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^^ title pretty much says most of it
because theres this guy i like and he likes me back and heres what happened.
He went to my basketball game last night and my friend chrissy was there because she wanted to see me play and then hang out after during the varsity game. so after my game, and during the half time of the varsity game, i go and sit down with chrissy after playing basketball with mike and some of my other friends. chrissy tells me that mike was watching me play before he came out to play and that he was talking about me like through out the whole game. she said he said that tomorrow at one of my friends parties that we are all going to, he is gunna ask me out and TRY to make out with me
problem is: ive never been kissed or kissed a guy. and i dont want to back out and make a fool of myself.
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its okay .. i know a lot of people who never had a first kiss .. if you stress over it, then ur most likely going to do what you are afraid of doing, and make a fool of yourself .. so if you two do hook up, just relax, nd use a little tongue .. but if you think that you're not ready .. just tell him that you dont want to hook up on the first date *
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okay my boyfriend (we were dating for 6 months) and he broke up with me saturday! well he already has another girlfriend! and i want him back because i am sick of crying every night and i miss him! how do i get him back he already misses me he said but he said that he likes the other girl too! and so i want ihm to break up with his girlfriend now and go back out with me how do i make him realize he should break up with her for me? and how do i make him realize how much he misses me!? (link)
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make him want you .. when you see him, act like nothings wrong .. hang out with your friends, and flirt with other guys .. itll make him crazy ..
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Am i pregnant? im going to take a pregnacy test! but i wanna know do people think i am?! I havent had my period since December 31st (new years eve)!and today is febuary the 4th! my back is hurting, i get really tired quickly, If i walk up the stairs i get tired out, I at all the time, My neck as been hurting alot, My stomach is hard and bigger!! and the last time i have had sex was 3 weeks ago. i use to do it like every weekend. so i dont know how long ago it was!! (link)
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you have the symptoms so you should go to a doctor or a clinic and get a pregnancy test, but then there is also the chance that you're just stressed out, so it just seems that you're pregnant, and why you're period is late. but no matter what, you should still get checked *
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okay so we are from new york state, and my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and he just found out that his grandpa was supposed to die within a week liek a week ago he found that out.. and his parents are down with his grandpa right now and he just found out he has to fly down to florida in 3 hours bc he had just passed away. I really need help on how to try to help him and liek what to say to him besdies im sorry and i love you. i feel so bad and hes so upset about it and im just really sad i cant be there to cofort him bc he has to go down to florida. HELLPP and maybe you can think of somethign i can do for him when he gets back (he leaves today saturday, and comes back tuesday) (link)
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my best advice for this, is to just try to talk to him about .. i lost my grandfather who i was extrememly close with almost 7 years ago to a heart attack ..i didnt want to talk about it or anything and tried to keep everything to myself, and i had so many emotions bottled up in me .. then i lost my bestfriend of 3 years who i had also been going out with .. and my friend wouldnt let me get away without talking about it .. but it helped me .. so there is going to be a lot of yelling and screaming and anger .. and most likely crying, because everyone gets that feeling when someone dies, but just hold him .. hold him like your never gona let go .. thats the best thing that you can do, and try to get him to open up to you .. but the most important thing you can do, is show him that you care
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Well I used to like one of my best friends, I've known for 9 years so I had one of my friends tell him and it turns out he never thought of me as more than a friend. Now its like 7 months later and he's ignoring me and I miss him a lot.I dont like him anymore but I miss being his friend. What should I do? (link)
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if you go to school with him, bring him into a hall way or a stair case where its not to noisy, and if you dont, just show up at his house, just make sure you tell him face to face, and explain to him, that you dont like him like that anymore .. and that you guys have been best friends for nine years, and didnt want that to change .. try to explain to him that u just want to have him as a friend again, and you missed those days where ud just talk for hours about nothing.
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hey everyone. Ok, my friends and I are all having a hard time telling if the guys we are into like us back. The two guys are a lil shy but not totally and sending mixed messages. can anyone give me some advice? Thanks a bundle! Luv Megz2009 (link)
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well, a way to tell if the guy is feeling you or not, is that he tries to be near you .. like if u move close to him, if he doesnt back away, then he probably has a thing for you .. the best way i think to figure it out, is to ask him .. or ask one of his friends .. thats what i did with my current boyfriend and we have been together for the past years .. a lot of guys are shy, and dont know if they should make the first move, so just causually bring it up ..
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Im 14 and a female and My B/f and i have been together for 4 months. We broke up a couple of weeks ago and he asked me back out. He said the reason for dumping me was that i never called him and didnt see him enough. Things havent been the same since the break-up. He never tells me he loves me anymore and acts different. What should i do? (link)
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talk to him about it, ask him why he is being shady? ((sketchy)). ask him if he is going to break up with you and if he asks why be like becuas eyou dont say youlove me anymore, and this is going to end like it did last time,.
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Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!! (link)
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when you feel comfortable, surprise him and make the first move. convince yourself that you are ready for this, and that you can trust you're boyfriend.
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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!
x0x-dani (link)
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tell your boyfriend to come to your game, because you have a surpise for him, and have a couple of your team mates help you make a sign that says i love you ((name)).
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early? (link)
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it is not wrong at all. my boyfriend and i ahve been going out for two years now, and i feel the same way. it is normal to love someone more than you love your self, or have a tear come to eye everytime you think of losing him. it is called love.
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Okay, I just moved to a new school and things are going great! I have plenty of friends and there are a few guys that like me. One in peticular! He's a sophmore (like me) and I know he's a sweet guy and I really like him but I'm not sure what to talk about w/ him! Right now we're just passing notes back and forth but happens when we go out? He's gonna call right? Then when do we say! Talking in person isn't so much the issue! Its the phone! What do I do? (link)
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jsut talk about your day, movies, school, music, etc.
