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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)
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there is this boy that i really like hes gonna be a junior im gonna be a freshmen. my friends think hes too old. do u?
jaclyn
o by the way i found out he told his friends he likes me!
what should i do?
i don't think he's too old. i'm actually a freshman dating a junior, and it's fine with my friends. actually, my friends really likes him, so they all get along pretty well. :]
if he really does like you, he's most likely gonna ask you out, hopefully sometime soon. say yes, if you really like him. as for your friends. i think they should understand your situation. just because he might be a little older doesn't mean he's not good for you. it would be good to make sure they're all friends with each other to avoid having to choose between your friends vs. the guy.
good luck!
Im a white 17/F..and i like a black guy name Tyron..the more i see him and spend time with him the more i like him...we both know we are very attracted to eachother and we want to date but there is one big problem..my parents..my dad already told me that i was forbidden to date a black guy..and my mom is worried that i will date one..im soo upset because im not the racist type..when i see Tyron i dont see black..i just see HIM. Hes a wonderful guy..im sooo hurt over this..what should i do?
i'm going through the same thing you are right now. only i'm asian, which actually makes it worse, since i'm not supposed to be dating at all til after high school. but i'm pretty much disobeying them. this guy i'm with, he's black, is probably the best guy i've ever met and i'm not letting him go. my friends like him and think he's great, too, so i know i did right choosing him. i think that breaking the rules are necessary, despite the consequences, because things will be worse if you don't follow your heart.
if you need anything else about this, just message me. good luck!
anyone know or whats your biggest turn on (girls) or turn on spot?
for me, i really like it when guys would kiss/peck my neck and go up to my cheeks, then to my lips. i really get turned on when a guy would touch my breasts gently, you know? yea, legs. it really does depend on the girl, like the other advicenators said.
umm...ok hi.
i like this boy Dakota and he likes me. and wen wnt out for about 2 months but too much drama got started so we broke ^. but we REALLY want to go bak out but we r afraid that if we do drama will get started again but we still REALLY like each other....plezz help. we r just....so lost..
you can never get away from drama. i know somebody who switched schools because there was too much drama in the old one. but then she realized that drama is everywhere. you can't get out of it. now, if you two like each other so much, get back together. drama isn't gonna stop no matter what. if anything at all, drama teaches you to ignore the bad and cherish the good. i went out with this guy once, and once we did, everybody kept going up to me asking why i'm going out with him, is it a bet, etc. i just ignored them, saying i have my reasons, and if you don't like me and him together, well then, too bad. we stayed together for about 6 months. that was about 2 yrs ago, and i still wish i didn't break up with him. drama got between us. we ended up going to different schools the next grade and i heard something about him flirting with other girls and stuff, so i broke up with him. but i should've known that he's not that kind of person. and i still am sorry with what i did.
you don't want to regret not being with him especially if you like him so much. drama and gossip is not a reason to let go of somebody you like. so go on and go out with him, and prove the people wrong!
i want to hook up with this guy at the movies. i have hooked up before but never like sitting doen facing the same direction as the guy. how do i move my body to hook up with him? if he puts his arm around my shoulders what do i do next? how can i get him to kiss me?
if he puts his arms around you, put your head on his chest. it'll make him know you're interested. if you wanna kiss him, try teasing him. do something like, bite your lips while looking at him with a smile in your eyes, you know? or like, whisper to him something like, can i kiss you? or just make the first move yourself. kiss him in the cheek first, maybe close to kis mouth, then see if he would kiss you back. then just go from there.
this boy really likes me and is apparentely goign to ask me out. Im not sure what to do, i really really like him but im not sure if i can be in a relationship right now because of other peoples cocky comments like haha hes going out with her! what shall i do, shall i say yes or no?
the advisors before me gave really good advices already. but i wanted to give you my personal point of view of this, b/c this happened to me with my first boyfriend.
