i have a crush.. A HUGE CRUSH!! but the only problem is i have a boyfriend....and the boy i have a crush on is sits behind me in one of my classes.. and my boyfriend doesnt even go to the same schooll!! but me and my bf have been on and off for over a year and three months.. and just two days ago he wanted a break, then he called back the next day and wanted me back!!! omg!! what should i do??? PLEASE HELP ME:(
this is what i think about your boyfriend. if he goes to another school he probally flirts with the chicks over there. and if hes like oh we need break then obvisouly hes doubting how much he liked you,.and if hes always like i love you..we need break..i love you..we need break. then hes an immature little boy who cant make up his mind,
this is what i think about you. i think your trying really hard to be a good girlfriend which is cool. but us girls need to be smart. for instance.if yall are on n off all the time ne ways. on one of those off times you need check this boy out[[ by this boy i mean the kid your crushing]]. seee if your really interested. see if things flow if there chemistry or what, and see if you have a chance,.[[ of course ]]. and if things work out why not stay off with your boyfriend. i mean think about it, why waste your time with some1 who too immature to make up his mind and is probally cheating on you anyways,
dont feel rushed,
just relax dude. you dont need a boyfriend anyways, why not just be single and chill.?
anyways, i said my part,
hope i hepled
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Is it uncommon for a 13-year-old girl to want love?
hahaha.
HELL NOO!!!
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I have this really good guy friend that I've liked ever since this summer. Recentlly I just found out that he's gay, and I was one of the few people he trusted with this. I really want to get over him, but recentlly I've been in denial and thinking that i was just imagining him telling me that, and ive been sleeping a lot more than usual. Is there anyway to get over him faster? I'll rate high for good answers
dangg. thats suckss.
BUTT. there is a way..
one way. is to find a new guy.
that way you have this NEW dude to think about instead of the old one. this is gunna sound stupid. but in this one show i use to wtach the samee thing happened to this girl ellie. and her she got over him and went out with this hottie bad boy. hehehe. so youll get over him evenutally
NO WORRIESS!
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ok so i was going out with this guy.and everything was going good then he told me he cheated on me and i was like well u were honest so i gave him another chance..then everything was going fine then his sister told me he cheated on me and so then i broke up with him and like we havnt talked in a long time and i already got a new boyfriend and everything but today i started talking to his sister and she said he hooked back up with his old girlfriend..(which he broke up with to go out with me) and she said shes perfect and she said he kinda still likes me though..but i didnt think i had anymore feelings for im so now im just confused
cheaters suck. they dont deserve 2d or 3rd chances unless they BEG. your too good for him.
ANY1 who cheats on you doesnt deserve you. plus i bet ur new boyfriend would NEVER do that. never. NEVER.
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Okay..iunno i feel weird like something maybe missing or iunno! I just dont feel my self and i'm kinda torn between theses two guys...but iunno who i like! but anyways i dont know what the deal is with me...i feel diffrent not myself!?
wow. 2 guys . 1 girl . what will happen . you needa write down your feelings on two seprate sheets of paper. fold them up and put them some where. the next day read it again and see if you get that feeling..you know like only that one person can give you...its like a cross beween chills and butterflys. see which feelings spark up more when u read each one.
personally i wouldnt make a move on either one.
that way u can flirt with both without being tied down
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this may get kinda long...well i have this boyfriend and weve been going out for about 2 months now, ive seen him mabe once in this time period. he always is with his friends and has time for them but never asks me what im doing or if i ever wanna do something. i can tell he likes me i mean he calls me everynight and if he cant call me, like if he gets in trouble or something, he will tell one of his friends to call me and tell me he cant call...i know this sounds bad and all but i had one of my friends that is a guy call him and casually ask him if he was cheating on me cause i figure mabe hes sick of me and he says that he hasnt been...so i dont know what to do, i really love him and i never stop thinking about him so its not so easy to say, just dump him, thats the advice ive been getting from all my friends...i know i should talk to him about it but im to shy to say it on the fone...i would really appreciate anyyy advice anyone can give me i rate 5's!!! thanksss
i suggest you take a girls night out, do faceils and nails..or w.e just so you can relax and take your mind off of it. then when ur relaxed and ur head is opened and free just call him and just talk to him and be like we dont see each other very oftenn and hell be like yeahh da da da da da and just sorta add in well maybe we can start hanging out more it would be fun ya know
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ok, so me and this guy have been dating on and off for 8 months. He's always the one who breaks up with me and I'm always heart-broken when he does. Then he says he loves me and wants me to go back out with him. I know what your thinking, why doesnt she just leave him behind? The thing is, i cant. Im pretty sure I'm in love with him, but i dont know what to do. He told me he loves me, but he isnt IN love with me. Any guys know what this means? And what do you think i should do?
