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Hey my name is amber but everyone calls me bambi.

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I love my bpyfriend but then there are these 2 other guys. This is the problem..

Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months and I love him a lot. Before I ever went out with him I always likes this other guy! Lets call him Mike. Well Mike and one of my best friends went out off and on for about 5 times. I never told anyone that I liked him and no one knew. Now Mike told me he liked me and he wants to go out with me! I dont know what to do because I like Mike also and I like my boyfriend. There is this new guy who came to school and I think I'm starting to like him to. I already feel jelous when someone flirts with him. We talked a couple of times tho and I like him. My boyfriend is very complicated at times! We have had some issues but we all worked it out! I dont know what to do!!! I like all 3 of these guys! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend because I love him and I also want to go out with Mike and I like this new guy! Please help! I`l rate good I promise! Thank you.

i think you should stay with your boyfriend cause you love him and you guys already been though alot. sure hes complicated at times but what guys arent. Going with mike might be a bad idea because if something happend and you were to break up that could possibly be the end of a friendship. With this new guy you should just get to know him better and have him has a good friend. but i really think you should stay with your b/f. cause 4 months just might turn into a lifetime.
HOPE I HELPED!
~BAMBI~

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ok well i like this guy and i think that he might kinda like me a little bit but he has a girl freind and she used to be muh good freind but now we dont talk like at all and she already thinks that we fool around so .......muh ? is do u think that it would be bad to do shit with him behind her back?

savannah
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my advice would be not to do it, even if you and the girls arent friends anymore. but if u do end up doing something with him behind her back then it might not be so bad since she already thinks you did.

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My bf and I have been dating for about a month now and he recently told me that he thinks hes in love with me. I'm kind of turned off by that because its so soon. He keeps asking me how I feel and I told him I'm not sure, I'm not in love with him, what should I do.

i think you should tell him your not ready for love yet or you thinks its to soon. if he really loves you like he says then he'll understand!

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ok i was dateing this 21 year old guy and i fell in love with him but then i had to move away and then i came back where he lives and we live in the same home but he has another girlfriend and now i want him back but i don't know how

i suggest you do things, to show him and let him know you still love him. And how much you love him. Im sure if you show him how much he will take you back. but dont expect it to be right away. since he has a g/f and all.

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ok well im 15 and in 9 grade and theres this boy that i like but i dont really know him. Well ever since the beginning of the year i always caught him staring at me and smiling but never anything else, then we gradually started talking but only in class (we have one class together)well this semester i sit right next to him in class and we talk all the time but only in class. if we see each other in the hall we never say anything. yesterday our class was in the computer lab & we were only allowed to sit by 1 person at a table. well i got up for a minute to go look at another computer that no one was at or by and he came over and sat right next to me and we just sat there talking and then he put his hand on my leg. then the teacher looked at us an he got up and went to sit next to this girl i hate but hes friends with her. so what the heck?! im so confused so if u could just tell me if hes hinting he likes me or if he just wants to confuse me? plz i rate high!!

hey, i think he really likes you. I also think you should give him your number and have him call you. If he calls you, he definatly likes you. I hope I helped you. Good luck....or you can ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, like go to the movies or something. If your shy write him a note.
~Bambi~

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Okay so, there is this guy that I like. The only problem is, I don't think he knows me. He is in my drama class but we never talk and I am sorta nervous to be around him. My friend is really good friends with him though, but I am also nervous to tell her! I really like him though, what do I do?!?

you should tell your friend and im sure your friend will have no problem hooking you two up. Dont be nervous to tell her. Or you can get to know him yourself, talk to him!

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ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?

you should tell them only if u trust them, or keep it to yourself.......its up to you......i tell my friends but alot of ppl like to keep that private.

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ook . me and this guy have been off and on rellie sice 6th grade but like went out for a couple weeks brokeup stayed broken up for about a 5 months and did the same routine till like recent in 8th grade . [its not like we didnt date other people] but recently we went out and like rellie not for a couple of weeks but a couple of months. and then we brokeup because we got into a fite and then madeup and have sort of been together ever since but recently hes been asking me out again n i want to go out with him but like i enjoy the way we are now . liek kissing all the time and hangingout everysingle day but he wants more . i relie dont want more than that becase hes differnt when we go out . i telll him that and he doesnt understand. hes been dipping[chewing tabacco] smokeing and takieng steriods and i dont rellie like it n hes been haveign roid rages at me and i like him but i dont know what to do .

ok, i think you should take a break from him, no kissing no hugging no nothing. I know you like it but that just makes it more tempting on his part. im sure he knows what dipping and smoking can do to him, but i doubt he knows what steriods can do to him. you need to get him some help. or you should figure out a way to convince him not to do roids. He needs to understand whatever you want to tell him. If he keeps going on like this then find a boyfriend and show him you dont wanna be nothing more. but for now i think you guys should take a break.

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I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou

i have the same problem, but im not going to change for a guy to like me, and neither should you. cause once you change its not you. if guys dont like you for who you are then screw them. (not literally)(lol). because eventually that guy will come around and youll be the happiest person ever.guys arent that important anyways, i havent had a boyfriend since i was 14. I have a lot of guy friends that are not attracted to me but im ok with that. so dont worry, someone will come along that likes you for who you are.

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When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist

i think his arms should go around your waist and yours should go around his shoulder. but is he puts his arm around your shoulder then put ur arm around his waist.

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