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Heyy my boyfriends birthday is in september and i pretty much have it all planned out.

I'm gonna give him a $50 gift card to Hollister (it's pretty much all he wears)
And i'm gonna get him some chocolate covered pretzles cause i know they're his favorite.
Then I want to take him to south street in philly cause it's his favorite place, and while there I can take him to go get a philly cheese steak cause that's his favorite food!

Do you think this sounds good?
I would LOVE to hear your ideas and suggestions!
Thanks everyone!

thats sounds like a good gift!!!
im sure he will love it!
maybe u can add a cute picture of the two of you in a card?
or make a photo slideshow?
good luck!!

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I like this boy and he cheated on me so i broke up with him and now i want to go back out with him! What should I do to make him like me again?

I'm very sorry but I know I don't have the answer your looking for cause when my bf cheated on me and i still liked him he just didnt care anymore and asked someone else out. Like a couple days later. But then I realized that hes not even worth it cause he hurt me so bad and I just tried not to let him know... I know if your like me you'll try to get him back but I couldnt get my guy back and now hes happly in a new relationship so I dont know the answer your looking for. But I am gonna tell you what I learned... I learned that I am not gonna let someone ever hurt me that much again. *I know you like him but if he likes you... he'll find a way to make it up to you and win you back. You don't need to win him back. And if he doesnt... hes not worth it.*

Sorry this is very long.
Well Live Strong.
Sorry I didnt have a good answer.

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ok i have a really bad problem with cheating on my gf weve been going out for like around 6 months and i can never see her out of school and i want to stop but whats the best way to do that im really not sure??

The best way to stop cheating is if you care about your girlfriend everytime you get a feeling you want to cheat think about her. Think about how much you would hurt her if she knew. Think about the way shed feel. Then you should text her right after telling her you love her and then she will most likely text/call you or something and say the same thing. If its the girl who tries to kiss you tell her no and tell her that you have a gf. Let her know and if she still tries to kiss you shes a bitch no effence.
But anyways I hope I helped.
My ex boyfriend cheated on me after a week... and i was sad and you have been together for 6 months. Well Good Luck. And if anyone is gonna tell her make sure its you or she will be really really mad.
~.Livestrong.~

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A guy friend of mine was going out with this girl for over a year. They barely knew each other and had sex the second night.(She had a bf at the time) She was 14 he was 17. She broke up with her bf 2 days later, but kept both of them. Taking turns every other night with each of them. I told my friend, but he refused to believe me. Im very good friends with her ex, and he told her where to go when he realized what was going on.
My friend and her have broken up more than they are together. They both like to be in control and both are very jealous. They fight ALL the time!! She keeps breaking up with him because hes an ass to her. Its like they are still together(just not going out) but they act like it. She has had sex with 2 other guys in between. Whenever his gf breaks up with him he seems to ask his ex why she doesnt call him, and then wants to hang out with her. He told her that they can start out as friends again and get to know one another. I know its because hes just trying to get back at his gf for having sex with other guys, because hes so hurt by that. He says thats not true, and that his ex is just mad because he still talks to this other ex, and he gets the feeling when he does hang out with his first ex that she thinks they will get back together. (well i would feel the same if my ex wanted to hang out with me) His recent ex started seeing this other guy, but still calls my friend nonstop. He takes her calls all the time. Last night he went to her house for the first time since she broke up. She told him that she still loves him, but she had sex with this other guy, but isnt too sure about him. This girl is now 16. She has had sex 1,000s of times with 6 different partners. She told someone that she would let any guy f*ck her! Ive told my friend, but he just doesnt seem to care. Its like they are both emotionally unstable people who feed off each other.
Is it the sex, or is there something wrong with him that he needs to keep taking something like that back that will never be faithful to any guy?? The guy she was just seeing told me he wants her because he heard she was easy. (thats an understatement)
My friend had a very nice gf before this one, and if she would have had sex with another guy he wouldnt have ever talked to her again. (shes a very decent girl)
Will rate high for reasonable answers!!
Thanks

Wow... I think its the sex that they both want thats why she keeps calling him... that girl seems like a hoe(the girl who had 6 parters or w/e) I dont think you can really do anything about it since your friend doesn't listen to you...Try to convince him that he needs someone(like the decent girl) because a relationship is more on trust and and not being easy. Try to get him to understand that he shouldn't be with the girl who is easy.... I wish you you the best of luck tho.
Live Strong!
Sorry if I answer wasnt clear.

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well in my first question i told you about how i like my best friend and how she likes this really hot guy.