it was two years ago, when we were 6th graders. he told one of my friends that he was gonna ask me out soon, and my friend told me. my friend wasn't really supposed to tell me, but atleast it made me prepare to what i was gonna say. it was my first boyfriend, after all. he asked me out friday, and by monday, everybody knew about it. everybody came up to me and asked me, "are you really going out with *****?! EWWW. why him?!" blah blah blah. honestly, at first it got to me. but then i was like, "they're criticisms doesn't make my life. i make my own decisions. good ones and bad ones. if this turns out as a bad one, atleast it was my decision and not everybody around me. they would just have to get used to seeing us together, b/c it's not gonna change anytime soon."
i'm glad i didn't listen to them. we went out for almost 6 months. not bad for a first-timer, huh? we were only 12 then, so it was pretty long for our age. and it really surprised everybody how long we went out. afterwards, we didn't talk to each other. i still have feelings for him, for he was my first boyfriend and kiss. but nowadays, we're kinda friends.
never let other people's bad voice get in the way of what you want. if you like him, say yes. it's not gonna do anything bad to you, other than teach you. if it doesn't work out, then that's it. stay friends as long as you can, cuz you'll want it.
hope i helped!
go ahead and message me if you need anything else.
Should i send this to the girl i really like. she has been sending me the most confusing signals possible!
" , I hope what I can write here will clear things up a bit. I apologize for causing distress. I am to much of a character to not rip apart the people I wish to do only good for. But there are things I do I regret, and actions I take which I don’t know why. All I want is you. for all your amazing personality traits and amazing attributes. There is nothing I think I can do to win your love. Nothing would feel right around you. ther is always this qua-zay odd feeling. One of those people who I don’t hug when we depart, yet the one who I would love to embrace for an eternity. Why is there such distance. I kno I say things I barely mean, and even make you wonder about how much you really are attracted to me. Because I get confused between love of the person and desire. I want all that you provide, and I have no good means of obtaining it. I think that if the feeling of attraction was equal you may be willing to help me get through the rough patches. If this is true, how do I bring them about. How can I get it so there is no uneasiness between us. No need to hide my emotions. And no need to draw them out. I can provide almost everything you ask of me. Just ask. I already inquired about your actions but I don’t understand your answers. Why hold back when it comes to me. What have I done to receive such treatment? What do I strike you as. Do you really think this way? Why not openly talk about this. And just accept the truth of the answer. "
awww. yes, i think you should. if a guy gives me that, i would probably cry. it's sweet. i think she would love it. i know i did. and if things doesn't go your way with her, just know you tried. that's all you can really do.
good luck!
13/f, kinda popular.
so i am desperatley in love with this guy
i have liked him since last year. we have been pretty good friends. my friends have told him alot of times about me liking him but he just ignores it. my guy friend is friends with him and tryed really hard to get us to go out but he didn't. then this girl asked him out and he was pressured to say yes because everyone new she asked him. then a couple weeks later he broke up with her and said that he never really liked her and that she was annoying. i kinda stopped liking him during that time but now i sit by him in science and fell for him again. i no i can never forget him so i really need help. i cant just go up and ask him to go out with me because i am really shy with guys, but i have talked to him as friends. a school dance is coming up if that helps. i really need your help asap! thanks in advance!~
that's perfect. i've had this happen to me. i fell in love with my best guy friend. it wasn't easy. i ended up asking him out, but he rejected me. you should ask him to go to the dance, if he's not really a go-to-dance person. MAKE him go, if he really doesn't wanna. just make sure he goes. then, when he is there, ask him to dance with you in a slow dance. just talk to him. easy-talk, you know. like, "hey. how's it going? you liking the dance?" blah blah blah. it's one step to being closer with him, even for 3 minutes. before and after the dance, you should keep talking to him. get to know him better, be a better friend, since yall are already good friends. you should wait, though. since you know that you like him, it's up to him to feel the same to you. if you ask him out at the wrong time, that might be the end of that. and you can't really afford that right now. if he asks you out, and you don't like him anymore, it'll give him something to think about - why he never asked you earlier, etc. just wait. patience is the key. yea, very cliche, but it's true.
hope i helped.
if you need anything else, just message me!
