♥our names are ansley and rachel
♥ we have been best friends since 2ond grade
♥ we both cheer for our school
♥ we are both 13
♥ we are very understanding people
♥ we think zac efon is very hott
♥ we both love our cell phones
♥ we love the beach
♥ we love the movies
♥ we absolutely love summer
♥ we love to hang with friends
♥ no question is stupid so please ask!!
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Ok, I have no idea what to say when people ask me out and I don't like them. Everytime I end up saying something nice and i guess I kind of lead them on, but I don't mean to, I just don't want to be mean. So what can I say when I don't want to go out with them?
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ansley says :: this is what i always do .. i always tell the guy that i have "never thought of them as more than a friend" or i say "im very happy that you asked me out but i dont think of you that way, i just want to be friends" thats what i say and i sure hope it helps!!
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Could a sign a guy likes you be that he talks to everyone and is able to keep long converstations with other girls, but with me hes shy and we have short random conversations, usually having to do with making fun of each others in a nice way? thanks in advance! (link)
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hahaha yes i would say that was a sign!!
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im a sophomore in highschool and the guy i like is a senior. he'd had a girlfriend for a long time. about 2 years i think. but they break up alot and fight alot. i really like him and i dont know what to do. should i tell him i like him? he is the most popular kid in school. everybody knows him even the freshman. i talk to him online but we only hung out once and thats when he invited me to come see him at his work. we have alot in common like the music and movies and the stuff we like. i dont know how serious he is with his gf. he always tells other girls their hott. plus they fight alot. how can i hint to him that i like him without actually telling him straight out? or should i tell him straight out? should i even tell him at all? (link)
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ansley says :: well if i was in your situation this is what i would do ... i would start hanging out with him more, do more stuff with him to get to know him better and learn more about him, then when you feel comfortable you can tell him you like him if you want to .. that is what i would do and i sure hope it helps && good luck!!
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Hey im 13/f and I was wondering how do you get guys to notice you? I'm not ugly or anything guys just dont seem to ever like me theres always someone better than me to like. How do I get guys to notice me? (link)
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ansley says :: i am the same age as you and i had the exact same problem, i always thought that all of the girls at my school were prettier and better than me and no guys would EVER notice me, but then i realized that i just need to be myself, i dont need a guy to like me because im pretty or i'm ditsy ... a guy should like you for who you are, just be yourself! ohh and all of the girls who are pretty and get all the guys at our school have some sorry attitudes so they wont have a guy for very long so just remember, dont ever change yourself for a guy!!
hope this helped and good luck!! ♥ us
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14/f okay so i have this friend and she likes my boyfriend&&shes really really pretty she als0o has down syndrome... but not very severly any ways shes like my best friend and im so jealous of her and im afraid that my boy friend likes her i dont wwant to be mean to her because of her problem... shes also really popular ok once she was like yahh if he was here right now i would so make out with him i was like wtf thats my bf... should i drop her as a friend or should i dump my boyfriend or WHATT!?!?!?!
sincerely---confused (link)
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rachel :- stuff like this happens with two of my friends like all the time. obviously this girl isnt a very good friend. she doesnt care whether or not this guy is your boyfriend or not. if you really like/love your boyfriend then dont end it. this girl doesnt deserve your friendship and your boyfriend. hope this helps!
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I have this friend.. Haley. She is going out with Steven. Steven is really really really cute. and he is the ONLY guy that will accualy be my friend. hes so niicee.. and is the only guy that I am confertable being arround. But he likes haley, and haley likes him. And I dont wana ruin the relationship between them but i flirt with him so much that its not even funny!! Help!! I dont wana lose either of my friends!! (link)
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rachel :- ohkay ... i think that you should tell haley and steven both how you feel. if it was meant to be with you and him then it will happen over time. and haley should be happy for you when it does happen if she's really your friend. hope it helps!
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okay well me and this kid really like eachother like we were talking online last night like all night & it was like really cute cause he kept like telling me how much he likes me crap and i really really like him too. yeah sounds great but last time we liked eachother like nothing happened we just stayed friend. like i really wanna go out with him but like i never ask guys out. i think its sooo weird and like creepy. haha but like i dont know what to do to like get him to ask me out like what to say or what cause ive basically told him that i want to be with him and he said he was like in love with me so please help just like tell me what to do so he like gets the hint and asks me outt haha ill rate highh (link)
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rachel :- just talk to him. tell him how you feel. ask him why he's not doing anything if he likes you oh so very much. you basically just need to ask him about it and tell him that you feel the same way he does. hope it helps!
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Ok here's my situation.
I have a best friend.
He's totally beautiful inside and out. Well, we've been friends for a while..a long while.
I've recently had (cliche!) my eyes opened to see that I've started caring for him more then just a best friend.
He's everything I want in someone.
We've both had our hearts broken,been stepped all over..and we both are pretty lonely.
The only thing that's stopping me is, I don't know how to present this question to him.
I want to go out with him!