Now we always talk about every single thing
Now we talk about the guy When she asks "should i go out with him" what should i say to her

I mean if i like her and i want to go out with her but she wants to go out with him what should i say.

Ok last time I said to to like really hint to her so it all depends on her reaction if she reacts like there might be a chance or something you should defintly ask her out and be like I want to go out with you, but if her reaction seems bad to you, you should let her go out with that guy because shes not going to feel different about him, but eaither way you should deffently make her realize you like her.
I wish you the Best Luck...
...LIVE STRONG...

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Theres this new kid this year. Hes a sophmore and im a freshmen. Well i kinda really like him .. a lot. Hes on my bus, in 2 study halls, language, science, and 4 outta 6 lunches. Well i liked him. And im like really shy around him but usually im really outgoing. Only today in lunch .. i was like .. Hey yooh, got a pen ? .. he sits at the table next to me =) Like .. next to me ! Hehe .. but anyway. I like him and I really dont know what to say to him. The only things hes said to me was answering something i asked my friend and he asked what my name was . Ya .. so like .. i have study hall with him monday .. and me and my friend might go up to him ( he sits alone in that study hall) and be like .. You look lonely , want us to sit with you ? IS that a good idea ? Well im sorta frieds with this girl who he sits with / i guess theyre friends.. but i go to a lot of sports games like volley ball and so does she. Do you think i should tell her i like him so she can tell him to go to the games? and then we can hang out outside of school. Becasue lots of people go to sports so ya know . Ok well i dont know what else to say so any other tips or advice youve got id love to hear ..

REPLY TO GET COOKIE !

Omgosh I hecka wanta cookie! So i think I will answer this lol... yea its agood idea, you should go and talk to him during your study hall and if you end up sitting with him you'll get to know him better and my advice on telling that girl you like him is go ahead and tell her so then she'll get him to go and you don't have to be scared about asking him...
well LIVE STRONG
And p.s. when do I get my cookie??

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as i have said many times before i have a crush on my best friend but she doesnt like me like that and i want to talk to her about it but its hard any advice on how to talk to her about it

i rate 5s when good advice

Just tell her, be like yea i think i may like one of my close friends then when she say who be like i dont know if i should say they might not like me, but shes my best friend and i can tell her evrything... if you just kinda hint at her she'll realalize you like her and if she like you too she'll say something but if she doesnt most likely she try to ignore it but just keep hinting until she knows forsure like if she says huh or what dont say nvm just keep hinting...
Good luck...
...LIVE STRONG...

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theres two guys who like me...
my ex-boyfriend and my neighbor i'm not sure which one to ask out becuase with my ex-bf i would only see him once every two weeks or something but i really like him but then my neighbor is 2 houses down and i really like him too but he stayed back and it would seem like i'm going out with someone whos not my age.
So which guy do i chose?

I think you should go out with your neighbor because you already gave your ex boyfriend ashot and appantly something happened so your not going out anymore... give it a shot with your neighbor just because he stayed back doesnt mean hes anyyounger so the age really shouldnt be the matter... my friend is going out with a guy in a grdae one below and she doesnt care shes absolutly in love with him... well anyways good luck and don't let anyone tell you that it seems that hes younger...
Live STRONG!

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i love my doggie! i dont think it loves me back! when i ask," do you love me fido? it just gives me this puzzled look and barks. I've tried everything, i've bought it chocolates and flowers, but it keeps ignoring me! what should i do??

Haha! How old are you? I am sorry but your dog isnt gonna start talking to you... Your dog probably loves you no doubt but DONT FEED THE DOG CHOCOLATE!! THAT"S BAD! Any ways Hope I helped... Live STRONG!

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There's this girl who's my friend. I have this really big crush on her but i don't want to tell her how i feel because it might ruin the friendship that we have right now. then i went to Summer School and i met this other girl that i also really like, but i don't like her as much as i like my friend. but i'm starting to get the feeling that this girl i met at Summer School likes me, too. Should i tell my friend that i like her and forget about the girl i just met, or should i go with the new girl and forget about my feelings for my friend?

You should deffiently tell your friend and the only reason I am saying this is because I am a girl and I have a crush on one of my friends and were becomming so close, close enough that he tells me who he likes and everything so anyways tell her cause she could be like me and be super scared of telling the guy (you)... and your close friend is someone who knows you better then the girl you just met... well hope i helped... Livestrong!