Okay so a few days ago my boyfriend and I were lsaying on a couch watching a movie and while we were facing eachother i whispered i love you. (this was the first time either of us has said it in person) and he just kinna smiled and kissed me. now i'm not 100% sure he heard me but it seems like he did.
should i see this as a bad thing? i expected him to say i love you too. please tell me what you think. thanks.
i guess you shouldn't really expect anything as big as that. but then again, it kinda depends on how long yall have been together. it's not really a bad thing; don't worry about it. my first boyfriend that told me i love you was when we were dating for a little more than a month. i didn't say it back to him until a month later. i guess he was expecting an i love you back, but i didn't say it to him cuz i didn't know if i felt the same way for him. but throughout our relationship, i realized that i did feel the same way, and started saying i love you back. just be patient. he'll say it. it's better to wait for it, than have him say it without meaning it. hope i helped!
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heyy, okay well im 13.
i really like this boy in my class and last year in 7th grade i thought he liked me to. i mean we started to become really close friends last year and i had a feeling that something good was going to happen. but then school was over and the summer started, i saw him a couple of times and we hung out a little but then in 8th grade [he was in most of my classes] he just became very distant and started hanging out with a different set of people. we still talk but it's talking like we just met and i still like him. what do i do? how do i rebuild the friendship that we had?
this just happened to me. feels really crappy, doesn't it? knowing that you can't even talk to your friend the way you used to? yea.
well, good thing is, you still talk. even a little is good enough to start with. just talk to him more often. since you have enough classes to talk to him at, take the advantage. he might be feeling the same way, if you were really that good of friends.
in my experience, what i did was to just come up and talk to him as much as possible. it was VERY AWKWARD, and you can't help that. but ever since then, it just kept getting better and better. talk about what you used to talk about. maybe say something like, "remember that time when ....." bring back old memories. funny ones, mostly.
act like you like him, but don't make it too obvious. be a little more flirty towards him. he'll get the message, i'm sure. if not, well, there's always confrontation - just tell him you like him. but, through personal experiences, don't do that unless it's the last resort. telling a friend your feelings for them doesn't always help your friendship. so just keep talking to him. it's better than acting like strangers with each other. if it was as bad as it can get, it can only be better from now on.
hope i helped!
if you have any other questions or whatever, just message me!
i'm with my very first boyfriend. i've been with him a couple weeks and everything has been great. except one thing, i hardly ever see him. i've only seen him once and we've been dating since the end of Febuary. I really want to see more of him, but i don't really know what to do. almost all of my friends have a girlfriend or boyfriend (guys and girls btw) and they've already been saying "i love you" and stuff. I guess i just feel kind of prude because i've never even got kissed before. i'm kind of afraid to be kissed too..even though i know he wants too. and i really want to go for it. but how do you do it?
don't follow everything your friends do. just because they say "i love you" to their "significant other" doesn't mean you have to. most of the people i know, they say i love you to their boyfriend/girlfriend, but at the end of the relationship, they act like they never liked the person they were with and stuff. my first boyfriend, was when i was 12 yrs. old. i said i love you to him about a month into our relationship. though, i now know that maybe i didn't LOVE him, i knew that i really did like him ... A LOT. i miss him [we broke up about 6 months after we started going out and stuff], and i'm still kinda friends with him.
just because you haven't gotten a kiss before doesn't mean your a loser or whatever. that boy i was talking about was my first kiss, too. yes, first boyfriend = first kiss. atleast it was to me. but you don't have to do that. kiss when you feel like you really want him to be your first kiss, not because you feel like if you don't kiss somebody now, everybody's gonna hate you. what my ex did, he actually asked me if he could kiss me. of course i said yes. but it wasn't til about 15 mins. after he asked me that we really did it. he flirted with me first, holding my hands, hugging me really tight, saying i love you every 2 mins., etc. then, he kissed my cheek, then i moved and we kissed in the lips. now, you don't have to do that, but it sure was pretty sweet.
as for wanting to see him, you don't have to see each other every day to have a relationship. yes, that would've been so much better, but a relationship isn't all about seeing each other. it's also about getting to know each other, enjoying each other's company when you can. i suggest you go to the movies every now and then. or go to bowling. just do something together. get some friends to come with you if your parents don't want you all alone with him. but just try to find time to spend with each other. in your case, and mines too back then, cherish every minute you have with each other. it'll feel so much special.
if you have other questions or problems, just message me!
