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I think I love my best friend, but I still kind of like this other guy. I have no idea if I love him as a close friend or more than just a friend. He has a girlfriend, but I just have no idea on how to tell him how I feel about him without becoming all nervous around him. How do I tell him, without getting butterflies in my stomack?

Confused Teen
13, female

If you love him, then just either wait or just forget about him. There are always other people out there. So don't worry about it.

Hope all goes well,

Jenny M. aka Chong
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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me and my ex still talk but i want her back and dont no how 2 go bout it

Well, if you still love her then just try talking to her about it. Maybe she'll give in and spill her feelings for you. But, hey! That's love for you. But just try that and just hope for the best. If things don't plan out the way they're supposed to, then just keep on trying.

Good luck,
Jenny Manzanares aka Chong
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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Me and my fiance have been together for going on 3 and half years, that was until Wednesday. We have now split, because I ask him to show me that he loves me more often, because I ask this he blames me for "cussing" at him to much. I know that it is hard for him sometimes to show me this but it is something that I feel that I need, even though I am pretty sure that he does love me. i have never cheated on him or anything to hurt him, he means more than life to me, and will give it all that I have to make sure that he is happy. This is not the first time that we have seperated, and after a few days and does eventually return but this time, my heart is not so sure. Can you tell me from a guys ppoint of view what you think will happen to my bf and I. Will you also give me advice on what to do to make sure that this never happens again??

Ok, first I'm not a guy so sorry. But this is a chick's point of view. But I asked one of my dude friends to answer this for you. But don't worry you're still going to get my view.
My dude friend said: Ok, well I know I'm not one to show my emotions that good, like I'm a super energetic person, like I'm cool to be around and everything, but like when it comes to showing feelings around a chick, it's diffrent. So I'm positive that he loves you, but he's just not comfortable with showing and expressing his feelings, but none the less he loves you and you should exept that. But if he really wants to save it he should not be afaid to show you how he feels. Very much agreeing with him. Anyways, my point of view. Well, like, if he's still your fiance then he does love you. Like doy! But...if you believe that he should show his feelings more often tthen just like tell him, whenever he feels like showing them towards you, then he'll go for it. But like, just have a long talk with him and see where it takes you. If you get married tell me how it went. Haha, good luck with everything.

Your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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we have alot of classes toghter.how do i act around him @ skoo now?

For crying out loud! Is he like everywhere or something?! Ah, look, screw him, move on, forget about everything. If you already told him how you felt and he didn't you know get like all happy and everything, then move on and like screw him. You all can now just stay and have a nice friendship, which over time might grow into something else. But like, you can just act like nothing has happened between you two and everything. Like just move on chick. Also, like I mean, yeah sure, you two made out and everything. But that just first base. It's not like you went to 2nd, 3rd and home. But like, just move on, stay friends and see where that takes you. Good luck...

Your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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ok i did wut u sed. he sed that he already has a gurlfrend. wut do i do?

Oh dear god! Damn, I swear. I think that what he thinks about girls and love and everything is like a big great game. But if you still really like him and everything...then just full on tell him. Get that off your chest and just move on. If he has no reaction then forget him. But if you want then you can still continue to like him and whatever, then go for it. But if you're going to want to wait for him until he breaks up with the other chick, then forget it. But mainly if you want to wait go for it, if you don't then just tell him how you feel and move on. I wish you luck!
Your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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i madeout with a dude but sense it happened we havnt talked alot. a gurl @ skoo sed that he used all the same lines on her. this guy has had alot of gurlz and im afraid that he just thinks of me as another gurl he madeout wif. do i ask him if it was just like a one time thing or do i forget about it? i kinda like him. am i thinking 2 much into what happened? do you think he likes me?

Well, hmm, if you really like him and if he has had tons of chicks before and like you think he thinks that you're just some chick on the street looking for someone to have fun with. Then hehe, tell him how you feel, if he can't accept that then forget him, screw him. There's other dudes that won't treat you like that. I eman, come on! If he has had tons of chicks long ago then he might just be thinking, "Oh sexy hot chick, another hoe to have fun with tonight!" No, you don't need that. But if you tell him how you feel about him and he likes you back to, then go for it. But i fhe doesn't then forget him. Move on. I bid you good luck on this heavy journey towards love honey. YOU'RE NOT A FREAKING HOE! Whoever thinks that of you are retarded from the mind! Good luck and laters.
The Loner, Loser, Lover...Your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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Hey you guys!
MiSSc here, OK so here's an update from me...I have a boyfriend now and we've been going out for a month. He asked me out on Valentines Day too. I love my boyfriend so much!! He's everything that I wanted in a guy. Exactly everything that I've ever wanted in a guy! I thought I was in love many times before, but now I know that it wasn't true love. But this time I think I finally found the one for me, even my mom thinks so and our friends too. But I'm only 15, we will both be turning 16 soon. Do you think that its possible to find love so young?

Ok, well you're almost turning 16. Yeah, you can find love at a young age. Don't care about what other people say. That oh, you're too young and everything. I'm 13 and I found true love, except my guy doesn't love me the way I love him. Anyways, but yeah! You can find true love at a young age. As for the marriage part. Don't worry about that. You two have you entire lifes to live. Plus don't get settled like at 20 or anything, because you're like still in party mood by that age. So go out party. Then like when you're 24 or 25 then get married. But hey! Your life, good luck. So cute...

