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hey!!! i am here because i really just want to help people out with their problems. i think everyones main goal should be just to live life to its fullest! so... if you have any questions i would love to help out and give you my advice.
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Ok well i like this guy and he told my friend that he has feelings for me last night, but then today he told her taht we were "just friends" and i respect that. Should i try to move on, or jsut let it go?
pls help!!
confused, 14, female
i think if you like someone you should keep going for it! he seems like he is confused whether he likes you or not because he says he does then out of no where he doesnt. boys are confusing!!! just keep talking to him, drop hints every once in awhile...i think you will get him if you keep on trying! i hope you tell me how everything goes!!!!
ok....i REALLY liked this guy....maybe not like... i think i even loved him... and he said that he might of gone out with me if he would of known me better... so we were getting to "know" eachother and the next day....he got another girlfriend........ i have never been so heartbroken in my entire life...i cant stop thinking about him...before i go to bed...i always think of him....i cant move on...its so hard....please help
it is always hard to get over the guy you really like.....especially if he gave you hope like he did. i say that you just forget about him and move on...even though i know it will be hard. i am sure that you deserve better!!!! actually i know you deserve better!!!! i know i didnt help much but i hope everything works out......get back on that horse!!! ♥
ok so basicly i have a bf hes cute and all the guys love him and stuff but he like dosent talk to me and all his friends just say hes nervous so im always like ya know what screw it ill dump him this isnt working but whenever i see him im like ahh i cant do it. i just cant dump him...im just like bad at dumping ppl. i think it may be because i just want a bf just not him . ok so how do i dump him. i mean we barley even talk regularyly i cant imagine what breaking up will be like
its really hard when you are going out with a shy guy...you just have to make sure that in your heart you dont have feelings for him anymore. if you dont, then you should break up with him like you said. if it is hard to break up with him in person then you should call him or im him. tell him that he isn't talking to you and that you would be better as friends. i know that you want a bf...(every girl does...even some guys do...gross!) just get out there and find someone who is not so shy and that hasmore of your personality. just dont rush into finding the perfect guy.... it will happen on its own. i really hope i helped!
do girls want guys to be all over them or just kinda ignor them ?
well every girl wants to be noticed by guys. but the only guys you should be worried about are the ones you like. some guys ignore you because they are nervous and they want you to take a stand first and the guys that are all over you are just more confident. if u like a guy you should worry about if they are all over you or not. if you dont like them...then just dont be worried about it and live life! hope i helped a little bit! ♥
im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!
some people are blessed with beauty on the inside and some are blessed with beauty on the outside. some people arent blessed at all! at least you got one side of the deal....always look at the bright side!
ok well i have a boyfriend and i like him a lot we talk on line and sometimes on the phone (i always call him he never calls me) and at school we don't talk at all. i am his first girl friend he has ever had but i can't stand not talking to him. i want to talk to him at school but i'm shy and hes shy not good not good at all. i was just wondering what i should do? i rate high
it is hard when you are going out with someone who is shy. you should go up to him at school and just talk to him. of course it will be hard to get him to talk a lot back to you.... but if you do this sooner or later he will be more comfortable and he will start calling you! i hope i helped in some way!
I really like this guy and he likes me but we live really far away.. I want to tell him how I feel but I dont really know what to say.. I have a few ideas.. but if you could help that would be great!
well...this is a hard one. i think it will be hard to have a long distance relationship. but if you really like each other then you should go for it! you should just tell him the truth. ask him if he would be willing to try a long distance relationship. if he really likes you...how can he resist?! sorry i didnt have better advice...but i hope i helped!
I have been married for almost 7yrs and since about a year ago I don't feel my husband loves me like he use to what do I do? Recently his coworker told me that he might be stealing do I say anything to him? I am 27yrs old. He is 25. We have four kids. We just boughgt a house.
marriage is about honesty first. so you should get in there and tell him the truth. you should confront him about what you have been hearing. he'll understand you are just trying to be there for him and you are trying to help him because you love him! i hope everything works out! ♥
sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance?
i think he might still have feelings for you! but dont get to excited because he does have a girlfriend. if you like him but you dont want to ruin their relationship..you should just wait it out. but if you know you are meant to be together you have to get in there and get your man! i hope i helped!
ok...so i know this guy named "brownie" lol and he is soooo nice!we talk on the internet 24/ 7 to eachother and we say hi to eachother but it seems like i cant talk to him in person...i get all tonguetied...we go to diff. schools and he is one grade below me!!i also told him on the internet that i liked him...now im super embaressed!!!
