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Rite im not going to tell you the hole story because its jus wayy to long but i jus wanna no..how are you ment to choose between two lads ? :S im rele confused on who to pick and its just really upsetting me :/ Please help.. x x x

Just be friends with them for awhile and see if some things develops with one more than the other

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my bestfriend is a boy. and i just started liking him. and realizing how me and him would be good together. we went to the movies the other day with a big group of people from school. at the theater we went to , there are couches/chairs and what not..so me and him shared a chair, for one person. and we were cuddling i guess...i had my head on his shoulder and he had his arm around me. =) we were like this the whole movie. and he would rub my arm, and poke me. it was nice. but...i dont know if it was just a best friend thing, or if he could like me. because everyone says he likes me, he just wont admit it. so i mean it felt like it something more than bestfriend...but could it have been? idk. should i ask him? just totally ignore it, and go on being best friends?..or what?

thanks.
13/f

You should ask him! If he likes you thats great! He seems to be flirting wiff you thats just like me and my boyfriend. Good Luck

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(sorry that this is long)

I ‘m Alice and I am in a love square, I am in love with my best friend who I knew for 8 years she is my first women crush. Her name is Iris. My ex boyfriend Tony who I went out with when I saw in 11th grade for 3 months told me he still had feelings for me. He lives in Hawaii. And Iris and my friend Ray who we know for 7 years has feelings for the both of us and he is bi-curios. He went out with Iris for 3 days but she broke up with him. That was in our 9th grade.
I broke up with Tony because I realized I didn’t have feelings for him and at the time I was dealing with family issues and my feelings for Iris. I told him I wasn’t interest into him anymore and I broke his heart. When we graduate he moved to Hawaii with his mother. Iris told me that Tony had feelings for her but she only looked at him in a brother type way. I got jealous on either side, because he was my boyfriend and I didn’t want her to go out with him. But then I was jealous that he asks her out and I wanted her to be mine. (Yeah confusing)
Ray always had a long term feelings for Iris and I but he is a horny guy…me and him are close like siblings but we talk about sex and we laugh about it. I know Ray is serous when we talk about it. But I brush it off the side because I don’t want to go far with him. I only love him as a brother who is always there for me. (Ray really likes Iris more than me)
Iris is confused and she is not of type person to talk about sex or relationships. She wants to work and go to school and be with friends.
I told her how I felt about her and she was shocked she told me she was fine with it but she isn’t interest because she is not sure what gender she is inertest into yet.
She is very close to me than others, she leans on me and she loves to play around with me. Iris and I are still friends and we hang out and chat online with each other mostly every day. It just I want to move away so I can get over her.
I’m not ready for a relationship with a girl….I realized that I’m bi-sexual.
I want to go out with Iris in the future but I don’t know if she wants that? And /or she see me that way.
In a year I be moving to Hawaii with my parents, (this is before I new my ex was there)
I don’t know what to do
I don’t want to move away from my friends and sisters, but I have no money to have a place in CA.
Tony is in love with me and I’m in love with Iris and Ray likes Iris and I and Iris is confused on what she wants.
I thought that if I move to Hawaii and go out with Tony that I will forget my feelings of Iris, but Tony didn’t forget about me and it’s been 5 years I haven’t talk to him till NOW. So I know I won’t forget about her.
I can’t make my self fall in love with Tony because I know my heart wants Iris. Iris might be lost in this love stuff I know she just wants to travel and move on…I want to find out who I’m!?
What should I do?

This is going to sound corny but you need your heart to lead you to who you love. You cant force yourself to love Tony if you dont and If you love Iris you cant force yourself to stop. You also cant force Iris into loving you if she doesnt. You need to give it time find out how she feels. Ok If you need more help IM me at craziirockerchic

I hope I've helped

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18f/ Can you make a relationship work if you are not compatible. Like you view relationships completely different from one another. Can you make it work if you're really in love???

Compatiblity is a big thing in relationships. If you truly are in love you can try to make it work but it wont always happen. For example just recently I was dating this kid who was crazy for me and I tried to love him back but I couldnt I wasnt compatible to him. I am now with someone I am so happy with and they are happy with me. So just give it time you will find someone

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Ok so I was wondering what turns a guy on?

umm guys that are total pervs. Like a girl who is comfortable with themselves. They like girls who are down to earth and not all snobby

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i love my bf. alot. but you see the other day we got in a fight because this other guy was at my house. alden * my bf * thought he was over there to see me but he was over here cause my brother invited him over. later he apolizged and said he was sorry. i did too. i dont think he is really okay with it though. if he thought i was doing something with him, does he trust me or not?? i told him that he needs to trust me but he didn't say anything. HELP!

