Um....akward....
Im a gamer by blood and a writer by culture.
(part of a controller melted to my thumb once and is now a hardened callus under my skin, and i hang out with webcomic artists so i pick up from them.) I write stuff for movies during language arts and math. I also do a daily webcomic at freewebs.com/djmcomic. Stuff like that keeps me on the rope of sanity from falling into the depths of strangeness.
Website: GigaGaming
E-mail: mega11boy@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Jersey
Occupation: Writer, Pro Gamer, Webcomic artist, junior psyciatrist
Age: 13
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Member Since: February 3, 2005
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last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend before i met him and i was in love or at least i thought i was. i already knew what i wanted but now i want him!! is that weird??? And i know hes not a fake!!! he has a myspace and has ALOT of friends on it from his school and we talk on the phone?? do you guys think its weird .... do you think its possible to be in love with someone you hardly know but in a way you do!! (link)
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http://www.shortpacked.com/
Well, I guess I could direct you there, and in that comic is great example of how badly online relationships can turn out. I believe thats what the story is about right now.
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My ex and i havent been together for 18 mos. now.
Hes had a gf for over a year, but the relationship burned out as quickly as it started.(they had sex the 2nd night they hung out) Him and i did alot of stuff, but we didnt have sex completely>(I didnt let him go in all the way> we liked each other since 7th grade, but we didnt start going out until our soph. year)We grew to love each other. This last gf that hes been with is as easy as they come(she will have sex with any guy) Shes 16 and has had at least 6 partners that i know of. My ex and her fought all the time. She told me he was an ass to her, but she would always keep taking him back! Its just a vicious cycle. He told me they fell in love very fast. I told him thats not love and that love takes time to grow, and he told me not to tell him what love is because he already knows!!! His version and mine arent the same by any means!! Sex is very sacred to me and i take it very seriously. This girl he cant seem to let go of throws it around like it means nothing to her!
When we were together>he never wanted to be with anyone else, just the two of us. He didnt want to hang out or do anything with anybody>just us two!! He was the very same way with his last gf too, but way worse! All they did was screw all the time! He lost all of his friends because of it. I wanted him to spend time with his friends and he always took that the wrong way, like i didnt want to be with him.
Since hes had her, he looks at relationships so differently now. When he was with me, he told me that hes not like that, and he didnt care if he got any, he just wanted to be with me!
We've hung out 2 times now since they have been broken up. The first time was last Nov. In the 3 hrs we hung out, we wrestled, gave each other back rubs, then he started making out with me. I was cool with that until he asked me to let him "stick it in". I told him no! He asked me at least 4 more times after, and i just kept saying no. I didnt hear from him after that. He told me he made his choice and wanted her back! 3 mos. later after they broke up again...we hung out once again! This time we just cuddled. The things that he was saying to me, i couldnt believe that was him talking! He told me he wants someone experienced, and that he doesnt want a virgin. *Theyre no fun*! (well screwing his last ex must feel like a virgin because he told me she bleeds everytime they do it) Shes been with another guy and he brags to everyone what they do and he talks so much crap about her, but he told me shes easy and thats all he wants. She still calls my ex says she still loves him, goes to his house before going to this other guys house. He doesnt care that she has sex with other guys just as long as he knows she still loves him and he will wait for her for as long as it takes.(just as long as she still gives him what he needs) and im sure she does.
He told me that im not up to par. I have been known to "Kiss" a guy here and there. wow, "kissing" verses "sex".
I thought that guys wanted girls that havent been around! How could he have changed soo much, and think that sex is love?? He can tell me hes in love with her all he wants, but i know, and so does everyone else>that hes in love with the SEX!! If he cared about her, he wouldnt be treating her like shit, and calling her a slut!!
So if any guys are reading this>please help me to understand what love is to them!!
Will rate high! Im sorry this is so long! (link)
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Well, he feels like after a year and a half you should be comfortable enough to do it with him. Its ok if you dont want to, its differnt than anything else he could have thrown out.