15/f. you answered my other question about me liking my guy friend but being too shy to ask him out and i don't want to risk our friendship. you told me that you posted a myspace bulletin and then he posted back or something like that. what bulletin did you post? lol. because i think that might work. i posted a bulletin before saying something like anyone can ask me one question and he answered the bulletin. so that proves that he does read bulletins.
thanks =]
hey! well this is it. hope it works out!
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF?
1. I MADE A MOVE ON YOU:
2. I KISSED YOU:
3. I LIVED NEXT DOOR 2 YOU:
4. I STARTED SMOKING:
5. I ASKED YOU ON A DATE:
6. I WAS HOSPITALIZED:
7. I RAN AWAY FROM HOME:
8. I GOT INTO A FIGHT AND YOU WEREN'T THERE:
9. I ASKED YOU TO LEAVE:
10. I ASKED YOU OUT:
WOULD YOU?
16. BE MY FRIEND?
17. KEEP A SECRET IF I TOLD YOU ONE?
18. HOLD MY HAND?
19. GO OUT ON A DATE WITH ME?
20. KEEP IN TOUCH?
21. TRY AND SOLVE MY PROBLEMS?
22. LOVE ME?
23. DATE ME?
HAVE YOU EVER?
26. LIED TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER?
27. WANTED TO KISS ME?
28. KEPT SOMTHING IMPORTANT FROM ME?
29. WANTED TO CUDDLE WITH ME?
AND MORE!
31. WHO ARE YOU?
32. ARE WE FRIENDS?
33. WHEN AND HOW DID WE MEET?
34. DESCRIBE ME IN ONE WORD:
35. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST IMPRESSION?
36. WHAT REMINDS YOU OF ME?
37. IF YOU COULD GIVE ME ANYTHING WHAT WOULD IT BE?
38. HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW ME?
39. WHEN'S THE LAST TIME YOU SAW ME?
40. EVER WANTED TO TELL ME SOMTHING BUT COULDN'T?
41. ARE YOU GONNA POST THIS SO YOU CAN SEE WHAT I SAY ABOUT YOU?
WOULD YOU?
42. KISS ME?
43. MAKE OUT WITH ME?
p.s.
don't be embarassed to tell the truth !
15/f. i like one of my guy friends and i don't know what to do. i want to tell him but i'm shy and i'm afraid that if he doesn't like me then it will be ackward between us and we couldn't be friends anymore.
also a lot of other girls like him too. like i know of 2 girls that have already told him that they liked him and he didn't feel the same way and then he doesn't talk to them anymore.
what should i do? and if you suggest that i tell him that i like him how should i do it?
thanks!
well, i've been through this just a month ago. what i did was, you know those surveys on myspace where other ppl answer it and they reply their answer to the poster? well, my crush posted one, and i answered it for him then he answered the same survey back to me. then i just asked him out. i don't know if he does that, but if he doesn't, that's a kinda good way to tell him. though face-to-face is better, if you don't wanna do that, then message is always good. or write him a note. my guy friend - who is also one of my best friends - turned me down with the reason of not wanting to jeopardize our friendship. though i felt bad about it, after going through that, it made me feel like our friendship had became stronger. i've told most of my crushes that i like them - never face-to-face. but thing is, even if it doesn't come out the way you want it to, there's always an advantage to it. whether it be a stronger friendship or a deeper friendship.
hope i helped!
feel free to message me for whatever you need.
which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
thanks for reading
i'm a huge fan of the boy's smile and eyes. those are the two main things i like in a boy. but other physical and of course personalities and such with the smile and eyes aren't so bad, either. ;]
before answering,this question is not based on personality,so please don't answer..."if he has a nice personality"
i know this may seem like a wierd question,but i'm just curious,so thanks for taking the time.
do girls like classical or rock musicians?
and i'm confused,cause i hear girls say that they love musicians,but
1)is it based on skill.exp:the better the guitaring is.the more the girl likes the guy?
does skill affect?or do girls just don't care if he is a sucky guitarist or a pro,they will still like the guitarist as long as he plays guitar??
