i have a crush.. A HUGE CRUSH!! but the only problem is i have a boyfriend....and the boy i have a crush on is sits behind me in one of my classes.. and my boyfriend doesnt even go to the same schooll!! but me and my bf have been on and off for over a year and three months.. and just two days ago he wanted a break, then he called back the next day and wanted me back!!! omg!! what should i do??? PLEASE HELP ME:(
to_the_rescuex3 answered Friday April 14 2006, 9:54 pm: Well, if you have feelings for someone else, the relationship between you and your boyfriend isn't going to go anywhere. I would officially break it off with him--for good. And then you're free to flirt with other guys! Being single has it's advantages.
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miikelaxsays answered Friday April 14 2006, 9:24 pm: this is what i think about your boyfriend. if he goes to another school he probally flirts with the chicks over there. and if hes like oh we need break then obvisouly hes doubting how much he liked you,.and if hes always like i love you..we need break..i love you..we need break. then hes an immature little boy who cant make up his mind,
this is what i think about you. i think your trying really hard to be a good girlfriend which is cool. but us girls need to be smart. for instance.if yall are on n off all the time ne ways. on one of those off times you need check this boy out[[ by this boy i mean the kid your crushing]]. seee if your really interested. see if things flow if there chemistry or what, and see if you have a chance,.[[ of course ]]. and if things work out why not stay off with your boyfriend. i mean think about it, why waste your time with some1 who too immature to make up his mind and is probally cheating on you anyways,
dont feel rushed,
just relax dude. you dont need a boyfriend anyways, why not just be single and chill.?
ItzMzManda answered Friday April 14 2006, 8:56 pm: First of all ask yourself how much you care about your boyfriend, do you really love him, what do you like about him. Then ask yourself why you got a crush on the guy that sits behind you, what do you like about him, do you even know him. There are a lot of questions you should ask yourself before you can do anything. If you really care about your boyfriend and really love him then stay with him. You don't want to hurt him and if you guys take a break you guys are probably not going to get back together. Try getting to know this other guy that you have a crush on. After you get to know him you might not have such a huge crush on him. If you think that you and your boyfriend need a break then go for it, take a break and just think about everything. Think about things before you do it because you dont want anyone to get hurt including yourself. Hope this helps!
TheTeenGirl answered Friday April 14 2006, 8:55 pm: I think you and your current boyfriend might be coming to an end in this relationship.
But, this is all up to you. If you and your boyfriend are off and on, and he just can't seem to decide whether he wants you or not, then I'd probably give your crush a try and start on something new. If you feel that you and your boyfriend can work things out, then maybe you are better off with him.
Plus, not going to the same school is hard enough to deal with. So maybe having someone at school to have a relationship with is better.
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