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okayi dont understand why people say.. theres no such thiing in the world as love at a younge age..
i mean feelings are feelings
i just want your opinions
on what you think of it
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Well thts not entirely true...it honestly just depends on the people. Some people will find love at a young age where as other won't find it til they're really old. it really just depends on the people who r becoming a couple. Some people will say they love someone but what they don't realize is tht they rnt in love with tht person, they just love them. Hope this helped a little bit!
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Hi. I only like guys who don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and are nice, smart, and a virgin... but it seems like there are no guys out there at all who fit my description. So I'm just wondering, are there any many guys who are like that? Or are my standards too high? (link)
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all you ahve to do is keep looking and you'll find him. it might not be as easy as you think but he's out there somewhere looking for a girl just like you! so dont give you and go fin the right guy for yourself! and btw, your standards arent high at all. unless you're saying you dont want him to ever drink which is almost impossible for the male species to do. in this case maybe you should lower your standards just a little bit! hope this helps a bit
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I've had a crush on this guy for a while now and we are very close friends. I want to write him a note, but I don't know what to put in it. How do I write a sweet note, but not come on too strong?
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Ok well first find out who he likes so you don't make youself look like a complete idiot! And then tell him how you feel, liittle by little and maybe he'll feel the same about you. And if he does that would be great!!!! And if he doesn't well then at least he knows how you feel about him. And if or when you do write the note, tell him u understand if he doesn't like you the way you like him and you would be ok if you guys just stayed friends. Even if u don't want 2 stay friends. But being friends is better than nothing! Hope this helped!
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I've been with my boyfriend since Oct. 23rd 05'.
I cheated on him when we were going out around this time of year last year. about 6x. btw: i'm 16 he's 18. He lives with me and we argue quite alot. I stopped having feelings for him about 4 weeks ago, Currently he has met a new friend named J, and j's a hottie. I want to meet new people, i don't know why. I don't know if this is a bad or good thing. My boyfriend has really bad anger problems and when i tell him i don't love him or like him; he doesn't take it seriously. I just don't know what to do, can anyone help me on this one? thanks x100.
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Honestly you should get your crap together put it in your car (if you have 1) and tell him its over when you see him at home and then leave! If he doesn't take you seriously still then try and be like super serious about it and make sure he gets the msg loud and clear! Even if you break his heart in half(and by the way you say it you don't really care). Hope this helps a bit!
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whats the difference between loving someone and being in love with them? (link)
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The difference is pretty simple: when you love someone you basically just care about them. When your in love with someone you do more than just care about them, you really feel something special and you always want to be with them and always want to talk to them and you can never get them off your mind. But then if you can't get someone out of your mind, then maybe they're supposed to be there! Hope this helped!
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What do you do when you can't be with the one person who completes you? (link)
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if you really feel he completes you then go for it! nobody else's opinion matters when it comes to your happiness. so if it means you're breaking the rules, oh well. some rules are meant to be broken. and besides nobody's perfect so therefore nobody can get mad at you for trying to make yourself happy!
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My bgf told me he loves me and i think i may love him too. We most likely are going to be starting a serious relationship soon, well as soon as im ready. who knows how long that will be lol! but i know he wants a relationship and really cares about me. like i said he just told me he loves me. anyways i knew moving was a possibility but now its a pretty good chance meaning most likely. if you get what i mean. tho my parents are (of course) all like well you never know we might stay blah, blah. i know that we basically will with a small chance of actually staying. ANYWAYS i really want to tell my bgf esp. if we start a relationship. i just want him to know what could happen. my mom says if i do he will be like good bye! but he wouldnt do that i dont think. he are super close and really understand each other and i just want him to know its a chance. i wouldnt same we most likely are just thats there is a chance. If we start a relationship what would i do if i didnt tell him? it would be this summer and thats not too far away. 6 months. i cant start a relationship then be like oh btw after all we have gone through and us finally dating after liking each other off and on for a couple years im moving halfway across the country! do u guys think i should tell him? or no? thanks so much and i will rate all of your opinions!!! (link)
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honestly if i were you......i would tell him about it without even thinking about it! well i would think about it in the sense of how to tell him. lol. dont wait til the last minute cause that will just put him in major shock mode! and you dont want that. and besides maybe if you tell him now, he'll make a move and you guys could be together for the time that your still here and who knows? maybe you guys can have a long-distance relationship! or you could end up staying there and your relationship could be almost perfect!
hope this helps!
