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Hey,my name's Stephanie, 16 years old and i live in the UK. If you want my advice then i'll happily give it. If you don't agree with it then that's just tough, i say it how i see it.
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okay well my ex boyfriend danny and me went out for 2 months..well we were going out he started to hang out with his ex all the time and ye i did get jealous..n then one night he was telling me how he only told me he loved me becuase he was confused about her..so the next day which would be 2 months he dumped me for her..he asked her bak out and she said nobecuase she cant see them together..now danny is asking me back out..and i said yes i will give him another chance..he says he wants to be with me forever and he aid evryday he sees me he is falling in love with me even more and he said when i turn 18 he wants me to move with him..he says he will do anything for me and he is always here for me..i want to go back out with him because i do still love him but i dont want him to hurt me again..n i told him that n he promised me that he wont and he thinks we can last.
do you think i should giv him another chance???
i realli love him alot...he means evrything to me.... i mean wat if i dont n it would have worked out...n then later in lyfe i am wondering wat could have happened
It seems to me that you've already made your mind up and you're just seeking reassurance from other people. Take a risk and if it doesn't work out then at least you can say you tried. You'll have to learn to trust him again and although it means you'll be putting your heart on the line, there's no way a relationship can survive without trust. I hope i was of some help. Good luck.
Is it ok for a guy to stay out late partying if his girl is sitting at home waiting for him?
yeah, it's a guy thing
Well, theres this guy that i used to like and i still kinda like him. hes awesome and sweet and hot and stuff and me and my friend shannon decided to go to teh movies and i invited him to go with us and he went with us and he started liking her and now they are kinda "talking" and it makes me very sad bc idk what to do. i dotn want to tell him or her that it makes me sad bc he thinks i dont like him anymore and shannon says that she wont do anything with him unless i say its ok but still i dotn like it and me and him were talking about it today online about how i didnt like him anymore and there was no point for me to bc he didnt like me and then all of a sudden he started talking about shannon adn how theyre hanging out on friday and stuff .. and it makes me sad. what do i do?
Do the right thing by your friend, you and this guy obviously aren't meant to be together. Accept that and move on, there'll be other guys. Guys that like you, not Shannon.
HELP i really fancey my paper boy danny but ive liked him for ages but the problem is that im really shy and cant seem to speak to him i always stare at him and he looks back and smiles, once he even waved help me to get him please ill rate you.
roxie xxx
Well you could smile and wave back so he knows you're friendly. Maybe you could just say small things like 'thanks', 'how are you' and then once you've built up your confidence you could try having a real conversation.
i like this girl. but she has a bf. i think she likes me. but im not sure., she told me im hot. i think she was kiding. so what sould i do.
thanks.... p.s. peace
you shouldn't do anything! This girl has a boyfriend and if you thought she was joking then she probably was.
How can I meet a guy just out of the blue? I do not want to make it look like it was planned or anything cause that doesn't really work...i've tried
But anyways all my friends are telling me "you can have any guy you want...your so pretty...da da da da da....
And it gets me annoyed cuz that is so not true. It feels like I never have an opportunity to go out with someone. So I am going to take a chance.
How do I just meet a guy?
Join a club or something, a hobbie that you're good at and enjoy. That way you can talk to guys there, especially if you work in teams and stuff.
ok this might be long but plz help...ok well this guy asked if i wanted to go to the movies with him and i said yes, but i thought we were goin as friends..then the next day my friend sent me a message and said congrats u goin out with *** i said what! were just gonna go to the movies...so then i texted ***** and i said u know were not goiun out,,@@@ said that we were, what diod u tell her, and he replied well she thought right i like u and i was gonna tell u when we got to the movies no matter what u were gonn a say, and he asked if i wanted to go out, i told hgim i dont really want a bf right now, sry, and then he got mad now he wont return my calls are answer my messages what do i do
There's not much you can do. Just make sure he knows that it's got nothing to do with him or the way he looks. Give him time to cool off and try not to dent his ego anymore than you already have.
me and this boy have been going out for almost two months..i really like him but he has cheated on me..but he was honest and told me..i also like his brother which likes me too..i dont know if me and my boyfriend should breake up and i should go with his brother or stay with him..can you help me?
Two months and he cheated on you, this guy is such a loser. Drop him and go for the Brother.
ok my bestest friend i new scence i was in dippers she took my boyfriend.one day i was walking to my boyfriends house,and i open the door and they were kissing i just broke down and started crying.i miss him really much .what should i do get a new boyfriend?im not my friend lisas anymore
I don't think it's a good idea to get back with this guy after he's betrayed you. However you should only find another guy if you feel as if you're ready for another relationship. If not then just have fun being single and remember, happiness is the best revenge. Try talking to your friend, ask her why she did it. She doesn't sound like a very nice person but if you've been friends for so long, maybe it's something worth saving.
ok i broke up with my X boyfriend last year for the 2nd time. I don't kno y but everytime i read a story about a relationship tearing apart i think of him. I have a new boyfriend and hes the best and i love him but i realize i miss my X sooooo much. He was always there for me. He would make me feel better. I cry every time i think of him and all the things we talked about. What am i susposed 2 do. I kno i should 4 get about him cuz we go 2 dif. skools now and i never really see him n e more but i really miss him. help me!!!
sry this is so long
-confused
You have this great guy that you're with NOW so stop dwelling in the past and have fun. There's no point in constantly looking back because it doesn't change anything. Put some effort into having fun and do whatever you can to take your mind off him. You can move on if you just put a bit of effort into it. It'll take time but it's worth it.
this boy i like ..-tom- well we just broke up..and he got over me really fast..but i think he did becasue my so called frined told him that she liked him..but the thing is that me an tom were still goiN OUT...and then that night we got into a fight so i dumped him becasue he was bein gay about it ..but now he likes tha other gurl..an the thing is i wanna know how he could get oveer me soo fast..plz help..
