(A)ge:18
(B)irthday:Feb26,1987
(C)olors:Pink & Lavender
(D)ream guy:My hunnie
(E)yes:Brown
(F)ears:Mice & Snakes
(G)reatest things:My babe, Friends, Nathan, Fam.
(H)air:Carmel..Real color-Brown
(I)ntrests:Doing hair,wedding planning, interior
(J)ealous of:Skinny people.
(K)indness:Help people with problems
(L)ocation:Federalsburg
(M)ovies:Bewitched,Mean Girls.
(N)ame:Amanda
(O)bsession:Friends,& Boyfriend
(P)erfection:Hair & nails
(Q)uestion:How come guys dont have feelings?
(R)ole model:My mom
(S)chool:Colonel Richardson
(T)alent:Making things*Creative*
(U)niqueness:My personality
(V)ery best thing about me:I can chear people up
(W)orst thing about me:Shopaholic
(X)tras:Im a mommy's girl
(Y)ummies:pickles
(Z)odiac:Pisces
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My best guy friend and I are both 17 and will be seniors in HS in september. We have been friends since frosh year, and became really close last year. I know I can tell him anything and he knows he can do the same. Throughout most of our junior year, I had a crush on him. Yet, I could not tell if he felt the same about me cause of mixed signals. We flirt with each other, hug each other sometimes, and talk a lot online(we both are busy with school). A few times he's even stayed after school for no reason on days that I have my flute lesson and hung out with me. One time, he even calmed me down when I was about ready to haul off and kill one of my best friends for being a jerk to me. He's confided in me a few things and I have confided in him my most private secret. We trust each other and value each other. Yet, I can't read his mind when it comes to me. (link)
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Well the next time you get online and talk to him ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel about him . Like you said you can tell him anything. Mayeb he feels the same way about you but he doesnt knwo if you feel the same. Even if he doesnt feel the same your not going to lose anything you guys will still be bestfriends and even if he does feel the same about it . It will make the relationship and friendship stringer cause you guys know so much about each other. So dont be afriad to let him know how you feel. And make sure you do it soon because you wouldnt want someone else to tell him they like him . Good luck.
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my boyfriends has been hurt by his ex girlfriend he really loved her and she told him that she loved him too but she went out and had sex with another guy and that tore him up how do i get him to see or convince him that i won't hurt him? i do know what its like 4 your ex to cheat or something so how do i get him to understand that i won't do what she did?
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Well im sorta going through the same thing that you are. My boyfriend was dating his ex girlfriend for a year and she had him believing that she was pregnant with his baby he did everything for her. He payed for the doctor bills everything for that baby then when she was up to nine months pregnant she finally told him that she cheated on himand that the baby was not his he was so hurt and when we started to date it took a while for him to just open up to me and for him to finally say he loved me .It took a while for him to do it but you just have to take it slow with your boyfriend let him know that you are always there for him to talk to about his problem and sooner or later he will open up to you.. Sorry i cant be of anymore help but the least i can do is help a little because i know what your going through.
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Ok, One of older friends, she is in highschool, going to be a senior, set me up with her boyfriends brother, we have been talking over the phone and internet for a while, and we finally met. I really don't know how to find out or ask him if he likes me, he told me to call him but he never said ne thing about meeting me. I'm really confused, and don't knwo what to do! I rate high for good answers!! (link)
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okay it seems to me that he had some kinda interest in you because he wanted you to call him after you all met if he didnt like you then he wouldnt of told you to still call him. So if i was you and you really seem like you liked this guy and want to know more about him you should call him.Good luck
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16f, See my problem is that there is this boy that I used to have this fling with,'sorta' and its over now, its been over for quite some time but I still just can't seem to get him out of my head. I'm a rising junior in high school and he just graduated, so I know I'm never going to see him again so whats the point in liking someone soo much when you can never have a relationship with this person. I've been trying soo hard to forget him but I can't shake the feelings I have for him. Its like he has some type of power over me and I can never seen to get away from him.