first of all any guy named brownie is at the top of my list! just kidding...dont be embarrased about talking to him in person. i think you are just embarrased because you told him you liked him and its hard to see him with out remember that he knows you do. the more you talk to him the better it will get! i hope everything works out!
i am 14 and the guy i like is 13. i am in 8th and he is in 7th. i want to date him because he is mature and everything but i am afraid people will make fun of me. please help!
it sounds like you really like this guy! you should go for it because any guy who is mature is a major plus! its only a years difference and age doesnt matter. you shouldnt listen to people anyway...it isnt about them. this relationship is just about you and him....no one else. if your happy and your following your true feeling then you should go get em'! good luck!
ok....i really like this guy and we ALWAYS talk on the internet to eachother...the only problem is that i think we are developing more into friends and not more...what should i do?!
♥ its always good to be a friend with someone before you ever go out with them. this gives you time to get to know them and for them to get to know you. just keep doing what you are doing! but on the way you should drop hints..(because you know how slow guys are at these things.) i hope i helped! if you ever need anything else just ask!
I have liked this guy for a while and we have become pretty good friends...but only over the internet. we go to the same school and we know what the other looks like and we even say hi to each other sometimes. its really odd because i feel that i know him so well online but at school he's a total stranger. he hangs out with a weird group of guys and i noticed that all his previously girl friends r sluts, blond, and skinny (no offense to skinny blondes). i am a brunette and im definately not a barbie doll. i wouldnt consider myself ugly tho. i think that if he hung around with a different crowd he might like me. i noticed that he wont talk to me if hes with his friends. i think hes a really great guy with the wrong group of friends. i want to tell him me and him should hang out more in person, but i know his friends are going to say no to that. theres absoulutly nothing wrong with me. what do i do? sorry this is so long. i rate really great!
~ Loves a Guy in the Wrong Crowd ~
♥ i think you should tell him....he shouldnt care what his friends think and his friends can't make his decisions for him. i think its great that you want him to start hanging out with better people! by the way even though you say your not a barbie doll what girl is? dont cut yourself short, i am sure you are beautiful! i wish the best of luck!
Ok I have a boyfriend, and I just wanted to make sure that it was normal to think that he is a better person than you. He is smart, funny, nice, and overall an AMAZING guy. I just feel like he could do so much better than me! I know it's a silly question, but I just wanted to know if others felt the same? I just feel so incredibly lucky that he likes me and is going out with me. Words can't express how I feel.
♥ its great that you found someone who is so amazing! but i think you are cutting yourself short. i bet you are just as amazing as he is..he is lucky to be going out with you! hope i helped!
I like this guy and he likes me.. I want to tell him how i truley feel but im afraid.. Should i gain up my courage and tell him? or just leave it alone?
since he likes you and you like him you should tell him! why waste time. i wish the best of luck!
I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?
I rate.
any guy that u get nervous around or have butterflies for always means something...... you obviously have major feelings for him! a think a quote that describes what you are going through is...."Talking to you makes me feel like for once in my life i dont have to try and be happy - it just happens." sorry i felt like i had to through that in there! best of luck!
ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused
if you like the guy age shouldnt matter. to some people its a turn off but if the guy is mature you should totally go for it! good luck!
ok....i like this guy ALOT and he likes another girl....my best friend is trying to hook us up...i find out that he might end up liking me but he doesnt know me well enough....now i am really embaressed to see him in person...am i being too pushy?
- confused
i think you should go somewhere with him so he can get to know you better. just show him who you really are! i dont think you are being pushy....but just make sure that you dont bring up you and him everytime you talk to him. also try not to bring up the other girl because thats none of your business. i hope it works out!
ok....i like this guy and he likes another girl and the girl is some slut who cheats on every guy that she dates and i dont want him to get hurt.....i know i wouldnt hurt him...do u have any advice that i could win his heart over to me?
i think you should go on a date sometime just so he can get to know you more and realize that you are meant to be. show how fun and nice you are and you are sure to win is heart. ride em' cowgirl!!!
i think i like this guy...but i have dated him before. i dont know why i like him. everytime i see another guy who is really cute, he always comes into my mind. i dont know why he wont leave my head. the problem is, he has a girlfriend now and we barely talk. we go to different schools and we are barely friends. even though i never see him the past always comes back to me. can u help?
i have been in this situation before. you realize that you never stop loving someone, you just learn to live without them. you have to move on and live life! dont stay hooked on just one guy. hes moved on and so should you. many other guys are out there...so go find you some bait.