Either he never really liked you that much or he's just hiding his feelings to look cool. The best revenge you can give is be happy, it'll drive him crazy. The same way he's driving you crazy.
What's better?
a) a girl who's drop dead gorgeous with the IQ of a broom
-or-
b) a girl who's cute and can carry on intelligent conversation (like... genius level IQ)
please say why, and how old you are so i can figure out how that relates to my age bracket...
please and thank you!
I'd say B because then you wont have to carry the conversation all the time as the girl is intelligent enough to have a 2 way conversation with. It's not like B is ugly, you describe her as cute so what's your problem. I'm 16 and female if that helps.
Okay...well there these two kid and I really like them alot.I've gone out with the one not to long ago and I cant get over him!But then there the other guy that I've like since I was little but not my whole life its been like a light switch on and off.What should i do about this situation?Please help me.
-Amanda Marie
Go for the other guy, then you've had both and you won't end up wondering what it would've been like to date the other guy.
how do u get a girl to want to go out with you?
Well it helps if you ask her out and don't do it with loads of people around or she might think you're taking the mick. Other than that, flirt.
k me and my [ex] bf broke up ALONG LONG LONG time ago..i think he even has another gf now, but neway its been like a year or something that we havent been together and we havent even talkd in almost that long..it would be our 2 yr anniversary comin up in like a month...we broke up in tha rainy season and it was SUCH heartbreak for me..i cried every night for like 3 months straight....but the thing is, not even like 2 hrs will go by that i dont think of him...and since its the rainy season im thinkin about him so much more and im really sad..this isnt normal to STILL not be over some1 by now is it?
Who cares about normal, people move on at different rates so there's no right or wrong. If this guy has another girlfriend then he's obviously moved on and so you have to accept that you're not going to get back together. Get a hobbie, hang out with friends, go shopping, go clubbing, go out with some other guys, whatever! You've got to put some effort into moving on and taking your mind off him. Evidently it'll take time but if you try then it will happen.
I think I'm in love with my best guy friend. And that's cool and all, but he has a girlfriend, who I've met a few times and she's simply awesome. He says he's been in love with her for a few years, and she goes to a different school. They started dating over the summer, and I thought I would be okay with it all. You see, I've liked him since my sophomore year, and we're seniors now. And I really was okay with it all for a while, but then he started getting really flirty, and it's confusing me too much. What should I do?
Try not to respond to the flirting and back off a little. He's probably just having some fun because he thinks you're 'safe'. The last thing you want to do is hurt his awesome girlfriend and risk your friendship with this guy.
aight there's this guy i've liked ever since summer. we were going out but then we stopped talking for a long time.. like 2 months? so i figured he forgot about me and didn't care, and i moved on. but then i found out why we hadn't talked, he had to go away for an emergency, and he wants to be still together with me, but i dunno if thats a good idea because we'll never get to see each other and we go to different schools. any advice?
If you guys won't be able to see eachother much then why bother? You've already moved on so it's probably best to completely end it now instead of setting yourself up to get hurt and then having to move on again.
What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?
I think it depends on how mature the person is but in general about age 13. Although i wouldn't let them do much more than kiss until about 14/15.
Well.....me and my friend like the same guy.I'v like him since i was little and he likes me to.But then there my friend she likes him.And I dont know what to do cause me and this boy want to go out but then there my friend.What should i do about this cause i dont want to lose a friend but i want to go out wit this boy.What should i do?
-Amanda Marie
Go for it man, you've liked this guy for a long time and now you finally have the opportunity to go out with him. If you don't do this you might spend life wondering what would've happened and life's too short. The chances are your friend will get over it and move on to some other guy.
A couple of weeks ago I met a guy at my best friends party. Lets call hym "a" Hes so hot and so nice but he kept checking me out. Since we were in a limo everyone was giving lap dances to regeaton music. I gave one to a guy and then "a" wanted one from me. But then I found out he has a girlfriend AND I know who she is. So I didn't give him one because it didn't seem like the right thing to do and I would have felt guilty...so he was like darn. But now I find myself liking him. He has broken upp with his gf and i know I have the opportunity but he just seems like a real player to me and I don't want a guy like that. After all he wanted a lap dance from a girl when he has a gf! And he was like well she doesn't have to know...wouldn't you be hurt if you were his gf? And please don't give me advice "well thats the way guys are" or "alot of guys will do that" because that is sooo not true. I just don't know what to do...He doesn't know I like him and I'm not sure if I want him to because...idk..I just can't resist...I want to like him..I just don't wanna get hurt..but I wanna be happy too..
xo0x confused x0ox
This guy sounds like a real jerk and the fact is if he treated his ex this way he'd probably treat you the same way if you went out with him. You're right to feel cautious of this person and it's best to try and avoid him if possible. I think you should just let it pass, it wont be long before you fancy someone else, hopefully someone more trustworthy.