PLEEEEAAAAZZZZ help me get him out of my head.
Signed,
HOPELESS (link)
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There really is not any way that you can get him out of your head.But the only way that I can think of is to move on and find someone else that you like.Either that are you can try to get his cell number and text him and tell him how you feel or if he has a screen name tell him on here how you feel. That is the only way you will ever find out and get over him.. Sorry I cant be of anymore help.
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Well i have been likeing this girl for like 2 years!! and we have always IMed eachother and texted eachother! Well we went to tha beach together with some of our friends and i had soo much fun and i really really like her! but the thing is that she has a boyfriend thats a junior and she is a freshmen! They have been going out for like 1 year! What can i do to get her to like me more than him??
p.s.-she knows that i like her! (link)
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Well since she knows that you like her does it seem like she likes you back? ask her if she feels the same about you and if she does go from there.Ask her to come over to watch a movie or to go to the mall together or what not. But dont make it seem like your begging her to like you because that pushes them away,, Good luck
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ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?
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Just act like your self around him and flirt with him and ask him if he would like to hang out sometime like watch a movie at your house or what not.. Try to kiss him or whatever and if he kisses you back that means he must feel the same about you., Just act your self and have a fun time.♥
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ok me and my boyfrind have been datin know for 9 months i am 14 and he just turned 17. we are in a long distance realtionshhip(he live about 2hours away from me) and he left on staurday for 2 weeks to a basketball thing and the thing is he went with his "firend" that likes him. like this girl is a bitch she always tryin to do something with him and trying to get me mad.i trust my boyfriend that wont do anything with her but they are stayin in the same room and bed..i know there is nothing goin on wit them because he doesnt like her like that and his sister would have already told me there is.. his sister is going with him too and the same room but different bed.. should i be worried.:( i trust him but not her. can someone please help me. (link)
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I understand what you mean I trust my boyfriend to but i dont trust the other girls that he is always around.The ebst thing for me to tell you is to trust him to do the right thing and if he has a cell phone or whatever make sure you call him. But not to much because then he will think that you dont trust him and when ever your about to get off the phone with him make sure you say "I love you" and if he really does not care for this other girl he will say it right back to you with her standing there. Play her games just like she is trying to play but let her know that your man is not for sale.. Hope things work out.. ♥
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ive been goin out with this lad 4 nearly 3 years on and off n we split up bout 2 months ago and he got a new gf so i found some1 i liked i started havin sex with him n he asked me ut n i said yes but then my x asked finished with his gf n asked me bk out n i said yes so im goin out with both of them i love the 1 that ive been with for nearly 3 years but i think im fallin 4 the other aswell help me plz (link)
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Well you dont want to keep leading both of them on.. Make a chart. Once one do you like spending time with more? which one can you act yourself around.? which one can you trust. Just follow your heart the one that you have the best time with be with.Sorry I cant be anymore help.. ♥
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I don't know if any one remembers me, i asked the question if i should dumb my boyfriend because all my friends said he was wearidand an @$$. Well i didn't, thanks to all you, we kissed for the first time the other night at a party now everybody is convinced that i'm on crack or something. What sould i do? I've tryed talking to my friends and they keep going on and on about how stupid i am to be going out with him. please i really need help! (link)
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The way that i see it no matter who you date someone is gonna have a problem with it and always gonna have something to say. So dont listen to what everyone else is saying because if you did you would never truely be happy. If this guy makes you happy then no matter how many down falls you have stay with him. Everyone has rough times in relationships it only makes then stronger when you can stay together and work it through.. Hope I helped..Remember its your relationship you are the only one that can say if you want to be in it or not.♥ Rate me
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how do you grind with a guy. Please don't just tell me you go with the music like I want to know how your body is soposed to move and shit like that
ill rate you a 5 for a good answer
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Well its where the guy gets all worked up for an example.. He is laying on the sofa with his back laying down and you are laying on top of him with your legs on each side of him and just rub your *stuff* on his *stuff* in other words your humpping but slowly.. or you can lay down with your legs around his hips and he does the same.. Hope I helped rate me
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okay me and this guy have been together for a while but i found out that he was still talking with his ex g/f of 10 months bc we go to diff. schools and they hang out and messed around and stuff so i got really mad and stopped talking to him then a week later he called me and was like i miss you im stupid i shouldnt of done that me and her are over i like you alot blah blah blah so i took him back then it happened again and i still like him bc its hard to just stop bc i love being with him and around him so should i give him another chance? or enough is enough? but i really wanna be with him.. (link)
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I know that you dont want to hear this but i think that you should let him go. He is tryna play both of you girls and you guys are going right along and letting him do it. Enough is enough no girls should have to play a guys game. Once a cheater always a cheater i know that its gonna be hard but your gonna have to drop him dont go back to him because its only hurting you more. He will see what he missed out on sooner or later. in the mean time hang out with your friends or guys friends to get your mind off of him.. Good luck
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Please don't judge me on this, I'm not nearly as materialistic as I sound here.
