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okay SO
i've known this guy since like 4th grade, right? and i've liked him on and off since then, and he says he's liked me on and off since then too.
last year we went out for a while, but i was a sucky girlfriend back then and never was able to go anywhere, so it didnt work out. a week later he got with my friend, which devastated me.
i ignored him for a few months, which was hard because he was still my friend, but it helped me to get over him.
about a month or two ago, he and this girl broke up, we started talking again, and he started confusing me like big time, acting like he liked me and saying he liked me, and his ex said he liked me & she would be okay with it if we went out, but at the same time he still acted like he liked her. THEN he apparently fell back in love with her and we're all good friends now, but im heartbroken. i thought this would be my 2nd chance, but i lost it.
i guess what i would like to know is, should i wait and see if maybe i could still get my chance with him, or just get over him?
i dont know if the last is possible... but i need to know if im totally insane for wanting him this badly, & if i need to back off since he's with my friend and all.
sorry this was long and confusing but any kind of advice on what i can do is much appreciated.
i'm 14/f, by the way. (link)
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well, for a start i don't believe in love at your age but, i think that for the sake off your and your friends friendship, you should both stay clear of him... i don't think you'll be able to get over him if your seeing him with your friend or if you wait for him to ask you... you need to forget about him, and tell you friend how you feel.
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ok i know this is like my 4th question in one day
theres this guy i like, we'll call him Joe. Joe knows i like him and he says he doesn't feel the same. he has this ex i really dont like too much. well joe acts a lot of the time like he likes me, he teases me(sorta mean, sorta nice), hes always messin with me, and the other night he called me. he made fun of me while we were on the phone, and he kept asking what i was doing. hes one of my kinda good friends and he texts me almost all the time. well i recently(as in about 5 minutes ago)found out from one of my other best friends that she told his ex (Sara) that i like him, and she and sara called him to try to get him to date me, my friend has been getting both of his exes to try and hook me and him up. any advice about this whole fiasco? i dont want him to think i put them up to it, but i really dont want to talk at all about it with him (link)
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If this boys' relationships with any of the exes' weren't serious and they didn't last long, I wouldn't say that you had a problem, that is, if all you were looking for was a bit of fun. If not, stop and think. He may not be looking for a relationship, just a bit of arm candy to snog and boast about. Is any boy worth getting hurt for? No, I didn't think so.
Honestly, it sounds to me that he's showing the ex Sara that somebody else likes him, to get her jealous. And her 'trying' to set you up with him could either be because she is over him, or still has feelings for him that she doesn't want him to know about.
Tread carefully and be honest. But be careful who you trust.
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I have this crush on this boy and then I found out that guy best friend had a crush on me. We're having a dance and my guy friend asked me to dance so I did and I saw my crush.. He was getting kind of antsy because he has a crush on me too. My crush tryed to ask me to dance but he is shy and chicken out after he saw me dance with my guy friend. I don't want to hurt my guy friends feelings or my crush's. I am starting to like my guy friends now too. I kind of like them both now, and i dont no what to do or which boy to choose for are next dance. What should I do or which boy should I choose?
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Alysonwillow, female, age 14 (link)
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definitely your crush. if you and your guy friend really are friends, then he'll still be your fiend while you're with your crush. besides, if you've been friends with this guy and never liked him like that until you found out he liked you... maybe you don't really like him... go with your crush.
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Hey!
Well im 14 years old, girl, and i was wondering if my crush is going to ask me out? I've liked him for a while and about 6 weeks ago he found out I liked him. Since then we have been flirting and talking all the time on myspace, google talk, and on the phone. Just about 3 weeks ago my friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes. I wasn't at school one day and everyone found out he supposedly liked me. He's been messaging me and always talking to me which isn't really normal for him. It's been a while and I'm thinking is he going to ask me out or isn't he? I really want to know because I don't want to put myself out there and have high expectations if nothing is going to happen. Please Answer
thanks (link)
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well he definitely likes you! that muh is obvious! but you said it wasn't really like him to talk to you... does that mean he's shy or you two have just never really been friends? if it means he's shy, he might be good at flirting but is not so good at asking you out, so maybe you could ask him..? but chances are very high that you two will end up going out. whether by you asking him or viceversa. hope this helped!
xxx
p.s damn you're lucky having your crush like you back! =] x
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im engaged to a woman who just doesnt like my 9 year old son. she has told me she doesnt like him and shows very little affection towards him. what should i do? (link)
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get rid of her. your son should be the most important thing, and i'm pretty sure he is other wise you wouldn't be worrying about your fiance, so do the right thing!!!! when you have a child you instantly become a package deal!