This is like they same thing me and my boyfriend went through. I love my boyfriend alot to. I told him that I trusted him and he should trust me to. I told him I want to stop having stupid fights because he means the world to me. We fight once in awhile but every couple does but in the end we kno we have a love so strong for each other nothing can tear us apart.I hope I helped

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Why do guys take it as a compliment when you say they have big feet?

There is an old saying big feet equal big dick. So they take it as a compliment

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my bf wants me to lap dance with him. well. not really but he asked me if I'd do. and he asks me alot of nasty questions about sex and strip with him. i dont want to do anything with him except makeout. what do i do?? help!!

Tell him how you feel. He shouldnt pressure you to do anything your not ready for.

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What to do when your best friend likes the same person that you do and you want to go out with this person really bad, but you dont want to upsetor hurt your friend.????????........

See who the guy likes first so you and your friend know. I mean who's more important to u ur friend or ur crush?

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It's almost my boyfriend and I's 2 month anniversary... do I get him something or just ignore it? If I should get him something what should it be?

Ha Im going to go against what all my other people said and tell you to get him something. Get him a nice watch or something you know he been wanting. Show him you love him not blow it off because if he gets you something and you get him nada you will feel pretty bad.

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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 16 years old and I was wondering if you just started going out with a boy like a week ago is it to soon for a first kiss literally this will be my first kiss ever by a boy.

Do you really like him? Do you want him to be the first one u kiss. If so yes kiss him. Bise Bise!

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What to do when your best friend likes the same person that you do and you want to go out with this person really bad, but you dont want to upsetor hurt your friend.????????........im a girl

This is like the same thing situation I am in. I am dating my bestfriends ex boyfriend. I am happy and she says she only wants me to be happy so I guess it works. Who does he like better your r u friend? If she is a true friend she will understand.
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I really, really like this girl in my class. How do I know if she likes me back. Oh, and how do I keep it a secret I have a bit of a problem of letting everyone know by accident.
Thanks for your help

Does she flirt with you? If she does ask her if she likes u. She might not but u always have to take chances.
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my crush and i flirt like wild i mean we have kissed pashed hugged every thing but we arnt going out i really like him how do i get him to notice me more and how can i tell of he likes me???

Well i mean it seems like he likes you. U've kissed and everything. Just tell him u like him alot
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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep**

People have different views on it. Like with me I wouldnt date a guy that is like butt ugly but Im not looking for a Brad Pitt either. Like as long as a guy is kinda cute, has a great personality and can make me laugh Im fine with them. So some people think looks are a big thing while others could care less. Hope I helped

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Ok I really liked this boy that rode my bus for like 2 months maybe 1 but anyways i could tell he kinda liked me then at our christmas dance he was so sweet to me and like we slow danced so the next day on the bus he didnt really say much kinda acted like his regular self flirted with me a little bit but that was it and so then we got out from to christmas break and then i really lost intrest in him cause well he just took to long and today on the bus i got on and i ingored him he and he asked me ou FINALLY but i dont know if i should or not cause im not as crazy about him and hes kinda dog hes always looking at other girls so i told him i had to think about it so what do you think i should do???
ILL RATE 5'S ON ANYONES INFORMATIOn

If you dont like him dont date him. Plus if he is always looking at other girls he is not someone you want to date
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well anyway im a sophmore guy and i like this girl. i was gonna tell her on the phone the other night but i couldnt bring myself to do it. how can i build up enough courage to tell her? i told her friend and she wants to tell her, should i let her? help!

Yeah you should let her friend see what she thinks about you and if she likes you have her friend tell her that you like her.
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Im 13 (female) So...there's this guy. ANd i REALLY like him...or at least i used to. Hes really cool and we're friends and stuff...see....i told him that i liked him...but it turns out that the same day...he had a friend fix him up with another girl...and she dosent reallylike him...and so now he thinks that the only reason i talk to him is because i like him and he barely talks to me and....what should i do?

I mean are you sure the girl doesnt like him? I mean maybe he just wants to be friends with you. It sucks but there are other guys :-). Good luck
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I'm dating this girl. I'm really happy, and I love her very much. but theres this other girl that likes me, and she happens to be a close friend. She has a b/f and she's wants to dump this b/f for me. But how do I tell her I don't wanna be with her? I don't want her to get mad and stop being my friend.....idk....

Same thing is happening to me but just other way around being im the girl that likes the guy who is dating a girl and I have a boyfriend. Anyway just say "I really like you as a friend but Im seeing someone now I really hope you want to be my friend" easy as that. She will be sad (I was) but she will get over it

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ok well there is this kid I really like at school . And when I told Him he said he Might like me 2 ! and that he would tell me on monday ! well it is wedsday and i still have NO answer ! so what does that meaN !?!?!?!?! does he like me or not ! HELP !

Chill. Maybe he forget guys dont have the best memory. Just write him a note and be like "So do you like me?" and see what he says. Good luck
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