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Every time I get my boyfriend to have a boner he covers it up, what does that mean? It doesn't bother me that he has one but what is he trying to like hide? (link)
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its just a natural response. You wouldnt want someone seeing what happens to you when you get all hot and bothered, its the same for guys or anyone else.
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so im a freshman in high school.
ive never been kissed before.
i really dont have any guys friends.
ive had a bf before but that was back in middle school.
i wanna know, are there any REALISTIC ways to get involved with more guys and friendships.
please dont say; just talk to them
becuase im not like that exactly.
i like this kid, sorta, and we talk sometimes
are there any signs i can look for to see if hes into me or anything.
i'll rate
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i'd love to have a girl like me, but I cant be he would. Theres no way to tell for sure. But how he talk to you can show things. There are sites on body language and such.
Im halfway through 8th grade and I've never been kissed either. Just dont tell anyone.
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Today at school something really sad-mean happened to a friend of mine and we were all talking and thinking about stuff and we were wondering....
Why are guys such jerks towards fat girls?
and why don't they liek to date chubby girls? how come they only like to date girls who are sticks with a drawn on face?
k thanx i rate 5's. (link)
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hrm. I may not like to admit it, but i'm guilty of this, and i will continue to be so.
Its because guys see much more of girls that arent overweight, and they dont like to be around people that look differnt. Like, would you want to hang around someone who is mentally challenged all day, every day?
They dont like to date girls like that because like I said, theyre differnt. It also ties into the whole reputation thing, but not as much as it seems.
Physical apperance is the first thing someone will notice, its what sparks intrest in someone.. You can be the best person inside, but if they dont approach you and see it, it wont help.
(and, though it may not count for anyhting, the fat people in my school dont lose self esteem, they think theyre better then everyone else, and go around that way.)
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Alright my 14th birthday is comming up really soon & this is the first time I'm going to have a boyfriend. We've been together for a while & he's very important to me. I'd like to know a good slow song that I can play & we can dance to (since my party is a dance.) The song that reminds me of him is Lifehouse - you and me.. but I'm not sure if I want to dance to that. He loves to dance so any slow song should be good. please help. my birthday is soon & i need to get the music. Thanks so much.
I'll rate you!♥ (link)
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thirteen by wilco
lots of Eels songs
And just to throw in there,
Bon Jovi-Have a Nice Day.
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I'm turning 14 and for my birthday I'm having a dance. I've been going out with guy for a while now but we don't go to the same school so we haven't had any dances together. What are some good love songs that would be good for a first dance. I need as many as you can give me. This would mean a lot to me. This dance is really important. Thank you so much! I'LL RATE YOU!!!♥ (link)
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i like come sail away. its a slow dance for the first few minutes, but then becomes a rock ballad. kids just look around confused at waht to do. (its not cruel, its just funny)
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Okay, if this is long, Im sorry, but I give fives to everyone:]
My ex boyfriend used to always follow me, every single place I went at school. It got old, but I still liked him. Im very shy and so I didnt talk to him alot. Hes kinda geeky too though. Hes a boyscout. Now we broke up because I wanted too, and his friend said I broke his heart and everything, and its just so weird without him all the time. I miss him, but at the same time, he was kinda smothering. What should I do? (link)
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Well. im geeky. First girlfriend? kinda hard to let go of. Kind of a problem fro me cuz she was in the grade below me and people made fun of me when we were going out anyway. Set him up with another girl now. It might help. (boyscout doesnt look geeky. It looks damn good on a college application) (now 20+ hour gaming marathons, thats geeky. so done it)
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ok so does anyone have any good questions i can ask my bf? like even if they are uncomfortable ones, you know? because im trying to think of some good ones and he said he wants me to ask some uncomfortable ones lol
we have been friends for like a year and we have been going out for a month if that helps. so questions like whats your favorite food wont help me much
thanks 5's for everyone (link)
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um....ask him about past girlfriends? it may not be something you want to hear, but you will be assured that youre better then anyone he has ever gone out with.