Here's the short version:
Last Valentine's day, my guy gave me this really pretty antique ring. This past August, he basically proposed, but didn't have enough money for a real engagement ring or promise ring, etc. He's been working like crazy in general, earning like seven bucks an hour, so I know he has some amount of money.
Is there a way to hint to him that I want a "real" ring before we go to college? I want to be able to flash it in case any guys get any ideas...
He knows my ring size now, and I know his, so theoretically we could buy each other rings.
But how do I suggest this without seeming...I dunno...like "Buy me things!"
'Cause I mean maybe as stupid as it is, I do want a real promise ring. The ring he gave me is starting to tarnish, and it doesn't quite fit on my finger.
Thanks in advance =) (link)
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The funny thing is after i sat hwere and ready your question you should just like me.. My boyfriend gave me a promise ring though and i was thinking about going out and getting him one to because like you said its not that we dont trust them its just that we dont trust other girls and i feel the same way you do. If you guys ever go to like the ring store or the mall were they sell rings be like "oh i like this ring or this would be a pretty engagment ring" just drop little hints .. So it doesnt sound like your saying buy me this buy me that.Or you can go out and buy him a ring and tell him the one he got you is falling apart.. Hope things work out.. Rate me
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Yeah, so my guy and I have been together for almost 20 months, and he proposed awhile back.
The thing is, about a month ago we had a big fight over something INCREDIBLY stupid and almost broke up before realizing that it was completely fixable, and that we'd both be miserable without each other. So really, we never broke up...but I want to know if we're still engaged. It's getting close to a year since he proposed. Should I just randomly do something like "You remember what you asked me a year ago today?"
I mean, he still talks about our relationship as if it'll never end, so I think he still feels the same way. I know he still loves me (if anything, he seems to love me more, and I love him)
So...how do I go about bringing this up? (link)
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Just tell him that you were online today looking at pretty wedding dresses and show him which one you think is cute. then ask him would he rather have it in the summer winter or fall just drop little hints to him .Hope i helped.. good luck rate me
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hey wow ok so heres my problem. it might be kinda long so sorry. at like the end of the school year i started going out with my neighbor and i liked him sooo much but he was always at baseball during the summer and i never knew if he was home or not cause like he wouldnt call and he got on the internet like .. not alot. lol so like yeah there was this grad party at my friends house and i went and i ended up making out with this guy there and we started talking alot and i ended up liking him so much more than my neighbor so i dumped him and went out with this other guy. but this guy is going to portugal for a month and then coming back for a week then going to some camp til the rest of the summer. he hasnt called in like 3 days but i talked to him like twice online but then like 3 days ago i talked to my neighbor and he told me he wanted me back and that he still liked me and that i was special and all that andthat he would dump a girl in a heartbeat for me and now i think i might like him alott . i'm so confused. should i take a break with my bf right now till he comes back ? i still like him a lot too but idk... i might end up doing something really bad while hes gone so should i just take a break with him and maybe try something with my neighbor again? i want a long term relationship and i cant figure out which guy is like more up for it like which guy could actually do it.