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ok. mi bfffff is a year younger than me. ive known her for eight years (bi the way im 13) and of like her brother (who is mi age) for six years. hes about 3 inches shorter than me but i dont really care....that was sorta random....but any how, i really like him.i cant say any thing becuase our parents are friends and if the feeling isnt mutral....well....yoo noe how that goes. hes so perfect for me. we have the same since of humor. both love the same sports, have preety much the same hobbies(although im not sure if he likes shoping, facials, and manicures -lol-), and we both are really into doing things most kids r afraid of (aka daring)/(jumping off cliffs into water, parisailing, extream water tubing (ya inoe. sounds wierd) ).... and ive liked him for soooooo long... the reason i noe him? we both have lake houses nextdoor to each other. but the the thing is his fam moved 20 min. frm our lake house on like...i think it was feb. 7 or 8th this year....we still see them but not as much... im trying to convence mi self that i ont like him any more...but i just cant stop thinking bout him....hes the last thing i think bout at nit, then i dream about him, then hes the first thought in mi head in the mornin. im not ubsessed but i do think im in love....but i dont no why cuzz its been like a lon time (month) since ive seen him (although i have seen his sis alot)...
i try not to think bout him but... isee a mi friend with her bf...think of him...i see a love movie....think of him....i hear a song...think of him... i dont want to like him but its like another part of me...thats all it wants to do. yoo noe?
i noe he noes me, like mi name, where im frm, blah, blah, blah... but we never talk. he talks to mi sister. but wont talk to me. ya, there are those accasonal are yoo staying for dinner? wanta shoot some hoops (to me and his sis), and on his b-day last year, i even saw him looking at me while we sang him happi b-day( and he was smilling the-most-ahhhmazing-smile!) id dont no wat do!!! wat do yoo think? i really need some advice!!! please please answer this!!!

Omgoodness! U should call him!!! Dont be scared just do it! Anywho well Livestrong!

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i have a boyfriend he just came out of juvy and he said he learned his lesson and he is changed he is going to be 17 and me 15 aqnd i am scared if he is just with me to have sex wat should i do

He just came out of Juvy... ugh In my opion I think u should break up with him... but if you like him alot I think u should give him one more chance and let him prove to you that he has changed but if he turns out not changing break up with him hope i helped !live strong!

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im going to high school next year and i havnt had many boyfriends, i have a couple. but they werent lik one of those real long relentionships, do u think i will get a boyfirend in high school

to tell you the truth highschool is very complicated. there are so many new guys to meet and stuff some may become friends with you some may like you more than that i guess the answer is it depends on the guys you meet...but since highschool is so long and the year is just long i defentaly think you will...cause there are so many guys who also want girlfriends that someones gotta ask you out it may take a while so dont expect to get a boyfriend right when you start school...hope i helped...!LiveStrong!

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hello, im a guy and im 14. i have always been kind of quiet in school and stuff. i was just wondering, what should i talk about w/ girls? like i don't know what to say in person except like hi, how are you. and on line i just say hey, whats up, and then the conversation kind of goes quiet, i need real help.

For me when I talk to a guy especially online I just love to laugh so i think that you should act yourelf and start talking ask how her day was, her plans for the weekend, tell her yours, talk about your summer, ask her questions like her favorites, just be your self try to be funny but do not act corney haha sorry, thats all i can think of ask about her favorite song dont worry if the convo dies just be like i ran out of stuff to say and she will proabbly say something...hope i helped...!LiveStrong!....rate....

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Hey Everyone! Well I went to a party in New York City a couple of weeks back and met an amazing looking guy. We hooked up at the party and really enjoyed our time spent together. After the party we promised to keep in touch and i gave him my number, and he called me the next day. He decided to come visit me in Jersey with a couple of his friends later that week. While we were talking he told me that he was 20 and i'm only 15(meaning im illegal). He was a little surprised by our age difference since i definently look a lot older than i appear to be. After meeting him @ my house I had to leave for residential camp for a week in order to be a C.I.T(Counseler in Training) While I was gone we talked on the phone and found out that we had a lot in common such as: Our birthdays are on the same day>How strange is that! As soon as I got home I went on his Profile to check out what he'd been up to. I found out that he'd been writing a lot of comments to different grls saying that they were "Hott" and "Thumbs up." I'm a very jealous person and I hate having to share my guy with anyone. Even though were not together "officially" I really have feelings for him~ The problem is our age difference and the fact that sometimes he doesn't call me to see how i am because he's busy clubbing and doing god knows what. My ? is do i get over this guy or should i do something to make him understand how i feel?? I'd really like advice about what I should do. Pleae comment and advice away. Xo THanks!!