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im 13f n ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost three weeks now and we still havent kissed. he kisses me on the cheek all the time but thats it. is this going too slow? (link)
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ah let him take it however fast he wants he might not be too good at frenching or something like that.
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Do boys like secret admirers???? my school is doing this this thing where u can give either chocolate or a flower to someone, and i dont know if i should do it. (link)
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it's not gonna help cuz im the 2nd most deperate person in the grade, but i would love it if i found out someone likes me.
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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me? (link)
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go ahead and shave. it looks wierd when girls dont. sorry if that gives offense, but iv'e seen the worst of 'em.
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I asked this guy out. He said no cuz he can't date till he's 16. So, is there a chance that he likes me, but just can't date. Or is it one of those lines? He flirts with me, and a few people think he likes me, and his sister told me she thinks he does. (link)
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ah if he seems like he lieks u, hes telling the truth.
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*SORRY THIS IS REALLLY LONG, BUT I NEED YOUR HELP*
okay so , ever since the beginning of school there was this guy that I liked, Rob. Hes really cute and everything, hes a freshman and im a sophomore. Well. I never did anything about it because well, Rob seemed as if he were out of my league. and he never paid attention to me. Well I know his mom because his mom works at the school and i have 2 classes with her. So what happens is, last week. I go to lunch and my friend has bible study with robs mom....my friend told me that Robs mom said that Rob has been trying to talk to me for the longest time and everytime he gets a chance,I walk away by accident...So I didnt believe it at first, but then my friend goes, and she works at a resturaunt, and Rob went to the resturaunt alone...So since he went alone, my friend had a waitress friend of hers go talk to him so she goes up to him and askes "Do you know a girl named Kelly" and he goes "Yeah" and she goes" Do you think shes hot" and he goes " I think shes pretty, shes not ugly" and she asked a bunch of questions...so it ended up that he was supposed to talk to me the next day at lunch, I knew he wasnt going to , so my friend was like * FINE im gonna go talk to him* and im like * FINE i dare you* i didnt think she would...but she did...and i dont know WHAT she said, but i deicided to try to be unnoticable, but she pointed right at me when i was sitting on the cafeteria floor... well i got home, and i asked my this friend of mine Justin, who also knows Rob...for Robs sn...he gives it to me, and i told him to keep it all on the downlow that i asked for it...then he goes "lol do you know who he likes" and I was like " no who" and he goes " I donno 0:)* and he puts the angel face, and everytime i asked him ... he put the angel face. WELL then I go onto my myspace, and i see that Rob commented on my page and he says "Heyy this is Rob. Whats up? Oh, and your friend, really did ask me those questions just so you know...oh can i have your sn if you have one, comment back on my page and give it to me byee* and so i was like * woooowwww he asked for my screen name* but yeah, then i talked to him twice already online...and hes extremley nice, and well the second time i talked to him , we were talking about Napoleon Dynamite, and randomley he goes * so are you going to the dance* and the dance is on the 26th...and i was like * neh , who knows, I dont really wanna go if i dont have anyone to go with you know? If not, then im just plannin on going to the movies that night or something who knows :-)* and i was like what about you? and he goes * idk i might not sure yet* and so i was like * ooo cool* and then i told him that i saw him at the other dance with his ex, and he tells me how much he hates his ex now and he asked me if i had any x's and i go * nope* and he goes * oh you dont? Im sorry* and im like * nah its fine, ive had my chances blah blah blah * and then he goes * so im guessing youve never done anything with a guy...or have you* and i go * nah i havnt lol, id rather have a guy who likes me for who i am, rather than for what i do* and he says * good choice* and then he had to leave, but, yeah, me and him dont talk at school i guess its cuz were shy , but i mean... why would his mom say * hes been trying to talk to her for a while* you know? I dont know, do you think hes interested in me...do you thimk he likes me? or what....OH and I asked Justin if Rob liked a freshman and he said * yeah he likes a freshman girl* so me being a sophomore..its not me...and then Rob goes and tells me that Justin is dumb and that I shouldnt talk to him and i asked if he lies and he said * ummmmm yeahh* and i go *even when it comes to keeping friends secrets?* and he goes * yup* and so I dont know...what do you think?! HELP!!!