The Loner, Loser, Lover...Your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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well i just got dumped by the one boy i love..so you should pretty much get where this is going. he was my first boyfriend and we went out for a pretty long time..and i was also his first too. he dumped me a couple of hours ago and i cant stop crying..and the worst part is..he broke up with me for my best friend. he likes her and she likes him..its gonna be hard for me to see them together at school..and i dont think ill ever get over this. i feel like killing myself..and theres no one really there for me..like i mean..i dont have anyone to talk to cuz they've never felt this. its usually my best friend that i come to for advice but of course i cant talk to her cuz she already knows how i feel but obviously shes not helping..how can i get over this? i still love him with all my heart and it hurts a lot more than i thought it would..and i never expected him to dump me this soon..please help me..its killing me.

Well, honey, same thing happened to me. Um, all I can say is just try to remember that love will find you, even if you have to wait forever. Which I am also waiting for love myself right now. Um, if he dumped you for your friend then, who needs him. Because that's just a little too weird. Um, ty to forget and remember that he's not the only guy out there for you. Um, if you're still holding in all this anger and sadness, then find a way to let it all out. Like, through poetry, songs, something. Tell him how you feel also! Good luck
The Loner, Loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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I really like this guy and we dated befor and are good friends now. Well i also dated his brother a few years ago too and he just came back to my school and I've been talking to him a lot and all the feelings are coming back but i don't think he likes me. Meanwhile he also dated my best friend for a long time, well she still has feelings for him but she doesn't talk to him. She knows how i feel about him and she doesn't care but i dont know if i should tell him or play it out or what. And i'm not sure if id want to date him because of my best friend and i still have a lot of feelings for his brother. wat should i do?

Ok, no offensence, but that's messed up! You like this guy and you went out but now you're friends, then you used to date his brother and now those feelings towards him are coming back but you don't know if he likes you, then your friend is in this!? What the heck!? Chick, words of wisdom, if you go outwith one guy, don't go out with his brother, nor should your friend like him! Because that's like backstabbing after backstabbing! You like this dude, then you broke up and went with his bro, then the dude comes back and your feelings are coming back, but you still like his brother, then your friend likes him also?! No, no, no, no! Chick, that is truely fucked up! Never go out and go out if they're both related or whatever! Never do that.
The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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Me and this guy use to go out. He broke up with me and I didnt see him for a long time. I was in love with him, we started talking again and we hug and flirt and talk but theres this other girl he does some of that stuff with too. I still have feelings for him, everytime I see him I always think god he's hot, and think about how much I care for him. But wut do I do? I need him back, he's like all I ever think about.

Ok, have you at least told him what you still feel for him?! Because if you truely want him back, then you have to tell him how you feel about him still. Like come on! Think chick! If you truely care for him and love him, then just tell him and like yeah! Just like try going into the deep water and get out of the shallow parts!

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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hey um u have good feedback so i just have to ask you. well i have a question i like sumone lets call her Penny,and um lets call me Kevin, ok well shes reely nice and beautiful and i reely like her, but i dont think she likes me, she jokes around with me but i think its just playing around, i think its because im so ugly but lets see if u think so heres a link to my picture. http://unknown516.tripod.com/mypik/. tell me what you think bye.

Ok, first of all, you're so not fucking ugly, ok!? You're really hot and like if she plays around with you then like, no. If you really, really like her as you claim to say, then just ask her out or just say how you feel about her and see what happens. Things might feel uncomfortable, but that's normal! I mean, just ask her out and let her get to know you. Plus if you think you're ugly, then that's a freaking turn off for chicks. You have to love yourself before anyone else loves you, ok? Hope everything goes well!

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

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Have you ever thought that you liked someone when you were going out with a different someone (that you love soooo much!) and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the other person?

I know its wrong, and i told my boyfriend {of 1yr and almost 2mos.} but i dont know how to stop. because I don't truly like these other people. I Love my boyfriend tho. I hope this isn't too confusing!!

Anyone experienced this?

Help me to stop please!

Oh, I would never cheet on my boyfriend or break up with him. So your probabaly wondering, "whats the problem them?" well I still dont want to think these things. i mean i know im a teen (freshman/female) but I have a great boyfriend and I know this isnt right! so, anyone??

Thanks In Advance!

-*KeLs*-

p.s.=if this doesnt make since { how i worded it or if you need to know something else}, say so in your answer, and i'll re-ask the question to you differently!

Thanks!! :)

Yeah, I have gone through something like that once. But what stopped me from loving the other person and almost breaking - up with my boyfriend, was like, if I broke up with him, then it would soon haunt me in my future. So, if I were you re - think this like hardcore! If you don't really like the other people then like forget them and stay with your boyfrined. I mean, it's the best thing to do.

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Ok I have problems trusting people..especially guyys! everytime I put my trust out there fully someone always smashes it... twice I had been cheated on, I have been lied to and ditched and I can't take it... but yea I want to know how do I trust guys more? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years....at the very beginning of our relationship he cheated on me but we moved on... I can't seem to fully trust him, I tell him I do and I believe I should but I can't help question him after he has gone out... he is really annoyed of it ! and me to, I dont mean to question but my head is filled with them... how do I learn how to trust him ?? (PS pleasse dont go saying how i should break up with him because hecheated, or because i dont trust him, IDO trust him...i just cant show it)

Ok, honey, well, like whoa. Cheating is something serious and like you shouldn't break up with him, but man. Learn to show your trust, because that's what a relationship is all about! Trust and honesty is like the ain keys in everything. So, just like see how he's acting and everything, if he acts strange around you then you may quetsion him, if he's not, then like forget it. Just like go with what your heart says.

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