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My ex boyfriend used to always follow me, every single place I went at school. It got old, but I still liked him. Im very shy and so I didnt talk to him alot. Hes kinda geeky too though. Hes a boyscout. Now we broke up because I wanted too, and his friend said I broke his heart and everything, and its just so weird without him all the time. I miss him, but at the same time, he was kinda smothering. What should I do?
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Well. im geeky. First girlfriend? kinda hard to let go of. Kind of a problem fro me cuz she was in the grade below me and people made fun of me when we were going out anyway. Set him up with another girl now. It might help. (boyscout doesnt look geeky. It looks damn good on a college application) (now 20+ hour gaming marathons, thats geeky. so done it)
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I bet you've probably heard this alot but, I mean if you want him back, just tell him. Because if you broke his heart, broken hearts don't heal fast. But you have to give him some conditions. 1. Don't follow me around school. And whatever else you'd like to add but, if you miss him go after him! I mean, even though he may be geeky, he isn't gonna stay single ((or..umm..well, him)) forever waiting for you to come back. Act now! And I know your shy but, why don't you ask him on the phone or computer ((Aim msn yahoo which ever you have)). Or even write him a note and give it to one of your friends to give it to his friends to give it to him!
Good luck!
♥Paige
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I agree with the last two columnists. My guess is that you don't like him that way, you just need him in your life, as a friend. haha geeks make excellent friends. i get that way 2..when ex boyfriends follow me around..i like the attention, i just don't like them like them. what i do is just be their friends and we end up being like best friends. good luck =]
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There is two things that you can do. First, you can become his friend, and hang out with him, but he won't necicarilly think that that is a good idea. So, you could tell him that he was smothering you and that you miss him, but that if he changed, maybe you could try it again. He might not think that is a good Idea either, but it is worth a try. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice! Thanks~
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juss try being his friend. that way you guys can hang out whenever but you don't have to be like bf & gf & you definately don't have to be with him all the time. if you're his friend & you feel that you have greater feelings for him then you guys can get into a bf & gf relationship. if not then juss stay friends.
-hope that helped!♥
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