2)is it also based on looks,?or do girls love great drummers and vocals even through they don't look good? so which one would a girl choose? a kickass drummer with average looks or a sucky drummer with model looks?
thanks for answering,anyways,if you girls like any other type of guys besides musicians....like bikers,car racers or skaters...just feel free to say what talent you would love in a guy.although i hear that most girls are not really into guys that race,but more to guys that are musically or sports inclined,it that true???(this question is not based on looks or personality)
thanks a lot for reading.
for me, i always tend to fall for musicians, espeically guitarists and drummers. in my opinion, the boy's talent is part of the charm. the better he is in playing, the more i would want him. i would say the looks matter, just a little. i've liked boys that are average looking, but since they play guitar or drums, or both, it adds up. i would choose a kickass drummer with average looks, no doubt. a boy with model looks but is a sucky drummer kinda cancels each other out into a not-so-attractive kind of guy.
um, i like skaters and athletes, too. but not really the jock type of guy where all he thinks about is sports. for athletes, i'm more attracted to baseball and soccer players. as for skaters, i think attractive when i guy skateboards. but, the boy's look kinda matters, too.
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i like this boy. and i'm pretty sure that he likes me too. My friends think i should ask him out. But i've never asked out a guy before. And i dont want to ruin our friendship we have now. So should i ask him out? and how?! please help
thankss!
i've just gone through this. i like my guy best friend. we've been friends for only about 2 years, but i knew that i really did like him. and i asked him out almost a month ago. he rejected me, though. [[this was my first time asking somebody out]] but it didn't ruin our friendship. we still hang out and talk like before. in my opinion, it made our friendship stronger. if you think your friendship is strong enough, then do it. you'll never know what's gonna happen unless you try.
hope i helped!
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Just today, i sent a sorry letter to the boy i love.
He read it, but didnt reply
then later he messaged me on aim.
[which he hasnt done in a while]
he was acting casual
so my question is, does he still hate me ?
or do you think he got over it?
i would think that he's somewhat over it and wants to get everything back to normal. i think you should let him get everything back to normal and maybe throughout that time, he'll start liking you or something. i don't really know a lot of background information between you two, so i can't really conclude what might happen. but i hope i helped.
My friend who i have been friends with since first grade is very flirty and wants to grab my ass. he like said "so i can look but can i touch..." i dont know how to respond to that. i want to be flirty back without saying yes or no. can anyone help pleaseee?
hmm. i think you should try playing hard to get. it can work either way. if you like him being flirty around you, and you're playing hard to get, he'll try more and more. yea, at times it's annoying, but it's also amusing. if you don't want him to touch your ass, then with playing hard to get, hopefully he'll realize that you don't like what he's doing and stop.
hope i helped.
there is this guy that il ike but he thinks i like stalk him but i don't we just have almost every calss beside each other how do i tell him i like him and that i don't stalk him with him getting freaked out
well, there's several ways you can do it. direct approach - YOU tell him how you feel. indirect approach - a very good friend of yours tells him how you feel. or just ignore him. it depends on what kind of boy he is. if he's the kind of boy who can understand and won't tell the whole world, just tell him directly rather than letting a friend tell him. if he's the kind of person who can be stuck-up and full of himself, then ignore him. if he is used to you being around him all the time, maybe he'll notice if your not around him and he'll take notice of where you are.
so i really like this . shes really nice to me but i dont know if she likes me or not because shes nice to everyone. but my problem is it seems like alot of times im around her ill do something really embarassing or stupid but she'll just laugh like in a nice way. my question is for s: would you like it if a guy got embarassed (like little things tripping, backing up into something, etc.) but it made you laugh? and how can i get her to like me? (shes one of those really nice caring but really funny s) thankss!
personally, i would think it's cute. in general, i think girls like it when guys are making fools of themselves [no offense], cuz that just makes it known that even though the guy might get embarassed from what they did, the guy isn't afraid to make his crush laugh. as to getting her to like you, just be yourself. every girl has a reason to liking somebody. the best reason is that she likes who you are. be good friends with her. drop hints that aren't to obvious but aren't too vague either. keep hanging out with her. in a friend kind of way, not stalky kind of way.
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WANNA BE iiN LUV