But I don't want things to get weird.
He wouldn't hurt me intentionally, I know this.
I've thought of a letter... But that's just to formal for a best friend.
I'm not to good wtih words. I don't know what to do. Please help,. Thank you.
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rachel :- ohkay ... you just need to tell him how you feel. if he doesnt feel the same way, or if he does but it doesnt work out the your friendship should be strong enough to overcome it. i hope this helps!
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okay so i was dating this guy mark & then i cheated on him with jason . bad idea.. okay so then mark found out and broke up with me .. but hes the one that i really love ... and then jason thought i liked him which i didnt i just wanted to get back at mark because he cheated on me last year with this girl named britt. but we just started talking again and i broke up with jason and mark wants to date me again but i now like jason ugh its just so confusing but now jason is dating some other girl that i dont even know i think just to make me jealous and i heard todayyyy that mark is cheating on me but i like jason ugh what should i do? (link)
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rachel :- wow this is a tough one. ohkay ... first you need to ask yourself if you have feelings for both guys. then ask yourself if you like one more than the other. if you do then tell him how you feel. if you like them both the same then i would go with the one who's single. hope it helped!
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i've just broken up with my boyfriend of nearly four years. it's been four days since we've last spoken, and i know i shouldn't feel this way, but i feel terrible.
i've tried going out with friends, making myself productive, and yet i still can't get him off my mind.
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ansley says:: if i were you, i would just keep saying stuff to him and gradually talk to him more and more everyday until you get comfortable around him again, and then eventually tell him how you feel, just say you still have feelings from your last relationship and ask him if he does to ... i dont know if that will help you, but i sure hope it does!! good luck!
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ok.. so there's this guy.. and i think i love him.. but we have been through soo much.. and now he hates me for something i didnt do.. he thinks im preventing him from being friends with one of his ex's who happens to be like my best friend.. but thats soo not the case!! its been 4 months since we broke up and ive been trying so hard to get over him.. and i almost did... but i dont know what came over me... i just snapped and fell in love with him again.. and i just cant get him off my mind.. and i really dont know what to do.. cause there is this other guy that i kinda sorta like but i dont know how he feels about me.. but the thing is i can never stop thinking about the guy i love when i talk to the guy i like.. im really trying to get over him but i cant.. and i reallyjust wanna be friends with him again.. i mean of course i wanna be more than that.. but i just dont want him to hate me
i dont know what to do..if you could help me i'd really appreciate it
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ansley says :: just talk to this guy, tell him how you feel about the whole situation, tell him that you arent trying to prevent him from being friends with his ex and that you would never do that, if he wont listen to you call him or leave him a message or write him a note, if he still wont listen to you then he probably isnt the guy for you and maybe you can give the guy you "like" a shot! hope this helps you and good luck!!
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I've been going on and off with my boyfriend for over a year.. his birthday is coming up and he'll be turning 18. I don't want it to just be like all of his other birthdays, because he's turning 18, I would want it to be good! you know..? I've gotten him nice jeans and band shirts before .. soo haha.
- He's in a band, he plays guitar.
- Wears nice jeans, but band shirts.
- Listens to screamo music (HA! I know.. and I'm preppy lol)
- Likes XBOX .. doesnt have the new one though.
- Like movies .. but not going to the movie theater (haha IDK!)
I'm going to spend 100 dollars or alittle more.
I'm not sure what I can do that will be good and not lame and stuff! Guys are so difficult to shop for sometimes haha. THANKS! (link)
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ansley says :: you could get him
- the new xbox
- games for the old one
- gift certificates
- something for the guitar
- tickets to his favorite band's concert
i dont know ... those are just a few ideas
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ansley says - i think if you still have feelings for him and he has feelings for you then you should go back out with him ... your friends have no business in your personal life, if they wanted to be good friends they would be behind you 100% even if they didnt like him they would still be there for you, i think you should go back out with him, hope this helps!! good luck!!
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ok, so anyway, i was going out with this guy that i absolutley loved and supposedly he loved me, anyway he broke up wiht me cus we never really saw each other, and he felt like there was no spark. And he said that he was more hurt than I was cus he really loved me, it just felt like there was nothing there at the time. And then in a couple days he had already gotten another girl friend that he supposedly love. And he hated me, like I would try to tlak tohim and he would ignore me. Which made me mad cus he said he still wanted to be friends. But then he broke up with this other girl today, and he already had a girlfriend in a matter of hours. And he said the same thing to this girl, but he said, that they faught most of the time, and he felt liek they should be together at a later time. So what should me and this girl do, should we warn his girlfriend about how he acts, or just leave her alone and let her figure it out? i will give all 5's to whoever answers this.
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rachel :- i think that you should probably try to warn this girl but if she doesnt believe you then you should just leave her be. if the same thing happens to her and you didnt warn her then she might think that yall were planning on her getting hurt since you know how he is. if you warn her and she still doesnt do anything about it then it's her fault. she should have listened to you. hope it helps!