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ok so me and my boyfriend broke-up only a month ago... i broke up with him.. but he already has a girlfriend...
its just irritating me and there like all over eachother at school. its annoying. i really truly dont have feeling for him, and like i dont want him back at all... but idk its just annoying and like i know 4 sure that theree bothe gonna have sex... and i dont know why it bothers me but it does... help? (link)
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i agree with xxxRadioGagaxxx. but i have a feeling she's just a rebound! don't worry about it. and you broke up with him, so he's probably just using her to get over you. and yeah either find a new uy or take a brake from guys and have fun with your friends.
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so im 13
and this dude is 15
we've been talking for a while now (few months)
and he asked me out last saturday over text.
i can never tell if someones serious over text so...
i said i wasnt sure.
and he hasnt talked about it since.
did he take it as a no?
(hes not the shy type at all.. so he'll basically talk about ANYTHING ad EVERYTHING)
so please help
guys have never been this confusing to me before. (link)
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send him a text saying something like 'if you were really serious about me going out with you, then ask me in person' if he was serious, he'll ask you, and if not well, forget about it!
hope everything works out!
xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Hi all. I would like to know if girls would like a little break just after they have had an orgasm during love making, or if they dont mind to have the fun going on right away. Cheers! (link)
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You should feel able to ask her. So ask. She'll think it's brave of you.
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16/f
okay so.. in our youth group there's like 4 guys (it's a small youth group). but anyways, i've hooked up with one of the guys lets call him A. A liked me a lot i'm pretty sure and i kinda liked him back. then there's B. my best friend hooked up with B. they really liked each other and he wanted to ask her out but she didn't wanna go out with him. but anyways.. now B likes me. and he's gonna ask me out and he like got me this really pretty necklace and stuff (my friends told me this). my best friend says she doesn't care if i go out with him.. but he was her first hook up and i would feel bad. and also i don't really want to go out with him. but here's the question.. would it be wrong if i just hooked up with him? because he's a really great person and he's attractive and stuff but i just don't really want a relationship for the summer because there's a few other guys i'm interested in. but then again i don't know if i should because i don't want to be like the 'slut of the youth group' having hooked up with 2 of the guys. ya know? i'm mostly just worried about my best friend caring even though she says she doesn't. but here's the catch.. one of my other best friends has never made out before. so B told her he would hook up with her so she would get the experience. my other friend told her it was fine. so would it be ok if i hooked up with him too? she said it was but i still feel like she kinda likes him a little just because it was her first time and i dont know it just feels wrong.
THANKS (link)
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My god.
I really don't think that you should date one of your friends exes, especially as this 'B' would have been special to her being her first. You should be respectfull of her feelings if you're truely her friend. The only reason she's saying she's ok with it, is because she doesn't want to create tension between the two of you. You're her friend, and she wants you to be happy. You should realise that she's willing to be unhappy (to what extremes I don't know, as I'm not 100% aware of her feeling towards this), just for you, her friend, to be happy. That should show you just how much you mean to her. Are you willing to go with this guy knowing that could be a possibility? Because I definately wouldn't. It's happened to me, I know how it feels. You should take note that I never forgave the girl...
Friends before boys remember.
If you don't want a relationship with 'B' anyway, all you would achieve by going with him is something to brag about, while your friend is sitting heartbroken in the corner by your betrale, and give 'B' hopes of you becoming something more than the easy girl from the youth group that he got off with, when really, you're not interested. Nice.
Your other best friend should wait for somebody that she actually likes to have her first kiss with. Not somebody who offers, and is just up for an easy snog. My goodness, that's just fucking desperate.
Personally, all three of you girls should just forget about this 'B'. You, should focus on your friends rather than which bloke you're going to pull next. The girl who previously went out with B, who was her first, should learn to tell you her true feelings about situations, as she ought to trust you... and so, you must learn to be trustworthy. The girl longing for her first kiss, should focus on being happy, and stop looking for it to happen, just let it happen in time, no matter how long it takes and how frustrated she gets.
