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Q: my friend alyssa was seeing this guy ryan but they broke up bc she cheated on him. shes in love with this new guy tai they went out brok eup but shes still hooked on him. alyssa doesnt liek ryan any more and says she doesnt care if her friends like him but i feel likeid be betraying her if i did.. me and ryan have been talkin for a few weeks now. just online and on the phone and were making plans to hang out & stuff.. hes such a great guy and has the best personality. do you think its wrong that ryan & i are hanging out and talking??? me and alyssa have been friends for 4 years but she says its ok..i think shes too wrapped up with tai right now but.. i dont want to ruin our friendship at all... what do you advise..??

-kristi
well you can go out with him no matter what alyssa says but if you wanna be her great friend again you could ask her over and over to tell what the truth about what she thinks. if she says yea than go for him.but you shouldnt go wth him if she still really likes him. glad to help!please rate

Q: How do you know your in love?I've know a boy for a year in a half and me and him are close and today i told him i never want to talk to him but righ after i went to my room and bagan crying.I dont know why cried i didt think it would hurt me but it does.How do you know when your in love?
you know your in love when you cant stop staring at that one special person.you know your in love when you cant say goodbye.you know your in love when you feel like you will die.....if you dont have that one person with you every minute. you think about him every day, every night.thats how you know your in love.

Q: well i went out with this one guy and my friend broke up with me for him when i wasn't sure i wanted to yet.. so yeah i was upset about that but i just thought whats done is done and if it was meant to be it will happen on its own and well i really like him again and he still likes me and i don't know if i should like tell him or not... like if i do tell him i'm afraid people might make fun of me or him... and plus the reason i thought of breaking up with him the first place was b/c he never talked to me in person and well i think he is beginning to do that... so should i let him know or not..? and plus one of my other friends like him but i don't think that she would get mad at me if i went back out with him.. so yeah please help me!
well if you really like him you won't care what other people think.If you and this guy are truly ment to be then you will go out with him no matter what. If thats the case, go for it!But if you dont want to go out with him thats all right too. and to make sure your friend knows you want her to be happy you can hook them up. But if you do go out with him you can either try to keep it a secret from her or you can promise to give hm to er when your done with him.Glad to help! Please rate me and if you have any more questions just drop them in my inbox!

Q: okay well i have been talking to this guy online and on the phone almost every night for about a year and 1/2 and even though i have never actually physically met him i think i have fallen in love with his personality. we only live about an hour away and i am friends with his cousin who lives near me, so its very possible that we could meet whenever we wanted to. well i do want to meet him to maybe try to start a relationship, but the problem is that i sent him a fake picture of me. not just one fake picture, but i have sent him websites..TONS of fake picures saying that they were me. so now he has this image of a beautiful girl in his mind. its not that im afraid he will think im ugly at this point, but i am afraid to admit that i sent him alllll those pictures. its extremely embarassing.. and i didnt do it just once, ive done it ALOT!!! i dont know what to do..if i never meet him then it will break my heart and i think i will be missing out on something really great...what should i do? i know this is pathetic..please dont be rude i just need help!!
make your self look like this picture. as much as u possibly can. or u can just meet him and maybe hell be just as ugly as you!rate me five!

Q: Okay my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over 3 months. I really love him. The problem is that his parents are having marital problems. So they might move to Texas. I only know of one way to possibly keep them here but it is probably impossible and that is to get married. I just have no clue how even if it would work. Any other ideas or ideas on how that would work. Any ideas on how I tell him my idea about getting married to possibly keep them from moving.
u could um......... have a long distance relationship but they dont allways work out maybe u can ask his parents if u could live together. that worked on boy meets world!corry and topanga forever!

Q: hello! me and my boyfriend have dated for 3 months and then we broke up. But know we started dating again. And know he is different, he wont touch me i always have to grab him. like grab his hand if i want to hold it. what should i do?
please just stop grabbing him thats disturbing.who cares if he wont touch u thats gross. just...i dunno deal with it maybe hell make a move

Q: i just started liking this guy. lets just call him bob. and about a year ago we were good friends and randomly i started liking him the other day. it was really weird. but i just found out that he has a gf n i know nothing about her or how long theyve bin goin out. im really upset but what should i do? i cant just win him over because i NEVER see him except for in the halls but i dont have time to talk to him then! ill rate u a 5 if u answer!
well just ask him out maybe hell like u better than his gf.hey are u julie?just wndering

Q: ok when i graduated from da 8th grade i was leavin alot of memories and friends behind me.. they were all going to a different high skewl than i was and i knew even tho we said we'd still be friends id never see them again.. well there was this kid named anthony... and well ive liked him sense the first time i met him(and im pretty sure he knew). i thought i wasnt gunna be hapy without seein him anymore but i eventually got over it and moved on. well yesterday when i went to pick up my brother from the ice rink there he was(wit some girls from his skewl)... and the minute i saw him all those feelings came back. when he passed by he said hey and we talked very briefly. i left after words but now i feel bad all over again and i know its gunna take a while fur me to get over it.. how do i make those feelings go away?
i know its hard to miss your friends but you should remember all the good times. you could even call them for old-time-sake!

Q: Last night I found out my bf did drugs. He never told me or anything but they were talking about it and my friend told me. I also found out that he was ganna dump me because he did it. It really made me mad. Like its not the fact that he does it, but the fact that he never told me about it. He knows i dont agree with that stuff so what should i do because i dont want him keeping stuff from me.
this guy is an ass! he had sex and never told you!oh dump this loser hes not good enough for you!

Q: My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way??
Tell your boyfriend tthat if hes gonna be so immature then you can't go out with him any more. If you tell him in a nice,respectful way he should listen to you.

Q: i like this guy and i'm not sure if he likes me.he's always really nice to me. i'm not sure what to do. i wanna tell him that i like him but i'm afraid that if i do he'll either be afraid of me or tell me that he hates me. wat should i do?
if your afraid to tell him that you like him, dont tell him to his face. slip a note into his locker that usually works. if he says he hates you stop liking him ,he's not good enough for u!

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hey im maria and i wanna tell all you teens out there that im here to help.i have blonde hair and blue eyes.i love helping people thats why i have a column. if you have a question just drop it in my inbox! chances are im going throught the same thing! glad to help!

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