I say you should move on...but thats only my opion cause you can't tell your heart what to do so you cant just be like ok i dont like u anymore... the only reason i say move on is because of the age difference... but then again you said you like him and have feelings for him so I think you should talk about everything thast happening with the two of you with him ask him if he does like you and dont forget to tell him that your starting to have feelings for him... find out what his reaction is and what he has to say to u...hope I helped...rate...!LiveSTRONG!

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Hey !! Im 15 and have had a crush on this one guy for over 4 years now (on and off) Ive had boyfriends during this time period but for some reason I keep going back to liking him. We've never been extremely close but we are friends. He's extremely cute, and has a good personality. We see each other out of school sometimes, but for some reason he will never talk to me online, wby is that? He was at my friends Swt 16 and we danced and I actually thought he'd ask me out but soon I found out he wouldn't date me because im quote "beautiful and too perfect" and he wouldnt want to just use me for sex because im more then that and im one of his friends. Im flattered but in the pit of my stomach I cant stop thinking about him, should I go on liking him or just move on and maybe one day he'll realize what he has lost? Please help me, thanks so much ! xO

He will defeninly realize what he lost... I say move on.. why becuase your not getting anywhere... I had a huge crush on this one guy for like forever and i danced with him like at 3 different dances and i mean i thought he was gonna ask me out cause he even asked at one of them and i waited so long but but he never did we didnt get anywhere and im finialy over him, now im kinda mad that i wasted so much time on him... I dont wnat that to happen to u... but you know what he said u were too beautiful and perfect you should talk to him and tell him that no ones to perfect, maybe write him a note, tell him u know he thinks your too perfect but tell him your not and maybe hell come around well hope i helped !LiveSTRONG!

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okay, so me and my friend ryan met like a year ago i guess.
recently we were talking about relationships and stuff and he told me that he liked me, and i was like i like you to. and we talk and hang out with friends and stuff but he hasnt made a move or anything
does this mean he doesnt like me anymore?
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE

No it doesnt mean anything.. hes probably just scared or shy... remember live strong!

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Ok, this guy I have liked forever told me somethings last night i confused me a bit. Well to start things off, we went to a dance at our school. When i got home i talked to him on AIM. He said he really screwed things up when it came to this he liked. He said that he thought she kept eyeing him throughout the whole thing. Which i was doing. Then he said that he never asked her to dance but he could tell that she wanted to...but he never had enought courage...and i never danced with him, but i deff. wanted to. But the wierd part was he never told me who it was...he refused, he usually always gives me a name of the he likes...so im wondering if its me this time. Please help me...i rate high

Aww... thats sounds so cute I defently think its you hes crushing on and hes just scared to tell you that it is you... he probably thinks you dont like him cause of the way you were eying him maybe you should ask him again who hes likes but before you do be like I gotta ask you a question and you gotta promise to answer it 100 percent honestly then ask him and be like if U tell me I will tell you who I like then you never know he may say you and then you can tell him that its also him and he may ask you out!
Well hope I helped...
~!~LIVESTRONG~!~

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i used 2 always see matthew in school and hes always stare at me and smile. then i met him and he was friends with my boyfriend and whenever my boyfriend would go to the bathroom matthew would say mike if i was you i wouldnt get up your girls kind of cute i wanna sit with her..so it was sort of weird.. all the time in school he always says hi to me and yesterday i was in lunch and hes in the same one but i was walkin out of the caf to go to the bathroom and he was walkin in and like hugged my hips with like one hand and was like hey beautiful where are u going.. then later i was walkin by and he said hey and i said hi and kept walking and he was like how come you always walk away from me? so i stayed and he was like call me tonight if you want to hangout.. do u think he lykes me

Uhhh yea I think so... maybe you should ask him or maybe you should tell your boyfriend... but like you said hes your boyfriends friend so he knows your taken right... so you never know he might just want to be friends with you but all I know is make sure if you hang out with him that your boyfriends ok with it... and make sure he doesnt get all jelous if you twi talk on the phone cause that would just cause more problems... hope I helped...
~!~LIVE STRONG~!~

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Recently, I watched a scary movie with my best guy friend. I get scared easy so I clung to him, plus he had really good colonge on. Now everyone thinks I like him and that he likes me. I don't know if I do. I mean I like hugging him and how he holds me and stuff. So, my question is "Do you think I like him," cuz I don't really know and I just want to get an idea if I'm giving off the vibe at least. By the way, I'm female and 15.

I think you do... If you like hugging him... cause would you like hugging him if you didnt like him... probably not you would probably be more likely to grab something else... you too sound cute though... I LOVE GUY COLOGNE LOL ITS SO SEXY!! Well Hope I helped...
~!~LIVESTRONG~!~

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