I'm sorry if some of this is harsh, but I truely wish you and your friends the best of luck.
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Im 18 he's 22 and my bosses son.
When were together were constntly flirting, but neither of us have ever mentioned how we feel, i know i like him and im sure he likes me. The problem is he's leaving town to start his new job as of monday. Tomorow i'm going to see him before he leaves so i can say goodbye and all.
All my friends all telling me i should kiss him when i tell him goodbye.
Should I?
Nothing big... dont wanna pounce on him.lol
I also dont want to leave things feeling wierd...
WHAT DO I DO?
PLZ ANSWER FAST! TAHNKS (link)
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I agree with the girl above. Smart girl. =]
That will create the opportunity for a kiss on the lips, if he wants to. And will also leave the opportunity, for him to leave things as they are already, if he doesn't feel the same way as you.
You give him a choice this way.
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Okay, So there is this Guy who I totally like. And I want to know if he likes me back. Here is how he acts.
1. Im the first girl on his top, And Pretty far up, on myspace.
2. Whenever he is online, He i/ms Me
3. He insults me alot Then Smiles
4. He always looks me in the eyes
5. In gym one day, I was sitting down and he sat really close to me and we spent the whole period talking.
6. He playfully punches me. Or slaps in me in the stomach or something.
7. Once In enlgish, My friend put her backpack in the seat next to mine, and he moved it and Put his stuff there and sat.
8. Another time in English, He was sitting in the back and I sat in the front and he moved his Stuff and Sat next to me.
9. Once, in the hall i was talking to my friend Shane about how Shane cameover my house once and The kid I like was right there, and he was like "I have never been to your housee!"
So Does he like me? Also, It seems like he's kind of flirting. So when he is Doing all of this, what do I do back? Thankss(: (link)
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Does he like you? Hell yeah =]
''hurting is flirting'' So when he playfully punches you, do it back, or if you're a girly girl, say something like ''Oh my god, that hurt, don't...'' with a coy smile and eye contact of course. You could also hold his gaze for longer than usual, for about 3 seconds say, and then smile, coyly, and look away. =P
If he wants to sit beside you, that could show protectiveness. He doesn't want any other guy anywhere near you. Everyone say 'aww'. =]
Insults and then a smile. Classic. He's trying to wind you up and hear you moan ;) haha Just joking. But be carefull that you don't take any of the insults seriously, it's just a way of holding your attention, and flirting. If you want to, you could always try and tease him by just stating that he's wrong and that you think the opposite. That'll kill him, and will end up making him want you even more. So when you can tell that he's getting all frustrated, just do the whole ''aw, I was just messing with you'' thing, while giving him a smile and a sensual rub on the arm hehe. He'll love you for it. =P
My god, you're dead lucky. =]
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me= 16/f
him=17/m
we've been dating nearly a year and im in need of ideas of gifts to give him on our 1 year. I love him with all my heart he's the sweetest guy ive ever met and a lil emotional. i want the gift for hjim to be amazing and remind him of me since he's gotten me many amazing gifts such as a ring, neclace, and an adorable stuffed animal to cuddle with. I dont want the gift to be something to do with his interests cuz thats more of a christmas/b-day gift. I want it to be just something that reminds him of Us and our amazing year together. we havent taken many pictures so a scrapbook wont work im thinking that for our 2 year when we have more things to put in it.
give me as many ideas as possible i need a ton!!
thanks (link)
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is there anything thats happened between the two of you that your always taking and laughing about... well get something that has connotations of that! or get him something that is engraved with the date you started going out or something!
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There this guy I'm kind of interested in. He's in one of my classes and we're always talking and stuff, but I want to be able to get him to "see" me in a different way. Any tips on how I can be more flirty subtly? I always seem to be near him, and its a class where we are always working on projects or in groups. We're always looking and smiling at eachother and chatting, but I want to be able to do more.
ADVICE? (link)
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well... onw thing that ALWAYS seemed to work for me and my mates, is complimenting him! especially telling him he smells nice!! an added bonus to that compliment is that it gives you an excuse to get closer to him!!! and who said you had to flirt subtly? do it outrageously!! that will probably get your result... and if not... its fun anyway!!!!!!!!
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