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last year i was like the outcast and this guy Jared liked me and he asked me out i didnt know why the heck he liked me but it soon became love he loved me. and i loved him back the realtionship lasted for 10 1/2 months and i felt like we were good and that we were gonna be together for a while longer then we were and now he ignores me and tells his stupid friends things about me and half the time i cant have a regular conversation with him.. i sed about 3 months ago that i'd changed things for him becuz i love him and he completely blew me off. and when his friends are not in school he will talk to me like he would when we were together and i dont know what to do!! should i let him go and ignore him or tell him one more time how i feel??
thanks and sryy its so long
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rachel :- i think that its possible that your ex's friends have a lot of influence over him. i would talk to him about it and see how he feels. you might want to wait til his friends arent around though if he acts different when they're around. hope it helps!
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well...I have a friend who likes 2 throw paper down a gurls shirt but tha gurl keeps covering it up...how can my friend get tha gurl 2 uncover her shirt? (link)
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rachel says :- if he would leave this girl alone then maybe she would uncover her shirt. maybe your friend should seek some professional counciling at some clinic. or see the school councilor. he seems like he has a real problem. i love you spencer!
hope it helps! ♥ us
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Is it normal to like more than one guy at a time, because i think i like this guy in one of my classes whos really cute and we have alot in common. then theres this guy whos a year younger than me who im really close friends with because of swimteam and hes just someone i talk to alot and sit next to him everyday on the bus and stuff lik that. then theres this other guy on my track team that i think i might like just because hes really nice to me and i dont really know but i just like having him around me all the time and flirting with him. And then theres another guy also on my team thats really cute and in some of my classes and we're always flirting and hes always trying to grab me then hugging me after he teases me. So i dont know who i like, who i just like as a friend and who is just a crush, please help i will rate 5's! guys advice too please! (link)
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ansley says :: girl its all good! its ohkay to like more than one guy at a time, just think about if you had a relationship with the guy and what that would be like, think about their past relationships and how they handled it or how long they lasted, you could also ask one of their ex girlfriends what they are like in a relationship and then set out the pros and cons of each boy and see which one you like the most! hope this helps girl && good luck!!
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I am in Middle School, and as you know there is alot of drama. And I have this guy friend who I used to have a crush on..and my friend told him. So it got really awkward between us and then I told him that I only like him as a friend. Well we started talking again for a little while, and then it faded into just saying hi every once in a while, and now we dont even talk. I try to talk to him but he either gives me short answers or just pretends like he didnt hear me. He isnt acting like he is all mad at me because at first I didnt think he was. But then today my friend asked him why we never talk anymore, and its because he said that its all weird because I keep looking at him. Which I looked at him once and that was because i thought he was talking to me. But anyways so then I was really upset and so I told her that I hated him. And she told him and he said "Oh that sucks" and then walks away. As if he doesnt even care. Please, I really want some advice. I want to be friends with him more then anything. Well, thanks for your time.
Sinceraly,
Amanda (link)
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ansley says - hmmm ... this is a tough one, well if i were you i would try to get him by himself with no one else around and just talk to him about it ... ask him why your relationship is like this, ask him why he ignores you, tell him that you still care for him in a friendly way and you want your friendship to be special, just talk to him one on one and then he cant pretend he didnt hear you or he cant give you short answers, i hope this helps!! good luck girl!!
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okay, me & this guy were really good friends. but then we started datin but i just broke up with him today cause i liked it better when we were best friends [ how it was before we started dating ] but now he has been ignoring me & not talking to me when i IM & it is getting on my nerves , but i still wanna be friends . what should i do ?
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ansley says - just talk to him about it, ask him what happened? and why is he acting like this? tell him that you liked it better before you started dating, if he wont talk to you through IM, try calling him or talking to him in person ... i dont know if that helped but i hope it did! good luck!!
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Ok well I am depressed and have started becoming anerxic over it. It all started with my bf {of course a guy lol}, anyway he loved his ex gf, {but he doesnt now and broke it off with her and is now with me} and he keeps giving me compliments he gave her and idk if their genuine he says they are, but why would he give me the exact same ones! I find it pathetic. Then, after I talk about this we get in a small fight and make up well then he went to the movies alone with two girls, one he dated! I wasnt even invited or told about it, oh and since I found this out I've been trying to call, but hmmm seams he doesn't know how to call someone back! Anyway I don't wanna get used by this guy what should I do, cause I really love him and don't understand why'd he'd rather go alone with those two girls and not me and is avoiding me. I'll give 5's to anyone who makes me feel better. (link)
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rachel :- first of all you need to stop being anorexic about this. being anorexic about anything is not good. and then he may be genuine about these comments. you never know. he may just like the same things about you and his ex. and then about the movie thing ... just because he goes to the movies with someone doesnt mean there is anything going on between them. sometimes people just like to go to the movies with their friends, even when they have a girlfriend or a boyfriend. if he doesnt call you back then talk to him face-to-face. i really hope this helps you.
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