Thanks Bundles,
Jessy
"Any guy who makes you cry isnt worth your tears because the guy who is worth you tears would never make you cry"
^ i think that quote fits perfectly.
sweetheart..the guy is useing you..your his OFF chick..when he has no one eles or wants some1 to entertain him..he calls on you....do you really want to be that sorta girl.
its going to be hard to get over him but your going to find some1 PERFECT for you.some1 who would NEVER want to think or do that do you. im sure your pretty and could get any guy. if he seriousely loved you he wouldnt break up with you in the first place. you just needa be like FUCK YOU IM NOT YOUR HO! IM A PERSON ! AND IM TOO DAMN GOOD FOR YOU!!
because sweetheart..YOU ARE!!
mwahh!!!
good luckk gorgeouse~!!
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ok im the one that told you sex wasnt as good and you gave me ideas u know to get it "good" again so i tryed STILL not good!!....HE WAS CHEATING ON ME!!!
ughh!!....what do i do ?! i need to get over himm!!
miikel says:
CHEATERS SUCKKK!!!!!
i have heard people who have acsesse to their stuff. useally burn all their clothes or like throw them out the window or stuff like that makes them feel better. hahaha . but like i suggest finding some1 new. =))
hope i helped!
latr love
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well whenever i like this guy i really like him at the start and i hang out with him and stuff and then he grows to like me too. the guy always ends up asking me out and then once we go out i tend to grow away from him. some of them are prude to and i dont noe how to break up with them w/o hurtin their feelings ( which is iimpossible but i wanna try not to hurt them alot) well this has happened to me a couple of times i mean i can get guys i just cant stick with them im 13ish and im a female i just need help as soon as possible
miikela says:
love is based on a foundation of friendship. at the begining of the relationship, everything is new and exciting, and not real love. if you really want a lasting worthwhile relationship, you should first be friends with him hang out a lil more more before "going out" drag out the friend phase that way you both know for sure that the other is right ofr you and that the relationship will have much more meaning and thus for fun for both of you
hope i helped
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ok... well i like this guy A LOT my friends think im obssesed with him!! EVERYONE thinks we'll make a good couple and EVERYONE thought he liked me too. he even said he did! but he said he wouldnt go out with me because were going to different schools. and then one day he went to camp.. he started liking this girl and everything.. and he was sorta rubbing it in my face.. but then.. she goes to another city.. tell me this isnt wrong.. im soo pissed now.. i know i should stop liking him and stuff.. but its REALLY hard!! theres just soemthing about him that i cant get over.. MIKELA PLEASE HELP ME!! what should i do??
signed,
DESPERATE!
miikela says:
OH MY GOSH WHAT A FUCKING LOSER! honestly "desperate" id drop him. id drop him so quick it wouldnt even be funny.Any guy that would like play you like that is a SLEEZ! If he wont go out with a girl who goes to another school but he'll go out with one in another city THATS TOTAL BULL!
but,
if you really like the dude. id tell him what you told me that hes being a hipocyte and you shouldnt have to take that.!
hope i helped!
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okay, so this guy I was talking about before, well it was our grad like 2 nights ago and he asked me to dance......blah blah blah. After the dance we went to the park, a group of us and of course Truth or dare, i think it's a dumb game and since we were both there we had to kiss. well he kissed me on the cheek. And during this week a girl at school(big boobs) flirts with him and they were playing truth or dare and he had to reach down her bra and get a coin and also he had to kiss her. he has a horrible past. he tried pot and also at this birthday party he had to feel her up. The same girl. Now I'm confused because I've given him like a billion chances and he's blown all of them. I don't know if I should give him one last chance(which was actually the last time he screwed up) or forget about him? I'm like still in love but confused and just trying to get over him. But he says he can change and our last day of school is on Wednesday and I don't think he can. What should I do?
miikela says:
wow.okay. either...
he thinks your special and your more than just boobs and an ass and he doesnt want to mess things up or be known as the guy thats like that.
OR
he just really doesnt like you. personally i think you just need to come out and be like do u like me. cause im not the type of person to play games and i dont want to be led on.
bUT,
i bet your pretty enough to get any guy you want or just get one to piss that hoe off! =)) haha dont worry life has its rises and its falls!
i hope i helped.
rate me good if i did or not so i can work on it!
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okay well what if you really liked this guy and it was ur best friend and all of a sudden you start to have feelings for him and you just know its not right but you just like him and he has the same feelings back, but neither one of us wants to start anything or ruin anything. what should i do?
miikela says:
wow. that is like happening to be at this VERY moment in my life too. its okay you shouldnt be ashamed. personally i would just go for it! hey atleast you can say you tried! best friends always make great couples!