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Well how can you tell if a guy likes you?
Because there is this guy and i don't like him because we're pretty much best friends. But i think he likes me cuz he's always saying "do you like anyone?" and then i say idk except i do like a guy. Yeah but theres one problem, the guy i like doesnt like me. Or at least i think? I told him i like him and he didnt really answer he was like like oh. So i dont know if he is embaressed to say something, because i think he's just shy if we see eachother in the hall he looks away. Anyyway, I'm not sure if the guy who i THINK likes me, knows that i dont like him. And i dont know if i should tell him i like someone else and make him feel bad, or if i should just not saying anything because we're better off friends. Honestly, I dont think i would ever like him more than a friend because its just awkward. Yeah i know i asked a lot of questions, Can you please try to answer all of them =) thank you. ( girls point of view and boys point of view would be helpful so write if your a boy or a girl ) (link)
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well first off, i wouldnt have told that guy i liked him unless i knew for a fat that he liked me back and something definately as going to happen between us two. if i were you i would tell your friend that you like him as a friend or instead of telling him you can show him in way by like pointing out things that i say i only like you as a friend. well let me start over. you know a guy likes you when he does things for you, tells you his secrets that nobody else knows, you can tell a guy likes you when he feels comfortable around you, when he says your name a hundred times a day without realizing it, and when you can tell he truely cares about your feelings and how something might affect you. you an tell that he likes you if you can talk to him about guys and he will give you his honest opinion about them without felling gay! from the way you describe it, it could be 2 things: either he is just curious about what guys you like or maybe he realy does like you. if i were you i wouldn't tell him that you like another guy because not only would that make him feel like poo, but it would be something that would change the way he acts around you if he does like you. well maybe you can give him a try even if you dont really like him, or give it a little more time and see if you start felling feelings for him and you 2 can give it a try. and if it doesnt work out you 2 would probably think that it was best if you just stayed friends and were friends and you guys could act like you never went out.
well hope this answered all of ur questions! dorry for making it so long! lol let me know how it goes!
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hey so my boyfriend and i have a great relationship. we are never awkward at all and we talk ALL the time. but today i was feeling really tired and just not that talkative and i noticed after i got home from school that we didnt talk at all. and i feel like the only reason we didnt was that i didnt talk to HIM. i doubt he did it purposely but like.. he could have said something to me without me having to come up to him and say something. also he really shows he likes me when we just hang out alone, (kissing/holding hands) but at school he just like treats me like a friend and most of the time when we are around other people even out of school. i dont want him to be all lovey dovey around me when other people are around.. but it would be nice for him to do some things to remind me that he really likes me. what are some ways i can tell him this but like.. joking around kind of way. cause i dont see it as a big deal i have to confront him about really. or do you think i should just let it go?
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well maybe he sensed that you werent really in the mood to talk when you got home and he probably figured that you had studying or something else to do that was important such as a paper to do for one of your classes. and as for the treating you like a friend around other people, there are two explanations for that kind of behavior:the first is that maybe his feelings for you have sort of been dying in a way and he doesn't know how to tell you(because i sense that you 2 have been together for awhile)and instead of using words, he uses different manners or gestures. and the second explanation is maybe he feels uncomfortable about showing the way he feels about you in front of other people. and he probably doesn't get all lovey dovey and stuff at school because he probably is trying to focus on his work instead of on you. and if the way he acts bothers you a little bit, then maybe you should sit him down when you guys are at home and you can tell him how you feel.
hope this helped you out a little bit!
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