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Is it normal to like more than one guy at a time, because i think i like this guy in one of my classes whos really cute and we have alot in common. then theres this guy whos a year younger than me who im really close friends with because of swimteam and hes just someone i talk to alot and sit next to him everyday on the bus and stuff lik that. then theres this other guy on my track team that i think i might like just because hes really nice to me and i dont really know but i just like having him around me all the time and flirting with him. And then theres another guy also on my team thats really cute and in some of my classes and we're always flirting and hes always trying to grab me then hugging me after he teases me. So i dont know who i like, who i just like as a friend and who is just a crush, please help i will rate 5's! guys advice too please!
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It's VERY normal to like more than one guy at a time and it's what makes life so difficult sometimes!!
Unfortunately, I can't tell you who you should date because you need to make the decision by yourself. However, there are some options available to help you make the decision.
There's the time-honoured tradition of making a list of pros and cons about both of them and doing a little comparison. It sounds a bit of a cliche but it can be very helpful.
You can also spend some time away from each of them in turn and see which of them you miss the most.
Of course, the other alternative is to not date either of them. I know it sounds like a pretty rotten alternative to you but the problem is that you clearly like both of them. They're both nice guys who treat you well (and so they should) and if it's really going to be that hard to decide between them, don't decide because if you get together with one of them, you're likely to spend a lot of time wondering if you picked the right one. So although it sounds like the unfair option to pick, it may be the best.
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ansley says :: girl its all good! its ohkay to like more than one guy at a time, just think about if you had a relationship with the guy and what that would be like, think about their past relationships and how they handled it or how long they lasted, you could also ask one of their ex girlfriends what they are like in a relationship and then set out the pros and cons of each boy and see which one you like the most! hope this helps girl && good luck!!
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your young and obviously have many options. and it seems to me that you really dont know what you want yet. so stay single until you do, have fun. why be tied down if your not sure thats what you want? take time to hang out with these guys outside of scool and then make your decision of who you like and dont like and see what they want, cause it might be something totally different then what you want, and guys can be 100% different when you get them outside of school. so take your time and dont make a decision too quick and if your not 100% sure then wait until you are.
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totally normal. it juss means you like different things & different guys. it's fine liking more than one guy. juss try dating one guy at a time haha =) you juss need to figure out your feelings & see who you like the most & whos best for you right now. sort things out & talk to each of them about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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