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In love...with the wrong guy...
A couple of weeks ago I met a guy at my best friends party. Lets call hym "a" Hes so hot and so nice but he kept checking me out. Since we were in a limo everyone was giving lap dances to regeaton music. I gave one to a guy and then "a" wanted one from me. But then I found out he has a girlfriend AND I know who she is. So I didn't give him one because it didn't seem like the right thing to do and I would have felt guilty...so he was like darn. But now I find myself liking him. He has broken upp with his gf and i know I have the opportunity but he just seems like a real player to me and I don't want a guy like that. After all he wanted a lap dance from a girl when he has a gf! And he was like well she doesn't have to know...wouldn't you be hurt if you were his gf? And please don't give me advice "well thats the way guys are" or "alot of guys will do that" because that is sooo not true. I just don't know what to do...He doesn't know I like him and I'm not sure if I want him to because...idk..I just can't resist...I want to like him..I just don't wanna get hurt..but I wanna be happy too..
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i think dat u shud look at other dudes. a lotta guys rn't dat way. don't go 4 da playa types cuz u'll just end up gettin hurt if he duz thins like dat (askin 4 a lap dance iz proof). maybe he likes u. maybe he just wanted a lap dance. who knows? anyways, i tink dat if u go wit him thins will just end up turnin bad. maybe he'll cheat on u? maybe he'll check out another gurl? i no if it were mi and i found out dat my bf wus doin thins lyk dat, i wud b majorly hurt. look at other guys!! there r a lotta guys out there dat r nice and want 2 be wit U and no1 else :)
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This guy sounds like a real jerk and the fact is if he treated his ex this way he'd probably treat you the same way if you went out with him. You're right to feel cautious of this person and it's best to try and avoid him if possible. I think you should just let it pass, it wont be long before you fancy someone else, hopefully someone more trustworthy.
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If he treats his girlfriend like this, then chances are he will do the same to you behind your back if you were to date him. Would that make you happy? You said you wanted to be happy. Truth is, some guys are amazingly nice and getting lap dances from other girls when they have a girlfriend doesn't even cross their mind. Other guys, who are worthless wastes of precious oxygen, would consider getting lap dances from other girls.
Do you really think that hes trustworthy if he has done this to his last girlfriend? Because I sure don't. You will probably get hurt, and you will probably end up unhappy. Try to find someone who is more worth your time, ya know, like a nice guy. A guy who only wants lap dances from one person, as opposed to 10 different girls at once. Not a man-whore. That kind of guy.
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Well yeah you want to be happy, but all that happiness will go away when he hurts you. And pain lasts longer than happiness so just look for someone else. You'll find the right guy for you:)
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