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Hey guys! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this guy I think is sooooooo hot! We had never talked before and I didn't have any classes w/ him but he was friends w/ my newest best friend! He walked up and was talking to her but he smiled at me a lot! Then he was like "ur (my name) right?" And I was like "Yeah how did u know?" He said "o i went into a class after u and I saw ur name on a sheet u had signed!" and he was like grinning all big and stuff! Well then a few days later my best friend came up to me and was like "Omg omg omg! I told (Him) that u thought he was kinda cute and he said u were really really pretty!!!" And I wrote him a letter and gave him my number and everything. And she gave it to him and said he smilde really big when she said it was from me! Do u think that was okay? And do u think he likes me?
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he most likely does like you, and its not like giving your number to him makes you a whore or anything. for anyone else knows, you could just want to talk to him, and get to know him.
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ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~ (link)
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talkt o him, you promised himt aht you wouldnt break up with him no matter what. if he didnt want anypart of it, and the girl came onto him, then dont blame him. find the chic, and beat her ass though
*my cousin was here and was the one that was typing, so dont mind anything harsh for this*
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I've been with my guy for over a year and a half, but we broke it off about 3 months ago because I moved about 30 minutes away. We tried to keep things going, but I was so used to seeing him every single day. It was basically like we lived with each other. He always spent the nights with me at my apartment and what not. I sort of lived on my own and I didn't have a job or anything, so he was the one who made sure I wasn't hungry or sick or feeling down or anything. I guess I was so used to seeing him everyday that once I moved away, that it hurt me a lot that I would only get to see him only once or twice a week. I'd complain to him about how I felt, so he decifrf to break up because he said that he doesn't want to hurt me. Him and I, we still keep in touch, I tell him I love him still and he as well. Well, I've grown accustomed to him not being able to see me all the time, so I guess that now, it's okay when we don't see one another much. We still act like boyfriend and girlfriend; the only thing that hurts me now is that I know that we're not. I still treat him the same as when we were together and a lot of times I beat myself up about it. I feel like.. I'm a whore or something, giving out my love to someone who isn't even my boyfriend. I guess what I'm trying to ask is, if I should hold on to what we have and continue on, or should I just say fuck it? I know that in time, we are definitely going to get back with each other.. so.. until then, should I just keep giving him my love? (link)
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tell him how you feel, and if he says he doesnt want to hurt you, just be like, by not being with me is hurting me even more.
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OK so theres this new boy at school and like i talked to him before i talked to him at school online... and hes really nice n stuff and last nite we had our first football game! and then afterwards there was this party at my friends house so i invited him to come... he did and we had soo much fun, but i think he likes my friend Michelle, like followed her around n stuff... and like talked to her the most but hes just sooo great and perfect like he got up and danced in a cirle and he doesnt even like know ne one.. like hes the new kid! i love his confidence and how he acts and i dunnno but then my x boyfreind was there and he was like sorta mad at me for like being with the new kid... and my x is like my best friend... but he broke up with me! but i really really like the new kid a lot! so how do u think i should deal with this? (link)
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ask him if he likes your friend, and if you're friend michelle likes him. if they do like eachother, than tell them to go for it. if they do go out, then never talk to michelle again, adn be like i thought you were my friend! then shoot her in the head. tehn you can tell how much of a jack ass this new guy was
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I've been in love with my best guy friend for years. We tried going out when we first met but he didn't have strong feelings for me, so he dumped me and later on we became really tight. I'm still deeply in love with him and he has a GF who I'm close with too. No one knows how I feel and I know for sure he does not feel the same way. How do I get this wonderful, funny, perfect guy out of my head? What should I do? (link)
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talk to him about it. and if that doesnt work, gouge your eyes out, adn tehn try to scrape otu the memories witha spoon.
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i asked you this:okay so i really like this guy and hes going out with this one girl...it seems like this guys likes me i mean he calls me almost everynight and we talk for hours and when where together he always wants me to do stuff with him (like kiss and stuff) but hes going out with his girlfiend so why would he be going out with his girlfriend if hes making it seem like he likes me...
you answered : he probably likes you, but also likes his girl friend too, but you need to tell him and explain to him that until he breaks up with his girl, then you cant do anything with him
i already told him that if he wants me to do antyhing with him he has to brake up with her and he said he would and hasn't yet and i have talked to him about it and all he says is why dose everything have to be about her? and i answer umm maybe b/e ur going out with her...so do you have any furture advice? (link)
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ok, you need to explaint o him that you are not a whore, and that if he can do this to this other girl, that if you two ever went out, what would stop him from going to some other girl, and maybe he will actually cheat on you.
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my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?! (link)
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what are you? stupid? how could you not tell that he was playing with you? yeah i can be a ditz but i can tell when someones playing me, like seriously.
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okay im 17 years old and after my last relationship( with a guy i fell in love with)i havent been able to find anyone that i can go out with and not think about and compare them to him what should i do (link)
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dont compare any guy to your ex boyfriend. make a list of pros and cons about your ex. it usually helps. and even if you dont love these new guys, just go out with them anyways, because you never know.
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okay so i really like this guy and hes going out with this one girl...it seems like this guys likes me i mean he calls me almost everynight and we talk for hours and when where together he always wants me to do stuff with him (like kiss and stuff) but hes going out with his girlfiend so why would he be going out with his girlfriend if hes making it seem like he likes me... (link)
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he probably likes you, but also likes his girl friend too, but you need to tell him and explain to him that until he breaks up with his girl, then you cant do anything with him
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