I rate all 5's if you write something like you CARE
THANK YOU !!!!!!!!! (link)
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Rob sooooooooo digs ya. see the years that ur in seem to depend on subtltey. if i see something that might be a hidden sign or something refer to me. unfortunatly all of my signs seem to be lost in the gap bettween a romantic hand wave and flipping her off. they cant figure it out.
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this boy went out with this semi-good friend of mine and they broke up w/each other. So he asked my bff out and she said no cuz our semi-friend said she still had feelings for him. weve been talking and he said he never wanted to go out with her (semi) in the first place. so yesterday we were hanging out and i let grab me ass a couple of times. And he kept complmenting me saying i was perfect and stuff like that. My bff said i should go out with him. Also my semi friend said i couldn't hang out with this other boy in our neighborhood cuz he "used" her and we Knew him befor they went out. iLL rate!!!1 (link)
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you no hes tying about never wanting to go out with semi person just to get you to forget about her. ah just do what u want dont worry. reationships dont seem to last long at that age from what ive seen. after its over tell her hes a dirtbag and she will agree adn it will be all good again. just IM me for a better explaination.(i can think of crazy plans for everything haha)
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ok the valentines day dance is the 18th or 19th and i really want a guy to go with..even just as a friend would be fine with me. There is a guy i have had in mind about but he is a grade younger than me? is that wrong? also one of my close friends like him too and she know that i have a *crush* on him but she doesnt know that i actually like him..what should i do? i will rate high!! *lost* (link)
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this is one of those hard times when you have to decide bettween your best friend or a guy.(wow sitcom material) Here's a secret. let her take him, but when she realizes wow hes a year younger than me, you can have him before she realizes what happened. or after she dumps him, rebound is a person's best friend.
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isit true that girls that dont grow up with any type of male figure in their life wil often cling to a possible male figure that pays alittle attention to them ?
srry if it doesnt make sence.. (link)
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well if no one pays attention to someone when they are a child someone will go to the first person they see. for example, in ferris bueler he was desribing his tourtured friend cameron and says, if he doesnt get a girl soon, he will marry the first girl he dates. this is also a psyciatric thing that was in the medical book i read.
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(13/f)My friend, Amy, got me together with a guy called Wayne as a joke because nobody likes Wayne. But I started to really like him. I could tell him anything. He was my best friend. However, he can't stay out of trouble and I found out his grades are really low. So I broke up with him. Now he says he wants me back but he won't change to meet my standards He says he'll try but he doesn't put forth much effort. I told him I just wanted to be friends but it's hard for me because I'm not over him yet. I still want to treat him like a boyfriend. What should I do? (link)
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well you should see how he reacts to getting back together. he might want his reward in advance to doing his work. you might motivate him or something.
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ok with every guy ive dating they have been touchy and lovey and stuff but this one guy now is just so shy and wont open up how do i get him to and be touchy and huggy and affectionate? (link)
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well he might think that youre really preety and he might offend you or soemthing. you should like, be huggy and affectionate to him and them maybe he will do the same for you.
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Ok for Valentines Day I am getting my boyfriend of almost 9 months a box of chocolates, a dozen lollipops that taste really good-have REALLY long stems-the actually candy part of it looks like glass, and a silver key with a heart engraved on it with our intitials on it (K+C). Is that a good idea if not what are some good ideas?
ps. NO colonge bc i like how he smells already, he wouldn't like a teddy bear, prolly wouldn't like a mix cd w. love songs on it, and no boxers (I am not sure of how his mom would feel about that) (link)
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In japan for thier celebration of affection the girls make chocolate for the boy they like.
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