ju
nd he treats ju right
das all ju need


I really like this guy. He's my age and we're really good friends. Call it best friends if you want. We're both a little shy. I can't seem to say I like him and he can't either. Is there an easy way to tell him I like him without saying it to his face?

Note: Please don't tell me to just say it to his face. I don't have the guts. (link)
i used 2 b like dat
nd it wuld b gud 2 say it 2 hiz face
u if u ont want to
b like we do write him a note
or email him
bu if ju do dont get nervous nd tell him it was by a mistake


13/f

Have any of you been in a relationship that lasted all through high school? I am really in love with the guy I'm dating now, and no one thinks we'll ever make it. (link)
umm dont listen 2 des birdz
dey sed ma babez was gonna break up wit me
lyke he did wit all the otha gurlz
nd i was worried at 1st
hello
weve been goin out 4 eight months already
diz iz hiz nd mine longest relionship
nd most serious one
give it a try mamaz


here are these to really great girls im trying to find out which one i should date, i cant choose!
i need help sooo bad

okayy #1 is Jessica she is very nice, very outgoing, pretty, loves to cook, loves to paint and express herself. I reallly reallly like her a lot.
here is a pic of #1

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5zm2kgl



#2 this is Haley, she is nice, kind of outgoing, patient, loves to flirt, and loves to kiss, and hug, and very demanding girl. i like her a lot too.
heres a pic of #2

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5xhrxuw

which one? i dont know, im having a SUPER hard time

thanks!! (link)
if i was u i wold pick jessica because haley flirts alott so she most defenitley is gonna cheat on u


My boyfriend of about two years, just recently got his stationing and will be in Korea for two years, I get to see him in 6 months, but I'm not sure about when I'll get to see if after that. His flight leaves at 5am, which is 3 minutes. I saw him last on Friday night.

Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do to make the time apart easier on us, and our relationship?

And also, what can I do to keep myself busy, and not all depressed. Any help would be amazing.

Thank you so much.
:] (link)
welll let me tell you my big sister got married to a man in the marine and after everything she went threw they had a kid and i guess he meet a better women were he was at and he took her college money to buy a car and now he wants to take away the baby


I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.

i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.

what should i do?> (link)
i know how you feel
when i thought this kid loved me and i loved him
he cheated on me 1st
and then i cheated on him
our realationship went wayyyyy diffrent after that liek in a bad way so you should break up with him before he does it when he gets tired of you
and you knowing he did that
your not gonna have like the same feelings to do stuff with him like you did before trust me


I am going over this guys house that I like. We are going to watch movies and stuff like that. What do I do. Should i kiss him? What do I wear how do i do my hair and make up. I want to catch his eye.

Please help! (link)
ok dont kiss him
let him kiss you
and if he puts his arm around your shoulder leen lightly on him
dont show that your like really into the movie like that your getting kind of too close to the screen


Well my best freind she doesnt like this guy named jeff but she always wants to have a friends with benefit relationship with him. HES A TOTAL JERK. He is soo mean to her and treats her like crpap doesnt talk to her for ever and then asks to hoookup. Well, idk what to do anymore cuz she doesnt listen to me wen i tell her not to do this and she will regret it. And wen i say this guys a jerk he bad mouths her to the school and all she cares about it making out. (link)
i think that she should try to avoid him
or
she should get a boyfriend
a boy that she actully likes
and not that she only likes to make out wit him


ok i have a friend (lets call her jace) and shes really sweet to me and we've been really good friends since we were about 10. thing is when i get close to her i feel like ...wow and when she hugs me i feel like im holding the world. also, i wouldnt mind kissing her. i deff dont want to tell her this cause im afraid she'll get freaked out. is that the right thing to do not to tell her? i want to know if you think im bi too. thanks lotss.

P.S. ive NEVER EVER EVER liked another girl before and never can picture myself with one (except jace) cause im the preppy type and 15/f (link)
ok im bisexual 2
but i just started to be
well when i was little i knew i was
but i nver wanted to admit it to people
i think you are bisexual
but i think you should tell your friend
but dont tell her you like HER
because when my cousin found out that her friend was bisexual she was like ok
but then i was like do you really care like do you think shes weird
and she said no just as long as she doesnt like me
so i think you should tell her your bisexual
but just not that you like her...yet


I have an attraction to older men. Like today, I went to my uncles party and met one of his friends... An older guy who turned out to be really cool and easy to talk to. We had a lot in common, music wise and I just found myself really attracted to him...
But this is common for me, I usualy tend to go after older men. Men who are much much older than me. I'm only 19 and this guy had a 16 year old son already, So i'm guessing he was maybe around 40...
I'm not talking like old wrinkled men either.. so dont think im crazy. lol

Anyway, is this normal & what could be the reason behind it?? cause 20 year old guys just don't do it for me. (link)
i think that you should start hanging out with boys your own age and if your going to your uncles party try to sticking to men that are with there kids
if a man trys to talk 2 you just say a couple of sentences not that much that you will like
start liking him


im in seventh grade and a girl. well theres this boy i like a lot and ive liked him almost the whole school year. we used to talk and laugh all the time in the beginning of the year when we sat across from eachother in science but since then we barely talk. im still in lovve with him tho. its the end of the school year and im woondering if i should tell him how i feel? im afraid that if he doesnt like me back, things will be awkward then. should i tell him? (link)
i tink you should tell him
because imagine hes loved you all this time too


I've liked this boy forv bout a year and a half now. And he know I like him. We were about to go out one time, but then he got back with his ex. then they soon broke up and he was back to me. I told him that i didnt want to be his rebound girl and i didnt think it was worth getting hurt over and over again. He said that i was his best friend and that he didnt know i felt like that..and all that stuff. Now, I know that he will never like me as a girlfriend, just as a best friend. How do I get over him? After i loved him all this time? (link)
i went threw that
but it was my brothers best friend
and he said i he was in love with me
and i was in love with him
i was sure
but then it was like the type of break up go out
concept so then the last time he broke up with me was like two weeks ago
and he want me back i told him i didnt know
but i dont want to get hurt again
im kind of getting over him
by avoiding his sweet talk like all the other times
and by paying attention to the other boys that want to go out with me
and get to know them




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