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what if like ur really good friends with some guy but then u start to like him and he doesnt like you he likes some other chick and yeah i was jw thank you
miikela says:
read what i told the person below youu.
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well i really dont know how to explain this but..like what if you really like this guy..but he likes another girl..and that girl can be your firend...and what if she likes him back..and it hurt you so bad that you just feel like sitting there all day and like crying and blaming everything on you..saying like..that you knew he didnt like a girl like you..and that you always told your self..that yall will never be and yeah..well i was jw..thanks for your time..bye now!!
miikela says:
"any1 who would makes you cry isnt worth your tears. because the person that is worth your tears would never make you cry"
That is the perfect quote for your problem. If your friend likes another girl. yeah i can see how it would hurt you but if your friend likes your friend it would be a total slutty thing to do to interfere. but that doesnt mean "oh no one would like you". all it means is hes not the one for you. there are other fish in the sea who dont like your friend and are crazy about you. just keep looking! even if you cant exsperience love with him let him exsperience it with soem1 eles.
it can be hard.
i hope i helped.
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i like this kid but i dont know how to tell him and no if he would like me bakk!! what sould i do or how should i tell him my feelings witout breaking my heart and his???
-should i love or should i not?
miikela says:
well. if it were me. i wouldnt tell him. that way if he said no you wouldnt get your heartbroken. i would ask his friend who he liked. but the meanwhile i would talk to him and try to get closer. if his friend says he liked you just go for it. if he doesnt. just keep talking to him and get closer. that way u could either be a friend or a lover
i hope i helped!
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ok mikela i was going to sonic today and i was really hungry and normally i would just get a kids meal bc like ive always had thoose there like my favorite ever and i mean u even get a little toy too! but i was real hungrey like more than usual and so i was gonna get like a bid kids meal like a #3 and i did and it was good real good i liked it betteer than kids meal and lkei felt bad bc i was like cheating on them and so i felt bad bc kids meals to me are like sex but the #3 was like a really good sex witrh a abercrombie modle waht should i do i love em both
miikela says:
well. ur getting older. your growing out of your little kids meal fetish. Try new things . Leave the kids meal for awhile then if u start to miss it go back and have some as like a treat or reliving an old memorie!
food is sex
sex is good.
better sex = better food!
lol
i hope i helped
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well me n my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now, we became sexually active last year, and sex was JUST GREAT, but now....tha sex just aint sizzling...u knoe?...is he cheating on mee? or am i not just keeping his attention!
WHAT SHOULD I DOO!!??
it would be uncomforatble to ask him!
miikela says:
Threee years congrats! I dont think hes cheating on you. i mean if he did i think there would be more obviouse hints then just..sucky sex. Maybe hes getting tried of doing the same old thing. i mean maybe you should try being more exsotic. try different places or different ways. i wouldnt jump to concluetions just yet.in the mean while. see if he stays at work exstra late or cheak his collar for lip stick stains. lol but what would i know im just a 7th grader.
i hope i helped.
keep me posted.
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hey mikela..well i like this guy..but so does this other girl..and like i guess we both want him alot..what should i do..becuz ive tried to forget about him and just let her have him but i like him too much..what do i do??
miikela says:
read what i told the person before you
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there's this guy, and he is like my best friend, and i want us to be more than JUST FRIENDS...but he is c r a z y about some one else, so i feel like ill never get a chance with him
wat do i do?
i feel like he is the only guy for me!!
=(
miikela says:
yeah that sucks. i know how you feel. but there are other guys. Maybe you havent noticed them yet but their there and im sure there are one or two that are crazy about you. but if hes ur friend you wouldnt want to interfere with his love life if HE has a chance ya know. let him exsperience love even if you cant.
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ok mikela im soooo confused about what to do because i have a gf that lives out of reach and ive only seen her a couple of times and i dont think its right but she doesnt think its really a problem but i want to see me gf you know and i know if we break up there will be u know girl reactions and then we wont want to have a friendship and she ends up hating you and then i will feel really bad so i need your advice...
miikela says:
Long distance relationships never work out in the end because either one person cheats or the other complains about never seeing each other. that would be you. i understand where your coming from. going out with some1 out of reach is like having an imangenary friend. As hard as this might sound i would try talking to her and sorta give hints as too that it isnt working out. basically i think it would be better just breaking up with her. cause id you kept going out with her you would be like lieing to yourself and her.and im sure you n her dont want either. tell her you want to be friends even tho at first she will probally hate you. but shell get over it. but after you break up with her give her a break sorta sit back and wait for her to get over it.
i hope i helped.
tell me if it works out or not
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