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Member Since: November 28, 2007
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Last Update: November 28, 2007
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Well my so called close friend lets call her lena i trusted her i told her everything ! ok well me and her we used to bitch about this girl wrong i know and i regret it so dont tell me im a mean bitch or anything anyways well lena went and told her that i said this and that about her and the girl lets call her nina well nina told me off when lena backstabbed her aswell but i didnt say anything anyways nina told me off and started screaming at me and she told me our friendship was over and i just want everything back to normal if i could go back in time i would but i can't i've learnt my lesson all i want is everything to back to the way it was but i don't know what to say or do and now lena is closer to nina now and i miss lena so muchh and i also miss nina i don't know who to trust anymore (link)
i see your dilemma. unfortunately, you might not like my advice. i don't think it really matters that you were talking bad about someone else with your best friend. this girl "iena" is suppose to be your BEST FRIEND. best friends don't go behind your back. they are not two-faced, and they don't tell other people your secrets or the things that you say. this girl is not a real friend. you should dump her, and move on. go join some afterschool groups that interest you and make some new friends cause your old friend is worthless.


i need to fly out of state next month. the problem is i dont have a credit card. how can i pay for my tickets, do they offer another form of payment like cash or money order? any info would help alot! (link)
walmart offers a pre-paid visa credit card that you can get in their electronics department. you can pay cash for that, and then use the card to buy your tickets.


Well how can you tell if a guy likes you?
Because there is this guy and i don't like him because we're pretty much best friends. But i think he likes me cuz he's always saying "do you like anyone?" and then i say idk except i do like a guy. Yeah but theres one problem, the guy i like doesnt like me. Or at least i think? I told him i like him and he didnt really answer he was like like oh. So i dont know if he is embaressed to say something, because i think he's just shy if we see eachother in the hall he looks away. Anyyway, I'm not sure if the guy who i THINK likes me, knows that i dont like him. And i dont know if i should tell him i like someone else and make him feel bad, or if i should just not saying anything because we're better off friends. Honestly, I dont think i would ever like him more than a friend because its just awkward. Yeah i know i asked a lot of questions, Can you please try to answer all of them =) thank you. ( girls point of view and boys point of view would be helpful so write if your a boy or a girl ) (link)
i think that you should sit down with your friend and ask him if he likes you like a friend, or if he has deeper feelings. i had a lot of guy friends growing up, and some of them really wanted to be more. it took a while for them to get up the courage to tell me this. the problem is...i turned them down. i told them that i thought that we would be better off as friends and so they reluctantly agreed. after many years passed, i drifted away from these guys. now, even though i am in a wonderful relationship, i ofter still wonder if maybe i should have given my guy friends a chance. i mean, they were really sweet guys. i just didn't feel an attraction to them at the time. so, what i think you should do is this...ask your friend how he feels. it's the fastest way to find out. and, if he tells you that he would like to be more than friends...this will be your chance to tell him how you feel. if you aren't feeling the same vibe, you can just tell him that although you are flattered that he wants to become romantic with you, you just don't feel the same way, or you could go out on a limb, and tell that that ya'll can try it and see how it goes. you never know. but my biggest advice to you is this...don't let this go on any longer. if your friend really does want to be with you and you don't feel the same way, then you need to get it out in the open now. sure things might be weird for a little while, but at least the truth will be out on the table.

by the way, if you haven't guess yet, i am a girl.




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