i'm 13/f and sorry that it was really long
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Dont worry if the question is to long.. I know just what you are going through. But the best way I found out who I wanted to be with is.Who do you think that you will see more?Who do you feel liek your self around? who can you tell anything to no matter what. It seems to me that you did like youe neighbor but you didnt give him a fair enough chance to show that he liked you to. Beacuse when he left you went and found your self a new guy. So i think that while your "new bf" is gone just hang out with your ex and see how much fun you have with him and by the time your "bf" comes home you will find out who you liked being around more, But i think that, thats fair enough because you didnt give your ex a chance at all .. Hope I helped.. Rate me.
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Ok well this goes to my last question but ne ways I have this bf and we've been together eight months went through roughs times well I found this other guy. Who was nice comforted me and made me feel happy. He asked me out I said I didn't know cause technically me and my other bf called it quits cause we knew it wouldn't work long distance over summer. So I didn't know which one to pick but now I've decided to stay with my eight month bf and stick it out through rough times but what should I say to the guy that asked me out because I don't know how to tell him I don't want to date him while being nice. Take in also when I tell him that I don't want to date him I don't want to hurt his feelings were really good friends and he's my ex. I'll rate good! (link)
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You should just be honest with this guy tell him that no matter how many time you and your boyfriend fight you still love him and care about him and you guys have so many memories together that your not ready to throw it all away yet. Tell him that your sorry if you gave him any mix feelings and that you would like it if you can still be friends with him. Just be honest with the boy dont lead him on cause you wouldnt want the same to happened to you. And dont worry sweetie all relationships have their bad times it makes them stronger when you can work through them.. Good luck..♥Rate me
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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?
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6 months is not a long time a year maybe lol.. Dont listen to what your friends tell you if you are not ready to do more with your boyfriend then dont do more with him. Giving something up like that should be just to anyone it should be to someone that you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. So take your time and just keep it slow with you man. maybe he doesnt want to move fast either.Hope I helped. And just remember its your relationship not your friends.♥ rate me
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ok i don't know why i feel so angry my x b f who was very rich had a party! Something my friend called a health party i personally think he had it to show off. I am really angry because he never invited me i really don't know why i am angry!! I think its because he once told me i was his bestfriend.He invited my friend because he goes to her school and i heard he invited 4 boys who are also rich and my friend said the 4 boys don't like him.Am i correct to feel angry i now think i hate him because i was always there for him and he was never there for me.What shall i do now? (link)
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It seems to me that you are sorta jealouse because you didnt get to go. Just call him up and let him know how it made you feel or you can have a party and invite all his friends and not him just dotn let him know that he is getting to you..♥ Rate me
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i feel like i am in love with this boy from secondary school!!! he asked me if i wana be with him! i said yes and i have not heard since i was thinking about trying to bump into him because i know what way he goes home but i really don't want him to know i have done it on purpose. I was planning on going today, but i might get clothes ready and go and bump into him tomorrow. Thing is i am really scared! please help or advice me i am 16 female we moved school last year so i have not seen him for a year now and he always has his phone off. (link)
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Okay to me your question is kinda confusing. you said your with him but you havent seen him in a year ? what kinda relationship is that can you please make it clear 4 us to read.♥
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ok, so i have been with m bf, for a month now, but ive know him for like ever, (not forever) but, everything is wonderful, but it seems like i have a feeling and i don't know what it is..its been going on for like 2 weeks, and my friends seem so worried about me, I don't know what to do...
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Well what kinda problem is it and maybe i can help you..
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hey people..lol..how do you let a guy know that you like him and that you want to go out with him..without saying "i like you"???
DeeMocha (link)
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just ask him if he wants to han g out sometime like go to the movies or come over and just hang out and flirt with him and he will end up finding out sooner or later..
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